The Eulenspiegel Society

Intro to Dark Ageplay with MorriganMaeve
2020-01-22 19:30 - 22:00 (America/New_York) | The Loft, 245 W 29th St, 11th floor, New York, NY, 10013, United States
Class description coming soon.
From pageant winner to kinky sinner, this former Girl Scout and girl-next-door from New Jersey has been stirring up the scene for the better part of a decade. Since 2012, @MorriganMaeve has been a staff member for Conduit Enterprises (New Jersey’s premiere monthly sex-positive kink/fetish/BDSM party). She’s the founder of Conduit’s “Little Sparks” and a co-leader for Conduit’s festival and camp collective presence. Known for her penchant for prosecco, and her over-the-top, extra AF party planning and production, this classy bitch is the mastermind behind events such as THUNDERFOAM! and Midnight Margaritas. As an age player, Morrigan is an advocate for learning to let go and embracing vulnerability without shame through consensual play associated with reconnection with lost innocence. With her infectious laugh, her vibrant squeals from excitement, and her twisted ideas of fun, she might just make you suffer from cute aggression, or she might get you to walk her Lego™ walk of fire. When in doubt, little out!

Doors open at 7, class begins at 7:30.

TES Members – $10, Students, Seniors, Military, and First Responders (with ID) – $15, Reciprocal Groups – $15, Non-Members – $25

Better Bottoming with Bex
2020-01-21 19:30 - 22:00 | The Loft, 245 W 29th St, 11th floor, New York, NY, 10013, United States
Bottoms bring more to the table than just a good butt! Bottoming requires skill – skill that’s rarely recognized, acknowledged, or taught. This workshop will help bottoms develop and hone the skills they’ll need most, and will help tops better understand the tools they need to train the perfect plaything. We’ll cover how to embody the kind of reactions that make a sadist’s mouth water, techniques for processing pain, and how to recognize and communicate your desires.
This class welcomes people of all genders, orientations, and experience levels from both sides of the slash.
Bex is a NYC based sex educator, speaker, and podcaster. He’s been a proud and undeniable kinkster ever since he insisted on being served his meals in a dog bowl at the age of 8 (and even before that, probably). He’s taught everything from blowjobs to negotiation at sex shops, events, and conferences all along the East Coast, and appeared as a guest on True Life, Sex Gets Real, and The Life On The Swingset Podcast.You can find him on Twitter @BexTalksSex, on his blog at BexTalksSex.com, or on his weekly podcast The Dildorks!

Doors open at 7, class begins at 7:30. If you need any assistance accessing our programming, please reach out to our operations team at Operations@tes.org. We will do our best to assist you.

TES Members $10 Students & Military with ID $15 Reciprocal Groups $15 Non-Members $25 Cash Only

TES Board of Directors Meeting
2020-01-16 19:00 - 22:00
Open to all current members.
This meeting will be held online only. Details for how to join the meeting will be available shortly.

Black Leather: A History of Black/POC folks in the Leather and BDSM Communities
2020-01-15 19:30 - 22:00 | The Loft, 245 W 29th St, 11th floor, New York, NY, 10013, United States
When discussing Leather and BDSM history most often we hear histories based in the white gay male community. Fact of the matter is, the history of Blacks and other People of Color in this lifestyle is a long and storied one. Sir Guy helps bring this history alive.
SirGuy lives in a 24/7 Master/slave relationship. He’s been active in the scene for over a decade and is an Emeritus Board Member of The Eulenspiegel Society (TES), Director of MAsT Metro New York, Founder of The Dark Lair: BDSM Support and Education for People of Color, and an Associate Member of ONYX NY/Northeast. He won the International Power Exchange 2013 title. SirGuy has presented at MsC several times, Brimstone, TES Fest, The Floating World, LLC, Leather History Preservation Weekend, several MAsT groups, South Jersey Power Exchange, LILNR/LICK and over 30 groups and events.
He delivered the keynote address at Beyond Leather 2014, Our Traditions Live speech at Master/slave Conference 2015, Sir Guy was winner of the 2014 Beyond Leather Community Achievement Award and the 2005 TES Dominant Men/submissive women’s Literary Contest, served as head judge of the Western Canada Power Exchange Contest 2015 and nominated for the Pantheon of Leather Man of the Year award among others. He is the author of a uniform themed erotic collection featuring People of Color and contributing author to the anthology Our Lives, Our History: Consensual Master/slave Relationships from Ancient Times to the 21st Century. Interviews with Sir Guy also appear in Dr. Gloria Brame’s, A Different Loving Too.
A uniform enthusiast, former NYC police officer and NY State certified Emergency Medical Technician, Sir Guy participated in rescue efforts at Ground Zero and Hurricane Katrina.

Doors open at 7, class begins at 7:30.

TES Members – $10, Students, Seniors, Military, and First Responders (with ID) – $15, Reciprocal Groups – $15, Non-Members – $25

Bondage Group: Zero to Fun on Day One with BoundtoFly
2020-01-14 19:30 - 22:00 | The Loft, 245 W 29th St, 11th floor, New York, NY, 10013, United States
Want to explore rope, but confused by all the apparent complexity? Scared by the possible risks of this style of play? In this fast paced workshop, learn the basics of safe rope bondage. and go home and have safe erotic play – today! This class, designed for newcomers to rope as well as kink, goes into the basics of safety, levels of risk, negotiation, consent, single column ties, and connection. Everyone ties/is tied! Participants leave feeling empowered and excited, with the knowledge to continue exploring rope!
Doors open at 7, class begins at 7:30.

TES Members – $10, Students, Seniors, Military, and First Responders (with ID) – $15, Reciprocal Groups – $15, Non-Members – $25

TES Presents: Fire Play 101 with NYCJosh
2020-01-08 19:30 - 22:00 | The Loft, 245 W 29th St, 11th floor, New York, NY, 10013, United States
Both a mix of pleasure and pain, fear and awe, fire invokes something primal in all of us. An element that is both feared and revered, man has tried to control fire since the beginning of our time. Come and learn from this untamable element from Sir Josh. This class is designed for the beginning level and will teach the basic technical skills that go into fire play and fire cupping. We will also cover safety and precautions, as well as equipment, literature, and all the fun games that can come with fire play and fire cupping. This is a great class for anyone interested in playing with fire as a top or a bottom.
Sir Josh has been part of the M/s community for around 10 years and a part of the general NYC BDSM community for a few longer. His past experience includes co-founding NYC TNG, being Assistant Director/Director, of MAsT:MetroNY, a board member for TES, and Special Events chair for TES Fest, and past CFO for LHF.
Doors open at 7, class begins at 7:30. If you need any assistance accessing our programming, please reach out to our operations team at Operations@tes.org. We will do our best to assist you.

TES Members $10 Students & Military with ID $15 Reciprocal Groups $15 Non-Members $25 Cash Only

TES Presents: Intro to Candle Wax Play
2020-01-07 19:30 - 22:00
This class is designed to introduce people to candle wax play. I’ll go over general safety tips, where one may source candles, and an overview from the Top and Bottom perspectives.
Nox has been active in the NJ scene since 2012. They’ve been playing with candle wax for about the same length of time and are interested in sharing what they’ve learned over the years.

Doors open at 7, class begins at 7:30. If you will require the elevator, please call ahead: (212) 675-1390. If you will need any assistance accessing our space, please contact us at operations@tes.org.
TES Members $5 Students & Military with ID $10 Reciprocal Groups $10 Non-Members $20 Cash Only

Hypno Group: Getting In Touch with Kinesthetic Inductions with Sex Obsessed Lesbian
2019-12-18 19:30 - 22:00
Lots of us do lots of our hypnosis via the internet, listening to files and reading from the same old scripts. But how do you hypnotize people who prefer the physical to the auditory (listening to your soothing voice) or the visual (fixating on your shiny pocket-watch)? And what kind of fun, whacky ways can you hypnotize someone when you get the chance to do it in person? Kinesthetic hypnosis – that is, hypnosis focused on the Boyd – is a great tool to have in your toolbox. Come learn some fun ways to trance more body-oriented subjects, and explore the world of possibilities of trancing someone via physical interaction.
In this class we’ll talk about some principles of kinesthetic hypnosis, and go over a grab-bag of techniques and tricks that you can use to create your own body-rockin’ kinesthetic inductions! This class is primarily hypnotist-directed, but subjects are welcome as well; hopefully everyone will come away with neat ideas to use in their hypno-play
Bio:
Sex-obsessed-lesbian has been doing hypnosis for a few years, nerving out about sex since high school, and making bad puns since approximately forever. Hypnosis turned her on before she even knew what it meant to get turned on, and the wonderful world of Tumblr daughter her that it was an actual thing. Since then, she’s been romping around the countryside thinking and talking about consent, creativity, and ways to do silly and sexy things with people’s brains.
Blog: sexobsessedlesbian.blogspot.com
Twitter: @sexobsessedlesb
Tumblr: sex-obsessed-lesbian.tumblr.com
Doors open at 7, class begins at 7:30. If you will require the elevator, please call ahead: (212) 675-1390. If you will need any assistance accessing our space, please contact us at operations@tes.org.

TES Members $10 Students & Military with ID $15 Reciprocal Groups $15 Non-Members $25 Cash Only

Intro to Scene Building: Mood Setting and Intentional Tool Use
2019-12-17 19:30 - 22:00
Join Lady Euphoria for a workshop on scene building – a topic that isn’t commonly discussed, we all know building a memorable scene isn’t always easy or intuitive for everyone!
This workshop will discuss the basics to creating a smooth scene:
mood setting and intentional tool use.
We’ll talk about the nuances of a play scene, establishing communication, a scene point-of-departure and some tips for future scene creating.
Feel free to come with questions for Lady Euphoria & of course, if any suggestions to share are always welcome!
Meet Lady Euphoria: NYC Power Dynamic Practitioner & Kink Educator serving the BDSM Community through providing novice accessible workshops with a comprehensive hands-on and group approach. Lady Euphoria has experience as a lifestyle and pro-dominatrix working with couples and kinksters of various levels, abilities, and genders. Her goal is to make kink education: safe, comprehensive, and humane. She offers mindfulness, growth-focused, and intention-based D/S dynamic BDSM experiences.
Doors open at 7, class begins at 7:30. If you will require the elevator, please call ahead: (212) 675-1390. If you will need any assistance accessing our space, please contact us at operations@tes.org.
TES Members $10 Students & Military with ID $15 Reciprocal Groups $15 Non-Members $25 Cash Only

STARTING AT 8PM: Group Sex with Vonka
2019-12-11 20:00 - 22:00
The threesome or orgy fantasy is a classic. Yet group sex often plays out disappointingly in real life without proper planning and communication. There’s a lot to consider in advance and so much of it is hard to predict without practical experience. Learn from examples of others’ mistakes as we discuss how to bring these fantasies to life in the best possible ways.
Vonka is a fierce femme Bluenette sadist passionate about sharing knowledge and creating safer spaces. In addition to organizing the largest and longest running monthly play parties in NJ with Conduit Enterprises, Vonka is a NJTNG moderator and a frequent presenter at Dark Odyssey. Outside of the dungeon, you can usually find her performing Burlesque across the North Eastern US or gracing the screens of your technical devices with her modeling and fetish work.

Doors open at 8pm, and class begins soon after. If you’ll require the elevator, please call ahead: (212) 675-1390. If you will need any assistance accessing our space, please contact us at operations@tes.org.

TES Members – $10, Students, Seniors, Military, and First Responders (with ID) – $15, Reciprocal Groups – $15, Non-Members – $25

Bondage Group: Impromptu Bondage
2019-12-10 19:30 - 22:00
No rope? No problem! Many common household items and pieces of clothing can be used to incapacitate a willing victim. This class will explore what kinds of items work well for what kinds of bondage. Bring scarves, ties, shoelaces, and anything else that inspires you to be kinky!

Doors open at 7, class begins at 7:30. If you will require the elevator, please call ahead: (212) 675-1390. If you will need any assistance accessing our space, please contact us at operations@tes.org.
TES Members $10 Students & Military with ID $15 Reciprocal Groups $15 Non-Members $25 Cash Only

Asexual and Aromantic Spectrums
2019-12-04 19:30 - 22:00
Come explore various kinds of attraction including sexual, romantic and platonic. We will debunk common myths and learn about identities on the asexual and aromantic spectrum. We will also discuss some different ways of looking at relationships and learn some (possibly new) language for describing such things. The intersections with other identities will be discussed.
Akabi Daystar is a kinky queer geek. They have been educating on queer, kink and consent related subjects since 2013. They are the co-organizer of the Jersey City Polyamory and Alternative Relationship Network and they are on the Leadership Team of Open Love New York. When not thinking about, reading about, and discussing such things, they enjoy ranting endlessly about superheroes and making art.

Doors open at 7, class begins at 7:30. If you will require the elevator, please call ahead: (212) 675-1390. If you will need any assistance accessing our space, please contact us at operations@tes.org.

TES Members – $10, Students, Seniors, Military, and First Responders (with ID) – $15, Reciprocal Groups – $15, Non-Members – $25

Trampling with Louie
2019-12-03 19:30 - 22:00
There is nothing quite like being physically on top of someone else. In this class we are going to learn how to step on, walk on and crawl on top of another human body, otherwise known as trampling.
Louis (DanceInMyPants) is a sex educator by trade, a consent nerd by calling, and the kinky boy next door. Louis is a polyamorus trans dude, a massage enthusiast, a sadomasochist and a proud switch. He’s been rubbing feet and taking names since 2011. Out of kink, he’s a born and bred Brooklynite, a witch, a lover of spreadsheets, a writer of smut, and plays a ton of Dungeons and Dragons.
Doors open at 7, class begins at 7:30. If you will require the elevator, please call ahead: (212) 675-1390. If you will need any assistance accessing our space, please contact us at operations@tes.org.

TES Members – $10 Students, Seniors, Military, and First Responders (with ID) – $15 Reciprocal Groups – $15 Non-Members – $25

Hypno Group
2019-11-20 19:30 - 22:00
Come out and explore ideas you have and learn from experienced mentors at the November Hypnokink meeting. Come play, explore, and learn! We will be hosting a Koala Box (as made famous by BEHIVE), which is an opportunity to see and participate in hypnotic technique and phenomenon completely shaped by the participants! For more information on the Koala Box, click here! Just want to come and hang out with and meet new people? That’s fine too! If you have any questions, please contact @PerfectMonster or @DizzyDemonette.
Doors open at 7, class begins at 7:30. If you will require the elevator, please call ahead: (212) 675-1390. If you will need any assistance accessing our space, please contact us at operations@tes.org.

TES Members $10 Students & Military with ID $15 Reciprocal Groups $15 Non-Members $25 Cash Only

BDSM & Criminal Law w. Meanstreakmilewide
2019-11-19 19:30 - 22:00
Join us as we hear from a criminal defense lawyer who’s got a “meanstreakmilewide.” Some of the topics covered could include: Dos and Don’ts when interacting with law enforcement; What people should know about playing for pay; What happens when a lawyer needs to get involved (and how to avoid it!), and so on. With live demonstrations of potential crimes against people in sexy ways.
meanstreakmilewide is a dominant, sadistic, polyamorous, professional-fitness-monster-world-champion-athlete, anarcho-syndicalist, vegetarian, former music growler, radical lawyer. Lifetime lifestyle leaning type with over a decade of experience living down this rabbit hole with a tendency for M/s TPE 24/7 type of connections which are designed to better both. They teach and write on topics of kink and the law, polyamory and power exchange and whatever strikes my fancy or the community asks them for.

Doors open at 7, class begins at 7:30. If you will require the elevator, please call ahead: (212) 675-1390. If you will need any assistance accessing our space, please contact us at operations@tes.org.

TES Members – $10 Students, Seniors, Military, and First Responders (with ID) – $15 Reciprocal Groups – $15 Non-Members – $25

OTK is A-OK: An Intro to Impact
2019-11-13 19:30 - 22:00
This is an intro to Impact play. You will learn by a demonstration about how to give an ideal swat in an ideal situation. The presentation will give a good baseline about how to strike and then there will be further discussion about how to expand into other impact scenes. There will also be discussion about the mental and emotion effects of impact play and how to incorporate them into your scenes.
James, is an impact top and self-proclaimed impact scientist. He is a Pansexual Daddy Dominant with a penchant for all things domestic. He is also a Primal, Poly, Klingon warrior who loves to teach as a way of helping people reach a better connection with their partners.

Doors open at 7, class begins at 7:30. If you will require the elevator, please call ahead: (212) 675-1390. If you will need any assistance accessing our space, please contact us at operations@tes.org.

TES Members – $10 Students, Seniors, Military, and First Responders (with ID) – $15 Reciprocal Groups – $15 Non-Members – $25

Bondage Group: Heavy Metal, or Fun with Toys that Lock with Greg Cuffs
2019-11-12 19:30 - 22:00
Rope got you in a rut? Think a clove hitch is something you’ll find in your spice rack? Join GregCuffs for an intro to metal bondage gear and a hands-on tour of selections from his extensive collection. He’ll go over safety tips and other practical concerns, then show some variations on traditional handcuff use and talk about how to start building your own collection.
GregCuffs bought his first pair of handcuffs at age 13. He has been involved in the kink and poly community for 20 years and met his wife at TES 2000. Despite his love for lockable gear, he does dabble in rope and other bondage media on occasion.

Doors open at 7, class begins at 7:30. If you will require the elevator, please call ahead: (212) 675-1390. If you will need any assistance accessing our space, please contact us at operations@tes.org.

TES Members $10 Students & Military with ID $15 Reciprocal Groups $15 Non-Members $25 Cash Only

The Leather Weather Party
2019-11-09 20:00 - 2019-11-10 20:00
It’s officially autumn and that means it’s leather weather! So put on your favorite leather gear (or pleather for our vegan friends) and come out to play!
Can’t decide what to wear? Leather and/or fetishwear are encouraged, but not required, so really, whatever makes you comfortable is fine. What’s most important is that you have fun!
There will be light snacks, but it’s BYO pumpkin spice.
But that’s not all. Join us for our pre-party munch at the Bread and Butter Café from 7:30-9pm. The munch is a GREAT way to meet people in a low-key, non-kinky setting. You’ll find more info about it [here][https://fetlife.com/events/842313]!
**8pm-2am at The Parth**
**$25 for TES members, $30 for munch attendees, $35 for other non-members**
RSVP on Fetlife
THIS IS AN EXCLUSIVE PARTY.
In order to attend this party you must be:
* a TES member
* an affiliate organization member
* the guest of any of the above
* an attendee of the pre-party munch arriving with the munch leaders
If you are not yet a member, please consider becoming one today! [Click here][https://membership.tesassociation.org/] to join!!!
Please take a moment and familiarize yourself with our [party rules][https://docs.google.com/document/d/1-QSynfedvC8QpD82ZtLCpEANw5PLHKO619qq6lU01hU/edit?usp=sharing]. If you have any questions, please contact zero@tes.org
Looking for a playdate? Please check out our [official playdate thread on Fetlife!
Are you a TES member and haven’t volunteered in the last year? Why not start now? New volunteers are welcome to help us work the door, coat check, DM, as well as help with setup and cleanup, so please consider volunteering your time. Those volunteering 1 hour of their time get in for just $10, and those volunteering at least 2 hours get in free! To volunteer, please contact socials@tes.org!
Accessibility needs? Please contact socials@tes.org regarding accommodations.

Novices and Newcomers Munch: Fall Edition
2019-11-09 19:30 - 21:30
Are you new to the scene? New to the NYC area? Looking to get back into the scene after a long layoff? Just want to hang out with some fun and kinky people on a Sat night, in a safe, no pressure atmosphere with knowledgeable people to guide you if needed? Come alone or with partner(s). No admission fee to the munch, just pay for your food and drinks. We’ll be in the upstairs seating area by 7:30PM and then, we’re heading for the Leather Weather @ the Parth at 9PM.
The TES party is optional, but only open to members and their guests or munch attendees.
We will be on the second floor of the Bread and Butter Café, located at 419 Park Ave S, New York, NY 10016, on the corner at 29th Street.
Please take the time to familiarize yourself with our Munch Code of Conductbefore you arrive.
We will be headed afterwards to the TES PARTY @ THE PARTH with a special discount… just $30 admission for attendees!
Questions? Write us at novice@tes.org.

Mental Health & Kink with NJTherapist
2019-11-06 19:30 - 22:00
This class focuses on aspects of mental health as it relates to the practice of BDSM. The goal is to be able to apply the information learned here as one negotiates scenes/relationships with other partners, becomes more aware of how emotional wellness can affect play and how it can change the need and level of care.
NJTherapist has a Master’s of Social Work degree and is a NJ State Licensed Clinical Social Worker (LCSW). Currently, she’s a psychotherapist working in a small group private practice in NJ. Her areas of expertise include working with those diagnosed with PTSD, OCD, other anxiety disorders, depression, bipolar disorder, gender/sexuality issues, relationship issues, and trauma. She’s certified in Cognitive Behavioral Therapy (CBT) and trained in Dialectical Behavioral Therapy (DBT) but use a variety of modalities to best assist clients.

Doors open at 7, class begins at 7:30. If you will require the elevator, please call ahead: (212) 675-1390. If you will need any assistance accessing our space, please contact us at operations@tes.org.

TES Members $10 Students & Military with ID $15 Reciprocal Groups $15 Non-Members $25 Cash Only

Election Night - No Class
2019-11-05 19:30 - 22:00
Civic engagement is sexy – whoever you vote for, please vote!

Hypno Group: Finding your (Hypnotic) Voice with Captain Mike
2019-10-30 19:30 - 22:00
Stay tuned for more info!
Doors open at 7, class begins at 7:30. If you will require the elevator, please call ahead: (212) 675-1390. If you will need any assistance accessing our space, please contact us at operations@tes.org.

TES Members $5 Students & Military with ID $10 Reciprocal Groups $10 Non-Members $20 Cash Only

Annual Membership Meeting and 2019 Board of Directors Elections
2019-10-29 19:00 - 22:00
This meeting is held twice yearly for the purpose of conducting official organization business and giving the membership an opportunity to be directly involved in that process. The fall meeting, usually held in October, is also when officers for the organization are elected. All members in good standing are entitled to attend and participate in all of these functions.
Free and open to all members with a current membership card.
If you will need any assistance accessing our space, please contact us at operations@tes.org.

Past is Prologue: Leather Histories For Modern Kink Communities with Jewelweed
2019-10-23 19:30 - 22:00
We all came from somewhere, or even a collection of somewheres. But while the roots of our communities shaped our present and our future, they don’t have to dictate them. Come learn about leather histories, oral traditions, practices, and stories that have brought us to where we are today—then practice taking what speaks to you and leaving the rest. We might stand on the shoulders of giants, but it’s now up to us to shape the worlds we want to see tomorrow.
Jewel (she & they pronouns) is a switchy bisexual polya genderqueer Jersey femme Daddy. She is Mid-Atlantic Leather Woman 2019. You can find them most frequently in the dungeon: co-producing NJ’s largest pansexual/queer BDSM party for the past five years with Conduit Enterprises; serving as a dungeon monitor at conventions; having tough conversations & writing policy behind the scenes; and educating on kink skills around the country! As both a sadistic Sir and a filthy boy who adores boots, singletails, rough body play, caning, roleplay, history, ethics & aesthetics; Jewel is proud to represent The Next Generation of the BDSM & leather communities: First as a TNG chapter founder & leader from 2013-15, now on-staff as International Ms Leather & Ms Bootblack’s Under-35 Liaison (since 2015).

Doors open at 7, class begins at 7:30. If you will require the elevator, please call ahead: (212) 675-1390. If you will need any assistance accessing our space, please contact us at operations@tes.org.

TES Members $10 Students & Military with ID $15 Reciprocal Groups $15 Non-Members $25 Cash Only

DM/sw: Accountability Standards in the Scene Panel Discussion, moderated by Jinx
2019-10-22 19:30 - 22:00
Safety and consent are considered of utmost importance in the BDSM scene, however public discourse shows that people do not always agree on the specifics, and context can vary. The same goes for accountability, responsibility, and skill, though they are are not as talked about–but how can you have safety or consent without them?
There is no shortage of classes, or expectations, directed towards D-types. The level of education, expectation, and accountability directed towards s-types, on the other hand, seems disproportionate. There also seems to be inconsistencies in the kinky community’s rhetoric and standards directed at those who identify as Dominant Men versus submissive women (and everything in between). Join a group of DM and sw panelists to discuss their experiences and thoughts around this kink, social, and gender-related topic.

Doors open at 7, class begins at 7:30. If you will require the elevator, please call ahead: (212) 675-1390. If you will need any assistance accessing our space, please contact us at operations@tes.org.

TES Members – $10 Students, Seniors, Military, and First Responders (with ID) – $15 Reciprocal Groups – $15 Non-Members – $25

TES Board of Directors Meeting
2019-10-17 19:00 - 22:00
Free and open to all current members with membership card or number.
If you will require the elevator, please call ahead: (212) 675-1390. If you will need any assistance accessing our space, please contact us at operations@tes.org.

Sadistic Massage: I want to fingerbang your muscle pain
2019-10-16 19:30 - 22:00
Louis (DanceInMyPants) is a sex educator by trade, a consent nerd by calling, and the kinky boy next door. Louis is a polyamorus trans dude, a massage enthusiast, a sadomasochist and a proud switch. He’s been rubbing feet and taking names since 2011. Out of kink, he’s a born and bred Brooklynite, a witch, a lover of spreadsheets, a writer of smut, and plays a ton of Dungeons and Dragons.
Louis (DanceInMyPants) is a sex educator by trade, a consent nerd by calling, and the kinky boy next door. Louis is a polyamorus trans dude, a massage enthusiast, a sadomasochist and a proud switch. He’s been rubbing feet and taking names since 2011. Out of kink, he’s a born and bred Brooklynite, a witch, a lover of spreadsheets, a writer of smut, and plays a ton of Dungeons and Dragons.

Doors open at 7, class begins at 7:30. If you will require the elevator, please call ahead: (212) 675-1390. If you will need any assistance accessing our space, please contact us at operations@tes.org.

TES Members $10 Students & Military with ID $15 Reciprocal Groups $15 Non-Members $25 Cash Only

Meet the Candidates for the TES Board of Directors
2019-10-15 19:30 - 22:00
Free and open to all members with a current membership card.

Yom Kippur - No Class
2019-10-08 19:30 - 2019-10-09 22:00
Happy holiday!

How to Say No
2019-10-02 19:30
Have you said yes to something that you wanted to say no to but felt stuck in the moment? Struggled with not taking on this extra task because saying no to your friend seemed rude, or you just weren’t prepared and agreed without really wanting to? WELL, this is your chance to practice saying NO to any number of different requests, whether that’s a hug you don’t want or a “volunteer” job organizing a canned food drive you wanted to support but don’t want to be in charge of. This is an interactive practice with some discussion around why a no is easy or hard in the moment. Like lots of things in life, saying no DOES get easier with practice, and that’s the point of this!
Ginger is a white cis woman who left monogamy behind as a personal choice over a decade ago and never looked back. She’s not an expert and won’t tell you what to do, but will happily help you practice saying “No” in eighteen different ways to her so they next time your crappy roommate asks you if they can eat your special donuts your “nope, sorry, those are just for me!” pops out without thought.
