ONLINE - Pick-Up D/s - Power Exchange on the Fly with DarrenInfinity
2022-09-13 19:00 - 22:00 (America/New_York)
So we just met a hot Dominant or Submissive in the Dungeon. We’d love to play with them, but we don’t want it to just be about Top & Bottom. We want to play with power, with intention. We’re feeling that connection and want to explore it further. How do we do this? How do we create D/s connections that are temporary but authentic? How do we use language to reinforce the dynamic? How does physical play support the emotional connection we’re trying to nourish? Darren will address these questions and more as he provides practical tips and tricks for creating hot D/s Pick-Up play.
Darren is a sexuality and relationship educator and coach based out of Toronto, Ontario. He loves to facilitate discussions about making our relationships richer and our play hotter, with a particular focus on power exchange relationships and play. He is a relationship coach and mental wellness advocate.
In his classes, Darren focuses on providing participants practical tools to communicate about the kind of dynamics, play, and sex they want, focusing on collaborative consent and shared vulnerability. He can be reached at darren@learngrowrepeat.ca.

To register:
MEMBERS -$10

Create a Member Portal account using the same email address used when you purchased your membership. (Email membership@tes.org if you have forgotten the one you used when registering for TES.) Be sure to respond to respond to confirmation email & choose a password. After that, log back into the Member Portal.
To complete your purchase, click here and follow the instructions. Your membership discount will be automatically applied.

NON-MEMBERS – $20
Click here to register for this class.
Once you register, you’ll receive the link to the class approximately 15 – 20 minutes before it starts.
REGISTRATION CLOSES 30 MINUTES BEFORE CLASS. ALL QUESTIONS TO MEMBERSHIP@TES.ORG
If you’re unable to afford this, contact tes@tes.org & we’ll do our best to find a way to help you attend this class.

The DatingKinky platform is supported by multiple browsers, but if you are having any technical difficulties please try a different browser, as certain settings may interfere. Note that this link will only be active during scheduled meeting times.
You are welcome to participate as actively as you are comfortable. By default, users’ cameras and microphones will be switched off, and you may simply watch passively or participate solely by text in the chat box if you are uncomfortable being seen or heard. Please note that while we have selected this platform to be as private as possible while maintaining sufficient ease of use for participants, no online platform is ever fully secure. While all regular TES rules regarding privacy remain in effect, and anyone caught violating these rules will be subject to consequences (please see our Online Meeting Terms of Service), we advise participants to treat online events as though the event is being recorded by a third party. For more information on protecting your online privacy, please see our online privacy guide.

ONLINE - How to Succeed at an Event 101 with AuralFixation87 & Odile
2022-09-20 19:00 - 22:00
Never set foot inside a play space? Want to know a little about the weird, wild and sexy things you might find in there? Looking for some guidance on how to approach someone in the dungeon – whether for play or just to tell them how cool their flogger is? This class will cover the basics of what to expect in play spaces and the importance of pre-play negotiations.
Bio coming soon.
To register:
MEMBERS -$10

Create a Member Portal account using the same email address used when you purchased your membership. (Email membership@tes.org if you have forgotten the one you used when registering for TES.) Be sure to respond to respond to confirmation email & choose a password. After that, log back into the Member Portal.
To complete your purchase, click here and follow the instructions. Your membership discount will be automatically applied.

NON-MEMBERS – $20
Click here to register for this class.
Once you register, you’ll receive the link to the class approximately 15 – 20 minutes before it starts.
REGISTRATION CLOSES 30 MINUTES BEFORE CLASS. ALL QUESTIONS TO MEMBERSHIP@TES.ORG
If you’re unable to afford this, contact tes@tes.org & we’ll do our best to find a way to help you attend this class.

The DatingKinky platform is supported by multiple browsers, but if you are having any technical difficulties please try a different browser, as certain settings may interfere. Note that this link will only be active during scheduled meeting times.
You are welcome to participate as actively as you are comfortable. By default, users’ cameras and microphones will be switched off, and you may simply watch passively or participate solely by text in the chat box if you are uncomfortable being seen or heard. Please note that while we have selected this platform to be as private as possible while maintaining sufficient ease of use for participants, no online platform is ever fully secure. While all regular TES rules regarding privacy remain in effect, and anyone caught violating these rules will be subject to consequences (please see our Online Meeting Terms of Service), we advise participants to treat online events as though the event is being recorded by a third party. For more information on protecting your online privacy, please see our online privacy guide.

ONLINE - Better Bottoming For Submissives with BexTalksSex
2022-09-27 19:00 - 22:00
Whether you’re a masochistic power bottom or a shy service slut, you know bottoming requires skill–skill that’s rarely recognized, acknowledged, or taught. Written specifically for s-types who want to broaden their knowledge base, this two-hour discussion includes my best tips for both new and experienced submissives alike. We’ll discuss your responsibilities as a bottom to both your top and yourself, share tips for pain management, give advice for accessing subspace, and arm you with the tools you need to be the subby slut your dream dominant craves.
This class welcomes people of all genders, orientations, and experience levels. Although the class is presented for submissives who bottom, we welcome tops, bottoms, and switches of all stripes who are interested in learning more about the skills that go into being a great bottom.
Bex has experience teaching events ranging from intimate gatherings to large crowds both in person and online. For more details on how to book Bex for your conference, event, or organization please visit our contact page or email BexTalksSex (at) gmail (.) com.
or email BexTalksSex (at) gmail (.) com.
To register:
MEMBERS -$10

Create a Member Portal account using the same email address used when you purchased your membership. (Email membership@tes.org if you have forgotten the one you used when registering for TES.) Be sure to respond to respond to confirmation email & choose a password. After that, log back into the Member Portal.
To complete your purchase, return to this FL event page, click this class registration link and follow the instructions. Your membership discount will be automatically applied.

NON-MEMBERS – $20
Click here to register for this class.
Once you register, you’ll receive the link to the class approximately 15 – 20 minutes before it starts.
REGISTRATION CLOSES 30 MINUTES BEFORE CLASS. ALL QUESTIONS TO MEMBERSHIP@TES.ORG
If you’re unable to afford this, contact tes@tes.org & we’ll do our best to find a way to help you attend this class.

The DatingKinky platform is supported by multiple browsers, but if you are having any technical difficulties please try a different browser, as certain settings may interfere. Note that this link will only be active during scheduled meeting times.
You are welcome to participate as actively as you are comfortable. By default, users’ cameras and microphones will be switched off, and you may simply watch passively or participate solely by text in the chat box if you are uncomfortable being seen or heard. Please note that while we have selected this platform to be as private as possible while maintaining sufficient ease of use for participants, no online platform is ever fully secure. While all regular TES rules regarding privacy remain in effect, and anyone caught violating these rules will be subject to consequences (please see our Online Meeting Terms of Service), we advise participants to treat online events as though the event is being recorded by a third party. For more information on protecting your online privacy, please see our online privacy guide.

TES Final Thursday Munch: Back to School Edition
2022-09-29 19:30 - 22:00
Summer has come to a close, and school is back in session, and we’re having visions of plaid skirts, knee socks, and ruler-wielding disciplinarians. So why not come and matriculate with TES at our monthly munch? Whether you’re new to the scene, an old friend, or just passing through, we’re excited to see you!
Come join us:
Thursday, September 29th, at 7:30pm
at the
Skylight Diner
402 W 34th St. (@ 9th Ave)
New York, NY 10001
Our host Zero will be there to welcome you and answer any questions. There is no cost to attend this event beyond paying for the food you order (and please tip your server well!).
The TES Final Thursday Munch is our monthly gathering on the last Thursday of each month. It’s a great opportunity to meet and hangout with your fellow kinksters in a low-key, low pressure environment. It is open to all members of the community in good standing, and those who are new to the scene are especially encouraged to attend. There is no requirement to RSVP ahead of time, and you do not need to be a TES member to attend.
Please note that we highly encourage all attendees to be vaccinated and up-to-date against Covid. However, this event is hosted at a diner that is open to other patrons, and we cannot control for anything beyond what the restaurant requires. Please assess your own risk profiles and act accordingly. We will be providing a discrete option for contact tracing, which is highly encouraged.

ONLINE - Poly and Families (aka how to be a poly parent) with EdWood27
2022-10-04 19:00 - 22:00
This class will discuss how Poly while being part of family with kids of different ages. There are different ways to handle coming out to your kids. We’ll also cover dealing with when and how to introduce your partners if you want them to be involved in your family life and how this can vary with different types ethical non-monogamy practices.
EdWood27 is 44 years old and gender fluid, mostly presenting as male (using he/him and they/them pronouns). They have been Poly for over 10 years, and is out as poly and queer to their family and friends. They believe in being honest with yourself and others, including your kids.
To register:
MEMBERS -$10

Create a Member Portal account using the same email address used when you purchased your membership. (Email membership@tes.org if you have forgotten the one you used when registering for TES.) Be sure to respond to respond to confirmation email & choose a password. After that, log back into the Member Portal.
To complete your purchase, click here and follow the instructions. Your membership discount will be automatically applied.

NON-MEMBERS – $20
Click here to register for this class.
If you’re unable to afford this, contact tes@tes.org & we’ll do our best to find a way to help you attend this class.

The DatingKinky platform is supported by multiple browsers, but if you are having any technical difficulties please try a different browser, as certain settings may interfere. Note that this link will only be active during scheduled meeting times.
You are welcome to participate as actively as you are comfortable. By default, users’ cameras and microphones will be switched off, and you may simply watch passively or participate solely by text in the chat box if you are uncomfortable being seen or heard. Please note that while we have selected this platform to be as private as possible while maintaining sufficient ease of use for participants, no online platform is ever fully secure. While all regular TES rules regarding privacy remain in effect, and anyone caught violating these rules will be subject to consequences (please see our Online Meeting Terms of Service), we advise participants to treat online events as though the event is being recorded by a third party. For more information on protecting your online privacy, please see our online privacy guide.

ONLINE - Meet the Candidates for TES Board of Directors
2022-10-11 19:00 - 22:00
Come join us and meet the candidates for this year’s TES elections in this live online town hall. This is your opportunity to ask questions and find out where each candidate stands on the important issues affecting TES and the greater kink scene in 2020. The link to participate will be sent in your TES email newsletter closer to the event date.
Your link to join will be in your member email newsletter, so check your spam folder.

No additional downloads or software required! This platform is supported by multiple browsers, but if you are having any technical difficulties please try a different browser, as certain settings may interfere. Note that this link will only be active during scheduled meeting times.
You are welcome to participate as actively as you are comfortable. By default, users’ cameras and microphones will be switched off, and you may simply watch passively or participate solely by text in the chat box if you are uncomfortable being seen or heard. Please note that while we have selected this platform to be as private as possible while maintaining sufficient ease of use for participants, no online platform is ever fully secure. While all regular TES rules regarding privacy remain in effect, and anyone caught violating these rules will be subject to consequences (please see our Online Meeting Terms of Service), we advise participants to treat online events as though the event is being recorded by a third party. For more information on protecting your online privacy, please see our online privacy guide.

ONLINE - Companion Service with InquisitiveElle
2022-10-18 19:00 - 22:00
Companionship, how one accompanies another, can be a wonderful addition to the service tasks one might provide or receive. While often discussed as a feature of service relationships, this class gives companion service its full focus. Through stories and maybe a few laughs, InquisitiveElle shares his experiences in negotiating, developing, and addressing struggles in companion service. Come learn some ideas and tools for intentionally building connection in the relationships you have or would like to create.
InquisitiveElle (he/they/she) has been active in BDSM and kink communities since 2016. Elle is an avid volunteer both at his home base in Albany, NY, as well as in virtual spaces. Elle is passionate about service, negotiation, communication, and connection. Elle is excited to offer a collaborative environment to share experiences and learn together.
To register:
MEMBERS -$10

Create a Member Portal account using the same email address used when you purchased your membership. (Email membership@tes.org if you have forgotten the one you used when registering for TES.) Be sure to respond to respond to confirmation email & choose a password. After that, log back into the Member Portal.
To complete your purchase, click here and follow the instructions. Your membership discount will be automatically applied.

NON-MEMBERS – $20
Click here to register for this class.
Once you register, you’ll receive the link to the class approximately 15 – 20 minutes before it starts.
REGISTRATION CLOSES 30 MINUTES BEFORE CLASS. ALL QUESTIONS TO MEMBERSHIP@TES.ORG
If you’re unable to afford this, contact tes@tes.org & we’ll do our best to find a way to help you attend this class.

The DatingKinky platform is supported by multiple browsers, but if you are having any technical difficulties please try a different browser, as certain settings may interfere. Note that this link will only be active during scheduled meeting times.
You are welcome to participate as actively as you are comfortable. By default, users’ cameras and microphones will be switched off, and you may simply watch passively or participate solely by text in the chat box if you are uncomfortable being seen or heard. Please note that while we have selected this platform to be as private as possible while maintaining sufficient ease of use for participants, no online platform is ever fully secure. While all regular TES rules regarding privacy remain in effect, and anyone caught violating these rules will be subject to consequences (please see our Online Meeting Terms of Service), we advise participants to treat online events as though the event is being recorded by a third party. For more information on protecting your online privacy, please see our online privacy guide.

ONLINE - TES 2022 Board of Directors Elections & Membership Meeting
2022-10-25 19:00 - 22:00
This meeting is held twice yearly for the purpose of conducting official organization business and giving the membership an opportunity to be directly involved in that process. The fall meeting, usually held in October, is also when officers for the organization are elected. All members in good standing are entitled to attend and participate in all of these functions. The link to participate will be sent in your TES email newsletter closer to the event date.

No additional downloads or software required! This platform is supported by multiple browsers, but if you are having any technical difficulties please try a different browser, as certain settings may interfere. Note that this link will only be active during scheduled meeting times.
You are welcome to participate as actively as you are comfortable. By default, users’ cameras and microphones will be switched off, and you may simply watch passively or participate solely by text in the chat box if you are uncomfortable being seen or heard. Please note that while we have selected this platform to be as private as possible while maintaining sufficient ease of use for participants, no online platform is ever fully secure. While all regular TES rules regarding privacy remain in effect, and anyone caught violating these rules will be subject to consequences (please see our Online Meeting Terms of Service), we advise participants to treat online events as though the event is being recorded by a third party. For more information on protecting your online privacy, please see our online privacy guide.

ONLINE - Digital Privacy with JoeCool
2022-11-01 19:00 - 23:00
A discussion of the intersection of our lives, laws, and technology. Topics covered will include email, passwords, selfies, and more! Class includes both practical advice, policy, and resources for further reading.
Joe Cool is a queer, polyamorous switch who enjoys a variety of kinky activities. He’s been a happy, occasionally active member of the DC/Baltimore scene for almost a decade. His passions include service, leather, and puns, and he’s a proud member of the Pittsburgh Queer Leather Family (PQLF)
To register:
MEMBERS -$10

Create a Member Portal account using the same email address used when you purchased your membership. (Email membership@tes.org if you have forgotten the one you used when registering for TES.) Be sure to respond to respond to confirmation email & choose a password. After that, log back into the Member Portal.
To complete your purchase, return to this FL event page, click here and follow the instructions. Your membership discount will be automatically applied.

NON-MEMBERS – $20
Click here to register for this class.
Once you register, you’ll receive the link to the class approximately 15 – 20 minutes before it starts.
REGISTRATION CLOSES 30 MINUTES BEFORE CLASS. ALL QUESTIONS TO MEMBERSHIP@TES.ORG
If you’re unable to afford this, contact tes@tes.org & we’ll do our best to find a way to help you attend this class.

The DatingKinky platform is supported by multiple browsers, but if you are having any technical difficulties please try a different browser, as certain settings may interfere. Note that this link will only be active during scheduled meeting times.
You are welcome to participate as actively as you are comfortable. By default, users’ cameras and microphones will be switched off, and you may simply watch passively or participate solely by text in the chat box if you are uncomfortable being seen or heard. Please note that while we have selected this platform to be as private as possible while maintaining sufficient ease of use for participants, no online platform is ever fully secure. While all regular TES rules regarding privacy remain in effect, and anyone caught violating these rules will be subject to consequences (please see our Online Meeting Terms of Service), we advise participants to treat online events as though the event is being recorded by a third party. For more information on protecting your online privacy, please see our online privacy guide.

ONLINE - Productivity for Service with HannahTheScribe
2022-11-08 19:00 - 22:00
In this class, we’ll cover how to build a customizable productivity system from your core values up. We’ll cover creating your task/to do generation system from values to spheres of life to projects and goals to habits and events, reviewing your progress, and assorted productivity tips and tricks, especially geared at service oriented s-types who may have an atypical schedule. We’ll wrap up with a brief Q+A session.
I’m a 24/7 high protocol service slave/housewife to my wonderful Mistress and wife. I’m monogamous to her and she has my irrevocable consent. I live with her and our two adorable cats.
To register:
MEMBERS -$10

Create a Member Portal account using the same email address used when you purchased your membership. (Email membership@tes.org if you have forgotten the one you used when registering for TES.) Be sure to respond to respond to confirmation email & choose a password. After that, log back into the Member Portal.
To complete your purchase, click on this link and follow the instructions. Your membership discount will be automatically applied.

NON-MEMBERS – $20
Click here to register for this class.
Once you register, you’ll receive the link to the class approximately 15 – 20 minutes before it starts.
REGISTRATION CLOSES 30 MINUTES BEFORE CLASS. ALL QUESTIONS TO MEMBERSHIP@TES.ORG
If you’re unable to afford this, contact tes@tes.org & we’ll do our best to find a way to help you attend this class.

The DatingKinky platform is supported by multiple browsers, but if you are having any technical difficulties please try a different browser, as certain settings may interfere. Note that this link will only be active during scheduled meeting times.
You are welcome to participate as actively as you are comfortable. By default, users’ cameras and microphones will be switched off, and you may simply watch passively or participate solely by text in the chat box if you are uncomfortable being seen or heard. Please note that while we have selected this platform to be as private as possible while maintaining sufficient ease of use for participants, no online platform is ever fully secure. While all regular TES rules regarding privacy remain in effect, and anyone caught violating these rules will be subject to consequences (please see our Online Meeting Terms of Service), we advise participants to treat online events as though the event is being recorded by a third party. For more information on protecting your online privacy, please see our online privacy guide.

ONLINE - Trials & Tribulations of Dating While Poly with MasterLolaSmiles
2022-11-15 19:00 - 22:00
I am a married poly dominant leather female and I’ll be talking about the challenges faced when trying to date. Will discuss what polyamory is, the misconceptions people have about what being poly is, the stigma of what society sees married people dating and how to cope with the pitfalls of it all.
Ms. Lola Smiles is a Latina Femdom Fatale from Long Island, NY who has been in the lifestyle for over 25 years – a BDSM educator & presenter and event promoter for 8 years. As a presenter/educator Ms Lola Smiles has presented on topics including Consent & Negotiations, Scene Etiquette, Vetting, CBT, Impact Play, Wax Play, Breath Play, Dungeon Monitors (DM) Training, to name a few. She has also participated and moderated a variety of panels on dominance and People of Color (POC) in the Scene. Ms. Lola has been honored to present for Sanctuary Events, Avant-Garde, Pangea, TES, SCK, LILNR-LICK, The Steam Factory, EPIC, Weekend Reunion, Feel My Breath, DomCon LA, LEASH Weekend, Jax Fet Fest, Dating Kinky and ONYX Pearls NE. Ms. Lola founded SCK Events and House of SCK. SCK Events hosts munches and a variety of upscale events and parties on LI & NYC. Adapting to the post COVID world, Ms Lola & SCK host the F#@k You Coronavirus Virtual Events. SCK’s mantra is – Corrupting the World one vanilla at a time.®
To register:
MEMBERS -$10

Create a Member Portal account using the same email address used when you purchased your membership. (Email membership@tes.org if you have forgotten the one you used when registering for TES.) Be sure to respond to respond to confirmation email & choose a password. After that, log back into the Member Portal.
To complete your purchase, click on this link and follow the instructions. Your membership discount will be automatically applied.

NON-MEMBERS – $20
Click here register for this class.
Once you register, you’ll receive the link to the class approximately 15 – 20 minutes before it starts.
REGISTRATION CLOSES 30 MINUTES BEFORE CLASS. ALL QUESTIONS TO MEMBERSHIP@TES.ORG
If you’re unable to afford this, contact tes@tes.org & we’ll do our best to find a way to help you attend this class.

The DatingKinky platform is supported by multiple browsers, but if you are having any technical difficulties please try a different browser, as certain settings may interfere. Note that this link will only be active during scheduled meeting times.
You are welcome to participate as actively as you are comfortable. By default, users’ cameras and microphones will be switched off, and you may simply watch passively or participate solely by text in the chat box if you are uncomfortable being seen or heard. Please note that while we have selected this platform to be as private as possible while maintaining sufficient ease of use for participants, no online platform is ever fully secure. While all regular TES rules regarding privacy remain in effect, and anyone caught violating these rules will be subject to consequences (please see our Online Meeting Terms of Service), we advise participants to treat online events as though the event is being recorded by a third party. For more information on protecting your online privacy, please see our online privacy guide.

ONLINE - Be-Weave Me, I Don't Need a Knot! with CTW
2022-11-29 19:00 - 22:00
No apologies for the pun, but be-weave it or not – learning to weave can be a great introduction to rope bondage. Weave patterns create the basis for many aesthetic and functional harnesses. And no knots are required! Attendees of this introductory rope class will learn to weave patterns for hand bondage, foot bondage, and a hip harness. Viewers should have two to three standard lengths of rope (26-30 feet) and one to two half length of rope (13-15 feet) to tie along, plus have an emergency cutting tool on hand. Self-tiers are recommended to have a spotter or emergency exit plan in place.
Bio:
Cecilia T. Winters (‘CTW’ – She/Her) is your typical queer Millennial. Born at the start of the internet age, she has always benefited from information at her fingertips. She identifies as bisexual and ethically non-monogamous. She has served as a dungeon and playspace monitor, a demo top for a number of local and national kink events, and as a presenter. She enjoys giving first suspensions to people new to being tied in rope; suspending willing victims for long, sadistic scenes; and suspending herself with rope and chain. Her non-kink interests include reading, making lists, watching early 2000s crime dramas, and learning about ancient human cultures. Together with her partner Fischer Garrett (‘Mister’ – He/Him), they teach chain bondage. Check out their website (www.theartofchain.com) for more information about their upcoming book, The Art of Chain: A Guide to Steel Restraint.

To register:
MEMBERS -$10

Create a Member Portal account using the same email address used when you purchased your membership. (Email membership@tes.org if you have forgotten the one you used when registering for TES.) Be sure to respond to confirmation email & choose a password. After that, log back into the Member Portal.
To complete your purchase, return to this FL event page, click here and follow the instructions. Your membership discount will be automatically applied.

NON-MEMBERS – $20
Click here to register for this class.

The DatingKinky platform is supported by multiple browsers, but if you are having any technical difficulties please try a different browser, as certain settings may interfere. Note that this link will only be active during scheduled meeting times.
You are welcome to participate as actively as you are comfortable. By default, users’ cameras and microphones will be switched off, and you may simply watch passively or participate solely by text in the chat box if you are uncomfortable being seen or heard. Please note that while we have selected this platform to be as private as possible while maintaining sufficient ease of use for participants, no online platform is ever fully secure. While all regular TES rules regarding privacy remain in effect, and anyone caught violating these rules will be subject to consequences (please see our Online Meeting Terms of Service), we advise participants to treat online events as though the event is being recorded by a third party. For more information on protecting your online privacy, please see our online privacy guide.

ONLINE - TES presents - Beautifully Bruised Booties (and Other Bits) with Billy Lore (formerly @BexTalksSex) and Dee Darkholme
2022-12-06 19:00 - 22:00
Whether you’re cruisin’ for a bruisin’ or looking to pull your favorite little slut over your knee for a spanking – preparing for an impact scene from either side of the slash can be intimidating. Luckily, this workshop covers everything you need to know to get started! From bare hands to paddles and from floggers to canes we’ll be discussing the many tools at your disposal and the things to consider when building up your collection. Then we’ll move on to discussing safety tips, and the skills that go into successfully planning, negotiating, and executing your scenes.
We’ll cover essential skills for tops, such as how and where to hit someone, rhythm and pacing, interpreting your bottom’s reactions, and the art of leaving marks (or not!). We’ll also dig into pain management tools, subspace, bruise aftercare, and other essential skills every masochist should know. Finally, we’ll wrap it all up with a live demo where you can see how everything we discussed comes together while I dole out some “intense sensation” to my eager co-presenter!

To register:
MEMBERS -$10

Create a Member Portal account using the same email address used when you purchased your membership. (Email membership@tes.org if you have forgotten the one you used when registering for TES.) Be sure to respond to confirmation email & choose a password. After that, log back into the Member Portal.
To complete your purchase, click here and follow the instructions. Your membership discount will be automatically applied.

NON-MEMBERS – $20
Click here to register for this class.
If you’re unable to afford this, contact tes@tes.org & we’ll do our best to find a way to help you attend this class.

The DatingKinky platform is supported by multiple browsers, but if you are having any technical difficulties please try a different browser, as certain settings may interfere. Note that this link will only be active during scheduled meeting times.
You are welcome to participate as actively as you are comfortable. By default, users’ cameras and microphones will be switched off, and you may simply watch passively or participate solely by text in the chat box if you are uncomfortable being seen or heard. Please note that while we have selected this platform to be as private as possible while maintaining sufficient ease of use for participants, no online platform is ever fully secure. While all regular TES rules regarding privacy remain in effect, and anyone caught violating these rules will be subject to consequences (please see our Online Meeting Terms of Service), we advise participants to treat online events as though the event is being recorded by a third party. For more information on protecting your online privacy, please see our online privacy guide.

ONLINE - TES presents - Trust is it just another dirty word? with EdgarAPoe & PoesLittleRaven
2022-12-13 19:00 - 22:00
Where do Trust issues come from? How do we work to resolve them?
Sue Edgar and slave Raven were the Northeast Master/slave 2019 titleholders. T/they run MAst Clifton, are a 24/7 non-cohabitation M/s couple.

To register:
MEMBERS -$10

Create a Member Portal account using the same email address used when you purchased your membership. (Email membership@tes.org if you have forgotten the one you used when registering for TES.) Be sure to respond to confirmation email & choose a password. After that, log back into the Member Portal.
To complete your purchase, click here and follow the instructions. Your membership discount will be automatically applied.

NON-MEMBERS – $20
Click here to register for this class.
If you’re unable to afford this, contact tes@tes.org & we’ll do our best to find a way to help you attend this class.

The DatingKinky platform is supported by multiple browsers, but if you are having any technical difficulties please try a different browser, as certain settings may interfere. Note that this link will only be active during scheduled meeting times.
You are welcome to participate as actively as you are comfortable. By default, users’ cameras and microphones will be switched off, and you may simply watch passively or participate solely by text in the chat box if you are uncomfortable being seen or heard. Please note that while we have selected this platform to be as private as possible while maintaining sufficient ease of use for participants, no online platform is ever fully secure. While all regular TES rules regarding privacy remain in effect, and anyone caught violating these rules will be subject to consequences (please see our Online Meeting Terms of Service), we advise participants to treat online events as though the event is being recorded by a third party. For more information on protecting your online privacy, please see our online privacy guide.

TES Final Thursday Munch: Too Much Cheese Edition
2022-12-29 19:30 - 22:00
What do you do when it’s not quite New Year’s and you’re midway through the holiday season? Why not get a head start on next year’s Naughty List and join TES at our monthly munch? Whether you’re new to the scene, an old friend, or just passing through, we’re excited to see you!

Come join us!
Thursday, December 29th, at 7:30pm
at the
Skylight Diner
402 W 34th St. (@ 9th Ave)
New York, NY 10001
Our hosts Zero and tickleobject will be there to welcome you and answer any questions. There is no cost to attend this event beyond paying for the food you order (and please tip your server well!).
The TES Final Thursday Munch is our monthly gathering on the last Thursday of each month. It’s a great opportunity to meet and hangout with your fellow kinksters in a low-key, low pressure environment. It is open to all members of the community in good standing, and those who are new to the scene are especially encouraged to attend. There is no requirement to RSVP ahead of time, and you do not need to be a TES member to attend.
Please note that we highly encourage all attendees to be vaccinated and up-to-date against Covid. However, this event is hosted at a diner that is open to other patrons, and we cannot control for anything beyond what the restaurant requires. Please assess your own risk profiles and act accordingly. We will be providing a discrete option for contact tracing, which is highly encouraged.

ONLINE - Debunking Femdom Myths & Building Fulfilling Femdom Realities with AbundantMischief
2023-01-03 19:00 - 22:00
Do you feel drawn to femdom, but pressured to conform to archetypes portrayed in kinky media? Do you ever wonder if there’s a way to explore femdom that affirms your unique identity and desires?
This class will break down femdom stereotypes, help you find your own personalized approach to femdom instead, and provide tools for developing your own authentic femdom dynamics. I will also share tips for cultivating and maintaining a wide variety of femdom D/s dynamics, drawn from my years of experience leading dynamics ranging from short-term play and casual platonic service to 24/7 TPE.
AbundantMischief is a toppy switch, gleeful sadomasochist, and enthusiastic boot fetishist. She has over 12 years of experience as a member of the kink community, as well as over 2 decades of experience as a professional dancer, circus artist, and performing arts educator. She has been an informal mentor to kinksters over the years across a wide variety of interests, as well as a long-standing member of Hitchin’ Bitches Boston and frequent attendee of rope and kink events.
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To register:
MEMBERS -$10

Create a Member Portal account using the same email address used when you purchased your membership. (Email membership@tes.org if you have forgotten the one you used when registering for TES.) Be sure to respond to confirmation email & choose a password. After that, log back into the Member Portal.
To complete your purchase, click on this link and follow the instructions. Your membership discount will be automatically applied.

NON-MEMBERS – $20
Click here register for this class.
If you’re unable to afford this, contact tes@tes.org & we’ll do our best to find a way to help you attend this class.
Registration closes 6:30pm Tuesday night

The DatingKinky platform is supported by multiple browsers, but if you are having any technical difficulties please try a different browser, as certain settings may interfere. Note that this link will only be active during scheduled meeting times.
You are welcome to participate as actively as you are comfortable. By default, users’ cameras and microphones will be switched off, and you may simply watch passively or participate solely by text in the chat box if you are uncomfortable being seen or heard. Please note that while we have selected this platform to be as private as possible while maintaining sufficient ease of use for participants, no online platform is ever fully secure. While all regular TES rules regarding privacy remain in effect, and anyone caught violating these rules will be subject to consequences (please see our Online Meeting Terms of Service), we advise participants to treat online events as though the event is being recorded by a third party. For more information on protecting your online privacy, please see our online privacy guide.

ONLINE - How To Dress For Kink Events & Finding Your Personal Style with AbundantMischief
2023-01-10 19:00 - 22:00
Getting ready to go to your first play party, but have no idea what to wear? Feeling confused by dungeon dress codes? Been in the scene for a while, but none of your outfits feel quite like “you”?
This class will include:
*How to understand and navigate party dress codes
*How to cultivate your own unique personal style, regardless of size, age, gender identity, or kink identity
*How to plan party outfits for particular environments and play possibilities
*How to build a kink wardrobe without breaking the bank
AbundantMischief is a toppy switch, gleeful sadomasochist, and enthusiastic boot fetishist. She has over 12 years of experience as a member of the kink community, as well as over 2 decades of experience as a professional dancer, circus artist, and performing arts educator. She has been an informal mentor to kinksters over the years across a wide variety of interests, as well as a long-standing member of Hitchin’ Bitches Boston and frequent attendee of rope and kink events throughout the New England area.
To register:
MEMBERS -$10

Create a Member Portal account using the same email address used when you purchased your membership. (Email membership@tes.org if you have forgotten the one you used when registering for TES.) Be sure to respond to the confirmation email & choose a password. After that, log back into the Member Portal.
To complete your purchase, click on this link and follow the instructions. Your membership discount will be automatically applied.

NON-MEMBERS – $20
Click here to register for this class.
Registration closes 6:30pm Tuesday night.
The DatingKinky platform is supported by multiple browsers, but if you are having any technical difficulties please try a different browser, as certain settings may interfere. Note that this link will only be active during scheduled meeting times.
You are welcome to participate as actively as you are comfortable. By default, users’ cameras and microphones will be switched off, and you may simply watch passively or participate solely by text in the chat box if you are uncomfortable being seen or heard. Please note that while we have selected this platform to be as private as possible while maintaining sufficient ease of use for participants, no online platform is ever fully secure. While all regular TES rules regarding privacy remain in effect, and anyone caught violating these rules will be subject to consequences (please see our Online Meeting Terms of Service), we advise participants to treat online events as though the event is being recorded by a third party. For more information on protecting your online privacy, please see our online privacy guide.

ONLINE - The Masochist Mantra with DrPhenixPhD
2023-01-17 19:00 - 22:00
The masochist mantras: tips to process pain better:
Do you have the desire to improve how to process pain to enjoy that scene even more or enjoy it longer? Do you want to be able to adjust to different types of play, toys, and tops? Within my own growth as a masochist, I have collected a series of tips and techniques that have helped me process more pain, enjoy longer scenes, and adjust to different types of play. Through this class, I will share what I found and how I use these tips to increase my pleasure. It may not make a masochist out of you, but it just might be a step in the right direction.
Hi, I am DrPhenix, reborn out of the ashes of hell with tears that have the power to heal. They say to talk about not only what you know but what you are passionate about. I have been in the BDSM lifestyle for Nearly 15 years, both in private and in the public community. I am passionate about this community and doing what I can to educate and support those that feel comfortable or want to explore the s-side of the slash. I enjoy talking and educating others in areas that I am passionate about, including bottoming as a masochist, submission, and bootblacking. Over the last couple of years, I have really grown in the lifestyle. I have attended conferences, discussions, and help support s-types through discussions and support meetings. This expanded my passions to include educating and supporting the larger BDSM community.

To register:
MEMBERS -$10

Create a Member Portal account using the same email address used when you purchased your membership. (Email membership@tes.org if you have forgotten the one you used when registering for TES.) Be sure to respond to confirmation email & choose a password. After that, log back into the Member Portal.
To complete your purchase, click here and follow the instructions. Your membership discount will be automatically applied.

NON-MEMBERS – $20
Click here to register for this class.
If you’re unable to afford this, contact tes@tes.org & we’ll do our best to find a way to help you attend this class.

The DatingKinky platform is supported by multiple browsers, but if you are having any technical difficulties please try a different browser, as certain settings may interfere. Note that this link will only be active during scheduled meeting times.
You are welcome to participate as actively as you are comfortable. By default, users’ cameras and microphones will be switched off, and you may simply watch passively or participate solely by text in the chat box if you are uncomfortable being seen or heard. Please note that while we have selected this platform to be as private as possible while maintaining sufficient ease of use for participants, no online platform is ever fully secure. While all regular TES rules regarding privacy remain in effect, and anyone caught violating these rules will be subject to consequences (please see our Online Meeting Terms of Service), we advise participants to treat online events as though the event is being recorded by a third party. For more information on protecting your online privacy, please see our online privacy guide.

ONLINE - How to Succeed at an Event 101 with AuralFixation87 and Odile
2023-01-24 19:00 - 22:00
Never set foot inside a play space? Haven’t been to a munch? Want to know a little about the weird, wild and sexy things you might find in there? Looking for some guidance on how to approach someone in the dungeon – whether for play or just to tell them how cool their flogger is? This class will cover the basics of what to expect in play spaces and the importance of pre-play negotiations.
To register:
MEMBERS -$10

Create a Member Portal account using the same email address used when you purchased your membership. (Email membership@tes.org if you have forgotten the one you used when registering for TES.) Be sure to respond to respond to confirmation email & choose a password. After that, log back into the Member Portal.
To complete your purchase, click on this link and follow the instructions. Your membership discount will be automatically applied.

NON-MEMBERS – $20
Click here to register for this class.
If you’re unable to afford this, contact tes@tes.org & we’ll do our best to find a way to help you attend this class.

The DatingKinky platform is supported by multiple browsers, but if you are having any technical difficulties please try a different browser, as certain settings may interfere. Note that this link will only be active during scheduled meeting times.
You are welcome to participate as actively as you are comfortable. By default, users’ cameras and microphones will be switched off, and you may simply watch passively or participate solely by text in the chat box if you are uncomfortable being seen or heard. Please note that while we have selected this platform to be as private as possible while maintaining sufficient ease of use for participants, no online platform is ever fully secure. While all regular TES rules regarding privacy remain in effect, and anyone caught violating these rules will be subject to consequences (please see our Online Meeting Terms of Service), we advise participants to treat online events as though the event is being recorded by a third party. For more information on protecting your online privacy, please see our online privacy guide.

TES Final Thursday Munch: Dead of Winter Edition
2023-01-26 19:30 - 22:00
The days are short, the nights are long, and it’s colder than ice on a nipple? So why not warm up with TES at our monthly munch? Whether you’re new to the scene, an old friend, or just passing through, we’re excited to see you!
Come join us!
Thursday, January 26th, at 7:30pm
at the
Skylight Diner
402 W 34th St. (@ 9th Ave)
New York, NY 10001
Our hosts Zero and tickleobject will be there to welcome you and answer any questions. There is no cost to attend this event beyond paying for the food you order (and please tip your server well!).
The TES Final Thursday Munch is our monthly gathering on the last Thursday of each month. It’s a great opportunity to meet and hangout with your fellow kinksters in a low-key, low pressure environment. It is open to all members of the community in good standing, and those who are new to the scene are especially encouraged to attend. There is no requirement to RSVP ahead of time, and you do not need to be a TES member to attend.
Please note that we highly encourage all attendees to be vaccinated and up-to-date against Covid. However, this event is hosted at a diner that is open to other patrons, and we cannot control for anything beyond what the restaurant requires. Please assess your own risk profiles and act accordingly. We will be providing a discrete option for contact tracing, which is highly encouraged.

ONLINE - Sissy That Walk: Sissification For Newbies with d20domme
2023-01-31 19:00 - 22:00
In this class we’ll explore the concept behind what society defines as a “real man” and how to feel comfortable expressing your sissiness. We’ll cover topics such as discussing it with a partner, general makeup tips, where to shop and how to find others who share your sissy interests. This is a class for individuals who wish to explore their feminine side through cross dressing, makeup and hair transformation, behavior modification, and forced feminization.
d20domme is a Human Behavioral Expert and Erotic Hypnotherapist with more than 15 years in the kinky community as a Lifestyle Female Dominant. She is unapologetically kinky and known as a pint-height, poly(androus), plus-size, POC, 24/7 Femdom who knows what she wants and will use her craft in mindfuckery and persuasive viper tongue to get it. Her current fascinations are CBT, High Protocol, Energy Play, Onychophilia, Sissification & Genderfuckery, Introspective Immersive Role-play and Extreme Edge Play.
Her main kinks are getting her way and normalizing kinky lifestyles across the board. Thus she can often be found writing on her popular kinky living-memoir website “From Mundane To Mistress”, chatting away on podcasts, teaching classes, workshops, demos, or presenting virtually and locally in the Washington, DC area, California, New York, and across the pond in Europe

To register:
MEMBERS -$10

Create a Member Portal account using the same email address used when you purchased your membership. (Email membership@tes.org if you have forgotten the one you used when registering for TES.) Be sure to respond to confirmation email & choose a password. After that, log back into the Member Portal.
To complete your purchase, click on this link and follow the instructions. Your membership discount will be automatically applied.

NON-MEMBERS – $20
Click here register for this class.
If you’re unable to afford this, contact tes@tes.org & we’ll do our best to find a way to help you attend this class.

The DatingKinky platform is supported by multiple browsers, but if you are having any technical difficulties please try a different browser, as certain settings may interfere. Note that this link will only be active during scheduled meeting times.
You are welcome to participate as actively as you are comfortable. By default, users’ cameras and microphones will be switched off, and you may simply watch passively or participate solely by text in the chat box if you are uncomfortable being seen or heard. Please note that while we have selected this platform to be as private as possible while maintaining sufficient ease of use for participants, no online platform is ever fully secure. While all regular TES rules regarding privacy remain in effect, and anyone caught violating these rules will be subject to consequences (please see our Online Meeting Terms of Service), we advise participants to treat online events as though the event is being recorded by a third party. For more information on protecting your online privacy, please see our online privacy guide.

ONLINE - Final Gifts: End of Life Care in a D/s Dynamic with DawnSparkles
2023-02-07 19:00 - 22:00
Life planning is an integral part of a long term D/s or M/s dynamic for many people. One aspect that is often neglected is planning for the end. When we lose a loved one we can find ourselves struggling to plan and organize while simultaneously giving ourselves time to grieve. Losing a D/s partner adds a unique layer of pain on top of grief that many of us are unprepared for.
Dawnsparkles is a death doula/end of life care worker. This class was created with D/s dynamics in mind. Participants will recieve the skills to take end of life care planning into their dynamic so they can make the best decisions for themselves and find ways to end their time together with pride and dignity.

To register:
MEMBERS -$10

Create a Member Portal account using the same email address used when you purchased your membership. (Email membership@tes.org if you have forgotten the one you used when registering for TES.) Be sure to respond to confirmation email & choose a password. After that, log back into the Member Portal.
To complete your purchase, return to this FL event page, click on this link and follow the instructions. Your membership discount will be automatically applied.

NON-MEMBERS – $20
Click here to register for this class.
If you’re unable to afford this, contact tes@tes.org & we’ll do our best to find a way to help you attend this class.

The DatingKinky platform is supported by multiple browsers, but if you are having any technical difficulties please try a different browser, as certain settings may interfere. Note that this link will only be active during scheduled meeting times.
You are welcome to participate as actively as you are comfortable. By default, users’ cameras and microphones will be switched off, and you may simply watch passively or participate solely by text in the chat box if you are uncomfortable being seen or heard. Please note that while we have selected this platform to be as private as possible while maintaining sufficient ease of use for participants, no online platform is ever fully secure. While all regular TES rules regarding privacy remain in effect, and anyone caught violating these rules will be subject to consequences (please see our Online Meeting Terms of Service), we advise participants to treat online events as though the event is being recorded by a third party. For more information on protecting your online privacy, please see our online privacy guide.

ONLINE - Breaking Out; Making Dominance Easier for Womxn* with xSolaris
2023-02-14 19:00 - 22:00
So, you want to try being a Domme**? Or maybe you’re no stranger to the Left-side-of-the-slash, but want to use awareness to take your skills to the next level. Perhaps you’re a Dom and notice a lack of Dommes at events you attend or are a submissive/bottom wondering how to support the FemDom community’s growth. Whatever your interest, join us for a 2-hour-long introduction*** to helping womxn and those socialized as female* explore their Big Letter side(s) comfortably and authentically.
This class is for everyone; those new to kink and the experienced, the 24/7’ers and the occasional dabblers, both the Left and right sides of the slash, and all genders. We will break down what evidence-based practices and research have to lend to these situations in mindful ways that anyone can implement.
Topics include:
Growing Up a Girl — The impact of gender socialization on kink role exploration (including intersectional influences).
Media, Models, and Mistresses — Common messages/stereotypes about womxn, power, sexuality, and kink and common reactions.
Discovering You — Cultivating your authentic Left side as a conscious choice, not a reaction.
Taking Back Your Authentic Power — Exploring practical tips for recognizing and actively receiving power in your everyday life.
The Golden Formula — Practical tips for lowering the barrier of entry, overcoming fears and insecurities, freezing up, setting boundaries, creating scenes, selecting play partners, selecting roles/identities, and building your soft and hard skills.
Where Did All the Domme’s Go? — Tips for communities and those not socialized as womxn on gaining the skills and awareness necessary to make space for Dominant womxn.
Listen Up — Real stories of growth, exploration, and breaking out of social norms to find authenticity and understanding.
Questions may be submitted beforehand to the presenter, and a short Q&A will follow.
*Including trans, nonbinary, genderqueer, gender fluid, gender non-conforming, agender people, etc. In short, anyone who has previously experienced or currently experiences the social phenomenon of “being treated like a girl.”
**Or any other Left-side-of-the-slash role/identity/title.
***Many of these topics are inherently quite complex and nuanced and it is impossible to cover every facet in this limited time. This class will therefore serve as a jumping point for further learning and growth.
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To register:
MEMBERS -$10

Create a Member Portal account using the same email address used when you purchased your membership. (Email membership@tes.org if you have forgotten the one you used when registering for TES.) Be sure to respond to confirmation email & choose a password. After that, log back into the Member Portal.
To complete your purchase, click on this link and follow the instructions. Your membership discount will be automatically applied.

NON-MEMBERS – $20
Click here to register for this class.
If you’re unable to afford this, contact tes@tes.org & we’ll do our best to find a way to help you attend this class.

The DatingKinky platform is supported by multiple browsers, but if you are having any technical difficulties please try a different browser, as certain settings may interfere. Note that this link will only be active during scheduled meeting times.
You are welcome to participate as actively as you are comfortable. By default, users’ cameras and microphones will be switched off, and you may simply watch passively or participate solely by text in the chat box if you are uncomfortable being seen or heard. Please note that while we have selected this platform to be as private as possible while maintaining sufficient ease of use for participants, no online platform is ever fully secure. While all regular TES rules regarding privacy remain in effect, and anyone caught violating these rules will be subject to consequences (please see our Online Meeting Terms of Service), we advise participants to treat online events as though the event is being recorded by a third party. For more information on protecting your online privacy, please see our online privacy guide.

ONLINE - High Heels & Tip-Toes with AbundantMischief
2023-02-21 19:00 - 22:00
Do you love the look of sky-high heels but worry about falling over? Have you been watching your shoe collection gather dust during the pandemic and wondering how to get used to wearing them again? This class will cover how to find a good pair of heels or ballet boots and how to make the shoes you already have more comfortable. I will demonstrate a variety strategies for walking in heels and standing in ballet boots. We will also cover simple exercises you can do to prevent injuries and feel more confident in heels, as well as risk mitigation when combining heels with various kinks. Finally I will share aftercare tips for your feet and legs, both partnered and solo.
AbundantMischief is a toppy switch, gleeful sadomasochist, and enthusiastic boot fetishist. She has over 12 years of experience as a member of the kink community, as well as over 2 decades of experience as a professional dancer, circus artist, and performing arts educator. She has been an informal mentor to kinksters over the years across a wide variety of interests, as well as a long-standing member of Hitchin’ Bitches Boston and frequent attendee of rope and kink events.

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To register:
MEMBERS -$10

Create a Member Portal account using the same email address used when you purchased your membership. (Email membership@tes.org if you have forgotten the one you used when registering for TES.) Be sure to respond to confirmation email & choose a password. After that, log back into the Member Portal.
To complete your purchase, return to this FL event page, click here and follow the instructions. Your membership discount will be automatically applied.

NON-MEMBERS – $20
Click here to register for this class.
If you’re unable to afford this, contact tes@tes.org & we’ll do our best to find a way to help you attend this class.
Registration closes 6:30pm Tuesday night

The DatingKinky platform is supported by multiple browsers, but if you are having any technical difficulties please try a different browser, as certain settings may interfere. Note that this link will only be active during scheduled meeting times.
You are welcome to participate as actively as you are comfortable. By default, users’ cameras and microphones will be switched off, and you may simply watch passively or participate solely by text in the chat box if you are uncomfortable being seen or heard. Please note that while we have selected this platform to be as private as possible while maintaining sufficient ease of use for participants, no online platform is ever fully secure. While all regular TES rules regarding privacy remain in effect, and anyone caught violating these rules will be subject to consequences (please see our Online Meeting Terms of Service), we advise participants to treat online events as though the event is being recorded by a third party. For more information on protecting your online privacy, please see our online privacy guide.

TES Final Thursday Munch: National Banana Bread Day Edition
2023-02-23 19:30 - 22:00
Did you know February 23rd was National Banana Bread Day in the United States? Well neither did we until we Googled it. So why not contemplate the housewarming gift no one asked for with TES at our monthly munch? Whether you’re new to the scene, an old friend, or just passing through, we’re excited to see you!
Come join us!
Thursday, February 23rd, at 7:30pm
at the
Skylight Diner
402 W 34th St. (@ 9th Ave)
New York, NY 10001
Our hosts Chucky and tickleobject will be there to welcome you and answer any questions. There is no cost to attend this event beyond paying for the food you order (and please tip your server well!).
The TES Final Thursday Munch is our monthly gathering on the last Thursday of each month. It’s a great opportunity to meet and hangout with your fellow kinksters in a low-key, low pressure environment. It is open to all members of the community in good standing, and those who are new to the scene are especially encouraged to attend. There is no requirement to RSVP ahead of time, and you do not need to be a TES member to attend.
Please note that we highly encourage all attendees to be vaccinated and up-to-date against Covid. However, this event is hosted at a diner that is open to other patrons, and we cannot control for anything beyond what the restaurant requires. Please assess your own risk profiles and act accordingly. We will be providing a discrete option for contact tracing, which is highly encouraged.

ONLINE - Pretty Needles for the Risk Averse with ThistaMinai
2023-02-28 19:00 - 22:00
Needle play offers fabulous opportunities for aesthetic creativity, but each technique comes with its own considerations for safety. This class explores how to create fabulous art with string, feathers, beads, and more, all while minimizing health risks. Come learn how to create beautiful needle art within a conservative risk profile.
Thista Minai is an educator, author, priestess, ordeal facilitator, and gleeful sadist. She uses her professional background in education to create high quality classes on a wide variety of topics, including sacred sexuality, the ordeal path, catharsis, impact, and needle play. With more than fifteen years of experience in designing and conducting rituals, Thista travels the world championing the value of spirituality and empowerment in kink and BDSM.

To register:
MEMBERS -$10

Create a Member Portal account using the same email address used when you purchased your membership. (Email membership@tes.org if you have forgotten the one you used when registering for TES.) Be sure to respond to confirmation email & choose a password. After that, log back into the Member Portal.
To complete your purchase, click on this link and follow the instructions. Your membership discount will be automatically applied.

NON-MEMBERS – $20
Click here to register for this class.
If you’re unable to afford this, contact tes@tes.org & we’ll do our best to find a way to help you attend this class.

The DatingKinky platform is supported by multiple browsers, but if you are having any technical difficulties please try a different browser, as certain settings may interfere. Note that this link will only be active during scheduled meeting times.
You are welcome to participate as actively as you are comfortable. By default, users’ cameras and microphones will be switched off, and you may simply watch passively or participate solely by text in the chat box if you are uncomfortable being seen or heard. Please note that while we have selected this platform to be as private as possible while maintaining sufficient ease of use for participants, no online platform is ever fully secure. While all regular TES rules regarding privacy remain in effect, and anyone caught violating these rules will be subject to consequences (please see our Online Meeting Terms of Service), we advise participants to treat online events as though the event is being recorded by a third party. For more information on protecting your online privacy, please see our online privacy guide.

ONLINE - Parenting, Power and Play: The Struggle is Real! with TeamSoup
2023-03-07 19:00 - 22:00
Life in the kink community is so exciting, liberating and sexy. But parents can find the kink world more challenging to navigate.
Sometimes we feel spread thin emotionally… sometimes we struggle to balance our schedules so that we can meet all of our needs and obligations… sometimes we feel isolated from the freedoms enjoyed by kinksters who aren’t parents… and sometimes we have to figure out how to answer tough questions. This isn’t easy!
This discussion-based class will touch on a variety of topics that parents may be struggling with. Some of the possible topics will include:
• How to handle the emotional balance of exploring kink while also being a parent. It can be tough to move between the two aspects of your life!
• How to balance relationship dynamics (D/s, M/s) with parenting. Can we maintain our relationship model in the home while running a healthy family? Is this possible?
• How to handle visible marks that may be seen by children.
• Can we raise healthy kids within a home that has poly dynamics?
• What happens if our children stumble across our online presence?
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To register:
MEMBERS -$10

Create a Member Portal account using the same email address used when you purchased your membership. (Email membership@tes.org if you have forgotten the one you used when registering for TES.) Be sure to respond to confirmation email & choose a password. After that, log back into the Member Portal.
To complete your purchase, click on this link and follow the instructions. Your membership discount will be automatically applied.

NON-MEMBERS – $20
Click here to register for this class.
If you’re unable to afford this, contact tes@tes.org & we’ll do our best to find a way to help you attend this class.
Registration closes 6:30pm Tuesday night

The DatingKinky platform is supported by multiple browsers, but if you are having any technical difficulties please try a different browser, as certain settings may interfere. Note that this link will only be active during scheduled meeting times.
You are welcome to participate as actively as you are comfortable. By default, users’ cameras and microphones will be switched off, and you may simply watch passively or participate solely by text in the chat box if you are uncomfortable being seen or heard. Please note that while we have selected this platform to be as private as possible while maintaining sufficient ease of use for participants, no online platform is ever fully secure. While all regular TES rules regarding privacy remain in effect, and anyone caught violating these rules will be subject to consequences (please see our Online Meeting Terms of Service), we advise participants to treat online events as though the event is being recorded by a third party. For more information on protecting your online privacy, please see our online privacy guide.

ONLINE - Chain Chest Harnesses from Functional to Fancy with CTW & Mister
2023-03-14 19:00 - 22:00
Taking a deeper dive into chain bondage harness design and handling, this demonstration-based class will focus on building chain harnesses for the upper body and torso. We will show some different chain chest harnesses, and discuss and demonstrate some useful modifications including lower wrap placements and shoulder straps. This workshop is considered intermediate level, but chain bondage beginners are welcome to watch and ask questions!
Fischer Garrett (‘Mister’ – He/Him) is a bisexual, polyamorous top. His time spent in the lifestyle has led him through a journey of self discovery, from once being totally monogamous to being a relationship anarchist; from wanting nothing to do with bondage to developing a way to practice bondage in a relatively unperformed and under-documented fashion. In the past several years he has volunteered for larger kink events as a member of a consent incident response team, a dungeon/playspace monitor, and as a presenter. He is a huge fan of costumes and masks, and it is not unusual to know that he is around but often in clever and sometimes strange disguises.
Cecilia T. Winters (‘CTW’ – She/Her) is your typical queer Millennial. Born at the start of the internet age, she has always benefited from information at her fingertips. She identifies as bisexual and ethically non-monogamous. She has served as a dungeon and playspace monitor, a demo top for a number of local and national kink events, and as a presenter. She enjoys giving first suspensions to people new to being tied in rope; suspending willing victims for long, sadistic scenes; and suspending herself with rope and chain. Her non-kink interests include reading, making lists, watching early 2000s crime dramas, and learning about ancient human cultures.
Together, Fischer and Cecilia are authors of the book, The Art of Chain: A Guide to Steel Restraint (2022). www.theartofchain.com”

To register:
MEMBERS -$10

Create a Member Portal account using the same email address used when you purchased your membership. (Email membership@tes.org if you have forgotten the one you used when registering for TES.) Be sure to respond to confirmation email & choose a password. After that, log back into the Member Portal.
To complete your purchase, click on this link and follow the instructions. Your membership discount will be automatically applied.

NON-MEMBERS – $20
Click here to register for this class.

The DatingKinky platform is supported by multiple browsers, but if you are having any technical difficulties please try a different browser, as certain settings may interfere. Note that this link will only be active during scheduled meeting times.
You are welcome to participate as actively as you are comfortable. By default, users’ cameras and microphones will be switched off, and you may simply watch passively or participate solely by text in the chat box if you are uncomfortable being seen or heard. Please note that while we have selected this platform to be as private as possible while maintaining sufficient ease of use for participants, no online platform is ever fully secure. While all regular TES rules regarding privacy remain in effect, and anyone caught violating these rules will be subject to consequences (please see our Online Meeting Terms of Service), we advise participants to treat online events as though the event is being recorded by a third party. For more information on protecting your online privacy, please see our online privacy guide.

ONLINE - Pervertables for Poor Perves with wickedimp
2023-03-21 19:00 - 22:00
Ever gotten all the way to the event and realized you forgot your impact bag? Too poor to afford high end toys, but still want to give/receive pain, sensation, and more? This is the class for you! WickedImp is a broke sadomasochist with a love for pain and sensations who got into pervertables out of necessity, but has never looked back. They have been experimenting with making and perverting their own toys since they joined the lifestyle 2 years ago, and their creations range from the conventional (chopstick nipple clamps) to the absurd (denim dragon tail whips). Come join Imp for this class on how to make random things in your house, and the dollar store down the street, strike fear/envy into the hearts of your friends and bottoms.
WickedImp is a sadomasochistic switch with a love for the absurd and crafty. When they aren’t dangling in ropes or beating their friends, Imp enjoys long walks and TTRPGs!

To register:
MEMBERS -$10

Create a Member Portal account using the same email address used when you purchased your membership. (Email membership@tes.org if you have forgotten the one you used when registering for TES.) Be sure to respond to confirmation email & choose a password. After that, log back into the Member Portal.
To complete your purchase, click here and follow the instructions. Your membership discount will be automatically applied.

NON-MEMBERS – $20
Click here to register for this class.
If you’re unable to afford this, contact tes@tes.org & we’ll do our best to find a way to help you attend this class.

The DatingKinky platform is supported by multiple browsers, but if you are having any technical difficulties please try a different browser, as certain settings may interfere. Note that this link will only be active during scheduled meeting times.
You are welcome to participate as actively as you are comfortable. By default, users’ cameras and microphones will be switched off, and you may simply watch passively or participate solely by text in the chat box if you are uncomfortable being seen or heard. Please note that while we have selected this platform to be as private as possible while maintaining sufficient ease of use for participants, no online platform is ever fully secure. While all regular TES rules regarding privacy remain in effect, and anyone caught violating these rules will be subject to consequences (please see our Online Meeting Terms of Service), we advise participants to treat online events as though the event is being recorded by a third party. For more information on protecting your online privacy, please see our online privacy guide.

ONLINE - Pet Play 101 with pistachiopup
2023-03-28 19:00 - 22:00
Join Pistachio for a beginners guide on getting into pet play! This class will be going over the basics of pet play such as getting into a head space, where to find gear, and where to find you local pet play community.
Pistachio has been in the pet play and kink scene for over five years. He currently is the president of LI-PAH (Long Island Pets and Handlers) where he helps organize events for his local pet play community. Pistachio has also done classes for those new or curious about pet play, helping them learn more about the community.

To register:
MEMBERS -$10

Create a Member Portal account using the same email address used when you purchased your membership. (Email membership@tes.org if you have forgotten the one you used when registering for TES.) Be sure to respond to confirmation email & choose a password. After that, log back into the Member Portal.
To complete your purchase, click here and follow the instructions. Your membership discount will be automatically applied.

NON-MEMBERS – $20
Click here to register for this class.
If you’re unable to afford this, contact tes@tes.org & we’ll do our best to find a way to help you attend this class.

The DatingKinky platform is supported by multiple browsers, but if you are having any technical difficulties please try a different browser, as certain settings may interfere. Note that this link will only be active during scheduled meeting times.
You are welcome to participate as actively as you are comfortable. By default, users’ cameras and microphones will be switched off, and you may simply watch passively or participate solely by text in the chat box if you are uncomfortable being seen or heard. Please note that while we have selected this platform to be as private as possible while maintaining sufficient ease of use for participants, no online platform is ever fully secure. While all regular TES rules regarding privacy remain in effect, and anyone caught violating these rules will be subject to consequences (please see our Online Meeting Terms of Service), we advise participants to treat online events as though the event is being recorded by a third party. For more information on protecting your online privacy, please see our online privacy guide.
