The Eulenspiegel Society

ONLINE - TES Presents: Contracts: Defining Y/your Power Exchange with PlaineJane
2021-03-30 19:00 - 22:00 (America/New_York) | NY
Creating a Plan for success that works best for you and your partner(s) can make all the difference between longevity or loss. Contracts are one way of communicating and defining not only your approach but your needs, responsibilities, and expectations within a power exchange dynamic. PlaineJane will discuss types, parts, and useful components of a contract that can help define your plan for success within power exchange. She will also cover the pitfalls, options for effectiveness, and provide ways for selecting the contract that fits best with your purpose and power exchange dynamic. This will be a guided discussion with time for questions and idea exchange.
PlaineJane has been active in the Atlanta BDSM community for over ten years. As an enthusiastic Event Coordinator & Educator, Jane is a strong advocate for promoting and producing educational events for and within the BDSM and Leather communities. Jane is the Director and Organizer of MAsT: Marietta Women and the Founder and Leader of F.L.A.I.R. (Female Led Authority Inspired Relationships) which offers educational Intensives for different faucets of the BDSM Lifestyle and Leather communities. Her area of interest and experience includes service, domination and discipline, impact play, dragon’s tails, high protocol, event producing and promoting, power exchange from both sides of the slash, humiliation & degradation, chemical play, genitorture and of course Male on Male Action… to name a few.

To participate, simply visit https://datingkinky.com/TES-Tuesdays every Tuesday, at 7pm. No additional downloads or software required! This platform is supported by multiple browsers, but if you are having any technical difficulties please try a different browser, as certain settings may interfere. Note that this link will only be active during scheduled meeting times.
You are welcome to participate as actively as you are comfortable. By default, users’ cameras and microphones will be switched off, and you may simply watch passively or participate solely by text in the chat box if you are uncomfortable being seen or heard. Please note that while we have selected this platform to be as private as possible while maintaining sufficient ease of use for participants, no online platform is ever fully secure. While all regular TES rules regarding privacy remain in effect, and anyone caught violating these rules will be subject to consequences (please see our Online Meeting Terms of Service), we advise participants to treat online events as though the event is being recorded by a third party. For more information on protecting your online privacy, please see our online privacy guide.

ONLINE - The More You Know - Consent & Negotiations for New Kinksters with MsLolaSmiles
2021-03-23 19:00 - 22:00
Being new to anything can be intimidating, stressful and overwhelming, we all want to be safe & stay safe so this class will cover:
• Consent
• Some legalese
• Using/being aware of safe & proper play techniques
• Coping with subspace
• Administering aftercare
• Negotiating & setting up a scene
• What to do if something goes wrong
Ms. Lola Smiles is a Latina Femdom Fatale from Long Island, NY who has been in the lifestyle for over 25 years – a BDSM educator & presenter and event promoter for 8 years. As a presenter/educator Ms Lola Smiles has presented on topics including Consent & Negotiations, Scene Etiquette, Vetting, CBT, Impact Play, Wax Play, Breath Play, Dungeon Monitors (DM) Training, to name a few. She has also participated and moderated a variety of panels on dominance and People of Color (POC) in the Scene. Ms. Lola has been honored to present for Sanctuary Events, Avant-Garde, Pangea, TES, SCK, LILNR-LICK, The Steam Factory, EPIC, Weekend Reunion, Feel My Breath, DomCon LA, LEASH Weekend, Jax Fet Fest, Dating Kinky and ONYX Pearls NE. Ms. Lola founded SCK Events and House of SCK. SCK Events hosts munches and a variety of upscale events and parties on LI & NYC. Adapting to the post COVID world, Ms Lola & SCK host the F#@k You Coronavirus Virtual Events. SCK’s mantra is – Corrupting the World one vanilla at a time.®

To participate, simply visit https://datingkinky.com/TES-Tuesdays every Tuesday, at 7pm. No additional downloads or software required! This platform is supported by multiple browsers, but if you are having any technical difficulties please try a different browser, as certain settings may interfere. Note that this link will only be active during scheduled meeting times.
You are welcome to participate as actively as you are comfortable. By default, users’ cameras and microphones will be switched off, and you may simply watch passively or participate solely by text in the chat box if you are uncomfortable being seen or heard. Please note that while we have selected this platform to be as private as possible while maintaining sufficient ease of use for participants, no online platform is ever fully secure. While all regular TES rules regarding privacy remain in effect, and anyone caught violating these rules will be subject to consequences (please see our Online Meeting Terms of Service), we advise participants to treat online events as though the event is being recorded by a third party. For more information on protecting your online privacy, please see our online privacy guide.

ONLINE - This Class is About Labels with LuckyAlbatross
2021-03-16 19:00 - 22:00
People’s relationships with labels are based in power and empowerment. This is even more critical to understand in relationships built around power imbalances. While there is a lot of baggage attached to them, labels can be useful tools in communicating and creating our selves and our life stories. This class will review different motivations and uses for labels (including when NOT to use them), reasons why labels become contentious, and practices for using labels to tell your own story more effectively.
Liz/LuckyAlbatross (she/her) has been active in the public scene since 1998. Bisexual, open, polyamorous, switch, slave, Liz has been a member of Black Rose in DC, the Baltimore Educational and Social Society (BESS), where she was elected as Secretary and Chair of the Board, and Austin, TX where she was Arbiter of the local group GWNN and Service Leader of Element. Currently living outside Philadelphia helping run a polyamorous social group. Her favorite fetishes are formal wear and connections and she greatly enjoys hypnosis and objectification..

To participate, simply visit https://datingkinky.com/TES-Tuesdays every Tuesday, at 7pm. No additional downloads or software required! This platform is supported by multiple browsers, but if you are having any technical difficulties please try a different browser, as certain settings may interfere. Note that this link will only be active during scheduled meeting times.
You are welcome to participate as actively as you are comfortable. By default, users’ cameras and microphones will be switched off, and you may simply watch passively or participate solely by text in the chat box if you are uncomfortable being seen or heard. Please note that while we have selected this platform to be as private as possible while maintaining sufficient ease of use for participants, no online platform is ever fully secure. While all regular TES rules regarding privacy remain in effect, and anyone caught violating these rules will be subject to consequences (please see our Online Meeting Terms of Service), we advise participants to treat online events as though the event is being recorded by a third party. For more information on protecting your online privacy, please see our online privacy guide.

TES Board of Directors Meeting
2021-03-11 19:00 - 22:00
Open to all current members. Information on how to join will be distributed to the membership. If you are a member, did not receive this information, and would like to join, please email secretary@tes.org

ONLINE - TES Presents: The Sensual Art of Biting with Schadenfreude
2021-03-09 19:00 - 22:00
Biting is as sensual and complicated of an art as kissing, yet few practice it as much. In this workshop, you will learn and practice the seven sensual (and some sadistic) bites of the Kama Sutra, as well as biting safety. This is an interactive class so please bring a partner to nibble upon.
@Schadenfreude is a noteworthy BDSM workshop presenter from Rochester, NY, who primarily teaches in the Northeastern region of the US. Education is her passion, and kink is an inseparable part of her identity, which together culminate into an unparalleled learning experience. She unites her pedagogical training with her many years of experience in the BDSM scene to create workshops that are interactive, entertaining and effective. As a dominant sadomasochist, Schadenfreude has experience as both a top and bottom in every subject that she teaches. Thus, she is able to bring a unique perspective to her workshops, providing information and insight that is practical to kinksters of every D/s orientation.

To participate, simply visit https://datingkinky.com/TES-Tuesdays every Tuesday, at 7pm. No additional downloads or software required! This platform is supported by multiple browsers, but if you are having any technical difficulties please try a different browser, as certain settings may interfere. Note that this link will only be active during scheduled meeting times.
You are welcome to participate as actively as you are comfortable. By default, users’ cameras and microphones will be switched off, and you may simply watch passively or participate solely by text in the chat box if you are uncomfortable being seen or heard. Please note that while we have selected this platform to be as private as possible while maintaining sufficient ease of use for participants, no online platform is ever fully secure. While all regular TES rules regarding privacy remain in effect, and anyone caught violating these rules will be subject to consequences (please see our Online Meeting Terms of Service), we advise participants to treat online events as though the event is being recorded by a third party. For more information on protecting your online privacy, please see our online privacy guide.

ONLINE - The Manly Art of Service with danceinmypants
2021-03-02 19:00 - 22:00
What does Alfred Pennyworth have in common with a freshmen pledge at a frat house? Almost nothing! Except that they’ve both devoted themselves to active roll submission through contractual service, as men.
There is a huge framework for the feminine art of service in our culture, so much so that many folks associate service with feminization or sissification. But what about folks who’d like to affirm their masculinity in service? Can providing shave service, groom service, cooking and cleaning services make someone feel like a better man? A manlier man?
Please join us, as we welcome people of all genders, orientations and kink roles in a discussion based talk about the manly art of service. We’re going to focus on domestic service, but we will delve into body service and remote service as well.
Louis (DanceInMyPants) is a 32 year old Brooklynite, born and raised. He’s also a mostly-gay, trans, polyamourus verse sadomasochist switch who loves service. Louis loves leather care, massage service and domestic service. Outside of kink, he also loves writing smut, playing dungeons and dragons and making spreadsheets.

To participate, simply visit https://datingkinky.com/TES-Tuesdays every Tuesday, at 7pm. No additional downloads or software required! This platform is supported by multiple browsers, but if you are having any technical difficulties please try a different browser, as certain settings may interfere. Note that this link will only be active during scheduled meeting times.
You are welcome to participate as actively as you are comfortable. By default, users’ cameras and microphones will be switched off, and you may simply watch passively or participate solely by text in the chat box if you are uncomfortable being seen or heard. Please note that while we have selected this platform to be as private as possible while maintaining sufficient ease of use for participants, no online platform is ever fully secure. While all regular TES rules regarding privacy remain in effect, and anyone caught violating these rules will be subject to consequences (please see our Online Meeting Terms of Service), we advise participants to treat online events as though the event is being recorded by a third party. For more information on protecting your online privacy, please see our online privacy guide.

ONLINE - TES Presents: Creating a Submissive Resume with stacey_petunia
2021-02-23 19:00 - 22:00
Creating a Submissive Resume is a class where both new and experienced s-types can document their skills, abilities, training, and community involvement, to give to prospective Dominants or just to chart their own growth as an s-type. We will also discuss creating a resume to document presenter experience.
Bio coming soon.

To participate, simply visit https://datingkinky.com/TES-Tuesdays every Tuesday, at 7pm. No additional downloads or software required! This platform is supported by multiple browsers, but if you are having any technical difficulties please try a different browser, as certain settings may interfere. Note that this link will only be active during scheduled meeting times.
You are welcome to participate as actively as you are comfortable. By default, users’ cameras and microphones will be switched off, and you may simply watch passively or participate solely by text in the chat box if you are uncomfortable being seen or heard. Please note that while we have selected this platform to be as private as possible while maintaining sufficient ease of use for participants, no online platform is ever fully secure. While all regular TES rules regarding privacy remain in effect, and anyone caught violating these rules will be subject to consequences (please see our Online Meeting Terms of Service), we advise participants to treat online events as though the event is being recorded by a third party. For more information on protecting your online privacy, please see our online privacy guide.

ONLINE - Broken Chains/Broken Bonds - Navigating a Dynamic Breakup with UnrulyNerdGirl
2021-02-16 19:00 - 22:00
Geared To: Anyone who has experienced a dynamic breakdown, or who may want to understand the stages of mourning a dynamic breakdown.
Dynamic breakdowns are usually painful, even when amicable. By understanding the steps in the grief process, learning how to cut ties, and bolstering ourselves with support, we can hopefully move from our emotional pain, to feeling ourselves again.
Canadian, technically Ausnadian after living for four years Down Under, domestic service (aka luxury lifestyle) submissive to the rich and famous and little – service little, cheeky bear, errant evil scout, fervent axe thrower, maker of things, BDSM taxonomist, co-creator of a BDSM board game, and writer/published author.
Entered the BDSM community and lifestyle in her early twenties, and hasn’t looked back since. Whether it is a day spent at an estate sale scoping out silverware, or acquiring a new skill for the service tool chest, this little bear makes the most of each day, and is thoroughly tuckered out when curling up next to a mound of stuffies at bed time. Active in local, national, and international BDSM communities as a moderator for various online activities, as one third of the triptych that organizes a local Ottawa munch, and as an educator.
Loves tacos, hot dogs, crafts, Minecraft, going to the gym, powerlifting, pinball, arcades, movie theatres, naps, drag queens, and Lego.

To participate, simply visit https://datingkinky.com/TES-Tuesdays every Tuesday, at 7pm. No additional downloads or software required! This platform is supported by multiple browsers, but if you are having any technical difficulties please try a different browser, as certain settings may interfere. Note that this link will only be active during scheduled meeting times.
You are welcome to participate as actively as you are comfortable. By default, users’ cameras and microphones will be switched off, and you may simply watch passively or participate solely by text in the chat box if you are uncomfortable being seen or heard. Please note that while we have selected this platform to be as private as possible while maintaining sufficient ease of use for participants, no online platform is ever fully secure. While all regular TES rules regarding privacy remain in effect, and anyone caught violating these rules will be subject to consequences (please see our Online Meeting Terms of Service), we advise participants to treat online events as though the event is being recorded by a third party. For more information on protecting your online privacy, please see our online privacy guide.

TES Board of Directors Meeting
2021-02-11 19:00 - 22:00
Open all current members. Information on how to join will be distributed to the membership. If you are a member, would like to participate, and did not receive this information, please email secretary@tes.org

ONLINE - Intro to Hypnosis with dizzy_demonette
2021-02-09 19:00 - 22:00
Not knowing what to do as a first time hypnotist, or what to expect as a first time subject is a big challenge that just about everyone has to deal with starting out. While there is plenty of written information out there actually learning to use trance practically can be daunting. If you don’t know how to start off, hypnosis feels incredibly esoteric.
This presentation looks to help with all that. Slowly and clearly, we’ll go over a few basic inductions and suggestions picking them apart as a group to figure out how and why they work. Once you know how someone enters trance and what’s led them to do so, everything might seem a lot less mystical and a lot more like the mindful, creative skill hypnosis really is. By the end, we hope to demystify those awkward first few trances and have you all ready to practice on your own.
Dizzy is an awkward pile of gay snakes in a trenchcoat and occasional kink educator who just so happens to be pretty dang good at hypnosis (if she does say so for herself). Focused heavily on pushing its creative limits for kink she has been teaching at conventions and groups around the east coast for the last six years, three genders and lot of cool changes within the scene. Currently a co-coordinator and occasional presenter for the TES Hypnosis SIG, she hopes to bring her favorite brain massaging techniques to a wide audience of fellow weirdos.

To participate, simply visit https://datingkinky.com/TES-Tuesdays every Tuesday, at 7pm. No additional downloads or software required! This platform is supported by multiple browsers, but if you are having any technical difficulties please try a different browser, as certain settings may interfere. Note that this link will only be active during scheduled meeting times.
You are welcome to participate as actively as you are comfortable. By default, users’ cameras and microphones will be switched off, and you may simply watch passively or participate solely by text in the chat box if you are uncomfortable being seen or heard. Please note that while we have selected this platform to be as private as possible while maintaining sufficient ease of use for participants, no online platform is ever fully secure. While all regular TES rules regarding privacy remain in effect, and anyone caught violating these rules will be subject to consequences (please see our Online Meeting Terms of Service), we advise participants to treat online events as though the event is being recorded by a third party. For more information on protecting your online privacy, please see our online privacy guide.

ONLINE - Heavy metal; or Fun and Self-bondage with Toys that Lock with GregCuffs
2021-02-02 19:00 - 22:00
Are you spending a lot of time alone but can’t get that last knot tight enough? Try something different! Join GregCuffs for an intro to metal bondage gear and a visual tour with demonstrations of selections from his extensive collection. He’ll go over safety tips and other practical concerns, then show some variations on traditional handcuff use and talk about how to incorporate locking ties into your self-bondage.
GregCuffs bought his first pair of handcuffs at age 13. He has been involved in the kink and poly community for more than 20 years and met his wife at TES 2000. Despite his love for lockable gear, he does dabble in rope and other bondage media on occasion.

To participate, simply visit https://datingkinky.com/TES-Tuesdays every Tuesday, at 7pm. No additional downloads or software required! This platform is supported by multiple browsers, but if you are having any technical difficulties please try a different browser, as certain settings may interfere. Note that this link will only be active during scheduled meeting times.
You are welcome to participate as actively as you are comfortable. By default, users’ cameras and microphones will be switched off, and you may simply watch passively or participate solely by text in the chat box if you are uncomfortable being seen or heard. Please note that while we have selected this platform to be as private as possible while maintaining sufficient ease of use for participants, no online platform is ever fully secure. While all regular TES rules regarding privacy remain in effect, and anyone caught violating these rules will be subject to consequences (please see our Online Meeting Terms of Service), we advise participants to treat online events as though the event is being recorded by a third party. For more information on protecting your online privacy, please see our online privacy guide.

ONLINE - TES presents: (Sadistic) English Tea Service with AttorneyLadySteele
2021-01-26 19:00 - 22:00
Join Lady Steele as she explores several darker sides of tea service for the guest’s total pleasure and the server’s delight. The concept of “a proper” tea will be turned on its crumpet. She will illustrate the basic “how to’s” in regards to setting the table and then move to the actual service at the table. This presentation will be beneficial to both tops and bottoms – the tops will learn what to expect from the bottoms that will learn what to do. See how endless the naughty possibilities are in something that is traditionally so…proper.
Lady Steele identifies as a femme Alpha leather slave. She has served in the Leather community since 1999 wherein she has presented and volunteered across the country. She resides in Atlanta where she operates her law practice that serves alternative lifestyles. She is the only out, open, and practicing attorney in the southeast that specializes in the issues that are unique to the BDSM and ethical non-momogamy communities.
Lady Steele is the co-founder and co-lead of the Center of Learning and School of Success (C.L.A.S.S.), Atlanta’s Worthless Bastards (Cigar) Club, and The Leather Coterie’s (T.L.C.) Atlanta Chapter. She acts as Board Support, Convention Attorney, and Vendor Coordinator for the Leather Leadership Conference, serves at Treasurer of Anafiel House and is a proud member of Onyx Pearls Southern Leather. In addition, she has presented at national events including TES Fest, DomCon, Frolicon, Southeast Leather Fest, DragonCon, Sex Down South, Atlanta Poly Weekend. Lady Steele also shares her knowledge through her BlogTalk radio program, “The Legal Show,” co-hosted by renowned Sci-Fi author Bennet Pomerantz. Lady Steele has been on the KinkyCast, discussing topics like Consent Apps; No Collar, No Problem; BDSM and the Law; Cigar Service and Play; and Poly and the Law, and on the Poly Podcast, speaking about Poly and the Law.

To participate, simply visit https://datingkinky.com/TES-Tuesdays every Tuesday, at 7pm. No additional downloads or software required! This platform is supported by multiple browsers, but if you are having any technical difficulties please try a different browser, as certain settings may interfere. Note that this link will only be active during scheduled meeting times.
You are welcome to participate as actively as you are comfortable. By default, users’ cameras and microphones will be switched off, and you may simply watch passively or participate solely by text in the chat box if you are uncomfortable being seen or heard. Please note that while we have selected this platform to be as private as possible while maintaining sufficient ease of use for participants, no online platform is ever fully secure. While all regular TES rules regarding privacy remain in effect, and anyone caught violating these rules will be subject to consequences (please see our Online Meeting Terms of Service), we advise participants to treat online events as though the event is being recorded by a third party. For more information on protecting your online privacy, please see our online privacy guide.

ONLINE - Pegging 101 with theDommeKat
2021-01-19 19:00 - 22:00
Anyone can peg, and anyone can be pegged. In this class, you’ll learn how to do both! You don’t need a prostate to enjoy this workshop. This workshop is designed for first-timers who want to start from the very basics. We’ll get you going so you feel confident and safe trying it on your own. Bring your curiosity!
Don’t want to use a toy? Totally OK! DommeKat will demonstrate anal massage techniques, prostate massage and pegging basics on her demo bottom.
To make the most of the class (and join in on the fun), a these are a few items i like to have nearby:

Boy Butter Waterbased creamy lube (or another viscous lube)
Dildo suitable for anal with a flared base (can’t have those toys going all Lemmiwinks)
Harness
Butt stuff toys for warmups and anal training
Condoms
Disposable gloves
A towel or two
Protip: A puppy pad to lie on makes cleanup easy
CONSENT (because consent is sexy)

I use the high-protocol honorific “Domina,” but I’m a pretty rough-and-tumble gal so fetish wrestling became a perfect fit for me! I’m a hedonist with a sadistic streak; I get the giggles when I hear suffering. I’ve been called “casually cruel,” a “compassionate sadist” and definitely “a dick” once or twice. I’ve been quoted as saying, “All I wanna do in life is to wrestle, fuck butts and make money.” A gal can dream! And part of that dream includes spreading the joys of butt stuff, because I love putting things in people’s butts. In addition to life experience with various partners, I taught “Unicorn Porn,” a pegging workshop hosted by Hacienda and co-instructed on numerous occasions with Lola Jean, sex educator. I’ve demonstrated pegging and other BDSM techniques for various instructional videos and TV shows. I had a great experience “in the before times” teaching a foot domination clinic for TES, so I’m excited to be back!
theDommeKat.com
LinkTr.ee/theDommeKat
Twitter: @theDommeKat
IG: @domina_katarina
IG: @the_dommekat
IG: @thedommekat2.0

To participate, simply visit https://datingkinky.com/TES-Tuesdays every Tuesday, at 7pm. No additional downloads or software required! This platform is supported by multiple browsers, but if you are having any technical difficulties please try a different browser, as certain settings may interfere. Note that this link will only be active during scheduled meeting times.
You are welcome to participate as actively as you are comfortable. By default, users’ cameras and microphones will be switched off, and you may simply watch passively or participate solely by text in the chat box if you are uncomfortable being seen or heard. Please note that while we have selected this platform to be as private as possible while maintaining sufficient ease of use for participants, no online platform is ever fully secure. While all regular TES rules regarding privacy remain in effect, and anyone caught violating these rules will be subject to consequences (please see our Online Meeting Terms of Service), we advise participants to treat online events as though the event is being recorded by a third party. For more information on protecting your online privacy, please see our online privacy guide.

TES Board of Directors Meeting
2021-01-14 19:00 - 22:00
Open to all valid members. Information on how to join has already been distributed to the membership. If you are a member, did not receive this information, and would like to join, please email secretary@tes.org

ONLINE - Self-suspension for the Bored and Insane with IPCookieMonster
2021-01-12 19:00 - 22:00
Description and bio coming soon.

To participate, simply visit https://datingkinky.com/TES-Tuesdays every Tuesday, at 7pm. No additional downloads or software required! This platform is supported by multiple browsers, but if you are having any technical difficulties please try a different browser, as certain settings may interfere. Note that this link will only be active during scheduled meeting times.
You are welcome to participate as actively as you are comfortable. By default, users’ cameras and microphones will be switched off, and you may simply watch passively or participate solely by text in the chat box if you are uncomfortable being seen or heard. Please note that while we have selected this platform to be as private as possible while maintaining sufficient ease of use for participants, no online platform is ever fully secure. While all regular TES rules regarding privacy remain in effect, and anyone caught violating these rules will be subject to consequences (please see our Online Meeting Terms of Service), we advise participants to treat online events as though the event is being recorded by a third party. For more information on protecting your online privacy, please see our online privacy guide.

ONLINE - When the Bad Boys Come for You: Dealing with Law Enforcement with SirGuy
2021-01-05 19:00 - 22:00
You’re in the middle of an intense play session when you hear hard knocks on the door. When you answer, you see your local law enforcement officer. What do you do? You are travelling to an event, and have all your accouterments in your checked baggage. You even checked it out with the TSA. Yet, you are being escorted now by airport police. What do you do? Sir Guy, a former NYC police officer, will guide you through the dilemma of dealing with law enforcement and other first responders
I live in a 24/7 Master/slave relationship. I’ve been active in the scene for over a decade. I am an Emeritus Board Member of The Eulenspiegel Society (TES), Director of MAsT Metro New York, Founder of The Dark Lair: BDSM Support and Education for People of Color, and an Associate Member of ONYX NY/Northeast. He won the International Power Exchange 2013 title. I have presented at MsC several times, Brimstone, TES Fest, The Floating World, LLC, Leather History Preservation Weekend, several MAsT groups, South Jersey Power Exchange, LILNR/LICK and over 30 groups and events.

To participate, simply visit https://datingkinky.com/TES-Tuesdays every Tuesday, at 7pm. No additional downloads or software required! This platform is supported by multiple browsers, but if you are having any technical difficulties please try a different browser, as certain settings may interfere. Note that this link will only be active during scheduled meeting times.
You are welcome to participate as actively as you are comfortable. By default, users’ cameras and microphones will be switched off, and you may simply watch passively or participate solely by text in the chat box if you are uncomfortable being seen or heard. Please note that while we have selected this platform to be as private as possible while maintaining sufficient ease of use for participants, no online platform is ever fully secure. While all regular TES rules regarding privacy remain in effect, and anyone caught violating these rules will be subject to consequences (please see our Online Meeting Terms of Service), we advise participants to treat online events as though the event is being recorded by a third party. For more information on protecting your online privacy, please see our online privacy guide.

ONLINE - TES presents: Fort Building 101: An Intro to Age Play with MysticStorm
2020-12-29 19:00 - 22:00
Come learn the basics for a foundation in age play. Do you have an inner child, or a desire to be a caregiver to someone? We come with unique perspectives on a wide range of age play dynamics, experiences, and interests. We will cover basic vocabulary and the wide variety of dynamics you are likely to see. Also we will talk about how you can mix your M/s relationships or kinks with an age play dynamic. So bring your sippy cups, teddy’s, and questions and join us for an enjoyable experience.
Mystic Storm has been active in Leather/BDSM communities since 2000. Experiences with her own biological horse fed her natural desire and instinct to become a human pony. Mystic Storm is a mischievous show pony who is semi-retired due to health issues. She loved to prance around the show ring and win awards. Now Mystic Storm shares her love and knowledge of pony play and kink with others. She is the creator of the Pony Pride Flag as well as founder and co-leader of the South Central PA Little Scouts Troop #1863. Other interests include age play, leather care, relationship dynamics, and a need to think outside the box. Pronouns: She/Her. Contact: https://fetlife.com/users/13286

To participate, simply visit https://datingkinky.com/TES-Tuesdays every Tuesday, at 7pm. No additional downloads or software required! This platform is supported by multiple browsers, but if you are having any technical difficulties please try a different browser, as certain settings may interfere. Note that this link will only be active during scheduled meeting times.
You are welcome to participate as actively as you are comfortable. By default, users’ cameras and microphones will be switched off, and you may simply watch passively or participate solely by text in the chat box if you are uncomfortable being seen or heard. Please note that while we have selected this platform to be as private as possible while maintaining sufficient ease of use for participants, no online platform is ever fully secure. While all regular TES rules regarding privacy remain in effect, and anyone caught violating these rules will be subject to consequences (please see our Online Meeting Terms of Service), we advise participants to treat online events as though the event is being recorded by a third party. For more information on protecting your online privacy, please see our online privacy guide.

ONLINE - TES presents: Hypnotic Rhythm: The Tempo of Trance, Metre of Mesmerism, and Cadence of Catalepsy with Ragezdasta
2020-12-22 19:00 - 22:00
Just as the pacing on the delivery of a joke can have a strong impact on its comedic effect, the powerful hypnotic effect of matching your flow with your subjects and guiding them along a mesmeric melody cannot be understated. Improvisation skills will also be given in a hypnotic context, using lessons from Improv and Jazz in addition to hypnosis-based ideas to help unleash your inner confidence and creativity in forming inductions on the fly! The class will also delve into tone, imagery, and cultural examples of hypnotic rhythm across the world. Demos will be given of the techniques in question, as well as their potential application in several inductions and kinky hypnotic scenes! Participation is optional, but please be prepared to see hypnotic inductions being performed. Come and discover your own Inductive Verse with us.
CW: Hypnotic language, hypnotic inductions, discussion of sensory enhancement, discussion of sexual elements of hypnotic play, discussion of painplay, discussion of bondage, discussion of headspaces, potential examples of robotification, potential examples of fantasy/sci-fi scenes, examples of conversational inductions.
Ragezdasta is a Hypnotist, and has been for the past nine years. He enjoys the things hypnosis does to people and wants to remove a lot of the mystery and confusion people have around hypnosis and the nature of suggestion. He understands that this whole hypnotic shebang is both incredibly simple and infinitely complex, and figuring out what’s fine to keep simple and what should be understood as complex has been his goal for the past several years. Hailing from the Middle East, he travels across the states visiting hypnopeeps and enjoying hypnocons/munches to the fullest extent of his abilities as a hypnotist, and a subject…and it’s a heck of a lot of fun!

To participate, simply visit https://datingkinky.com/TES-Tuesdays every Tuesday, at 7pm. No additional downloads or software required! This platform is supported by multiple browsers, but if you are having any technical difficulties please try a different browser, as certain settings may interfere. Note that this link will only be active during scheduled meeting times.
You are welcome to participate as actively as you are comfortable. By default, users’ cameras and microphones will be switched off, and you may simply watch passively or participate solely by text in the chat box if you are uncomfortable being seen or heard. Please note that while we have selected this platform to be as private as possible while maintaining sufficient ease of use for participants, no online platform is ever fully secure. While all regular TES rules regarding privacy remain in effect, and anyone caught violating these rules will be subject to consequences (please see our Online Meeting Terms of Service), we advise participants to treat online events as though the event is being recorded by a third party. For more information on protecting your online privacy, please see our online privacy guide.

ONLINE - TES presents: Conscious Inequality, Dominance, and Submission with Lee Harrington!
2020-12-15 19:00 - 22:00
Power permeates our every interpersonal interaction, from how we interact with the grocery clerk to our kink in the bedroom, and there is a difference between unconscious and conscious power use. However, in a variety of alternative sexuality and BDSM populations, these concepts are eroticized, often glossing over the context where these consensual erotic power plays come from. Let’s examine where power arises unconsciously or through oppression in culture, various types of power exchange dynamics, and why people would want to engage in them (for an evening, a long-term connection or between lifetimes). This will include conscious and unconscious roles, bonding within relationships, and even destructive behaviors. Power is power, but inequality is not inequity, so let us look at this together with eyes wide open.
Lee Harrington is an internationally known spiritual and erotic authenticity educator, gender explorer, eclectic artist and award-winning author and editor on erotic and sacred experience. He’s been traveling the globe teaching and talking about sexuality, psychology, faith and desire, and believes you deserve passion and connection in your life. His books include “Playing Well With Others: Your Guide to Discovering, Exploring and Negotiating the Kink, Leather and BDSM Communities” (with Mollena Williams), “Sacred Kink: The Eightfold Paths of BDSM and Beyond,” “Shibari You Can Use: Japanese Rope Bondage and Erotic Macramé,” and “Traversing Gender: Understanding Transgender Realities,” amongst many others. Lee has been a passion instigator, academic, adult film performer, world class sexual adventurer, outspoken philosopher, polytheist priest/ess, kink/bondage expert, and has been blogging about sex and spirit since 1998. Read more about Lee at PassionAndSoul.com.

To participate, simply visit https://datingkinky.com/TES-Tuesdays every Tuesday, at 7pm. No additional downloads or software required! This platform is supported by multiple browsers, but if you are having any technical difficulties please try a different browser, as certain settings may interfere. Note that this link will only be active during scheduled meeting times.

ONLINE--TES Board of Directors Meeting
2020-12-10 19:00 - 22:00
The meeting will be held online; information on how to join has been distributed to the membership. If you are a current member, would like to join, and did not receive the information, please email secretary@tes.org

ONLINE - TES presents: BDSM Q&A: Ask the Weirdos with ninjajuicer and saltygoodness
2020-12-08 19:00 - 22:00
In these uncertain times, we all have lots of questions. While we don’t have the answers to your questions about the lockdown, we may be able to answer your questions about locking down your lover! Join Alex and Madeline, a kinky couple with 16 years of experience in the public BDSM scene, for a BDSM Q&A. What they haven’t experienced, they have probably seen or helped clean up after. No question will be deemed too dumb or basic, and not just because we haven’t negotiated humiliation.
Alex and Madeline are both trained scientists who love to use their analytical minds and love of learning both in the bedroom and the dungeon. They have been very active in the Chicago, Minneapolis/St. Paul and now New York communities, helping to run BDSM organizations, assisting with large-scale events, and teaching classes on various edge play techniques. They have a reputation for enjoying some of the odder branches of BDSM play and for being lucky to have found each other’s sick minds. Alex can be found on Fetlife at ninjajuicer and Madeline can be found at saltygoodness.

To participate, simply visit https://datingkinky.com/TES-Tuesdays every Tuesday, at 7pm. No additional downloads or software required! This platform is supported by multiple browsers, but if you are having any technical difficulties please try a different browser, as certain settings may interfere. Note that this link will only be active during scheduled meeting times.
You are welcome to participate as actively as you are comfortable. By default, users’ cameras and microphones will be switched off, and you may simply watch passively or participate solely by text in the chat box if you are uncomfortable being seen or heard. Please note that while we have selected this platform to be as private as possible while maintaining sufficient ease of use for participants, no online platform is ever fully secure. While all regular TES rules regarding privacy remain in effect, and anyone caught violating these rules will be subject to consequences (please see our Online Meeting Terms of Service), we advise participants to treat online events as though the event is being recorded by a third party. For more information on protecting your online privacy, please see our online privacy guide.

ONLINE - TES presents: Suspendable Harnesses for Non-Traditional Rope Bodies with CTW
2020-12-01 19:00 - 22:00
There’s many a pervading myth in the rope scene that center around the idea that only cisgender, petite, and short women can be suspended. We all know that’s not true. This class will present three harnesses of different difficulty levels that can allow large bottoms, masc presenting bottoms, disabled bottoms, less mobile bottoms, and many others to begin exploring suspendable rope harnesses.
Harnesses to be covered:

Mermaid (aka “pencil skirt”, legs together) hip harness
Hishi modified armbinder – requires a tying partner
CTW’s Orb Weaver Arms-free chest harness

Recommended prior knowledge: People tying should be familiar with the concepts of larks head hitches, reverse tensions, in-line single columns, non-collapsing single columns, half hitches, munter hitches, and weaving. The mermaid and hishi armbinder are beginner and intermediate level ties. The Orb Weaver is a bit more advanced.
Disclaimer: This class will teach the harnesses from the ground. Suspension will not be demonstrated. Rope suspension is a high risk activity. Please do not try to suspend with any of these harnesses unless you have taken a class on upline management and understand the risks involved. You should always have a spotter when attempting self-suspension.
CTW(she/her) is a fem-presenting rope top and sadomasochist from Virginia. She enjoys tying herself and others, teaching rope, and encouraging body positivity and inclusivity in bondage. She believes any body can be tied. When not doing rope, she co-teaches and bottoms for chain bondage with her long-term partner.

To participate, simply visit https://datingkinky.com/TES-Tuesdays every Tuesday, at 7pm. No additional downloads or software required! This platform is supported by multiple browsers, but if you are having any technical difficulties please try a different browser, as certain settings may interfere. Note that this link will only be active during scheduled meeting times.
You are welcome to participate as actively as you are comfortable. By default, users’ cameras and microphones will be switched off, and you may simply watch passively or participate solely by text in the chat box if you are uncomfortable being seen or heard. Please note that while we have selected this platform to be as private as possible while maintaining sufficient ease of use for participants, no online platform is ever fully secure. While all regular TES rules regarding privacy remain in effect, and anyone caught violating these rules will be subject to consequences (please see our Online Meeting Terms of Service), we advise participants to treat online events as though the event is being recorded by a third party. For more information on protecting your online privacy, please see our online privacy guide.

ONLINE - TES presents: To Make A Protocol Pie with DevynStone
2020-11-24 19:00 - 22:00
We begin with the crust. Just kidding. We aren’t making pie. We are creating practical protocols. In this class we will discuss some basic terminology and theory. We will even discuss how to create, sustain and enforce protocols. Where do protocols fit in your life? Do you need them? Let’s find out!
Devyn Stone A.K.A. SirHorror (He/Him) is a transgender, dominant leatherman who has been actively practicing nonmonogamy and authority transfer since 2004. He has overcome tremendous odds including abuse, trauma and mental illness to fulfill his lifelong dream… to be loved for who he truly is.
He is a mental health and LGBTQ+ advocate. In 2019 Devyn made the life changing decision to build his career as a BDSM author and educator. He has a passion for giving and receiving education and he can often be found speaking on topics such as; protocol, authority transfer, organization, gender and negotiation.
Devyn is an extrovert that loves to tell stories and make friends. He believes in diversity not division and he actualizes that idea by promoting strongly inclusive spaces and interactions.
Devyn Stone and his property 840 live together in Dallas, TX. They engage in a 24/7 total authority transfer dynamic. They have been practicing authority transfer, individually, since 2004 and began their dynamic in 2017. Devyn Stone A.K.A. SirHorror (He/Him) is a transgender dominant leatherman. He is a mental health and LGBTQ+ advocate, BDSM author and educator. property 840 (it/its) is an asexual, transgender, nonbinary, slave. By day, property 840 is a mental health professional. By night, property 840 is nothing but a tool to be used by its Master.
Devyn has published several books and is excited to release more resources to his community soon. Learn more about Devyn, his classes, books, and upcoming events at www.DevynStone.info

To participate, simply visit https://datingkinky.com/TES-Tuesdays every Tuesday, at 7pm. No additional downloads or software required! This platform is supported by multiple browsers, but if you are having any technical difficulties please try a different browser, as certain settings may interfere. Note that this link will only be active during scheduled meeting times.
You are welcome to participate as actively as you are comfortable. By default, users’ cameras and microphones will be switched off, and you may simply watch passively or participate solely by text in the chat box if you are uncomfortable being seen or heard. Please note that while we have selected this platform to be as private as possible while maintaining sufficient ease of use for participants, no online platform is ever fully secure. While all regular TES rules regarding privacy remain in effect, and anyone caught violating these rules will be subject to consequences (please see our Online Meeting Terms of Service), we advise participants to treat online events as though the event is being recorded by a third party. For more information on protecting your online privacy, please see our online privacy guide.

ONLINE - TES presents: Near, Far, Wherever You Are: Kinesthetic Hypnosis At a Distance with SexObsessedLesbian and Bunbun
2020-11-17 19:00 - 22:00
Any time hypnokinksters get together in person, people go nuts about kinesthetic (i.e. physical/body-focused) hypnosis, and for good reason: it’s fuckin’ awesome! It’s too bad that this whole subset of inductions is closed to us when we’re not physically able to touch each other, right? WRONG! There’s still tons of kinesthetic hypnosis to be done at a distance, and this class will show and tell you all about it–complete with plenty of Zoom-based demos so you can see these techniques working at 1,000 miles. (This class is primarily hypnotist-directed, but subjects are welcome as well; hopefully everyone will come away with neat ideas to use in their hypno-play.)
SexObsessedLesbian is a kinkster, kink educator, and content creator based in the Eastern US; she has been doing hypnosis for a few years, nerding out about sex since high school, and making bad puns since approximately forever. Hypnosis turned her on before she even knew what it meant to get turned on, and the wonderful world of Tumblr taught her that it was an actual thing. Since then, she’s been romping around the countryside thinking and talking about consent, creativity, and ways to do silly and sexy things with people’s brains. Find her online: https://linktr.ee/sexobsessedlesbian
Bunbun’s Bio: Bunbunlittleone is a switchy dominatrxx, educator, and purveyor of cozy kink. They make delightful, hypnokinky videos at the new Spellbound Studio. An all-around enthusiast, Bunbun is passionate about consent, inclusion, physicality in hypnosis, and bunnies. Also, they hope you have a great day!

To participate, simply visit https://datingkinky.com/TES-Tuesdays every Tuesday, at 7pm. No additional downloads or software required! This platform is supported by multiple browsers, but if you are having any technical difficulties please try a different browser, as certain settings may interfere. Note that this link will only be active during scheduled meeting times.
You are welcome to participate as actively as you are comfortable. By default, users’ cameras and microphones will be switched off, and you may simply watch passively or participate solely by text in the chat box if you are uncomfortable being seen or heard. Please note that while we have selected this platform to be as private as possible while maintaining sufficient ease of use for participants, no online platform is ever fully secure. While all regular TES rules regarding privacy remain in effect, and anyone caught violating these rules will be subject to consequences (please see our Online Meeting Terms of Service), we advise participants to treat online events as though the event is being recorded by a third party. For more information on protecting your online privacy, please see our online privacy guide.

Online--TES Board of Directors Meeting
2020-11-12 19:00 - 22:00
Open to all current members. Information on how to join was distributed online. If you are a member, did not receive this information, and would like to join, please contact secretary@tes.org

ONLINE - TES presents: The Halo Above Your Heart: Collars and Collaring with AttorneyLadySteele
2020-11-10 19:00 - 22:00
What is a collar? It means different things to different – well, we could say people, but it really depends on how you identify, doesn’t it? In this class, we will talk about collars (materials, weights, and styles) and collaring (feelings, parallels, and philosophies). There will be an opportunity to share your experiences and we will have a large selection of play and permanent collars on hand to try out.
Lady Steele identifies as a femme Alpha leather slave. She has served in the Leather community since 1999 wherein she has presented and volunteered across the country. She resides in Atlanta where she operates her law practice that serves alternative lifestyles. She is the only out, open, and practicing attorney in the southeast that specializes in the issues that are unique to the BDSM and ethical non-momogamy communities.
Lady Steele is the co-founder and co-lead of the Center of Learning and School of Success (C.L.A.S.S.), Atlanta’s Worthless Bastards (Cigar) Club, and The Leather Coterie’s (T.L.C.) Atlanta Chapter. She acts as Board Support, Convention Attorney, and Vendor Coordinator for the Leather Leadership Conference, serves at Treasurer of Anafiel House and is a proud member of Onyx Pearls Southern Leather. In addition, she has presented at national events including TES Fest, DomCon, Frolicon, Southeast Leather Fest, DragonCon, Sex Down South, Atlanta Poly Weekend. Lady Steele also shares her knowledge through her BlogTalk radio program, “The Legal Show,” co-hosted by renowned Sci-Fi author Bennet Pomerantz. Lady Steele has been on the KinkyCast, discussing topics like Consent Apps; No Collar, No Problem; BDSM and the Law; Cigar Service and Play; and Poly and the Law, and on the Poly Podcast, speaking about Poly and the Law.

To participate, simply visit https://datingkinky.com/TES-Tuesdays every Tuesday, at 7pm. No additional downloads or software required! This platform is supported by multiple browsers, but if you are having any technical difficulties please try a different browser, as certain settings may interfere. Note that this link will only be active during scheduled meeting times.
You are welcome to participate as actively as you are comfortable. By default, users’ cameras and microphones will be switched off, and you may simply watch passively or participate solely by text in the chat box if you are uncomfortable being seen or heard. Please note that while we have selected this platform to be as private as possible while maintaining sufficient ease of use for participants, no online platform is ever fully secure. While all regular TES rules regarding privacy remain in effect, and anyone caught violating these rules will be subject to consequences (please see our Online Meeting Terms of Service), we advise participants to treat online events as though the event is being recorded by a third party. For more information on protecting your online privacy, please see our online privacy guide.

Online--TES Annual Elections
2020-10-27 19:00 - 22:00
This event is only open to members, who will receive the link via email prior to the event. If you are a member and did not receive the link, please email Secretary@tes.org prior to the event.

No additional downloads or software required! This platform is supported by multiple browsers, but if you are having any technical difficulties please try a different browser, as certain settings may interfere. Note that this link will only be active during scheduled meeting times.
You are welcome to participate as actively as you are comfortable. By default, users’ cameras and microphones will be switched off, and you may simply watch passively or participate solely by text in the chat box if you are uncomfortable being seen or heard. Please note that while we have selected this platform to be as private as possible while maintaining sufficient ease of use for participants, no online platform is ever fully secure. While all regular TES rules regarding privacy remain in effect, and anyone caught violating these rules will be subject to consequences (please see our Online Meeting Terms of Service), we advise participants to treat online events as though the event is being recorded by a third party. For more information on protecting your online privacy, please see our online privacy guide.

ONLINE - TES presents: Cuckolding 201 with NookieNotes
2020-10-20 19:00 - 22:00
Coming soon!
NookieNotes, known by most as Nookie, grew up in the lifestyle and around people of every color and bent. Her primary fetishes are communication and behavior modification. She’s a lifestyle dominant who runs her relationships and enjoys switching in the bedroom. She is currently building a new kinky dating site: https://datingkinky.com

To participate, simply visit https://datingkinky.com/TES-Tuesdays every Tuesday, at 7pm. No additional downloads or software required! This platform is supported by multiple browsers, but if you are having any technical difficulties please try a different browser, as certain settings may interfere. Note that this link will only be active during scheduled meeting times.
You are welcome to participate as actively as you are comfortable. By default, users’ cameras and microphones will be switched off, and you may simply watch passively or participate solely by text in the chat box if you are uncomfortable being seen or heard. Please note that while we have selected this platform to be as private as possible while maintaining sufficient ease of use for participants, no online platform is ever fully secure. While all regular TES rules regarding privacy remain in effect, and anyone caught violating these rules will be subject to consequences (please see our Online Meeting Terms of Service), we advise participants to treat online events as though the event is being recorded by a third party. For more information on protecting your online privacy, please see our online privacy guide.

Online--Meet the Candidates
2020-10-13 19:00
The link to this event will be sent to active members prior to the event. If you are a member, would like to attend, and did not receive the link, please email Secretary@tes.org
No additional downloads or software required! This platform is supported by multiple browsers, but if you are having any technical difficulties please try a different browser, as certain settings may interfere. Note that this link will only be active during scheduled meeting times.
You are welcome to participate as actively as you are comfortable. By default, users’ cameras and microphones will be switched off, and you may simply watch passively or participate solely by text in the chat box if you are uncomfortable being seen or heard. Please note that while we have selected this platform to be as private as possible while maintaining sufficient ease of use for participants, no online platform is ever fully secure. While all regular TES rules regarding privacy remain in effect, and anyone caught violating these rules will be subject to consequences (please see our Online Meeting Terms of Service), we advise participants to treat online events as though the event is being recorded by a third party. For more information on protecting your online privacy, please see our online privacy guide.

Online: TES Board of Directors Meeting
2020-10-08 19:00 - 22:00
Open to all current members. Information on how to join will be distributed to the membership on October 1st. If you are a member, did not receive this information, and want to attend, please email secretary@tes.org
