The Eulenspiegel Society

TES Final Thursday Munch: Too Much Cheese Edition
2022-12-29 19:30 - 22:00 (America/New_York)
What do you do when it’s not quite New Year’s and you’re midway through the holiday season? Why not get a head start on next year’s Naughty List and join TES at our monthly munch? Whether you’re new to the scene, an old friend, or just passing through, we’re excited to see you!

Come join us!
Thursday, December 29th, at 7:30pm
at the
Skylight Diner
402 W 34th St. (@ 9th Ave)
New York, NY 10001
Our hosts Zero and tickleobject will be there to welcome you and answer any questions. There is no cost to attend this event beyond paying for the food you order (and please tip your server well!).
The TES Final Thursday Munch is our monthly gathering on the last Thursday of each month. It’s a great opportunity to meet and hangout with your fellow kinksters in a low-key, low pressure environment. It is open to all members of the community in good standing, and those who are new to the scene are especially encouraged to attend. There is no requirement to RSVP ahead of time, and you do not need to be a TES member to attend.
Please note that we highly encourage all attendees to be vaccinated and up-to-date against Covid. However, this event is hosted at a diner that is open to other patrons, and we cannot control for anything beyond what the restaurant requires. Please assess your own risk profiles and act accordingly. We will be providing a discrete option for contact tracing, which is highly encouraged.

ONLINE - Debunking Femdom Myths & Building Fulfilling Femdom Realities with AbundantMischief
2023-01-03 19:00 - 22:00
Do you feel drawn to femdom, but pressured to conform to archetypes portrayed in kinky media? Do you ever wonder if there’s a way to explore femdom that affirms your unique identity and desires?
This class will break down femdom stereotypes, help you find your own personalized approach to femdom instead, and provide tools for developing your own authentic femdom dynamics. I will also share tips for cultivating and maintaining a wide variety of femdom D/s dynamics, drawn from my years of experience leading dynamics ranging from short-term play and casual platonic service to 24/7 TPE.
AbundantMischief is a toppy switch, gleeful sadomasochist, and enthusiastic boot fetishist. She has over 12 years of experience as a member of the kink community, as well as over 2 decades of experience as a professional dancer, circus artist, and performing arts educator. She has been an informal mentor to kinksters over the years across a wide variety of interests, as well as a long-standing member of Hitchin’ Bitches Boston and frequent attendee of rope and kink events.
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To register:
MEMBERS -$10

Create a Member Portal account using the same email address used when you purchased your membership. (Email membership@tes.org if you have forgotten the one you used when registering for TES.) Be sure to respond to confirmation email & choose a password. After that, log back into the Member Portal.
To complete your purchase, click on this link and follow the instructions. Your membership discount will be automatically applied.

NON-MEMBERS – $20
Click here register for this class.
If you’re unable to afford this, contact tes@tes.org & we’ll do our best to find a way to help you attend this class.
Registration closes 6:30pm Tuesday night

The DatingKinky platform is supported by multiple browsers, but if you are having any technical difficulties please try a different browser, as certain settings may interfere. Note that this link will only be active during scheduled meeting times.
You are welcome to participate as actively as you are comfortable. By default, users’ cameras and microphones will be switched off, and you may simply watch passively or participate solely by text in the chat box if you are uncomfortable being seen or heard. Please note that while we have selected this platform to be as private as possible while maintaining sufficient ease of use for participants, no online platform is ever fully secure. While all regular TES rules regarding privacy remain in effect, and anyone caught violating these rules will be subject to consequences (please see our Online Meeting Terms of Service), we advise participants to treat online events as though the event is being recorded by a third party. For more information on protecting your online privacy, please see our online privacy guide.

ONLINE - How To Dress For Kink Events & Finding Your Personal Style with AbundantMischief
2023-01-10 19:00 - 22:00
Getting ready to go to your first play party, but have no idea what to wear? Feeling confused by dungeon dress codes? Been in the scene for a while, but none of your outfits feel quite like “you”?
This class will include:
*How to understand and navigate party dress codes
*How to cultivate your own unique personal style, regardless of size, age, gender identity, or kink identity
*How to plan party outfits for particular environments and play possibilities
*How to build a kink wardrobe without breaking the bank
AbundantMischief is a toppy switch, gleeful sadomasochist, and enthusiastic boot fetishist. She has over 12 years of experience as a member of the kink community, as well as over 2 decades of experience as a professional dancer, circus artist, and performing arts educator. She has been an informal mentor to kinksters over the years across a wide variety of interests, as well as a long-standing member of Hitchin’ Bitches Boston and frequent attendee of rope and kink events throughout the New England area.
To register:
MEMBERS -$10

Create a Member Portal account using the same email address used when you purchased your membership. (Email membership@tes.org if you have forgotten the one you used when registering for TES.) Be sure to respond to the confirmation email & choose a password. After that, log back into the Member Portal.
To complete your purchase, click on this link and follow the instructions. Your membership discount will be automatically applied.

NON-MEMBERS – $20
Click here to register for this class.
Registration closes 6:30pm Tuesday night.
The DatingKinky platform is supported by multiple browsers, but if you are having any technical difficulties please try a different browser, as certain settings may interfere. Note that this link will only be active during scheduled meeting times.
You are welcome to participate as actively as you are comfortable. By default, users’ cameras and microphones will be switched off, and you may simply watch passively or participate solely by text in the chat box if you are uncomfortable being seen or heard. Please note that while we have selected this platform to be as private as possible while maintaining sufficient ease of use for participants, no online platform is ever fully secure. While all regular TES rules regarding privacy remain in effect, and anyone caught violating these rules will be subject to consequences (please see our Online Meeting Terms of Service), we advise participants to treat online events as though the event is being recorded by a third party. For more information on protecting your online privacy, please see our online privacy guide.

ONLINE - The Masochist Mantra with DrPhenixPhD
2023-01-17 19:00 - 22:00
The masochist mantras: tips to process pain better:
Do you have the desire to improve how to process pain to enjoy that scene even more or enjoy it longer? Do you want to be able to adjust to different types of play, toys, and tops? Within my own growth as a masochist, I have collected a series of tips and techniques that have helped me process more pain, enjoy longer scenes, and adjust to different types of play. Through this class, I will share what I found and how I use these tips to increase my pleasure. It may not make a masochist out of you, but it just might be a step in the right direction.
Hi, I am DrPhenix, reborn out of the ashes of hell with tears that have the power to heal. They say to talk about not only what you know but what you are passionate about. I have been in the BDSM lifestyle for Nearly 15 years, both in private and in the public community. I am passionate about this community and doing what I can to educate and support those that feel comfortable or want to explore the s-side of the slash. I enjoy talking and educating others in areas that I am passionate about, including bottoming as a masochist, submission, and bootblacking. Over the last couple of years, I have really grown in the lifestyle. I have attended conferences, discussions, and help support s-types through discussions and support meetings. This expanded my passions to include educating and supporting the larger BDSM community.

To register:
MEMBERS -$10

Create a Member Portal account using the same email address used when you purchased your membership. (Email membership@tes.org if you have forgotten the one you used when registering for TES.) Be sure to respond to confirmation email & choose a password. After that, log back into the Member Portal.
To complete your purchase, click here and follow the instructions. Your membership discount will be automatically applied.

NON-MEMBERS – $20
Click here to register for this class.
If you’re unable to afford this, contact tes@tes.org & we’ll do our best to find a way to help you attend this class.

The DatingKinky platform is supported by multiple browsers, but if you are having any technical difficulties please try a different browser, as certain settings may interfere. Note that this link will only be active during scheduled meeting times.
You are welcome to participate as actively as you are comfortable. By default, users’ cameras and microphones will be switched off, and you may simply watch passively or participate solely by text in the chat box if you are uncomfortable being seen or heard. Please note that while we have selected this platform to be as private as possible while maintaining sufficient ease of use for participants, no online platform is ever fully secure. While all regular TES rules regarding privacy remain in effect, and anyone caught violating these rules will be subject to consequences (please see our Online Meeting Terms of Service), we advise participants to treat online events as though the event is being recorded by a third party. For more information on protecting your online privacy, please see our online privacy guide.

ONLINE - How to Succeed at an Event 101 with AuralFixation87 and Odile
2023-01-24 19:00 - 22:00
Never set foot inside a play space? Haven’t been to a munch? Want to know a little about the weird, wild and sexy things you might find in there? Looking for some guidance on how to approach someone in the dungeon – whether for play or just to tell them how cool their flogger is? This class will cover the basics of what to expect in play spaces and the importance of pre-play negotiations.
To register:
MEMBERS -$10

Create a Member Portal account using the same email address used when you purchased your membership. (Email membership@tes.org if you have forgotten the one you used when registering for TES.) Be sure to respond to respond to confirmation email & choose a password. After that, log back into the Member Portal.
To complete your purchase, click on this link and follow the instructions. Your membership discount will be automatically applied.

NON-MEMBERS – $20
Click here to register for this class.
If you’re unable to afford this, contact tes@tes.org & we’ll do our best to find a way to help you attend this class.

The DatingKinky platform is supported by multiple browsers, but if you are having any technical difficulties please try a different browser, as certain settings may interfere. Note that this link will only be active during scheduled meeting times.
You are welcome to participate as actively as you are comfortable. By default, users’ cameras and microphones will be switched off, and you may simply watch passively or participate solely by text in the chat box if you are uncomfortable being seen or heard. Please note that while we have selected this platform to be as private as possible while maintaining sufficient ease of use for participants, no online platform is ever fully secure. While all regular TES rules regarding privacy remain in effect, and anyone caught violating these rules will be subject to consequences (please see our Online Meeting Terms of Service), we advise participants to treat online events as though the event is being recorded by a third party. For more information on protecting your online privacy, please see our online privacy guide.

TES Final Thursday Munch: Dead of Winter Edition
2023-01-26 19:30 - 22:00
The days are short, the nights are long, and it’s colder than ice on a nipple? So why not warm up with TES at our monthly munch? Whether you’re new to the scene, an old friend, or just passing through, we’re excited to see you!
Come join us!
Thursday, January 26th, at 7:30pm
at the
Skylight Diner
402 W 34th St. (@ 9th Ave)
New York, NY 10001
Our hosts Zero and tickleobject will be there to welcome you and answer any questions. There is no cost to attend this event beyond paying for the food you order (and please tip your server well!).
The TES Final Thursday Munch is our monthly gathering on the last Thursday of each month. It’s a great opportunity to meet and hangout with your fellow kinksters in a low-key, low pressure environment. It is open to all members of the community in good standing, and those who are new to the scene are especially encouraged to attend. There is no requirement to RSVP ahead of time, and you do not need to be a TES member to attend.
Please note that we highly encourage all attendees to be vaccinated and up-to-date against Covid. However, this event is hosted at a diner that is open to other patrons, and we cannot control for anything beyond what the restaurant requires. Please assess your own risk profiles and act accordingly. We will be providing a discrete option for contact tracing, which is highly encouraged.

ONLINE - Sissy That Walk: Sissification For Newbies with d20domme
2023-01-31 19:00 - 22:00
In this class we’ll explore the concept behind what society defines as a “real man” and how to feel comfortable expressing your sissiness. We’ll cover topics such as discussing it with a partner, general makeup tips, where to shop and how to find others who share your sissy interests. This is a class for individuals who wish to explore their feminine side through cross dressing, makeup and hair transformation, behavior modification, and forced feminization.
d20domme is a Human Behavioral Expert and Erotic Hypnotherapist with more than 15 years in the kinky community as a Lifestyle Female Dominant. She is unapologetically kinky and known as a pint-height, poly(androus), plus-size, POC, 24/7 Femdom who knows what she wants and will use her craft in mindfuckery and persuasive viper tongue to get it. Her current fascinations are CBT, High Protocol, Energy Play, Onychophilia, Sissification & Genderfuckery, Introspective Immersive Role-play and Extreme Edge Play.
Her main kinks are getting her way and normalizing kinky lifestyles across the board. Thus she can often be found writing on her popular kinky living-memoir website “From Mundane To Mistress”, chatting away on podcasts, teaching classes, workshops, demos, or presenting virtually and locally in the Washington, DC area, California, New York, and across the pond in Europe

To register:
MEMBERS -$10

Create a Member Portal account using the same email address used when you purchased your membership. (Email membership@tes.org if you have forgotten the one you used when registering for TES.) Be sure to respond to confirmation email & choose a password. After that, log back into the Member Portal.
To complete your purchase, click on this link and follow the instructions. Your membership discount will be automatically applied.

NON-MEMBERS – $20
Click here register for this class.
If you’re unable to afford this, contact tes@tes.org & we’ll do our best to find a way to help you attend this class.

The DatingKinky platform is supported by multiple browsers, but if you are having any technical difficulties please try a different browser, as certain settings may interfere. Note that this link will only be active during scheduled meeting times.
You are welcome to participate as actively as you are comfortable. By default, users’ cameras and microphones will be switched off, and you may simply watch passively or participate solely by text in the chat box if you are uncomfortable being seen or heard. Please note that while we have selected this platform to be as private as possible while maintaining sufficient ease of use for participants, no online platform is ever fully secure. While all regular TES rules regarding privacy remain in effect, and anyone caught violating these rules will be subject to consequences (please see our Online Meeting Terms of Service), we advise participants to treat online events as though the event is being recorded by a third party. For more information on protecting your online privacy, please see our online privacy guide.

ONLINE - Final Gifts: End of Life Care in a D/s Dynamic with DawnSparkles
2023-02-07 19:00 - 22:00
Life planning is an integral part of a long term D/s or M/s dynamic for many people. One aspect that is often neglected is planning for the end. When we lose a loved one we can find ourselves struggling to plan and organize while simultaneously giving ourselves time to grieve. Losing a D/s partner adds a unique layer of pain on top of grief that many of us are unprepared for.
Dawnsparkles is a death doula/end of life care worker. This class was created with D/s dynamics in mind. Participants will recieve the skills to take end of life care planning into their dynamic so they can make the best decisions for themselves and find ways to end their time together with pride and dignity.

To register:
MEMBERS -$10

Create a Member Portal account using the same email address used when you purchased your membership. (Email membership@tes.org if you have forgotten the one you used when registering for TES.) Be sure to respond to confirmation email & choose a password. After that, log back into the Member Portal.
To complete your purchase, return to this FL event page, click on this link and follow the instructions. Your membership discount will be automatically applied.

NON-MEMBERS – $20
Click here to register for this class.
If you’re unable to afford this, contact tes@tes.org & we’ll do our best to find a way to help you attend this class.

The DatingKinky platform is supported by multiple browsers, but if you are having any technical difficulties please try a different browser, as certain settings may interfere. Note that this link will only be active during scheduled meeting times.
You are welcome to participate as actively as you are comfortable. By default, users’ cameras and microphones will be switched off, and you may simply watch passively or participate solely by text in the chat box if you are uncomfortable being seen or heard. Please note that while we have selected this platform to be as private as possible while maintaining sufficient ease of use for participants, no online platform is ever fully secure. While all regular TES rules regarding privacy remain in effect, and anyone caught violating these rules will be subject to consequences (please see our Online Meeting Terms of Service), we advise participants to treat online events as though the event is being recorded by a third party. For more information on protecting your online privacy, please see our online privacy guide.

ONLINE - Breaking Out; Making Dominance Easier for Womxn* with xSolaris
2023-02-14 19:00 - 22:00
So, you want to try being a Domme**? Or maybe you’re no stranger to the Left-side-of-the-slash, but want to use awareness to take your skills to the next level. Perhaps you’re a Dom and notice a lack of Dommes at events you attend or are a submissive/bottom wondering how to support the FemDom community’s growth. Whatever your interest, join us for a 2-hour-long introduction*** to helping womxn and those socialized as female* explore their Big Letter side(s) comfortably and authentically.
This class is for everyone; those new to kink and the experienced, the 24/7’ers and the occasional dabblers, both the Left and right sides of the slash, and all genders. We will break down what evidence-based practices and research have to lend to these situations in mindful ways that anyone can implement.
Topics include:
Growing Up a Girl — The impact of gender socialization on kink role exploration (including intersectional influences).
Media, Models, and Mistresses — Common messages/stereotypes about womxn, power, sexuality, and kink and common reactions.
Discovering You — Cultivating your authentic Left side as a conscious choice, not a reaction.
Taking Back Your Authentic Power — Exploring practical tips for recognizing and actively receiving power in your everyday life.
The Golden Formula — Practical tips for lowering the barrier of entry, overcoming fears and insecurities, freezing up, setting boundaries, creating scenes, selecting play partners, selecting roles/identities, and building your soft and hard skills.
Where Did All the Domme’s Go? — Tips for communities and those not socialized as womxn on gaining the skills and awareness necessary to make space for Dominant womxn.
Listen Up — Real stories of growth, exploration, and breaking out of social norms to find authenticity and understanding.
Questions may be submitted beforehand to the presenter, and a short Q&A will follow.
*Including trans, nonbinary, genderqueer, gender fluid, gender non-conforming, agender people, etc. In short, anyone who has previously experienced or currently experiences the social phenomenon of “being treated like a girl.”
**Or any other Left-side-of-the-slash role/identity/title.
***Many of these topics are inherently quite complex and nuanced and it is impossible to cover every facet in this limited time. This class will therefore serve as a jumping point for further learning and growth.
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To register:
MEMBERS -$10

Create a Member Portal account using the same email address used when you purchased your membership. (Email membership@tes.org if you have forgotten the one you used when registering for TES.) Be sure to respond to confirmation email & choose a password. After that, log back into the Member Portal.
To complete your purchase, click on this link and follow the instructions. Your membership discount will be automatically applied.

NON-MEMBERS – $20
Click here to register for this class.
If you’re unable to afford this, contact tes@tes.org & we’ll do our best to find a way to help you attend this class.

The DatingKinky platform is supported by multiple browsers, but if you are having any technical difficulties please try a different browser, as certain settings may interfere. Note that this link will only be active during scheduled meeting times.
You are welcome to participate as actively as you are comfortable. By default, users’ cameras and microphones will be switched off, and you may simply watch passively or participate solely by text in the chat box if you are uncomfortable being seen or heard. Please note that while we have selected this platform to be as private as possible while maintaining sufficient ease of use for participants, no online platform is ever fully secure. While all regular TES rules regarding privacy remain in effect, and anyone caught violating these rules will be subject to consequences (please see our Online Meeting Terms of Service), we advise participants to treat online events as though the event is being recorded by a third party. For more information on protecting your online privacy, please see our online privacy guide.

ONLINE - High Heels & Tip-Toes with AbundantMischief
2023-02-21 19:00 - 22:00
Do you love the look of sky-high heels but worry about falling over? Have you been watching your shoe collection gather dust during the pandemic and wondering how to get used to wearing them again? This class will cover how to find a good pair of heels or ballet boots and how to make the shoes you already have more comfortable. I will demonstrate a variety strategies for walking in heels and standing in ballet boots. We will also cover simple exercises you can do to prevent injuries and feel more confident in heels, as well as risk mitigation when combining heels with various kinks. Finally I will share aftercare tips for your feet and legs, both partnered and solo.
AbundantMischief is a toppy switch, gleeful sadomasochist, and enthusiastic boot fetishist. She has over 12 years of experience as a member of the kink community, as well as over 2 decades of experience as a professional dancer, circus artist, and performing arts educator. She has been an informal mentor to kinksters over the years across a wide variety of interests, as well as a long-standing member of Hitchin’ Bitches Boston and frequent attendee of rope and kink events.

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To register:
MEMBERS -$10

Create a Member Portal account using the same email address used when you purchased your membership. (Email membership@tes.org if you have forgotten the one you used when registering for TES.) Be sure to respond to confirmation email & choose a password. After that, log back into the Member Portal.
To complete your purchase, return to this FL event page, click here and follow the instructions. Your membership discount will be automatically applied.

NON-MEMBERS – $20
Click here to register for this class.
If you’re unable to afford this, contact tes@tes.org & we’ll do our best to find a way to help you attend this class.
Registration closes 6:30pm Tuesday night

The DatingKinky platform is supported by multiple browsers, but if you are having any technical difficulties please try a different browser, as certain settings may interfere. Note that this link will only be active during scheduled meeting times.
You are welcome to participate as actively as you are comfortable. By default, users’ cameras and microphones will be switched off, and you may simply watch passively or participate solely by text in the chat box if you are uncomfortable being seen or heard. Please note that while we have selected this platform to be as private as possible while maintaining sufficient ease of use for participants, no online platform is ever fully secure. While all regular TES rules regarding privacy remain in effect, and anyone caught violating these rules will be subject to consequences (please see our Online Meeting Terms of Service), we advise participants to treat online events as though the event is being recorded by a third party. For more information on protecting your online privacy, please see our online privacy guide.

TES Final Thursday Munch: National Banana Bread Day Edition
2023-02-23 19:30 - 22:00
Did you know February 23rd was National Banana Bread Day in the United States? Well neither did we until we Googled it. So why not contemplate the housewarming gift no one asked for with TES at our monthly munch? Whether you’re new to the scene, an old friend, or just passing through, we’re excited to see you!
Come join us!
Thursday, February 23rd, at 7:30pm
at the
Skylight Diner
402 W 34th St. (@ 9th Ave)
New York, NY 10001
Our hosts Chucky and tickleobject will be there to welcome you and answer any questions. There is no cost to attend this event beyond paying for the food you order (and please tip your server well!).
The TES Final Thursday Munch is our monthly gathering on the last Thursday of each month. It’s a great opportunity to meet and hangout with your fellow kinksters in a low-key, low pressure environment. It is open to all members of the community in good standing, and those who are new to the scene are especially encouraged to attend. There is no requirement to RSVP ahead of time, and you do not need to be a TES member to attend.
Please note that we highly encourage all attendees to be vaccinated and up-to-date against Covid. However, this event is hosted at a diner that is open to other patrons, and we cannot control for anything beyond what the restaurant requires. Please assess your own risk profiles and act accordingly. We will be providing a discrete option for contact tracing, which is highly encouraged.

ONLINE - Pretty Needles for the Risk Averse with ThistaMinai
2023-02-28 19:00 - 22:00
Needle play offers fabulous opportunities for aesthetic creativity, but each technique comes with its own considerations for safety. This class explores how to create fabulous art with string, feathers, beads, and more, all while minimizing health risks. Come learn how to create beautiful needle art within a conservative risk profile.
Thista Minai is an educator, author, priestess, ordeal facilitator, and gleeful sadist. She uses her professional background in education to create high quality classes on a wide variety of topics, including sacred sexuality, the ordeal path, catharsis, impact, and needle play. With more than fifteen years of experience in designing and conducting rituals, Thista travels the world championing the value of spirituality and empowerment in kink and BDSM.

To register:
MEMBERS -$10

Create a Member Portal account using the same email address used when you purchased your membership. (Email membership@tes.org if you have forgotten the one you used when registering for TES.) Be sure to respond to confirmation email & choose a password. After that, log back into the Member Portal.
To complete your purchase, click on this link and follow the instructions. Your membership discount will be automatically applied.

NON-MEMBERS – $20
Click here to register for this class.
If you’re unable to afford this, contact tes@tes.org & we’ll do our best to find a way to help you attend this class.

The DatingKinky platform is supported by multiple browsers, but if you are having any technical difficulties please try a different browser, as certain settings may interfere. Note that this link will only be active during scheduled meeting times.
You are welcome to participate as actively as you are comfortable. By default, users’ cameras and microphones will be switched off, and you may simply watch passively or participate solely by text in the chat box if you are uncomfortable being seen or heard. Please note that while we have selected this platform to be as private as possible while maintaining sufficient ease of use for participants, no online platform is ever fully secure. While all regular TES rules regarding privacy remain in effect, and anyone caught violating these rules will be subject to consequences (please see our Online Meeting Terms of Service), we advise participants to treat online events as though the event is being recorded by a third party. For more information on protecting your online privacy, please see our online privacy guide.

ONLINE - Parenting, Power and Play: The Struggle is Real! with TeamSoup
2023-03-07 19:00 - 22:00
Life in the kink community is so exciting, liberating and sexy. But parents can find the kink world more challenging to navigate.
Sometimes we feel spread thin emotionally… sometimes we struggle to balance our schedules so that we can meet all of our needs and obligations… sometimes we feel isolated from the freedoms enjoyed by kinksters who aren’t parents… and sometimes we have to figure out how to answer tough questions. This isn’t easy!
This discussion-based class will touch on a variety of topics that parents may be struggling with. Some of the possible topics will include:
• How to handle the emotional balance of exploring kink while also being a parent. It can be tough to move between the two aspects of your life!
• How to balance relationship dynamics (D/s, M/s) with parenting. Can we maintain our relationship model in the home while running a healthy family? Is this possible?
• How to handle visible marks that may be seen by children.
• Can we raise healthy kids within a home that has poly dynamics?
• What happens if our children stumble across our online presence?
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To register:
MEMBERS -$10

Create a Member Portal account using the same email address used when you purchased your membership. (Email membership@tes.org if you have forgotten the one you used when registering for TES.) Be sure to respond to confirmation email & choose a password. After that, log back into the Member Portal.
To complete your purchase, click on this link and follow the instructions. Your membership discount will be automatically applied.

NON-MEMBERS – $20
Click here to register for this class.
If you’re unable to afford this, contact tes@tes.org & we’ll do our best to find a way to help you attend this class.
Registration closes 6:30pm Tuesday night

The DatingKinky platform is supported by multiple browsers, but if you are having any technical difficulties please try a different browser, as certain settings may interfere. Note that this link will only be active during scheduled meeting times.
You are welcome to participate as actively as you are comfortable. By default, users’ cameras and microphones will be switched off, and you may simply watch passively or participate solely by text in the chat box if you are uncomfortable being seen or heard. Please note that while we have selected this platform to be as private as possible while maintaining sufficient ease of use for participants, no online platform is ever fully secure. While all regular TES rules regarding privacy remain in effect, and anyone caught violating these rules will be subject to consequences (please see our Online Meeting Terms of Service), we advise participants to treat online events as though the event is being recorded by a third party. For more information on protecting your online privacy, please see our online privacy guide.

ONLINE - Chain Chest Harnesses from Functional to Fancy with CTW & Mister
2023-03-14 19:00 - 22:00
Taking a deeper dive into chain bondage harness design and handling, this demonstration-based class will focus on building chain harnesses for the upper body and torso. We will show some different chain chest harnesses, and discuss and demonstrate some useful modifications including lower wrap placements and shoulder straps. This workshop is considered intermediate level, but chain bondage beginners are welcome to watch and ask questions!
Fischer Garrett (‘Mister’ – He/Him) is a bisexual, polyamorous top. His time spent in the lifestyle has led him through a journey of self discovery, from once being totally monogamous to being a relationship anarchist; from wanting nothing to do with bondage to developing a way to practice bondage in a relatively unperformed and under-documented fashion. In the past several years he has volunteered for larger kink events as a member of a consent incident response team, a dungeon/playspace monitor, and as a presenter. He is a huge fan of costumes and masks, and it is not unusual to know that he is around but often in clever and sometimes strange disguises.
Cecilia T. Winters (‘CTW’ – She/Her) is your typical queer Millennial. Born at the start of the internet age, she has always benefited from information at her fingertips. She identifies as bisexual and ethically non-monogamous. She has served as a dungeon and playspace monitor, a demo top for a number of local and national kink events, and as a presenter. She enjoys giving first suspensions to people new to being tied in rope; suspending willing victims for long, sadistic scenes; and suspending herself with rope and chain. Her non-kink interests include reading, making lists, watching early 2000s crime dramas, and learning about ancient human cultures.
Together, Fischer and Cecilia are authors of the book, The Art of Chain: A Guide to Steel Restraint (2022). www.theartofchain.com”

To register:
MEMBERS -$10

Create a Member Portal account using the same email address used when you purchased your membership. (Email membership@tes.org if you have forgotten the one you used when registering for TES.) Be sure to respond to confirmation email & choose a password. After that, log back into the Member Portal.
To complete your purchase, click on this link and follow the instructions. Your membership discount will be automatically applied.

NON-MEMBERS – $20
Click here to register for this class.

The DatingKinky platform is supported by multiple browsers, but if you are having any technical difficulties please try a different browser, as certain settings may interfere. Note that this link will only be active during scheduled meeting times.
You are welcome to participate as actively as you are comfortable. By default, users’ cameras and microphones will be switched off, and you may simply watch passively or participate solely by text in the chat box if you are uncomfortable being seen or heard. Please note that while we have selected this platform to be as private as possible while maintaining sufficient ease of use for participants, no online platform is ever fully secure. While all regular TES rules regarding privacy remain in effect, and anyone caught violating these rules will be subject to consequences (please see our Online Meeting Terms of Service), we advise participants to treat online events as though the event is being recorded by a third party. For more information on protecting your online privacy, please see our online privacy guide.

ONLINE - Pervertables for Poor Perves with wickedimp
2023-03-21 19:00 - 22:00
Ever gotten all the way to the event and realized you forgot your impact bag? Too poor to afford high end toys, but still want to give/receive pain, sensation, and more? This is the class for you! WickedImp is a broke sadomasochist with a love for pain and sensations who got into pervertables out of necessity, but has never looked back. They have been experimenting with making and perverting their own toys since they joined the lifestyle 2 years ago, and their creations range from the conventional (chopstick nipple clamps) to the absurd (denim dragon tail whips). Come join Imp for this class on how to make random things in your house, and the dollar store down the street, strike fear/envy into the hearts of your friends and bottoms.
WickedImp is a sadomasochistic switch with a love for the absurd and crafty. When they aren’t dangling in ropes or beating their friends, Imp enjoys long walks and TTRPGs!

To register:
MEMBERS -$10

Create a Member Portal account using the same email address used when you purchased your membership. (Email membership@tes.org if you have forgotten the one you used when registering for TES.) Be sure to respond to confirmation email & choose a password. After that, log back into the Member Portal.
To complete your purchase, click here and follow the instructions. Your membership discount will be automatically applied.

NON-MEMBERS – $20
Click here to register for this class.
If you’re unable to afford this, contact tes@tes.org & we’ll do our best to find a way to help you attend this class.

The DatingKinky platform is supported by multiple browsers, but if you are having any technical difficulties please try a different browser, as certain settings may interfere. Note that this link will only be active during scheduled meeting times.
You are welcome to participate as actively as you are comfortable. By default, users’ cameras and microphones will be switched off, and you may simply watch passively or participate solely by text in the chat box if you are uncomfortable being seen or heard. Please note that while we have selected this platform to be as private as possible while maintaining sufficient ease of use for participants, no online platform is ever fully secure. While all regular TES rules regarding privacy remain in effect, and anyone caught violating these rules will be subject to consequences (please see our Online Meeting Terms of Service), we advise participants to treat online events as though the event is being recorded by a third party. For more information on protecting your online privacy, please see our online privacy guide.

ONLINE - Pet Play 101 with pistachiopup
2023-03-28 19:00 - 22:00
Join Pistachio for a beginners guide on getting into pet play! This class will be going over the basics of pet play such as getting into a head space, where to find gear, and where to find you local pet play community.
Pistachio has been in the pet play and kink scene for over five years. He currently is the president of LI-PAH (Long Island Pets and Handlers) where he helps organize events for his local pet play community. Pistachio has also done classes for those new or curious about pet play, helping them learn more about the community.

To register:
MEMBERS -$10

Create a Member Portal account using the same email address used when you purchased your membership. (Email membership@tes.org if you have forgotten the one you used when registering for TES.) Be sure to respond to confirmation email & choose a password. After that, log back into the Member Portal.
To complete your purchase, click here and follow the instructions. Your membership discount will be automatically applied.

NON-MEMBERS – $20
Click here to register for this class.
If you’re unable to afford this, contact tes@tes.org & we’ll do our best to find a way to help you attend this class.

The DatingKinky platform is supported by multiple browsers, but if you are having any technical difficulties please try a different browser, as certain settings may interfere. Note that this link will only be active during scheduled meeting times.
You are welcome to participate as actively as you are comfortable. By default, users’ cameras and microphones will be switched off, and you may simply watch passively or participate solely by text in the chat box if you are uncomfortable being seen or heard. Please note that while we have selected this platform to be as private as possible while maintaining sufficient ease of use for participants, no online platform is ever fully secure. While all regular TES rules regarding privacy remain in effect, and anyone caught violating these rules will be subject to consequences (please see our Online Meeting Terms of Service), we advise participants to treat online events as though the event is being recorded by a third party. For more information on protecting your online privacy, please see our online privacy guide.

TES Final Thursday Munch: Get Sprung Edition
2023-03-30 19:30 - 22:00
Snows are melting, nature’s starting to bloom, and that thing called “daylight” is poking around again. So before the pollen hits us full force, why not come celebrate the arrival of Spring with TES at our monthly munch? Whether you’re new to the scene, an old friend, or just passing through, we’re excited to see you!
Come join us!
Thursday, March 30th, at 7:30pm
at the
Skylight Diner
402 W 34th St. (@ 9th Ave)
New York, NY 10001
Our hosts Zero and tickleobject will be there to welcome you and answer any questions. There is no cost to attend this event beyond paying for the food you order (and please tip your server well!).
The TES Final Thursday Munch is our monthly gathering on the last Thursday of each month. It’s a great opportunity to meet and hangout with your fellow kinksters in a low-key, low pressure environment. It is open to all members of the community in good standing, and those who are new to the scene are especially encouraged to attend. There is no requirement to RSVP ahead of time, and you do not need to be a TES member to attend.
Please note that we highly encourage all attendees to be vaccinated and up-to-date against Covid. However, this event is hosted at a diner that is open to other patrons, and we cannot control for anything beyond what the restaurant requires. Please assess your own risk profiles and act accordingly. We will be providing a discrete option for contact tracing, which is highly encouraged.

ONLINE - Stimulation please, but not that kind: Open discussion about Asexuality in kink with Roped_kitty
2023-04-04 19:00 - 22:00
Navigating a community where sex and sexuality are often implied parts of the collective conversation can be uniquely challenging for those of us on the ace spectrum. So come join Roped_Kitty for an open discussion on the kinky asexual experience and an opportunity to meet other ace and ace friendly kinksters.
Roped_Kitty has been in the scene for 10 years and teaching for 1. They have a passion for bottoming oriented education and believe that it is one of the keys to successful growth within scenes and dynamics with play partners. When Roped_Kitty isn’t melting into impact or playing in rope, you can find them embracing the flow of aerial silks and roaming the wilderness. They look forward to seeing you all soon!

To register:
MEMBERS -$10

Create a Member Portal account using the same email address used when you purchased your membership. (Email membership@tes.org if you have forgotten the one you used when registering for TES.) Be sure to respond to confirmation email & choose a password. After that, log back into the Member Portal.
To complete your purchase, click here and follow the instructions. Your membership discount will be automatically applied.

NON-MEMBERS – $20
Click here to register for this class.
If you’re unable to afford this, contact tes@tes.org & we’ll do our best to find a way to help you attend this class.

The DatingKinky platform is supported by multiple browsers, but if you are having any technical difficulties please try a different browser, as certain settings may interfere. Note that this link will only be active during scheduled meeting times.
You are welcome to participate as actively as you are comfortable. By default, users’ cameras and microphones will be switched off, and you may simply watch passively or participate solely by text in the chat box if you are uncomfortable being seen or heard. Please note that while we have selected this platform to be as private as possible while maintaining sufficient ease of use for participants, no online platform is ever fully secure. While all regular TES rules regarding privacy remain in effect, and anyone caught violating these rules will be subject to consequences (please see our Online Meeting Terms of Service), we advise participants to treat online events as though the event is being recorded by a third party. For more information on protecting your online privacy, please see our online privacy guide.

ONLINE - Fetish Fancy: Rope for Playing Dress-up with CTW
2023-04-11 19:00 - 22:00
ancy wearing a unique rope design to the next play party? This introductory and self-tie-friendly rope workshop will demonstrate using the Double Coin Knot and the Chinese Flower Knot, two aesthetic knots that lend themselves well to erotic rope bondage and to decorative fashion choices. We will dress ourselves and our partners in a karada-style inspired bodysuit using Double Coin Knots and a chest harness built around the Chinese Flower Knot flowing into a rope corset. Participants should have 2 standard lengths of rope (26-30 feet) for the body suit and chest harness pieces, and 4-6 standard lengths of rope for the corset. Self-tiers are recommended to have a spotter or emergency exit plan in place.
Cecilia T. Winters (‘CTW’ – She/Her) is your typical queer Millennial. Born at the start of the internet age, she has always benefited from information at her fingertips. She identifies as bisexual and ethically non-monogamous. She has served as a dungeon and playspace monitor, a demo top for a number of local and national kink events, and as a presenter. She enjoys giving first suspensions to people new to being tied in rope; suspending willing victims for long, sadistic scenes; and suspending herself with rope and chain. Her non-kink interests include reading, making lists, watching early 2000s crime dramas, and learning about ancient human cultures.
Together with her partner, Cecilia is a co-author of the book, The Art of Chain: A Guide to Steel Restraint (2022). www.theartofchain.com”

To register:
MEMBERS -$10

Create a Member Portal account using the same email address used when you purchased your membership. (Email membership@tes.org if you have forgotten the one you used when registering for TES.) Be sure to respond to confirmation email & choose a password. After that, log back into the Member Portal.
To complete your purchase, click on this link and follow the instructions. Your membership discount will be automatically applied.

NON-MEMBERS – $20
Click here to register for this class.

The DatingKinky platform is supported by multiple browsers, but if you are having any technical difficulties please try a different browser, as certain settings may interfere. Note that this link will only be active during scheduled meeting times.
You are welcome to participate as actively as you are comfortable. By default, users’ cameras and microphones will be switched off, and you may simply watch passively or participate solely by text in the chat box if you are uncomfortable being seen or heard. Please note that while we have selected this platform to be as private as possible while maintaining sufficient ease of use for participants, no online platform is ever fully secure. While all regular TES rules regarding privacy remain in effect, and anyone caught violating these rules will be subject to consequences (please see our Online Meeting Terms of Service), we advise participants to treat online events as though the event is being recorded by a third party. For more information on protecting your online privacy, please see our online privacy guide.

TES Board of Directors Meeting
2023-04-13 19:00 - 22:00
Open to all current members. If you are a member, did not receive information on how to join, and want to join, please contact secretary@tes.org

ONLINE - TES 2023 Spring Membership Meeting
2023-04-18 19:00 - 22:00
This meeting is held twice yearly for the purpose of conducting official organization business and giving the membership an opportunity to be directly involved in that process. All members in good standing are entitled to attend and participate in all of these functions. The link to participate will be sent in your TES email newsletter closer to the event date.

No additional downloads or software required! This platform is supported by multiple browsers, but if you are having any technical difficulties please try a different browser, as certain settings may interfere. Note that this link will only be active during scheduled meeting times.
You are welcome to participate as actively as you are comfortable. By default, users’ cameras and microphones will be switched off, and you may simply watch passively or participate solely by text in the chat box if you are uncomfortable being seen or heard. Please note that while we have selected this platform to be as private as possible while maintaining sufficient ease of use for participants, no online platform is ever fully secure. While all regular TES rules regarding privacy remain in effect, and anyone caught violating these rules will be subject to consequences (please see our Online Meeting Terms of Service), we advise participants to treat online events as though the event is being recorded by a third party. For more information on protecting your online privacy, please see our online privacy guide.

ONLINE - A FREE Open Social Night with Odile
2023-04-25 19:00 - 22:00
Join TES and Odile for a FREE open social night! Come and discuss whatever is on your mind! Free and open to all!

To join, click here!

You are welcome to participate as actively as you are comfortable. By default, users’ cameras and microphones will be switched off, and you may simply watch passively or participate solely by text in the chat box if you are uncomfortable being seen or heard. Please note that while we have selected this platform to be as private as possible while maintaining sufficient ease of use for participants, no online platform is ever fully secure. While all regular TES rules regarding privacy remain in effect, and anyone caught violating these rules will be subject to consequences (please see our Online Meeting Terms of Service), we advise participants to treat online events as though the event is being recorded by a third party. For more information on protecting your online privacy, please see our online privacy guide.

TES Final Thursday Munch: Spring Fling Edition
2023-04-27 19:00 - 22:00
The weather is warm and the nights are getting hot! It’s downright vernal out there, so come celebrate with TES at our monthly munch! Whether you’re new to the scene, an old friend, or just passing through, we’re excited to see you!

Come join us!

Thursday, April 27th, at 7:30pm
at the
Skylight Diner
402 W 34th St. (@ 9th Ave)
New York, NY 10001
Our hosts will be there to welcome you and answer any questions. There is no cost to attend this event beyond paying for the food you order (and please tip your server well!).
The TES Final Thursday Munch is our monthly gathering on the last Thursday of each month. It’s a great opportunity to meet and hangout with your fellow kinksters in a low-key, low pressure environment. It is open to all members of the community in good standing, and those who are new to the scene are especially encouraged to attend. There is no requirement to RSVP ahead of time, and you do not need to be a TES member to attend.
Please note that we highly encourage all attendees to be vaccinated and up-to-date against Covid. However, this event is hosted at a diner that is open to other patrons, and we cannot control for anything beyond what the restaurant requires. Please assess your own risk profiles and act accordingly. We will be providing a discrete option for contact tracing, which is highly encouraged.

ONLINE - It’s all about communication! How do I do that? with Trouvere-le-Fou ChanteuselaBelle
2023-05-02 19:00 - 22:00
Specific examples of techniques to improve your communication skills. Hint: listen first. One of the challenges is that almost every relationship question is answered with “Communicate.” What people seldom do is give you dieas on how to communicate. That is what this class does. Not every possibility is explored, but some good starting points for communication.
“We have been married for almost 35 years, kinky for 25+, and in varying degrees of PE for over 20. We have been out and about at the Power Exchange Summit, Master / slave Conference, Master/slave Gathering, and Southwest Leather Conference among others. Lately we have taught for various MAsT Chapters, The Rochester Kink Society, TES Online and TESFest, and the Dating Kinky class series. We hope to be able to teach and learn from your organization as well. We are founding members of MaST Fredericksburg, where Trouvere is Director and Chanteuse is Majordomo.
Trouvere spent four years as a full-time technical instructor. He has decades of public speaking and adult education experience. Chanteuse has a PhD in Educational Psychology and has taught and supervised instructors from pre-school to adult learners for the last 3 decades. https://fetlife.com/users/1122764 & https://fetlife.com/users/2533878”

To register:
MEMBERS -$10

Create a Member Portal account using the same email address used when you purchased your membership. (Email membership@tes.org if you have forgotten the one you used when registering for TES.) Be sure to respond to confirmation email & choose a password. After that, log back into the Member Portal.
To complete your purchase, click on this link and follow the instructions. Your membership discount will be automatically applied.

NON-MEMBERS – $20
Click here to register for this class.
If you’re unable to afford this, contact tes@tes.org & we’ll do our best to find a way to help you attend this class.

The DatingKinky platform is supported by multiple browsers, but if you are having any technical difficulties please try a different browser, as certain settings may interfere. Note that this link will only be active during scheduled meeting times.
You are welcome to participate as actively as you are comfortable. By default, users’ cameras and microphones will be switched off, and you may simply watch passively or participate solely by text in the chat box if you are uncomfortable being seen or heard. Please note that while we have selected this platform to be as private as possible while maintaining sufficient ease of use for participants, no online platform is ever fully secure. While all regular TES rules regarding privacy remain in effect, and anyone caught violating these rules will be subject to consequences (please see our Online Meeting Terms of Service), we advise participants to treat online events as though the event is being recorded by a third party. For more information on protecting your online privacy, please see our online privacy guide.

ONLINE - Fluid Dynamics: Time in All the Roles with MixtressRyder
2023-05-09 19:00 - 22:00
Do you have multiple dynamics or roles you like to play with your partner(s)? This workshop is built to help partners successfully negotiate and navigate relationships of 2+ with various power exchange structures. Using communication styles such as key words and body language, learn where to draw clear lines and where to leave things open ended. Along with a live demo and class activities, we will assist you in streamlining your ability to flow from one roll to another.
With over 10 years of performance arts experience, Ryder ranges from dancer, pro domme, rope bottom/switch, adult entertainer, to fetish model, kink educator and intimacy coach. They have well over a decade’s worth of experience in professional speaking and half a decade in education around pleasure activism and alternative lifestyles. They continue to both teach and learn locally and internationally.

To register:
MEMBERS -$10

Create a Member Portal account using the same email address used when you purchased your membership. (Email membership@tes.org if you have forgotten the one you used when registering for TES.) Be sure to respond to confirmation email & choose a password. After that, log back into the Member Portal.
To complete your purchase, click on this link and follow the instructions. Your membership discount will be automatically applied.

NON-MEMBERS – $20
Click here register for this class.
If you’re unable to afford this, contact tes@tes.org & we’ll do our best to find a way to help you attend this class.

The DatingKinky platform is supported by multiple browsers, but if you are having any technical difficulties please try a different browser, as certain settings may interfere. Note that this link will only be active during scheduled meeting times.
You are welcome to participate as actively as you are comfortable. By default, users’ cameras and microphones will be switched off, and you may simply watch passively or participate solely by text in the chat box if you are uncomfortable being seen or heard. Please note that while we have selected this platform to be as private as possible while maintaining sufficient ease of use for participants, no online platform is ever fully secure. While all regular TES rules regarding privacy remain in effect, and anyone caught violating these rules will be subject to consequences (please see our Online Meeting Terms of Service), we advise participants to treat online events as though the event is being recorded by a third party. For more information on protecting your online privacy, please see our online privacy guide.

ONLINE - Pentrating the Scene with Rhapsody_In_Blue
2023-05-16 19:00 - 22:00
For those who have only just made their Fet account or been out to a single munch. This class is a safe space for those new to the scene to ask their “dumb” questions. Because there are no dumb questions when you are new and trying to get oriented in this new and very complicated space. We talk about setting expectations, safety, and figuring out how to find what you are looking for.
@Rhapsody_In_Blue has been an active part of MI fetish and kink culture for the last 5 years. She is a nonprofit director, educator, podcaster, community builder, advocate, and Dom with masochistic switch tendencies. She enjoys clever conversation, solving complicated problems with creative people, and brown liquor. She is constantly practicing and perfecting her communication skills and karaoke performances. Accepts bribes in the form of stickers and coffee.
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To register:
MEMBERS -$10

Create a Member Portal account using the same email address used when you purchased your membership. (Email membership@tes.org if you have forgotten the one you used when registering for TES.) Be sure to respond to confirmation email & choose a password. After that, log back into the Member Portal.
To complete your purchase, click on this link and follow the instructions. Your membership discount will be automatically applied.

NON-MEMBERS – $20
Click here to register for this class.
Registration closes 6:30pm Tuesday night

The DatingKinky platform is supported by multiple browsers, but if you are having any technical difficulties please try a different browser, as certain settings may interfere. Note that this link will only be active during scheduled meeting times.
You are welcome to participate as actively as you are comfortable. By default, users’ cameras and microphones will be switched off, and you may simply watch passively or participate solely by text in the chat box if you are uncomfortable being seen or heard. Please note that while we have selected this platform to be as private as possible while maintaining sufficient ease of use for participants, no online platform is ever fully secure. While all regular TES rules regarding privacy remain in effect, and anyone caught violating these rules will be subject to consequences (please see our Online Meeting Terms of Service), we advise participants to treat online events as though the event is being recorded by a third party. For more information on protecting your online privacy, please see our online privacy guide.

ONLINE - BEDROC with AttorneyLadySteele
2023-05-23 19:00 - 22:00
BEDROC is my acronym for how I am living my life again, after a long hiatus. It is a mix of a friend’s philosophy plus my own philosophy I knew of for 13 years and actively lived for 5. The last 8 years? It became less and less until I lost myself, lost the respect of those I love(d), and nearly lost my sanity.
No more.
It’s time to come home. It’s time for my foundation to be BEDROC once more.
I share this in the hope that it helps others.
Be well, and happy holidays, if I don’t say it again.
BEDROC:
Boundaries – creating and maintaining mine; honoring others’.
Expectations – managing mine, having as few as possible as to not build resentment.
Detachment – as necessary, with love, not a machete.
Respect – act in a respectful way – take no disrespect from others. Be mutually respectful in my relationships with others.
Open Communication – give it and accept no less; transparency in all things.
Commitment – to myself then to those who I’ve committed to. Must also be bilateral. One person cannot make a relationship work, no matter what kind of relationship it is.
Lady Steele identifies as a femme queer Alpha leather slave. She has served in the Leather community since 1999. She has presented and volunteered across the U. S. and internationally. She resides in Atlanta where she operates her law practice that serves people in the various BDSM worlds and the ethical non-monogamy (ENM) community. She is the only out, open, and practicing attorney in the U.S. that specializes in the issues that are unique to the BDSM and ENM communities.
She is the founder of the Center of Learning and School of Success (C.L.A.S.S.), the Worthless Bastards (Cigar) Club (W.B.C. – Atlanta), and The Leather Coterie (T.L.C.). She proudly leads all of these organizations under the umbrella of the West Inclusive Georgia Socials (W.I.N.G.S.) group. Lady Steele held the position of Social Coordinator for NLA – Atlanta during its last incarnation in Atlanta.
She continues to give back to the community as Board Support and Vendor Coordinator for the Leather Leadership Conference and is also a proud member of Onyx Pearls – Southern Leather.
When she is not presenting, Lady Steele has shared her knowledge through multiple podcasts on BlogTalk (“The Legal Show”), the KinkyCast, the Poly Podcast, Kuldrin’s Krypt, Nightlife 24/7, Dating Kinky, Excite Me, and the Black to Leather podcast.

To register:
MEMBERS -$10

Create a Member Portal account using the same email address used when you purchased your membership. (Email membership@tes.org if you have forgotten the one you used when registering for TES.) Be sure to respond to respond to confirmation email & choose a password. After that, log back into the Member Portal.
To complete your purchase, click here, and follow the instructions. Your membership discount will be automatically applied.

NON-MEMBERS – $20
Click here register for this class.
Once you register, you’ll receive the link to the class approximately 15 – 20 minutes before it starts.
REGISTRATION CLOSES 30 MINUTES BEFORE CLASS. ALL QUESTIONS TO MEMBERSHIP@TES.ORG
If you’re unable to afford this, contact tes@tes.org & we’ll do our best to find a way to help you attend this class.

The DatingKinky platform is supported by multiple browsers, but if you are having any technical difficulties please try a different browser, as certain settings may interfere. Note that this link will only be active during scheduled meeting times.
You are welcome to participate as actively as you are comfortable. By default, users’ cameras and microphones will be switched off, and you may simply watch passively or participate solely by text in the chat box if you are uncomfortable being seen or heard. Please note that while we have selected this platform to be as private as possible while maintaining sufficient ease of use for participants, no online platform is ever fully secure. While all regular TES rules regarding privacy remain in effect, and anyone caught violating these rules will be subject to consequences (please see our Online Meeting Terms of Service), we advise participants to treat online events as though the event is being recorded by a third party. For more information on protecting your online privacy, please see our online privacy guide.

TES Final Thursday Munch: Almost Summer Edition
2023-05-25 19:00 - 22:00
Schools are letting out, ACs are blasting on, and it’s almost time for vacation! Why not come kick off the summer with TES at our monthly munch? Whether you’re new to the scene, an old friend, or just passing through, we’re excited to see you!

Come join us!

Thursday, May 25th, at 7:30pm
at the
Skylight Diner
402 W 34th St. (@ 9th Ave)
New York, NY 10001

Our hosts will be there to welcome you and answer any questions. There is no cost to attend this event beyond paying for the food you order (and please tip your server well!).
The TES Final Thursday Munch is our monthly gathering on the last Thursday of each month. It’s a great opportunity to meet and hangout with your fellow kinksters in a low-key, low pressure environment. It is open to all members of the community in good standing, and those who are new to the scene are especially encouraged to attend. There is no requirement to RSVP ahead of time, and you do not need to be a TES member to attend.
Please note that we highly encourage all attendees to be vaccinated and up-to-date against Covid. However, this event is hosted at a diner that is open to other patrons, and we cannot control for anything beyond what the restaurant requires. Please assess your own risk profiles and act accordingly. We will be providing a discrete option for contact tracing, which is highly encouraged.

ONLINE - TES presents - Neuroscience of Drop, Why It Matters, and How Intentional Aftercare Helps with xSolaris
2023-05-30 19:00 - 22:00
If you’ve been in kink for any length of time, it’s likely that you’ve experienced or seen someone else experience drop. But what causes it? How is it treated, other than aftercare? And how can severe drop be prevented? In easy-to-understand language, this class explains these concepts and more. You will better understand your personal risk budget, be able to plan for an active kink life when you can’t afford to take lengthy periods of time to be in drop, better gauge the warning signs of burnout/severe drop before they happen, make more effective decisions about when, where, and who to play with, and pad your relationships against any unintended damage due to drop. This class covers event drop, drop for both sides of the slash, for singles and those in relationships, and special concerns for edge play.
xSolaris is a Social Psychologist and Neuroscientist with a decade in kink. Lifestyle Switch in a Primal dynamic and a professional Domme/Sadist with a commitment to RACK/PRICK.
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To register:
MEMBERS -$10

Create a Member Portal account using the same email address used when you purchased your membership. (Email membership@tes.org if you have forgotten the one you used when registering for TES.) Be sure to respond to confirmation email & choose a password. After that, log back into the Member Portal.
To complete your purchase, click on this link and follow the instructions. Your membership discount will be automatically applied.

NON-MEMBERS – $20
Click here to register for this class.
If you’re unable to afford this, contact tes@tes.org & we’ll do our best to find a way to help you attend this class.

The DatingKinky platform is supported by multiple browsers, but if you are having any technical difficulties please try a different browser, as certain settings may interfere. Note that this link will only be active during scheduled meeting times.
You are welcome to participate as actively as you are comfortable. By default, users’ cameras and microphones will be switched off, and you may simply watch passively or participate solely by text in the chat box if you are uncomfortable being seen or heard. Please note that while we have selected this platform to be as private as possible while maintaining sufficient ease of use for participants, no online platform is ever fully secure. While all regular TES rules regarding privacy remain in effect, and anyone caught violating these rules will be subject to consequences (please see our Online Meeting Terms of Service), we advise participants to treat online events as though the event is being recorded by a third party. For more information on protecting your online privacy, please see our online privacy guide.

ONLINE - Fire Massage 101/201 with Echo
2023-08-29 19:00 - 22:00
This class is a mix of our 101 and 201 courses. Since this is a online group class, there will be no hands on practice from participants. Descriptions for each class below.
Fire Massage 101: Fundamentals – This class focuses solely on the science of fire and how to set up your equipment properly. This is a lecture-based class that delves into safety and risk mitigation. Demonstrations will be done throughout the class.
Fire Massage 201: Practice Makes perfect – This class is a mix of lecture and hands on. Participants will be taught how safety applies to fire in a practical sense. We delve into the basics of form theory, application techniques, extinguishment theory, and burn cycles.
Echos Fire LLC is the leader in quality hand made fire play torches. Echo has been involved in the art of fire since 2008 and has traveled all across the United States and up into Canada teaching fire manipulation and safety at all levels. Her innovative torch designs are indicative of her skill and dedication as they are clearly made with efficiency, safety and ease of use in mind.
Her style of Fire Manipulation is designed for the kinkster and vanilla alike, coined under the moniker Fire Massage. She is constantly researching, testing, modifying and adding new and exciting techniques to keep every single experience dynamic and fresh.
Echo’s Fire will mesmerize and entice you to join in the flames. Stop by to watch a scene, or perhaps to try it out yourself!

To register:
MEMBERS -$10

Create a Member Portal account using the same email address used when you purchased your membership. (Email membership@tes.org if you have forgotten the one you used when registering for TES.) Be sure to respond to confirmation email & choose a password. After that, log back into the Member Portal.
To complete your purchase, return to this FL event page, click on this link and follow the instructions. Your membership discount will be automatically applied.

NON-MEMBERS – $20
Click here to register for this class.
If you’re unable to afford this, contact tes@tes.org & we’ll do our best to find a way to help you attend this class.
REGISTRATION CLOSES 30 MINUTES BEFORE START OF CLASS! ALL QUESTIONS GO TO MEMBERSHIP@TES.ORG! YOU WILL RECEIVE THE LINK 10-15 MINUTES BEFORE THE START OF CLASS.

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The DatingKinky platform is supported by multiple browsers, but if you are having any technical difficulties please try a different browser, as certain settings may interfere. Note that this link will only be active during scheduled meeting times.
You are welcome to participate as actively as you are comfortable. By default, users’ cameras and microphones will be switched off, and you may simply watch passively or participate solely by text in the chat box if you are uncomfortable being seen or heard. Please note that while we have selected this platform to be as private as possible while maintaining sufficient ease of use for participants, no online platform is ever fully secure. While all regular TES rules regarding privacy remain in effect, and anyone caught violating these rules will be subject to consequences (please see our Online Meeting Terms of Service), we advise participants to treat online events as though the event is being recorded by a third party. For more information on protecting your online privacy, please see our online privacy guide.
