TES Online - TES Board Meeting
2026-09-21 19:00 - 22:00 (America/New_York) | Virtual
Are you a current TES member? You’re invited to our monthly board meeting! This is your chance to connect with fellow members, hear what the board is working on, and help shape the future of our organization.
This meeting is online only and is open to current TES members only.
How to Join
All members receive details on how to join the meeting in our monthly newsletter, The Eulenspiegel Mirror, sent on the first of the month. If you are a current member and didn’t receive the information, please email us at secretary@tes.org.
We Have Board Vacancies!
Looking to get more involved? We have several board vacancies and would love for you to join us. If you’re interested, you can review the requirements and nominate yourself.
Not a Member Yet?
If you’re interested in becoming a member or need to renew your membership, you can do so here. We’d love to have you!

In-Person: Beyond “No Means No”: Consent Negotiation & Safer Play
2026-09-24 19:30 - 22:00 | LGBT Community Center, 208 W 13th St, New York, NY, 10011, United States
Think you know consent? Let’s level it up.
This class goes way beyond “no means no” and gets into the real art of negotiation, communication, and connection in BDSM and intimate play. Learn how to actually say what you want (and what you don’t), set clear boundaries without killing the vibe, and use safewords and check-ins like a pro.
We’ll explore tools like the Wheel of Consent to untangle giving vs. receiving (because yes, there’s a difference), plus practice real-life negotiation and in-the-moment communication skills you can take straight into your scenes.
Expect interactive exercises, honest conversations, and a supportive space to build confidence, clarity, and better play—for you and your partners.
Bio:
Goddess Coko (she/her) has been a member of the NYC kink scene for over 20+ years. She is happy and excited to be back serving on the TES Board as Secretary, a role she is familiar with from her earlier time on the Board. Goddess Coko serves as Chair of the Communications and the Promotions Committees, Vice Chair of Community Relations, and volunteers on the POC Committee.
Goddess Coko is also a Founding Mother of ONYX PEARLS NY-Northeast and former Co-Head and Web Mistress of ClubFEM NYC. She is a proud member of Goddess House NJ, a FemDom-led Leather family.
Location:
The Center (The Lesbian, Gay, Bisexual & Transgender Community Center)
208 West 13th Street,
New York, NY 10011
Cost:

Members: $10
Non-Members: $25

Registration in advance is strongly encouraged due to limited internet access at the venue.
Note: Each attendee will need to have a separate account to register.

Registration Instructions
If You Already Have an Account

Register: Click here to go to the class registration page.
Log in: Use your existing account information to log in and register for the class. Your membership discount will be applied automatically.
Complete Purchase: Follow the instructions to complete your payment. Your membership discount will be automatically applied.

If You Need to Create an Account
For Members:

Create Your Account: Go to the Member Portal and create your account here. Be sure to use the same email address you used when you purchased your TES membership. If you’ve forgotten it, email membership@tes.org for assistance.
Confirm Your Email: Check your inbox for a confirmation email and follow the link to set your password.
Log In and Register: Click this link to log back into the Member Portal and register for the class.
Complete Purchase: Follow the instructions to complete your payment. Your membership discount will be automatically applied.

For Non-Members:

Create Your Account: Go to the registration page and create your Member Portal account here.
Confirm Your Email: Check your inbox for a confirmation email and follow the link to set enter your password.
Log In and Register: Click this link to log back into the Member Portal and register for the class.
Complete Purchase: Follow the instructions to complete your payment.

On-Site Registration is NOT available.

Cash payments are not accepted at the door.
