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SUMMARY:Massage for Pain (or Pleasure) with Tower
DESCRIPTION:Massage is the quintessential topping.  Traditional massage techniques teach how to manipulate\, maneuver\, stroke\, and strike a body to get the desired results.  While for the most part this result is pleasurable\, the same techniques can be used to cause intense\, controlled pain.  Fundamentals of massage will be covered\, so even those who only intend to use these skills for less than nefarious purposes will benefit.  The class is a combination of presentation and hands-on practice as time and space allows. \nBios:  \nTower (fka Joshua HighTower) has been involved in New York’s BDSM scene for most of his life\, having presented dozens of times for The Eulenspiegel Society\, Long Island Leather and Roses\, and Conversio Virium as well as at events including TES Fest\, IMsL\, Black Rose\, Fusion\, Fet Fest\, Winter Wickedness\, and Leather Leadership Conference. In addition to being cofounder of TES-TNG\, he was involved in the initial conceptualization and proliferation of the TNG movement. Nothing makes him happier than seeing what makes people tick and seeing folks use what he taught them. Well\, okay\, maybe there are a couple of things… \nDemo bottom: \nLex Lively realized that she might be into impact play when she would look for any excuse to be paddled while in a sorority during her time in college. While fairly new to the public scene\, she has spent the last few years learning and exploring\, discovering new things that excite her almost constantly. She lives up to her name\, meeting each moment with energy and enthusiasm\, always looking forward to the next adventure. \nLocation and Cost\nLocation: \nThe Center (The Lesbian\, Gay\, Bisexual & Transgender Community Center)  \n208 West 13th Street\,  \nNew York\, NY 10011 \nCost: \n\nMembers: $10\nNon-Members: $25\n\nRegistration in advance is strongly encouraged due to limited internet access at the venue. \nNote: Each attendee will need to have a separate account to register. \nOnline Registration:\nIf You Already Have an Account\n\nRegister: Click here to go to the registration page.\nLog in: Use your existing account information to log in and register for the class. Your membership discount will be applied automatically.\nComplete Purchase: Follow the instructions to complete your payment.\n\nIf You Need to Create an Account\nFor Members: \n\nCreate Your Account: Go to the Member Portal and create your account here. Be sure to use the same email address you used when you purchased your TES membership. If you’ve forgotten it\, email membership@tes.org for assistance.\nConfirm Your Email: Check your inbox for a confirmation email and follow the link to set your password.\nLog In and Register: Click this link to log in and register for the class. Your membership discount will be applied automatically.\nComplete Purchase: Follow the instructions to complete your payment. Your membership discount will be automatically applied.\n\nFor Non-Members: \n\nCreate Your Account: Go to the registration page and create your account here.\nConfirm Your Email: Check your inbox for a confirmation email and follow the link to set your password.\nLog In and Register:  Click this link to log in and register for the class.\nComplete Purchase: Follow the instructions to complete your payment.\n\nOn-Site Registration:\nOn-site registration is available\, but please be aware that internet access may be limited. \n\nYou will be able to register by scanning a QR code with your smartphone.\nThe registration process is the same as the advanced registration steps listed above.\nCash payments are not accepted at the door.
URL:https://www.tes.org/event/2025-11-13/
LOCATION:LGBT Community Center\, 208 W 13th St\, New York\, NY\, 10011\, United States
CATEGORIES:class,In-Person
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DTSTART;TZID=America/New_York:20251117T190000
DTEND;TZID=America/New_York:20251117T220000
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CREATED:20250922T073754Z
LAST-MODIFIED:20250922T144937Z
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SUMMARY:ONLINE - TES Board Meeting
DESCRIPTION:Are you a current TES member? Come to our monthly board meeting and help shape the future of our organization! This is a great opportunity to connect with other members and get a firsthand look at what we’re working on. \nThis meeting is hybrid\, so you can join us in person or online. \nThis meeting is for current TES members only. \nHow to Join\nAll members receive details on how to join the meeting in our monthly newsletter\, The Eulenspiegel Mirror\, sent on the first of the month. If you are a current member and didn’t receive the information\, please email us at secretary@tes.org. \nWe Have Board Vacancies!\nLooking to get more involved? We have several board vacancies and would love for you to join us. If you’re interested\, you can review the requirements and nominate yourself. \nNot a Member Yet?\nIf you’re interested in becoming a member or need to renew your membership\, you can do so here. We’d love to have you!
URL:https://www.tes.org/event/online-tes-board-meeting-nov25/
LOCATION:LGBT Community Center\, 208 W 13th St\, New York\, NY\, 10011\, United States
CATEGORIES:Board Mtg,hybrid,In-Person,Membership,Online
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DTSTART;TZID=America/New_York:20251201T190000
DTEND;TZID=America/New_York:20251201T220000
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CREATED:20250922T053121Z
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SUMMARY:IN-PERSON - TES Monthly Munch
DESCRIPTION:We’d love to have you at the TES Monthly Munch! \nWhether you’re new to the scene\, an old friend\, or just curious\, our monthly munch is a great opportunity to meet fellow kinksters in a low-key\, low-pressure setting. There’s no need to RSVP\, and everyone is welcome—you don’t even have to be a TES member to join us! \nWe gather on the first Monday of every month (if it’s a holiday\, we’ll meet on the following Monday) at an alternative lifestyle-friendly diner in NYC. Our hosts will be there to give you a warm welcome and answer any questions. Attending is free; you just pay for your food and please remember to tip your server well! We also ask that you wear “vanilla” (non-BDSM) clothes. \n\nA Note on Safety\nThis event is held at a public diner\, and while we highly encourage all attendees to be vaccinated against COVID-19\, we cannot control what the restaurant requires of other patrons. Please assess your own risk and act accordingly. We will have a discreet contact tracing option available\, which we encourage you to use. \nFor more information\, including a code of conduct for newcomers\, please visit our FAQ page. \nWe can’t wait to see you there!
URL:https://www.tes.org/event/tes-monthly-munch-dec25/
LOCATION:Skylight Diner\, 402 West 34th Street\, New York\, NY\, 10001\, United States
CATEGORIES:In-Person,Munch,social
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DTSTART;TZID=America/New_York:20251211T193000
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CREATED:20250922T075225Z
LAST-MODIFIED:20251125T210220Z
UID:6097-1765481400-1765490400@www.tes.org
SUMMARY:Tiptoeing Around Foot Service
DESCRIPTION:A workshop on service\, sensuality\, and getting out of your own way. \nIs your foot service scene all soles and no soul? This playful\, practical\, permission-filled workshop explores and corrects common missteps in service-based touch through three core layers: embodied communication\, polarity\, and hands-on foot-focused connection. You’ll learn how intention\, energy\, and action sometimes fall out of sync…and how to bring them back into balance with care and clarity. Whether you’re taking your first steps in kink\, seasoned in service\, or simply curious to deepen your dynamic\, you’ll leave with insight\, tools\, and a more grounded way to connect (both with others and with yourself). \nBios:  \nKyla the @CreatrixOfChaos delights in turning life’s contradictions into creative catalysts. She teaches the art and science of connection\, communication\, and coming closer together through experiential workshops\, playful frameworks\, and embodied education. Through her brand @CultivatedChaos\, she offers conscious touch workshops that blend structure and sensation\, language and lived experience\, guiding curious minds and eager bodies into polarity\, presence\, and possibility through structured play. A lifelong explorer and lover of her own edges\, Kyla is known for her nonlinear brilliance\, grounded heart\, and generous field of permission. Join her in cultivating spaces where tension is wielded as a tool\, curiosity becomes capacity\, and even the shyest spark gets to shine! \nLocation and Cost\nLocation: \nThe Center (The Lesbian\, Gay\, Bisexual & Transgender Community Center)  \n208 West 13th Street\,  \nNew York\, NY 10011 \nCost: \n\nMembers: $10\nNon-Members: $25\n\nRegistration in advance is strongly encouraged due to limited internet access at the venue. \nNote: Each attendee MUST have a separate account to register. \nOnline Registration:\nIf You Already Have an Account\n\nRegister: Click here to go to the registration page.\nLog in: Use your existing account information to log in and register for the class. Your membership discount will be applied automatically.\nComplete Purchase: Follow the instructions to complete your payment.\n\nIf You Need to Create an Account\nFor Members: \n\nCreate Your Account: Go to the Member Portal and create your account here. Be sure to use the same email address you used when you purchased your TES membership. If you’ve forgotten it\, email membership@tes.org for assistance.\nConfirm Your Email: Check your inbox for a confirmation email and follow the link to set your password.\nLog In and Register: Click this link to log in and register for the class. Your membership discount will be applied automatically.\nComplete Purchase: Follow the instructions to complete your payment. Your membership discount will be automatically applied.\n\nFor Non-Members: \n\nCreate Your Account: Go to the registration page and create your account here.\nConfirm Your Email: Check your inbox for a confirmation email and follow the link to set your password.\nLog In and Register: Click this link to log in and register for the class.\nComplete Purchase: Follow the instructions to complete your payment.\n\nOn-Site Registration:\nOn-site registration is available\, but please be aware that internet access may be limited. \n\nYou will be able to register by scanning a QR code with your smartphone.\nThe registration process is the same as the advanced registration steps listed above.\nCash payments are not accepted at the door.
URL:https://www.tes.org/event/2025-12-11/
LOCATION:LGBT Community Center\, 208 W 13th St\, New York\, NY\, 10011\, United States
CATEGORIES:class,In-Person
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DTSTART;TZID=America/New_York:20251218T193000
DTEND;TZID=America/New_York:20251218T220000
DTSTAMP:20260501T094232
CREATED:20251126T013611Z
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SUMMARY:TES Holiday Potluck
DESCRIPTION:Whether you light the Menorah\, decorate the tree\, honor the Solstice\, or celebrate Kwanzaa\, you have a home with us this holiday season. Join the TES Board\, staff\, and your fellow members for a night of warmth\, laughter\, and shared goodwill. \nCome bask in the holiday glow as we toast to peace on earth and strengthen the bonds that make our community so special. It’s the perfect time to reconnect with old friends and spark brand-new connections. \nTo make the night complete\, please bring: \n\nA Dish to Share: Fuel the festivities with your favorite recipe. Tell us what you’re bringing here.\nA White Elephant Gift: Join the chaos of our gift exchange! (Optional; gender-neutral & max value $10).\nYou: Because the best gift to the community is your presence.\n\nLocation and Cost\nLocation: \nThe Center (The Lesbian\, Gay\, Bisexual & Transgender Community Center)  \n208 West 13th Street\,  \nNew York\, NY 10011 \nCost: \n\nMembers/Non-Members: FREE\n\nRegistration in advance is strongly encouraged due to limited internet access at the venue. \nNote: Each attendee will need to have a separate account to register. \nOnline Registration:\nIf You Already Have an Account\n\nRegister: Click here to go to the registration page.\nLog in: Use your existing account information to log in and register for the class. \nComplete Purchase: Follow the instructions to complete your payment.\n\nIf You Need to Create an Account\nFor Members: \n\nCreate Your Account: Go to the Member Portal and create your account here. Be sure to use the same email address you used when you purchased your TES membership. If you’ve forgotten it\, email membership@tes.org for assistance.\nConfirm Your Email: Check your inbox for a confirmation email and follow the link to set your password.\nLog In and Register: Click this link to log in and register for the class. Your membership discount will be applied automatically.\nComplete Purchase: Follow the instructions to complete your registration.\n\nFor Non-Members: \n\nCreate Your Account: Go to the registration page and create your account here.\nConfirm Your Email: Check your inbox for a confirmation email and follow the link to set your password.\nLog In and Register:  Click this link to log in and register for the class.\nComplete Purchase: Follow the instructions to complete your registration.\n\nOn-Site Registration:\nOn-site registration is available\, but please be aware that internet access may be limited. \n\nYou will be able to register by scanning a QR code with your smartphone.\nThe registration process is the same as the advanced registration steps listed above.\n\n 
URL:https://www.tes.org/event/2025-holiday-potluck/
LOCATION:NY
CATEGORIES:FREE,Holiday,In-Person,social
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DTSTART;TZID=America/New_York:20260105T190000
DTEND;TZID=America/New_York:20260105T220000
DTSTAMP:20260501T094232
CREATED:20251215T101431Z
LAST-MODIFIED:20260210T175806Z
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SUMMARY:IN-PERSON: TES Monthly Munch
DESCRIPTION:We’d love to have you at the TES Monthly Munch! \nWhether you’re new to the scene\, an old friend\, or just curious\, our monthly munch is a great opportunity to meet fellow kinksters in a low-key\, low-pressure setting. There’s no need to RSVP\, and everyone is welcome—you don’t even have to be a TES member to join us! \nWe gather on the first Monday of every month (if it’s a holiday\, we’ll meet on the following Monday) at an alternative lifestyle-friendly diner in NYC. Our hosts will be there to give you a warm welcome and answer any questions. Attending is free; you just pay for your food\, and please remember to tip your server well! We also ask that you wear “vanilla” (non-BDSM) clothes. \nThis is a vanilla event. Respect others’ privacy and consent by not displaying any kink activities in this public space. \n\nA Note on Safety\nThis event is held at a public diner\, and while we highly encourage all attendees to be vaccinated against COVID-19\, we cannot control what the restaurant requires of other patrons. Please assess your own risk and act accordingly. We will have a discreet contact tracing option available\, which we encourage you to use. \nFor more information\, including a code of conduct for newcomers\, please visit our FAQ page. \nWe can’t wait to see you there!
URL:https://www.tes.org/event/2026-01-05/
LOCATION:Skylight Diner\, 402 West 34th Street\, New York\, NY\, 10001\, United States
CATEGORIES:FREE,In-Person,Munch,social
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DTSTART;TZID=America/New_York:20260108T193000
DTEND;TZID=America/New_York:20260108T220000
DTSTAMP:20260501T094232
CREATED:20251227T012730Z
LAST-MODIFIED:20251228T040330Z
UID:7923-1767900600-1767909600@www.tes.org
SUMMARY:IN-PERSON: Teaching Techniques for Future Educators
DESCRIPTION:Want to teach BDSM without making a scene? Let’s get you prepared to lead with knowledge—and maybe a little flair. \nThis session is designed for individuals who are ready to leverage their knowledge and experience to serve the community but are unsure how to begin structuring their material. \nThe workshop will cover the following key topics\, offering practical tips and principles to help you develop and deliver effective educational content: \n\n Developing a curriculum\n Structuring the content effectively\n Key safety and sanitation protocols to include\n Presentation techniques that ensure maximum attendee engagement\n\nBring your notebook and ideas\, and we will work on the rest.  \nBio: \nGoddess Narcissa\, a native New Yorker\, has represented both women and the BIPOC community in the BDSM scene for the last 17 years. Currently a member of the Board of Directors for TES\, she has served the community through a variety of mediums\, including her work as the Co-Vice Chair of TES Fest\, POC event organizer\, AANHPI panelist\, singletail whip educator\, and mentor. \nNarcissa is also the founder of Mercy Whips\, a company dedicated to making her implement of choice affordable and accessible. Mercy Whips by Narcissa is sold at local shops and online at mercywhips.com. \nOutside of the scene\, her passions are riding her bicycle around the city and the culinary arts. \n\nLocation and Cost\nLocation: \nThe Center (The Lesbian\, Gay\, Bisexual & Transgender Community Center)  \n208 West 13th Street\,  \nNew York\, NY 10011 \nCost: \n\nMembers: $10\nNon-Members: $25\n\nRegistration in advance is strongly encouraged due to limited internet access at the venue. \nNote: Each attendee will need to have a separate account to register. \nRegistration Instructions\nIf You Already Have an Account\n\nRegister: Click here to go to the class registration page.\nLog in: Use your existing account information to log in and register for the class. Your membership discount will be applied automatically.\nComplete Purchase: Follow the instructions to complete your payment. Your membership discount will be automatically applied.\n\nIf You Need to Create an Account\nFor Members: \n\nCreate Your Account: Go to the Member Portal and create your account here. Be sure to use the same email address you used when you purchased your TES membership. If you’ve forgotten it\, email membership@tes.org for assistance.\nConfirm Your Email: Check your inbox for a confirmation email and follow the link to set your password.\nLog In and Register: Click this link to log back into the Member Portal and register for the class. \nComplete Purchase: Follow the instructions to complete your payment. Your membership discount will be automatically applied.\n\nFor Non-Members: \n\nCreate Your Account: Go to the registration page and create your member portal account here.\nConfirm Your Email: Check your inbox for a confirmation email and follow the link to enter your password.\nLog In and Register: Click this link to log back into the Member Portal and register for the class. \nComplete Purchase: Follow the instructions to complete your payment.\n\nOn-Site Registration\nOn-site registration is available\, but please be aware that internet access may be limited. \n\nYou will be able to register by scanning a QR code with your smartphone.\nThe registration process is the same as the advanced registration steps listed above.\nCash payments are not accepted at the door.
URL:https://www.tes.org/event/teaching-techniques-for-future-educators/
LOCATION:LGBT Community Center\, 208 W 13th St\, New York\, NY\, 10011\, United States
CATEGORIES:class,In-Person
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DTSTART;TZID=America/New_York:20260122T193000
DTEND;TZID=America/New_York:20260122T220000
DTSTAMP:20260501T094232
CREATED:20251227T015744Z
LAST-MODIFIED:20251227T054536Z
UID:7928-1769110200-1769119200@www.tes.org
SUMMARY:IN-PERSON: Bondage Basic Training (BBT)
DESCRIPTION:Basic training is where every enlistee learns very little of very many topics\, very quickly\, to straighten out every rookie just enough to survive unit life in the armed services. This class is a similar approach to rope bondage. Participants can expect to run through the basic building blocks of tying somebody up\, without the frills. We will cover setting the scene\, handling and extending rope\, single-column ties\, double-column ties\, chest harnesses\, crotch ropes\, how to utilize gags and blindfolds\, and a few of the basic positions. It’s rope bondage basics with a practical focus\, leaving the participant to explore further after this class as they advance in their chosen bondage MOS.  \nRequirements: Attendees to bring their own rope\, shears\, and a mat/blanket. The rope can be any material\, ideally 2-4 lengths of 30-foot pieces and 4-6 lengths of 15-foot pieces. The space has no mats\, and participants should bring a blanket or mat to tie on.  \nBringing a tying partner is strongly recommended; while observers are welcome\, not all of the ties will be possible to practice on one’s own.  \nThis class will assume a functional understanding of consent\, negotiation\, and bondage safety\, but no rope-specific prerequisites. \nBios: \nPresenter: CadburyBunny has been doing bondage for as long as he cares to remember\, batting for both teams as both a rigger and captor\, as well as somewhat of a serial bondage captive and damsel in distress at this point. Growing up on a small island about eight hours from Japan\, he does appreciate pretty kinbaku and suspension. Still\, he is probably more partial to being tied and gagged in any manner that is inescapable and authentic\, using anything from rope and steel to tape and torn pieces of clothing. One friend and victim has broadly described his style as being whatever is needed to get the job done\, and the subsequent desecrating and violating underway. \nDemo Subject: LadyPraise serves an important role as the foil and “yes-and” improv partner for CadburyBunny’s whacky shenanigans. She ties with him regularly enough\, but there’s no promise as to who ends up on the receiving end any given day\, as tends to happen when two switches race for the bottom. CadburyBunny is thankful\, all the same\, for all the chaos switch energy she brings – and for today\, she will be his class demo subject. \n\nLocation & Cost:\nLocation: \nThe Center (The Lesbian\, Gay\, Bisexual & Transgender Community Center)  \n208 West 13th Street\,  \nNew York\, NY 10011 \nCost: \n\nMembers: $10\nNon-Members: $25\n\nRegistration in advance is strongly encouraged due to limited internet access at the venue. \nNote: Each attendee will need to have a separate account to register. \nRegistration Instructions\nIf You Already Have an Account\n\nRegister: Click here to go to the class registration page.\nLog in: Use your existing account information to log in and register for the class. Your membership discount will be applied automatically.\nComplete Purchase: Follow the instructions to complete your payment. Your membership discount will be automatically applied.\n\nIf You Need to Create an Account\nFor Members: \n\nCreate Your Account: Go to the Member Portal and create your account here. Be sure to use the same email address you used when you purchased your TES membership. If you’ve forgotten it\, email membership@tes.org for assistance.\nConfirm Your Email: Check your inbox for a confirmation email and follow the link to set your password.\nLog In and Register: Click this link to log back into the Member Portal and register for the class. \nComplete Purchase: Follow the instructions to complete your payment. Your membership discount will be automatically applied.\n\nFor Non-Members: \n\nCreate Your Account: Go to the registration page and create your member portal account here.\nConfirm Your Email: Check your inbox for a confirmation email and follow the link to set enter your password.\nLog In and Register: Click this link to log back into the Member Portal and register for the class. \nComplete Purchase: Follow the instructions to complete your payment.\n\nOn-Site Registration\nOn-site registration is available\, but please be aware that internet access may be limited. \n\nYou will be able to register by scanning a QR code with your smartphone.\nThe registration process is the same as the advanced registration steps listed above.\nCash payments are not accepted at the door.
URL:https://www.tes.org/event/bondage-basic-training-bbt/
LOCATION:LGBT Community Center\, 208 W 13th St\, New York\, NY\, 10011\, United States
CATEGORIES:class,In-Person
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DTSTART;TZID=America/New_York:20260202T190000
DTEND;TZID=America/New_York:20260202T220000
DTSTAMP:20260501T094232
CREATED:20260129T043431Z
LAST-MODIFIED:20260210T175854Z
UID:8005-1770058800-1770069600@www.tes.org
SUMMARY:IN-PERSON: TES Monthly Munch
DESCRIPTION:We’d love to have you at the TES Monthly Munch! \nWhether you’re new to the scene\, an old friend\, or just curious\, our monthly munch is a great opportunity to meet fellow kinksters in a low-key\, low-pressure setting. There’s no need to RSVP\, and everyone is welcome—you don’t even have to be a TES member to join us! \nWe gather on the first Monday of every month (if it’s a holiday\, we’ll meet on the following Monday) at an alternative lifestyle-friendly diner in NYC. Our hosts will be there to give you a warm welcome and answer any questions. Attending is free; you just pay for your food\, and please remember to tip your server well! We also ask that you wear “vanilla” (non-BDSM) clothes. \nThis is a vanilla event. Respect others’ privacy and consent by not displaying any kink activities in this public space. \n\nA Note on Safety\nThis event is held at a public diner\, and while we highly encourage all attendees to be vaccinated against COVID-19\, we cannot control what the restaurant requires of other patrons. Please assess your own risk and act accordingly. We will have a discreet contact tracing option available\, which we encourage you to use. \nFor more information\, including a code of conduct for newcomers\, please visit our FAQ page. \nWe can’t wait to see you there!
URL:https://www.tes.org/event/2026-05-02/
LOCATION:Skylight Diner\, 402 West 34th Street\, New York\, NY\, 10001\, United States
CATEGORIES:FREE,In-Person,Munch,social
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DTSTART;TZID=America/New_York:20260212T193000
DTEND;TZID=America/New_York:20260212T220000
DTSTAMP:20260501T094232
CREATED:20260129T031350Z
LAST-MODIFIED:20260131T000037Z
UID:7996-1770924600-1770933600@www.tes.org
SUMMARY:TES IN PERSON – Game Night Social
DESCRIPTION:Ready to make more like-minded friends in a non-judgmental environment? \nJoin us for an exciting evening of fun and board games. Get together with your @TES-NYC friends for a relaxing social. \nWhile we will have some popular board games available\, feel free to bring some of your favorites. All are welcome. \nPlease register before attending for convenience and more fun! \n\nLocation:\nThe Center (The Lesbian\, Gay\, Bisexual & Transgender Community Center)\n208 West 13th Street\,\nNew York\, NY 10011 \nCost:\nMembers/Non-members: FREE \nRegistration in advance is strongly encouraged due to limited internet access at the venue.\nNote: Each attendee will need to have a separate account to register. \nRegistration Instructions \nIf You Already Have an Account \n\nRegister: Click here to go to the class registration page.\nLog in: Use your existing account information to log in and register for the class. Your membership discount will be applied automatically.\nComplete Purchase: Follow the instructions to complete your payment. Your membership discount will be automatically applied.\n\nIf You Need to Create an Account \nFor Members: \n\nCreate Your Account: Go to the Member Portal and create your account here. Be sure to use the same email address you used when you purchased your TES membership. If you’ve forgotten it\, email membership@tes.org for assistance.\nConfirm Your Email: Check your inbox for a confirmation email and follow the link to set your password.\nLog In and Register: Click this link to log back into the Member Portal and register for the class.\nComplete Purchase: Follow the instructions to complete your payment. Your membership discount will be automatically applied.\n\nFor Non-Members: \n\nCreate Your Account: Go to the registration page and create your member portal account here.\nConfirm Your Email: Check your inbox for a confirmation email and follow the link to set enter your password.\nLog In and Register: Click this link to log back into the Member Portal and register for the class.\nComplete Purchase: Follow the instructions to complete your payment.\n\nOn-Site Registration \nOn-site registration is available\, but please be aware that internet access may be limited.\nYou will be able to register by scanning a QR code with your smartphone.\nThe registration process is the same as the advanced registration steps listed above.\nCash payments are not accepted at the door.
URL:https://www.tes.org/event/2026-02-12/
LOCATION:LGBT Community Center\, 208 W 13th St\, New York\, NY\, 10011\, United States
CATEGORIES:In-Person,social
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BEGIN:VEVENT
DTSTART;TZID=America/New_York:20260226T193000
DTEND;TZID=America/New_York:20260226T220000
DTSTAMP:20260501T094232
CREATED:20260129T041747Z
LAST-MODIFIED:20260212T041321Z
UID:8001-1772134200-1772143200@www.tes.org
SUMMARY:TES IN PERSON – From Nervous Newbie to Intentional Sub: What I’m Actually Learning
DESCRIPTION:Ever wonder what happens when curiosity meets kink and nerves turn into nuance? Join a senior submissive member of the community as he dishes the real lessons from his journey—from anxious newbie to confident\, intentional sub. Expect laughs\, insight\, and ah-ha moments as we explore how mindful service transforms “Am I doing this right?” into “This is exactly where I belong. \nBios:\nKoolWise (he/him) began exploring kink back in the 90s—though his journey took a few unconventional turns before truly taking shape. It wasn’t until 2016\, when he began visiting a professional Domme\, that his curiosity deepened into active discovery. In 2023\, meeting his current Domme opened the door to the broader organized kink and BDSM community\, where he’s found connection\, purpose\, and growth. \nA former schoolteacher\, KoolWise brings a natural gift for reflection and storytelling to his kink journey. He’s passionate about sharing his experiences to help others navigate their own paths with openness\, respect\, and a little bit of wisdom earned from his years of exploration. \n\nLocation:\nThe Center (The Lesbian\, Gay\, Bisexual & Transgender Community Center)\n208 West 13th Street\,\nNew York\, NY 10011 \nCost:\nMembers: $10\nNon-Members: $25\nRegistration in advance is strongly encouraged due to limited internet access at the venue.\nNote: Each attendee will need to have a separate account to register. \nRegistration Instructions \nIf You Already Have an Account \n\nRegister: Click here to go to the class registration page.\nLog in: Use your existing account information to log in and register for the class. Your membership discount will be applied automatically.\nComplete Purchase: Follow the instructions to complete your payment. Your membership discount will be automatically applied.\n\nIf You Need to Create an Account \nFor Members: \n\nCreate Your Account: Go to the Member Portal and create your account here. Be sure to use the same email address you used when you purchased your TES membership. If you’ve forgotten it\, email membership@tes.org for assistance.\nConfirm Your Email: Check your inbox for a confirmation email and follow the link to set your password.\nLog In and Register: Click this link to log back into the Member Portal and register for the class.\nComplete Purchase: Follow the instructions to complete your payment. Your membership discount will be automatically applied.\n\nFor Non-Members: \n\nCreate Your Account: Go to the registration page and create your member portal account here.\nConfirm Your Email: Check your inbox for a confirmation email and follow the link to set enter your password.\nLog In and Register: Click this link to log back into the Member Portal and register for the class.\nComplete Purchase: Follow the instructions to complete your payment.\n\nOn-Site Registration \n\nOn-site registration is available\, but please be aware that internet access may be limited.\nYou will be able to register by scanning a QR code with your smartphone.\nThe registration process is the same as the advanced registration steps listed above. Cash payments are not accepted at the door.
URL:https://www.tes.org/event/tes-in-person-from-nervous-newbie-to-intentional-sub-what-im-actually-learning/
LOCATION:LGBT Community Center\, 208 W 13th St\, New York\, NY\, 10011\, United States
CATEGORIES:class,In-Person
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ORGANIZER;CN="POC Committee":MAILTO:chucky@tes.org
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BEGIN:VEVENT
DTSTART;TZID=America/New_York:20260302T190000
DTEND;TZID=America/New_York:20260302T220000
DTSTAMP:20260501T094232
CREATED:20260225T183602Z
LAST-MODIFIED:20260225T205605Z
UID:8049-1772478000-1772488800@www.tes.org
SUMMARY:IN-PERSON: TES Monthly Munch
DESCRIPTION:We’d love to have you at the TES Monthly Munch! \nWhether you’re new to the scene\, an old friend\, or just curious\, our monthly munch is a great opportunity to meet fellow kinksters in a low-key\, low-pressure setting. There’s no need to RSVP\, and everyone is welcome—you don’t even have to be a TES member to join us! \nWe gather on the first Monday of every month (if it’s a holiday\, we’ll meet on the following Monday) at an alternative lifestyle-friendly diner in NYC. Our hosts will be there to give you a warm welcome and answer any questions. Attending is free; you just pay for your food\, and please remember to tip your server well! We also ask that you wear “vanilla” (non-BDSM) clothes. \nThis is a vanilla event. Respect others’ privacy and consent by not displaying any kink activities in this public space. \n\nA Note on Safety\nThis event is held at a public diner\, and while we highly encourage all attendees to be vaccinated against COVID-19\, we cannot control what the restaurant requires of other patrons. Please assess your own risk and act accordingly. We will have a discreet contact tracing option available\, which we encourage you to use. \nFor more information\, including a code of conduct for newcomers\, please visit our FAQ page. \nWe can’t wait to see you there!
URL:https://www.tes.org/event/2026-03-02/
LOCATION:Skylight Diner\, 402 West 34th Street\, New York\, NY\, 10001\, United States
CATEGORIES:FREE,In-Person,Munch,social
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BEGIN:VEVENT
DTSTART;TZID=America/New_York:20260326T193000
DTEND;TZID=America/New_York:20260326T220000
DTSTAMP:20260501T094232
CREATED:20260225T174920Z
LAST-MODIFIED:20260225T175501Z
UID:8043-1774553400-1774562400@www.tes.org
SUMMARY:TES IN PERSON – Brat Lab: Approaching Brats for Play
DESCRIPTION:Are you a bottom who likes to push your top’s buttons (consensually) but is trying to understand the potential risks in play? Are you a top who wants to provide ‘funishment’ during your scenes without crossing boundaries? Are you a switch that can’t turn your ‘top brain’ off in play? Come to this discussion-based class with peers and find ways to incorporate approaches that work with your play style. \nMaterial will be provided as a launchpad\, but feel free to bring your questions/concerns\, and we’ll solve them together in class. \nBio: Lubegirl (she/her) is a Queer White appearing POC Switch and the current facilitator of the NYC chapter of Hitchin’ Bitches. Bubbly\, personable\, and passionate about principles of accessibility\, decentralized education\, and community building on both sides of the slash since Summer 2015\, she uses her platform to encourage kinksters who identify as women to learn the basics of rope while facilitating a safe space for bottoms of all orientations\, sizes\, and identities. \n\nLocation:\nThe Center (The Lesbian\, Gay\, Bisexual & Transgender Community Center)\n208 West 13th Street\,\nNew York\, NY 10011 \nCost:\nMembers: $10\nNon-Members: $25\nRegistration in advance is strongly encouraged due to limited internet access at the venue.\nNote: Each attendee will need to have a separate account to register. \nRegistration Instructions \nIf You Already Have an Account \n\nRegister: Click here to go to the class registration page.\nLog in: Use your existing account information to log in and register for the class. Your membership discount will be applied automatically.\nComplete Purchase: Follow the instructions to complete your payment. Your membership discount will be automatically applied.\n\nIf You Need to Create an Account \nFor Members: \n\nCreate Your Account: Go to the Member Portal and create your account here. Be sure to use the same email address you used when you purchased your TES membership. If you’ve forgotten it\, email membership@tes.org for assistance.\nConfirm Your Email: Check your inbox for a confirmation email and follow the link to set your password.\nLog In and Register: Click this link to log back into the Member Portal and register for the class.\nComplete Purchase: Follow the instructions to complete your payment. Your membership discount will be automatically applied.\n\nFor Non-Members: \n\nCreate Your Account: Go to the registration page and create your member portal account here.\nConfirm Your Email: Check your inbox for a confirmation email and follow the link to set enter your password.\nLog In and Register: Click this link to log back into the Member Portal and register for the class.\nComplete Purchase: Follow the instructions to complete your payment.\n\nOn-Site Registration \n\nOn-site registration is available\, but please be aware that internet access may be limited.\nYou will be able to register by scanning a QR code with your smartphone.\nThe registration process is the same as the advanced registration steps listed above. Cash payments are not accepted at the door.
URL:https://www.tes.org/event/brat-lab/
LOCATION:LGBT Community Center\, 208 W 13th St\, New York\, NY\, 10011\, United States
CATEGORIES:class,In-Person
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BEGIN:VEVENT
DTSTART;TZID=America/New_York:20260406T190000
DTEND;TZID=America/New_York:20260406T220000
DTSTAMP:20260501T094232
CREATED:20260306T152140Z
LAST-MODIFIED:20260306T152815Z
UID:8061-1775502000-1775512800@www.tes.org
SUMMARY:IN-PERSON: TES Monthly Munch
DESCRIPTION:We’d love to have you at the TES Monthly Munch! \nWhether you’re new to the scene\, an old friend\, or just curious\, our monthly munch is a great opportunity to meet fellow kinksters in a low-key\, low-pressure setting. There’s no need to RSVP\, and everyone is welcome—you don’t even have to be a TES member to join us! \nWe gather on the first Monday of every month (if it’s a holiday\, we’ll meet on the following Monday) at an alternative lifestyle-friendly diner in NYC. Our hosts will be there to give you a warm welcome and answer any questions. Attending is free; you just pay for your food\, and please remember to tip your server well! We also ask that you wear “vanilla” (non-BDSM) clothes. \nThis is a vanilla event. Respect others’ privacy and consent by not displaying any kink activities in this public space. \n\nA Note on Safety\nThis event is held at a public diner\, and while we highly encourage all attendees to be vaccinated against COVID-19\, we cannot control what the restaurant requires of other patrons. Please assess your own risk and act accordingly. We will have a discreet contact tracing option available\, which we encourage you to use. \nFor more information\, including a code of conduct for newcomers\, please visit our FAQ page. \nWe can’t wait to see you there!
URL:https://www.tes.org/event/2026-04-06/
LOCATION:Skylight Diner\, 402 West 34th Street\, New York\, NY\, 10001\, United States
CATEGORIES:FREE,In-Person,Munch,social
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BEGIN:VEVENT
DTSTART;TZID=America/New_York:20260409T193000
DTEND;TZID=America/New_York:20260409T220000
DTSTAMP:20260501T094232
CREATED:20260306T171401Z
LAST-MODIFIED:20260306T180712Z
UID:8070-1775763000-1775772000@www.tes.org
SUMMARY:TES IN PERSON – Bootblacking 101: Leather Care & Connection
DESCRIPTION:A beginner-friendly dive into the how and why of bootblacking. We’ll cover a bit of history\, break down common materials and tools\, and demonstrate techniques that keep leather looking (and feeling) delicious. We’ll also discuss consent\, service dynamics\, and the flirty magic that can spark over a pair of boots. Designed for the leather-curious\, nervous newbies\, and anyone who’s ever wondered what really happens at a bootblack stand. No experience required—just curiosity and a love for leather. \nBio:\nVikan (she/they) is a queer masochist\, photographer\, and bootblack who’s been active in the NYC kink scene since 2011. A chaos-loving weirdo who is somehow both extremely outgoing and painfully shy\, she runs on snacks\, aerial arts\, and an incurable fascination with leather. She loves the care\, history\, and intimacy of well-loved boots—and yes\, she absolutely wants to touch yours… if you’ll let her. \n\nLocation:\nThe Center (The Lesbian\, Gay\, Bisexual & Transgender Community Center)\n208 West 13th Street\,\nNew York\, NY 10011 \nCost:\nMembers: $10\nNon-Members: $25\nRegistration in advance is strongly encouraged due to limited internet access at the venue.\nNote: Each attendee will need to have a separate account to register. \nRegistration Instructions \nIf You Already Have an Account \n\nRegister: Click here to go to the class registration page.\nLog in: Use your existing account information to log in and register for the class. Your membership discount will be applied automatically.\nComplete Purchase: Follow the instructions to complete your payment. Your membership discount will be automatically applied.\n\nIf You Need to Create an Account \nFor Members: \n\nCreate Your Account: Go to the Member Portal and create your account here. Be sure to use the same email address you used when you purchased your TES membership. If you’ve forgotten it\, email membership@tes.org for assistance.\nConfirm Your Email: Check your inbox for a confirmation email and follow the link to set your password.\nLog In and Register: Click this link to log back into the Member Portal and register for the class.\nComplete Purchase: Follow the instructions to complete your payment. Your membership discount will be automatically applied.\n\nFor Non-Members: \n\nCreate Your Account: Go to the registration page and create your member portal account here.\nConfirm Your Email: Check your inbox for a confirmation email and follow the link to set enter your password.\nLog In and Register: Click this link to log back into the Member Portal and register for the class.\nComplete Purchase: Follow the instructions to complete your payment.\n\nOn-Site Registration \n\nOn-site registration is available\, but please be aware that internet access may be limited.\nYou will be able to register by scanning a QR code with your smartphone.\nThe registration process is the same as the advanced registration steps listed above. Cash payments are not accepted at the door.
URL:https://www.tes.org/event/2026-04-09/
LOCATION:LGBT Community Center\, 208 W 13th St\, New York\, NY\, 10011\, United States
CATEGORIES:class,In-Person
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BEGIN:VEVENT
DTSTART;TZID=America/New_York:20260416T193000
DTEND;TZID=America/New_York:20260416T220000
DTSTAMP:20260501T094232
CREATED:20260306T173327Z
LAST-MODIFIED:20260306T180819Z
UID:8073-1776367800-1776376800@www.tes.org
SUMMARY:TES IN PERSON – Power Plays: Kinky Wrestling 101
DESCRIPTION:Wrestling is sporty\, fun\, sexy\, and the ultimate “BDSM on a buck.” It plays perfectly with power dynamics\, bondage\, primal play\, foot fetishes\, and various other kinks. This workshop is excellent for those looking to try fetish wrestling for the first time or for those who want to brush up on basics to use at wrestling parties or in the bedroom. This session will provide the tools to start playing with your newest kinky skill and help you move organically in a safer way. \nBio:  \nKatarina “The Domme Kat” Pierce is a Dominatrix\, wrestler\, kink educator\, and adult entertainer in NYC. She co-founded Sex Work Survival Guide with Tiana GlittersaurusRex\, a sex-worker-run organization offering free education for SWs and allies. When she’s not putting people in headlocks\, Katarina produces kinky\, queer-inclusive events and hosts Surrender\, a wrestling and fetish party. She is a dynamic educator\, teaching everything from BDSM 101 and consent to wrestling\, smothering\, choking\, foot Domination\, face sitting\, scissorholds\, primal play\, pegging\, wax play\, and impact. Known for her sensual Domination and eloquent trash talk\, she can be found at https://linktr.ee/theDommeKat \n\nLocation:\nDawn Studio\n38 West 32nd Street\nNY\, NY 10001 \nCost:\nMembers: $10\nNon-Members: $25\nRegistration in advance is strongly encouraged due to limited internet access at the venue.\nNote: Each attendee will need to have a separate account to register. \nRegistration Instructions \nIf You Already Have an Account \n\nRegister: Click here to go to the class registration page.\nLog in: Use your existing account information to log in and register for the class. Your membership discount will be applied automatically.\nComplete Purchase: Follow the instructions to complete your payment. Your membership discount will be automatically applied.\n\nIf You Need to Create an Account \nFor Members: \n\nCreate Your Account: Go to the Member Portal and create your account here. Be sure to use the same email address you used when you purchased your TES membership. If you’ve forgotten it\, email membership@tes.org for assistance.\nConfirm Your Email: Check your inbox for a confirmation email and follow the link to set your password.\nLog In and Register: Click this link to log back into the Member Portal and register for the class.\nComplete Purchase: Follow the instructions to complete your payment. Your membership discount will be automatically applied.\n\nFor Non-Members: \n\nCreate Your Account: Go to the registration page and create your member portal account here.\nConfirm Your Email: Check your inbox for a confirmation email and follow the link to set enter your password.\nLog In and Register: Click this link to log back into the Member Portal and register for the class.\nComplete Purchase: Follow the instructions to complete your payment.\n\nOn-Site Registration \n\nOn-site registration is available\, but please be aware that internet access may be limited.\nYou will be able to register by scanning a QR code with your smartphone.\nThe registration process is the same as the advanced registration steps listed above. Cash payments are not accepted at the door.
URL:https://www.tes.org/event/2026-04-16/
LOCATION:Dawn Studio\, 38 West 32nd Street\, 14 Fl - Suite 1406\, Nwe Yok\,\, NY\, 10001\, United States
CATEGORIES:class,In-Person
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BEGIN:VEVENT
DTSTART;TZID=America/New_York:20260419T000000
DTEND;TZID=America/New_York:20260419T000000
DTSTAMP:20260501T094232
CREATED:20260419T193008Z
LAST-MODIFIED:20260419T193008Z
UID:8114-1776556800-1776556800@www.tes.org
SUMMARY:IN-PERSON: TES Monthly Munch
DESCRIPTION:We’d love to have you at the TES Monthly Munch! \nWhether you’re new to the scene\, an old friend\, or just curious\, our monthly munch is a great opportunity to meet fellow kinksters in a low-key\, low-pressure setting. There’s no need to RSVP\, and everyone is welcome—you don’t even have to be a TES member to join us! \nWe gather on the first Monday of every month (if it’s a holiday\, we’ll meet on the following Monday) at an alternative lifestyle-friendly diner in NYC. Our hosts will be there to give you a warm welcome and answer any questions. Attending is free; you just pay for your food\, and please remember to tip your server well! We also ask that you wear “vanilla” (non-BDSM) clothes. \nThis is a vanilla event. Respect others’ privacy and consent by not displaying any kink activities in this public space. \n\nA Note on Safety\nThis event is held at a public diner\, and while we highly encourage all attendees to be vaccinated against COVID-19\, we cannot control what the restaurant requires of other patrons. Please assess your own risk and act accordingly. We will have a discreet contact tracing option available\, which we encourage you to use. \nFor more information\, including a code of conduct for newcomers\, please visit our FAQ page. \nWe can’t wait to see you there!
URL:https://www.tes.org/event/2026-05-04/
LOCATION:NY
CATEGORIES:FREE,In-Person,Munch,social
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BEGIN:VEVENT
DTSTART;TZID=America/New_York:20260423T193000
DTEND;TZID=America/New_York:20260423T220000
DTSTAMP:20260501T094232
CREATED:20260306T180417Z
LAST-MODIFIED:20260306T180417Z
UID:8078-1776972600-1776981600@www.tes.org
SUMMARY:TES IN PERSON – Erotic Hypnosis 101
DESCRIPTION:Erotic hypnosis is often described as “the chocolate sauce of kink” — delicious on its own\, and great in combination with just about anything else. You can use it to tighten up your bondage\, sharpen your knife play\, add a little punch to your impact scenes\, or just all on its own for good old-fashioned pleasure and power play. Join us for Erotic Hypnosis 101\, an introduction to what hypnosis is (and isn’t)\, how it does (and doesn’t) work\, and how to continue exploring on your own. \nBio:\nSex-Obsessed Lesbian is a kinkster\, kink educator\, and content creator based in the Eastern US; she has been doing hypnosis since just after college\, nerding out about sex since high school\, and making bad puns since approximately forever. Hypnosis turned her on before she even knew what it meant to get turned on\, and the wonderful world of Tumblr taught her that it was an actual thing. Since then\, she’s been romping around the countryside thinking and talking about consent\, creativity\, and ways to do silly and sexy things with people’s brains. \nFind her online: https://linktr.ee/sexobsessedlesbian \n\nLocation:\nThe Center (The Lesbian\, Gay\, Bisexual & Transgender Community Center)\n208 West 13th Street\,\nNew York\, NY 10011 \nCost:\nMembers: $10\nNon-Members: $25\nRegistration in advance is strongly encouraged due to limited internet access at the venue.\nNote: Each attendee will need to have a separate account to register. \nRegistration Instructions \nIf You Already Have an Account \n\nRegister: Click here to go to the class registration page.\nLog in: Use your existing account information to log in and register for the class. Your membership discount will be applied automatically.\nComplete Purchase: Follow the instructions to complete your payment. Your membership discount will be automatically applied.\n\nIf You Need to Create an Account \nFor Members: \n\nCreate Your Account: Go to the Member Portal and create your account here. Be sure to use the same email address you used when you purchased your TES membership. If you’ve forgotten it\, email membership@tes.org for assistance.\nConfirm Your Email: Check your inbox for a confirmation email and follow the link to set your password.\nLog In and Register: Click this link to log back into the Member Portal and register for the class.\nComplete Purchase: Follow the instructions to complete your payment. Your membership discount will be automatically applied.\n\nFor Non-Members: \n\nCreate Your Account: Go to the registration page and create your member portal account here.\nConfirm Your Email: Check your inbox for a confirmation email and follow the link to set enter your password.\nLog In and Register: Click this link to log back into the Member Portal and register for the class.\nComplete Purchase: Follow the instructions to complete your payment.\n\nOn-Site Registration \n\nOn-site registration is available\, but please be aware that internet access may be limited.\nYou will be able to register by scanning a QR code with your smartphone.\nThe registration process is the same as the advanced registration steps listed above. Cash payments are not accepted at the door.
URL:https://www.tes.org/event/2026-04-23/
LOCATION:LGBT Community Center\, 208 W 13th St\, New York\, NY\, 10011\, United States
CATEGORIES:class,In-Person
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BEGIN:VEVENT
DTSTART;TZID=America/New_York:20260504T190000
DTEND;TZID=America/New_York:20260504T220000
DTSTAMP:20260501T094232
CREATED:20260422T011024Z
LAST-MODIFIED:20260422T023759Z
UID:8133-1777921200-1777932000@www.tes.org
SUMMARY:IN-PERSON: TES Monthly Munch
DESCRIPTION:We’d love to have you at the TES Monthly Munch! \nWhether you’re new to the scene\, an old friend\, or just curious\, our monthly munch is a great opportunity to meet fellow kinksters in a low-key\, low-pressure setting. There’s no need to RSVP\, and everyone is welcome—you don’t even have to be a TES member to join us! \nWe gather on the first Monday of every month (if it’s a holiday\, we’ll meet on the following Monday) at an alternative lifestyle-friendly diner in NYC. Our hosts will be there to give you a warm welcome and answer any questions. Attending is free; you just pay for your food\, and please remember to tip your server well! We also ask that you wear “vanilla” (non-BDSM) clothes. \nThis is a vanilla event. Respect others’ privacy and consent by not displaying any kink activities in this public space. \n\nA Note on Safety\nThis event is held at a public diner\, and while we highly encourage all attendees to be vaccinated against COVID-19\, we cannot control what the restaurant requires of other patrons. Please assess your own risk and act accordingly. We will have a discreet contact tracing option available\, which we encourage you to use. \nFor more information\, including a code of conduct for newcomers\, please visit our FAQ page. \nWe can’t wait to see you there!
URL:https://www.tes.org/event/2026-05-04-2/
LOCATION:Skylight Diner\, 402 West 34th Street\, New York\, NY\, 10001\, United States
CATEGORIES:FREE,In-Person,Munch,social
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BEGIN:VEVENT
DTSTART;TZID=America/New_York:20260514T193000
DTEND;TZID=America/New_York:20260514T220000
DTSTAMP:20260501T094232
CREATED:20260423T015924Z
LAST-MODIFIED:20260425T001306Z
UID:8146-1778787000-1778796000@www.tes.org
SUMMARY:TES In-Person - Community Organizing: Building Inclusive and Sustainable Practices
DESCRIPTION:Whether you’re a munch organizer\, an event planner\, someone interested in starting something\, or someone who attends and is curious about what happens behind the scenes–come learn and discuss: what is community organizing and how can we sustainably create and maintain spaces that welcome\, include\, and highlight marginalized voices? \nBio: \nxin (they/them) is an Asian queer\, trans genderqueer\, polyamorous\, neurodivergent\, Dom\, rope top\, and primal sensualist. They are passionate about community building and organizing BIPOC spaces. They have been involved in their local scenes since 2021. \n\nLocation: \nThe Center (The Lesbian\, Gay\, Bisexual & Transgender Community Center)  \n208 West 13th Street\,  \nNew York\, NY 10011 \nCost: \n\nMembers: $10\nNon-Members: $25\n\nRegistration in advance is mandatory. \nNote: Each attendee must have a separate account to register. \nRegistration Instructions\nIf You Already Have an Account \n\nRegister: Click here to go to the class registration page.\nLog in: Use your existing account information to log in and register for the class. Your membership discount will be applied automatically.\nComplete Purchase: Follow the instructions to complete your payment. Your membership discount will be automatically applied.\n\nIf You Need to Create an Account \nFor Members: \n\nCreate Your Account: Go to the Member Portal and create your account here. Be sure to use the same email address you used when you purchased your TES membership. If you’ve forgotten it\, email membership@tes.org for assistance.\nConfirm Your Email: Check your inbox for a confirmation email and follow the link to set your password.\nLog In and Register: Click this link to log back into the Member Portal and register for the class. \nComplete Purchase: Follow the instructions to complete your payment. Your membership discount will be automatically applied.\n\nFor Non-Members: \n\nCreate Your Account: Go to the registration page and create your member portal account here.\nConfirm Your Email: Check your inbox for a confirmation email and follow the link to set enter your password.\nLog In and Register: Click this link to log back into the Member Portal and register for the class. \nComplete Purchase: Follow the instructions to complete your payment.\n\nThere is No On-Site Registration \n\nCash payments are not accepted at the door.
URL:https://www.tes.org/event/2026-05-14/
LOCATION:LGBT Community Center\, 208 W 13th St\, New York\, NY\, 10011\, United States
CATEGORIES:class,Educational,In-Person
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DTSTART;TZID=America/New_York:20260528T193000
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UID:8153-1779996600-1780005600@www.tes.org
SUMMARY:TES In-Person - Sensual Capture
DESCRIPTION:Sensual Capture is a trauma-informed workshop that will give players the framework and tools to safely engage in abduction in play scenes. Players are asked to reflect on what draws them to abduction play\, and how to navigate the many risks and sites of both trauma and desire before engaging in play. Players will leave with the key concepts needed to compose a scene. A condensed demonstration of a basic\, beginner-level abduction scene will be performed\, demonstrating safe\, low-impact methods of physiological and physical control. \nBio: \nLady Dahlia Trieu is a transfemme prodomme and kink educator of Vietnamese heritage. Her career in the sex industry began in queer porn\, performing with AORTA Films\, and later\, Colorblock Films. She has been an organizer for Please Daddy\, a BIPOC and transfemme centered play party\, Commodity Fetish\, an annual kinkshare\, among other LGBT BDSM events. In her past lives\, she has been an educator\, combat soldier\, and poet—all of which have been surprisingly useful in her practice as a dominatrix. She is based in Brooklyn with her two feline familiars. \n\nLocation Given in Confirmation\nCost: $10 Members/ $25 Non-Members\nRegistration in advance is mandatory.\nRegistration Instructions\nIf You Already Have an Account\n\nRegister: Click here to go to the class registration page.\nLog in: Use your existing account information to log in and register for the class. Your membership discount will be applied automatically.\nComplete Purchase: Follow the instructions to complete your payment. Your membership discount will be automatically applied.\n\nIf You Need to Create an Account\nFor Members: \n\nCreate Your Account: Go to the Member Portal and create your account here. Be sure to use the same email address you used when you purchased your TES membership. If you’ve forgotten it\, email membership@tes.org for assistance.\nConfirm Your Email: Check your inbox for a confirmation email and follow the link to set your password.\nLog In and Register: Click this link to log back into the Member Portal and register for the class. \nComplete Purchase: Follow the instructions to complete your payment. Your membership discount will be automatically applied.\n\nFor Non-Members: \n\n\n\nCreate Your Account: Go to the registration page and create your member portal account here.\nConfirm Your Email: Check your inbox for a confirmation email and follow the link to set enter your password.\nLog In and Register: Click this link to log back into the Member Portal and register for the class. \n\n\n\nThere is no on-site registration.\n\nCash payments are not accepted at the door.
URL:https://www.tes.org/event/2026-05-28/
LOCATION:Upon Confirmation\, In Your Confirmation\, New York\, NY\, 10001\, United States
CATEGORIES:class,Educational,In-Person
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