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DW/sm Group: "ILL" Communication, with Mistress Leigh

March 22 @ 7:30 pm - 10:00 pm

TES Members $5
Students & Military with ID $10
Reciprocal Groups $10
Non-Members $20
Cash Only
Doors open at 7:00 pm – Meeting begins at 7:30 pm


So many problems in life come about by trying to shove a square peg into a round hole . . . and while this can be super fun for playtime, it can be death for establishing your Dominance or submission in a relationship with another person. When it comes to getting those pegs and holes in order, clear communication leads to success.

This class is for you if you’ve ever wondered any of the following:

WTF are all these words? Am I using them correctly? What does She want from me? How can I attract a good Domme in my life to serve?

Understanding BDSM jargon, connotations, linguistics, and body language is the first key to kink. The second is understanding how to communicate your own intentions using those tools.

Topics we will cover:

  • “LIE” – Listen, Identify/Interpret, Execute
  • Power play vs fetishism
  • Positions (Can Dominants be on bottom?)
  • Explaining “Dom/sub”, “Owner/slave” “Goddess/servant”, why the labels imply different interests and therefore different approaches.
  • Why you should give a damn!


Mistress Leigh has been a lifestyle Dominant Dictator for eighteen years and a full-time professional DominARTtrix for six years. Although based out of Pandora’s Box dungeon in NYC, she also sessions nationally as an independent fetish educator, worker, and consultant. She is an activist for sexual freedom rights and regularly volunteers her time data coding for academic sex research. She currently has plans to pursue a PhD in sex research focusing on fetish/BDSM, LGBTQIA, and disability. Mistress Leigh has been featured on fetish videos, podcasts, and recently in TimeOutNY. She has been both a fetish performer and consultant for FOX’s “The Following” as well as a Dominatrix for SHOWTIME’s “BILLIONS”…(Paul Giamatti likes to watch her sleep). Mistress Leigh is also a big ‘ole queer who specializes in couples, LGBTQ, disabled persons, and training other professional fetish workers.


This is the Debut of our new DW/sm Group co-facilitator, MISTRESS LEIGH!!!


March 22
7:30 pm - 10:00 pm


TRS, Inc.
40 Exchange Place, 3rd Floor
New York, NY 10005 United States
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