IN-PERSON - TES Monthly Munch
2025-05-05 19:00 - 22:00 (America/New_York)
Whether you’re new to the scene, an old friend, or just passing through, we’re excited to see you! We meet every month on the first Monday of the month. Join us!
Our hosts will be there to welcome you and answer any questions. Attending this event is free beyond paying for the food you order (and please tip your server well!)
The TES Munch is our monthly gathering on the first Monday of each month. It’s a great opportunity to meet and hang out with your fellow kinksters in a low-key, low-pressure environment. It is open to all members of the community in good standing, and those who are new to the scene are especially encouraged to attend. There is no requirement to RSVP ahead of time, and you do not need to be a TES member to attend.
Please note that we highly encourage all attendees to be vaccinated and up-to-date against COVID-19. However, this event is hosted at a diner that is open to other patrons, and we cannot control anything beyond what the restaurant requires. Please assess your own risk profiles and act accordingly. We will be providing a discrete option for contact tracing, which is highly encouraged.

In-Person - Become a DM for TES Fest 2025
2025-05-08 19:30 - 22:00 | LGBT Community Center, 208 W 13th St, New York, NY, 10011, United States
Youngscientist, our TES Fest 2025 Chair of Safety, will be training all volunteers who signed up to be Dungeon Monitors for TES Fest 2025. If you’re interested in learning for future TES events but didn’t sign up, please register anyway—education is knowledge capital for our community.
As a Dungeon Monitor, you’ll learn how to:

Develop skills to facilitate a safe dungeon environment
Work effectively with a team
Communicate respectfully and clearly
Identify possible safety risks
Understand the dos and don’ts of the role
Devise solutions and alternative approaches
To review best practices on skill-based play, and boundaries of consent in a dungeon environment

Bio: @Youngscientist has been active in many facets of the scene for over 15 years. He’s volunteered and worked on staff for at least a dozen organizations throughout that time, including being one of the few Pro-DM’s in the NYC area. Knowledge has been one of his main driving forces, which led him to start teaching early on. He’s probably most well-known for teaching Wrestling/Grappling classes and hosting Jello and Lube Wrestling events.
This class will be held at:
The Center (The Lesbian, Gay, Bisexual & Transgender Community Center)
208 West 13th Street
New York, NY

To register in advance (strongly preferred):
If you already have a TES account, CLICK HERE TO REGISTER

Create a Member Portal account
Members: use the same email address used when you purchased your membership. (Email membership@tes.org if you have forgotten the one you used when registering for TES.) Be sure to respond to confirmation email & choose a password. After that, log back into the Member Portal.
Non-members: you will still need to make an account to register . Be sure to respond to confirmation email & choose a password. After that, log back into the Member Portal.
To complete your purchase, return to this FL event page, click on THIS LINK and follow the instructions. Your membership discount will be automatically applied.

To register on-site:
There will be a QR code available to allow you to register on-site following the same process above, but TES will not be able to accept cash at the door.
If cost is a barrier to attendance, please email customer-care@tes.org
At the event, you’ll have the opportunity to become a TES member by scanning our on-site QR code. Membership not only connects you with a vibrant community but also unlocks discounts for our flagship event: TES Fest 2025!
TES Fest 2025: Celebrate Your Freedom to Be Kinky!
Mark your calendars for July 3–6, 2025, as we take over our favorite hotel in Piscataway, NJ, for a weekend filled with:

Educational Workshops: Over 90 classes, demos, and hands-on workshops covering a wide array of kinky skills and interests.
Special Events: Meet & Greets, kinky speed dating, and more, offering endless opportunities to connect and have fun.
Play Spaces: Custom-built indoor and outdoor dungeons equipped with top-notch equipment for your exploration.
Vendors: A diverse selection of fetish and BDSM vendors, offering everything from corsets to whips.

As a TES member, you’ll enjoy exclusive discounts on TES Fest registration. Don’t miss out on this premier event in the NYC Metro region, designed for everyone—from novices to seasoned veterans—to socialize, learn new skills, and have a great time.
For more details, visit TESFest.org.
Don’t miss this chance to game, connect, and gear up for an unforgettable summer! Bring a friend, roll the dice, and let’s make memories together. See you there!

Online - Become a DM for TES Fest 2025 (Online Version)
2025-05-13 19:00 - 22:00 | Virtual
Youngscientist, our TES Fest 2025 Chair of Safety, will be training all volunteers who signed up to be Dungeon Monitors for TES Fest 2025. If you’re interested in learning for future TES events but didn’t sign up, please register anyway—education is knowledge capital for our community.
As a Dungeon Monitor, you’ll learn how to:

Develop skills to facilitate a safe dungeon environment
Work effectively with a team
Communicate respectfully and clearly
Identify possible safety risks
Understand the dos and don’ts of the role
Devise solutions and alternative approaches
To review best practices on skill-based play, and boundaries of consent in a dungeon environment

Bio: @Youngscientist has been active in many facets of the scene for over 15 years. He’s volunteered and worked on staff for at least a dozen organizations throughout that time, including being one of the few Pro-DM’s in the NYC area. Knowledge has been one of his main driving forces, which led him to start teaching early on. He’s probably most well-known for teaching Wrestling/Grappling classes and hosting Jello and Lube Wrestling events.
To register:
MEMBERS – FREE

Create a Member Portal account using the same email address used when you purchased your membership. (Email membership@tes.org if you have forgotten the one you used when registering for TES.) Be sure to respond to confirmation email & choose a password. After that, log back into the Member Portal.
To complete your purchase, return to this FL event page, click on this link and follow the instructions. Your membership discount will be automatically applied.

NON-MEMBERS – FREE
Click here for this class.
REGISTRATION CLOSES 30 MINUTES BEFORE START OF CLASS! ALL QUESTIONS GO TO CUSTOMER-CARE@TES.ORG! YOU WILL RECEIVE THE LOGIN LINK WITH THE CONFIRMATION EMAIL.
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You are welcome to participate as actively as you are comfortable. By default, users’ cameras and microphones will be switched off, and you may simply watch passively or participate solely by text in the chat box if you are uncomfortable being seen or heard. Please note that while we have selected this platform to be as private as possible while maintaining sufficient ease of use for participants, no online platform is ever fully secure. While all regular TES rules regarding privacy remain in effect, and anyone caught violating these rules will be subject to consequences (please see our Online Meeting Terms of Service), we advise participants to treat online events as though the event is being recorded by a third party. For more information on protecting your online privacy, please see our online privacy guide.
TES Fest 2025: Celebrate Your Freedom to Be Kinky!
Mark your calendars for July 3–6, 2025, as we take over our favorite hotel in Piscataway, NJ, for a weekend filled with:
Educational Workshops: Over 90 classes, demos, and hands-on workshops covering a wide array of kinky skills and interests.
Special Events: Meet & Greets, kinky speed dating, and more, offering endless opportunities to connect and have fun.
Play Spaces: Custom-built indoor and outdoor dungeons equipped with top-notch equipment for your exploration.
Vendors: A diverse selection of fetish and BDSM vendors, offering everything from corsets to whips.
As a TES member, you’ll enjoy exclusive discounts on TES Fest registration. Don’t miss out on this premier event in the NYC Metro region, designed for everyone—from novices to seasoned veterans—to socialize, learn new skills, and have a great time.
For more details, visit TESFest.org

ONLINE - May Board Meeting
2025-05-19 00:00
Open to all current members.
Information on how to join is distributed to the membership on the first of the month via our membership newsletter, The Eulenspeigel Mirror. If you are a member, would like to join, and did not receive this information, please email secretary@tes.org
Need to renew your membership or join for the first time? Click here.

IN-PERSON - AANHPI Roundtable Discussion
2025-05-22 19:30 - 22:00 | LGBT Community Center, 208 W 13th St, New York, NY, 10011, United States
In celebration of Asian American Native Hawaiian Pacific Islander Heritage (AANHPI) Month, TES-NYC will be hosting a roundtable discussion with community leaders:
@HappyCindyyy
@bindingdaisies
@xoxoxin
@brightnbitter
@undergroundsea
@malswitch
@morriganwolf
Come celebrate our diverse community and listen to the voices of our AANHPI community members. This event is a great opportunity to show your support and learn from others.
Discussions will focus on creating intentional spaces and educating from different perspectives. We will have the opportunity to learn from these leaders as they share their experiences and insights.
This event is open and welcome to everyone. We encourage all members of the TES-NYC community to attend, listen, and learn from this important conversation.
This class will be held at:
The Center (The Lesbian, Gay, Bisexual & Transgender Community Center)
208 West 13th Street
New York, NY

To register in advance (strongly preferred):
If you already have a TES account, CLICK HERE TO REGISTER

Create a Member Portal account
Members: use the same email address used when you purchased your membership. (Email membership@tes.org if you have forgotten the one you used when registering for TES.) Be sure to respond to confirmation email & choose a password. After that, log back into the Member Portal.
Non-members: you will still need to make an account to register . Be sure to respond to confirmation email & choose a password. After that, log back into the Member Portal.
To complete your purchase, return to this FL event page, click on THIS LINK and follow the instructions. Your membership discount will be automatically applied.

To register on-site:
There will be a QR code available to allow you to register on-site following the same process above, but TES will not be able to accept cash at the door.
If cost is a barrier to attendance, please email customer-care@tes.org

ONLINE - TES Membership Meeting
2025-05-27 19:00 - 22:00 | Virtual
This meeting is held twice yearly to conduct official organization business and allows the membership to be directly involved in the process. All members in good standing are encouraged to attend and participate in these functions. The attendee link will be emailed in your May TES newsletter (The Eulenspiegel Mirror). If you are a member who would like to attend, but did not receive this information, please email: secretary@tes.org
We have board vacancies! Please click here to find out the requirements and consider nominating yourself.
Need to renew your membership or join for the first time? Click here.

No additional downloads or software required! This platform is supported by multiple browsers, but if you are having any technical difficulties please try a different browser, as certain settings may interfere. Note that this link will only be active during scheduled meeting times.
You are welcome to participate as actively as you are comfortable. By default, users’ cameras and microphones will be switched off, and you may simply watch passively or participate solely by text in the chat box if you are uncomfortable being seen or heard. Please note that while we have selected this platform to be as private as possible while maintaining sufficient ease of use for participants, no online platform is ever fully secure. While all regular TES rules regarding privacy remain in effect, and anyone caught violating these rules will be subject to consequences (please see our Online Meeting Terms of Service), we advise participants to treat online events as though the event is being recorded by a third party. For more information on protecting your online privacy, please see our online privacy guide.

IN-PERSON - TES Monthly Munch
2025-06-02 19:00 - 22:00, 2025-08-04 19:00 - 22:00 | Skylight Diner, 402 West 34th Street, New York, NY, 10001, United States

IN-PERSON - Transgender Round Table
2025-06-12 19:30 - 22:00 | LGBT Community Center, 208 W 13th St, New York, NY, 10011, United States
This Pride Month, TES presents a roundtable featuring a diverse panel of Transgender BDSM players and professionals from across the New York Metropolitan Trans community. By bringing together these panelists’ perspectives in conversation, we hope to address issues around safety, community, and transformation.
We invite everyone to take time from this month of celebration to listen to the voices of trans kinksters who, despite the violent campaign waged against them, remain steadfast in preserving and advancing our collective liberation in and out of the scene.
Moderator: Dahlia Damoiselle @ExpendableFemme
Panelists:
Boss Dian @cellophaneswitch
Lucy Hart @LucyHart
Oran Julius @JuicyFruitOran
Mistress Katia Thorn @MistressThorn
Violet Bordeaux @violet_bordeaux
This class will be held at:
The Center (The Lesbian, Gay, Bisexual & Transgender Community Center)
208 West 13th Street
New York, NY

To register in advance (strongly preferred):
If you already have a TES account, CLICK HERE TO REGISTER
MEMBERS/NON-MEMBERS – FREE

Create a Member Portal account
Members: Use the same email address you used when you purchased your membership. (Email membership@tes.org if you have forgotten the one you used when registering for TES.) Be sure to respond to the confirmation email & choose a password. After that, log back into the Member Portal.
Non-members: You will still need to make an account to register. Be sure to respond to the confirmation email & choose a password. After that, log back into the Member Portal.
To complete your purchase, click on THIS LINK and follow the instructions. Your membership discount will be automatically applied.

To register on-site:
A QR code will be available to allow on-site registration, following the same process outlined above. However, please note that TES will not accept cash at the door.
If cost is a barrier to attendance, please email customer-care@tes.org

IN-PERSON - TES Back at Folsom Street East
2025-06-15 11:00 - 18:00 | 27th Street Between 10th & 11th Avenues, 27th Street Between 10th & 11th Avenues, New York, Hungary
TES Makes Triumphant Return to Folsom Street East!
Get ready, kinksters and revelers! After a long-awaited hiatus since 2019, TES is officially back at Folsom Street East! We’re thrilled to announce our return with a dedicated booth, and we want you to be a part of the excitement.
This is your chance to reconnect with your favorite kinky TES friends, soak in the vibrant atmosphere, and even snag a moment of shaded respite from the sun. The TES Booth isn’t just a meeting point; it’s a haven where you can recharge and connect with the community.

Volunteer with TES and Get Your Respite!
Want to help make our return unforgettable and enjoy a comfortable break? We’re looking for enthusiastic volunteers to be ambassadors at the TES booth for 2-hour shifts. It’s the perfect opportunity to lend a hand, meet new people, and enjoy a well-deserved sit-down in the shade.
Folsom Street East is happening on Sunday, June 15th, from 11 AM to 6 PM, rain or shine. Our volunteer shifts run from 9 AM to 7 PM, offering flexibility throughout the day.
If you’re interested in a 2-hour shift, please email volunteers@tes.org to sign up.

Important Information for Volunteers
Please note that all volunteers must purchase a ticket to enter Folsom Street East. You can secure your ticket by paying $20 with cash at The Entrance or Prepay HERE.

Don’t miss this incredible opportunity to celebrate with TES at Folsom Street East! We can’t wait to see you there.
Since 1997, Folsom Street East celebrates and inspires participation and pride in fetish, kink, and LGBTQIA+ communities through the creation of safe spaces for public expression of our sexual identities. The Folsom Street East festival has become an annual highlight of the global fetish/kink calendar as a sex and body-positive shared space on the streets of New York City. Folsom Street East envisions a world where sexual self-discovery and fulfillment are supported by a safe and affirming environment. Access to diverse fetish/kink community spaces is expanded, and fear of stigma and negative repercussions is diminished. People are empowered to challenge sexual norms and add to a broad spectrum of sexual identities and expressions. This year’s theme is “Bound Together”. The Street will once again be lined with some 50 community groups and vendors that appeal to the LGBTQIA+ and the kink communities. A one-stop shop for fetish/kink gear, porn and toys.
Folsom Street East is proud to honor this year’s beneficiaries:
New Alternatives
NEWALTERNATIVESNYC.ORG
Juntos
VAMOSJUNTOS.ORG
Princess Janae Place
PRINCESSJANAEPLACE.ORG
Galaei
GALAEIQTBIPOC.ORG
Folsom Street East is about freedom and fun, but to ensure the longevity of this year’s festival and the comfort of all revelers, Folsom Street East requires everyone to follow these basic ground rules:
… All attendees must be able to prove they are above the age of 18 by presenting a valid government-issued form of ID.
… Consumption of alcohol is restricted to the confines of the event and only for those 21+.
… Adequate space must be cleared, and consent must be given by all participants in any demo or scene. No demo or scene may involve blood or other bodily fluids.
… No public sexual activity – this includes any form of oral or penetrative sex or masturbation.
… No complete public nudity and no exposure of genitals.
… Though we recognize that in public our photograph may be taken, we ask that you ask for explicit consent before taking someone’s photograph or making them the subject of a video.
… Wearing of any uniform/attire that promotes or could be associated with any form of hate or discrimination is not permitted.
This is a rain or shine event, so throw on your best gear or come as you are to enjoy a day of kinky demos, vendors, music, and performances. Coatcheck will be available for $5.00.
So, let’s have a great showing and meet up with old friends and even make some new friends, but overall let’s just have a great time at this year’s Folsom Street East festival!!!

ONLINE - TES Board Meeting
2025-06-16 19:00 - 22:00, 2025-07-21 00:00, 2025-08-18 19:00 - 22:00 | Virtual
Open to all current members.
Information on how to join is distributed to the membership on the first of the month via our members-only newsletter, The Eulenspiegel Mirror. If you are a member, would like to join, and did not receive this information, please email secretary@tes.org

We have board vacancies! Please click here to determine the requirements and consider nominating yourself.
Need to renew your membership or join for the first time? Click here.

IN-PERSON - Game Night Social
2025-06-26 19:30 - 22:00 | LGBT Community Center, 208 W 13th St, New York, NY, 10011, United States
Ready to make more like-minded friends in a non-judgmental environment?
Join us for a FREE exciting evening of fun and board games. Get together with your @TES-NYC friends for a relaxing social.
While we will have some popular board games available, feel free to bring some of your favorites. All are welcome.
Please register before attending for convenience and more fun!
This class will be held at:
The Center (The Lesbian, Gay, Bisexual & Transgender Community Center)
208 West 13th Street
New York, NY
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To register in advance (strongly preferred):
If you already have a TES account, CLICK HERE TO REGISTER
MEMBERS/NON-MEMBERS – FREE
1. Create a Member Portal account
Members: Use the same email address used when you purchased your membership. (Email membership@tes.org if you have forgotten the one you used when registering for TES.) Be sure to respond to the confirmation email & choose a password. After that, log back into the Member Portal.
Non-members: You will still need to make an account to register. Be sure to respond to the confirmation email & choose a password. After that, log back into the Member Portal.
2. To complete your purchase, return to this FL event page, click on THIS LINK, and follow the instructions. Your membership discount will be automatically applied.
To register on-site:
There will be a QR code available to allow you to register on-site following the same process above, but TES will not be able to accept cash at the door.
If cost is a barrier to attendance, please email customer-care@tes.org

TES FEST 2025
2025-07-03 16:00 - 2025-07-06 11:00 | Piscataway, NJ, Piscataway, NJ, United States
TES Fest takes over an entire hotel, inside and out, in Piscataway, New Jersey, so people can come together to learn, connect, and grow with kinksters from all over the NYC Metro area, the country, and the world! Join us and attend classes, meetups, and special events that cover a wide range of topics and interests. Come explore, educate, and entertain yourselves!

How do I register?
CLICK HERE!
To purchase a ticket, log in using the same email address you used when you purchased your TES membership. From there, you can buy a ticket.
If you have not created an account, create one and then follow the directions above.

WHAT TO LOOK FORWARD TO:
Lots of Kinky Learning
With local, national, and international presenters, TES Fest features a host of classes, demos, and hands-on workshops, covering a wide variety of kinky skills and interests.
Tons of Kinky Fun!
In addition to classes, special events like meet & greets, kinky speed dating, and more will take place throughout the long weekend. To fulfill your play space needs, we feature a variety of custom equipment and rigs, as well as an amazing outdoor dungeon! There are also fetish and BDSM vendors selling everything from corsets and knives to violet wand kits and whips!
TES and TES Fest are committed to being a reliable and valuable BDSM community resource, a welcoming social environment, and a definitive educational outlet for those seeking to freely express their consensual sexuality.

IN-PERSON - Bringing the War Fans Out to Play with Sir Sublime
2025-07-24 19:30 - 22:00 | LGBT Community Center, 208 W 13th St, New York, NY, 10011, United States
War fans have been an unconventional toy for BDSM play for over two decades and are one that Sir Sublime holds dear in his heart. In this class, Sir Sublime will share his considerable knowledge on the history behind the use of War fans for kinky play, safety tips for both Tops and bottoms, and fun ways to incorporate war fans into your style of play.
SirSublime has been publicly practicing BDSM since 2011 and has been a House Top and House Rigger for various play spaces during his journey. Sir Sublime considers himself a rope artist, toy maker, and educator. He is known for his sensual rope work, fan play, and his dedication to safety.
Demo bottom: Lex Lively realized that she might be into impact play when she would look for any excuse to be paddled while in a sorority during her time in college. While fairly new to the public scene, she has spent the last few years learning and exploring, discovering new things that excite her almost constantly. She lives up to her name, meeting each moment with energy and enthusiasm, always looking forward to the next adventure.
This class will be held at:
The Center (The Lesbian, Gay, Bisexual & Transgender Community Center)
208 West 13th Street
New York, NY
To register in advance (strongly preferred):
If you already have a TES account, CLICK HERE TO REGISTER
MEMBERS -$10 / NON-MEMBERS – $25
Create a Member Portal account:
Members: Use the same email address you used when you purchased your membership. (Email membership@tes.org if you have forgotten the one you used when registering for TES.) Be sure to respond to the confirmation email & choose a password. After that, log back into the Member Portal.
Non-members: You will still need to make an account to register. Be sure to respond to the confirmation email & choose a password. After that, log back into the Member Portal.
To complete your purchase, click on THIS LINK and follow the instructions. Your membership discount will be automatically applied.
To register on-site:
There will be a QR code available to allow you to register on-site following the same process above, but TES will not be able to accept cash at the door.
If cost is a barrier to attendance, please email customer-care@tes.org

IN-PERSON - The Art of Tittie Torture with AngelFireQueen
2025-08-14 19:30 - 22:00 | LGBT Community Center, 208 W 13th St, New York, NY, 10011, United States
This class welcomes all body types, genders, and/or gender-nonconforming.
What comes to mind when you see that tittie? There’s no single right answer, and this class embraces the spectrum of possibilities.
As a devoted “boob-lover,” Angel often receives requests for specific forms of breast worship; many of her masochistic “breastfriends” seek the thrill of bruises and marks. As an artist dedicated to safe pleasure, Angel has cultivated numerous effective techniques for consensual breast torture, and she’s eager to share her findings.
This class provides a rich array of options for “tittie torture,” from psychological methods to those leaving no marks, and those designed for deep bruising.
Whether the occasion calls for subtle intensity or extreme impact, you’ll discover a wealth of techniques, including those that create sensation without physical touch.
Explore popular methods alongside more unique and intense approaches, all depending on your desired outcome.
Learn Angel’s favorite techniques, like how to create those beautiful, deep purple bruises many desire, or how to inflict profound pain without leaving a trace. This dynamic class focuses entirely on breasts, spanning the spectrum from the deeply sensual to the exquisitely painful.
Each session emphasizes consent, safe practices, and crucial aftercare. You’re welcome to attend solo or with your “breastfriends”; the class includes dedicated time for demonstrations and hands-on practice. Don’t forget to bring your favorite toys for a show-and-tell at the end of the workshop.
@AngelFireQueen, as a passionate advocate for “Boobie Worship,” is thrilled to present “The Art of Tittie Torture.
Bio:
Meet Angel (she/her), a multifaceted switch, poly, and pansexual energy player who thrives on community connection. Originally from Latin America, she’s called NYC home for 17 years, driven by a constant desire to learn, evolve, and safely explore.
Since discovering the kink community in 2021, Angel has become deeply involved, regularly attending parties, events, classes, and workshops. Her current passions span fire, electro play, all forms of sensation, rope, and breast worship/torture. Angel infuses the community with her unique and passionate energy.
In her professional life, she guides people to their dream homes.
This class will be held at:
The Center (The Lesbian, Gay, Bisexual & Transgender Community Center)
208 West 13th Street
New York, NY
To register in advance (strongly preferred):
If you already have a TES account, CLICK HERE TO REGISTER
MEMBERS -$10 / NON-MEMBERS – $25
Create a Member Portal account:
Members: Use the same email address you used when you purchased your membership. (Email membership@tes.org if you have forgotten the one you used when registering for TES.) Be sure to respond to the confirmation email & choose a password. After that, log back into the Member Portal.
Non-members: You will still need to make an account to register. Be sure to respond to the confirmation email & choose a password. After that, log back into the Member Portal.
To complete your purchase, click on THIS LINK and follow the instructions. Your membership discount will be automatically applied.
To register on-site:
There will be a QR code available to allow you to register on-site following the same process above, but TES will not be able to accept cash at the door.
If cost is a barrier to attendance, please email customer-care@tes.org

IN-PERSON - BDSM 101 with Goddess Coko and Sadomasochist Sal
2025-08-28 19:30 - 22:00 | LGBT Community Center, 208 W 13th St, New York, NY, 10011, United States
Curious about BDSM? Whether you’re a beginner or returning to the scene, this class is your perfect starting point!
We’ll cover consent models, essential safety and negotiation skills, basic vocabulary, roles, and archetypes. Discover what BDSM is (and isn’t!) and how to navigate munches and play parties.
Our goal is to give you the foundation to explore kink safely, solo or with partners. Ready to dive in?
Bio:
Goddess Coko (she/her) had been an active member of the NYC kink scene for over 20+ years. She is happy and excited to be back serving on the TES Board as Secretary, a role she is familiar with when she served on the Board from 2008 to 2009. She returned to this role in November 2023 as an interim Director. Goddess Coko serves as Chair of the Communications and Promotions Committees, Vice Chair of Community Relations, and volunteers on the POC Committee.
Goddess Coko is also a Founding Mother of ONYX PEARLS NY-Northeast and former Co-Head Mistress and Web Mistress for ClubFEM NYC. Goddess Coko is a proud member of Goddess House NJ, a FemDom-led Leather family.
Sadomasochist Sal (he/him/they/them) has been active in the BDSM community since the summer of 2021. During this time, Sal has attended several conventions, including three TESFests, all of which he volunteered at, and has become a regular at several NYC-based play parties and munches. At the end of 2024, he began volunteering at TES, an organization he has been a member of since 2023.
As a sadomasochist, Sal enjoys both receiving and inflicting physical pain when consent is explicitly given. Although he has a particular fondness for impact play, he also enjoys fire play, mummification, trampling, and rope suspension. And he is also a caregiver at heart, as he derives extreme pleasure from sharing his knowledge and experiences with others, especially those newer to the community.
This class will be held at:
The Center (The Lesbian, Gay, Bisexual & Transgender Community Center)
208 West 13th Street
New York, NY
To register in advance (strongly preferred):
If you already have a TES account, CLICK HERE TO REGISTER
MEMBERS -$10 / NON-MEMBERS – $25
Create a Member Portal account:
Members: Use the same email address you used when you purchased your membership. (Email membership@tes.org if you have forgotten the one you used when registering for TES.) Be sure to respond to the confirmation email & choose a password. After that, log back into the Member Portal.
Non-members: You will still need to make an account to register. Be sure to respond to the confirmation email & choose a password. After that, log back into the Member Portal.
To complete your purchase, click on THIS LINK and follow the instructions. Your membership discount will be automatically applied.
To register on-site:
There will be a QR code available to allow you to register on-site following the same process above, but TES will not be able to accept cash at the door.
If cost is a barrier to attendance, please email customer-care@tes.org

IN-PERSON - TES Monthly Munch
2025-09-08 19:00 - 22:00
Whether you’re new to the scene, an old friend, or just passing through, we’re excited to see you! Normally, we meet every month on the first Monday of the month, except when it falls on a national holiday. Because the first Monday of September is Labor Day, we will be meeting on the 2nd Monday of the Month, on the 8th. Join us!
Our hosts will be there to welcome you and answer any questions. Attending this event is free beyond paying for the food you order (and please tip your server well!)
The TES Munch is our monthly gathering on the first Monday of each month. It’s a great opportunity to meet and hang out with your fellow kinksters in a low-key, low-pressure environment. It is open to all members of the community in good standing, and those who are new to the scene are especially encouraged to attend. There is no requirement to RSVP ahead of time, and you do not need to be a TES member to attend.
Please note that we highly encourage all attendees to be vaccinated and up-to-date against COVID-19. However, this event is hosted at a diner that is open to other patrons, and we cannot control anything beyond what the restaurant requires. Please assess your own risk profiles and act accordingly. We will be providing a discrete option for contact tracing, which is highly encouraged.

IN-PERSON – I Am Not Left-Handed: A Class on Anatomy and Swordplay
2025-09-11 19:00 - 22:00 | LGBT Community Center, 208 W 13th St, New York, NY, 10011, United States
Hone your impact scenes with Boss Dian’s ‘Anatomy and Swordplay’ class. This informative session covers the proper use of swordplay with anatomy fundamentals. This beginner-friendly class, open to all tops and bottoms, will explore how to incorporate swordplay into your scenes. Boss Dian will lead discussions and demonstrations on how to use their favorite impact tool. They will provide information on negotiation, safe striking areas of the body, and ensuring both safety and dramatic effect.
*This is an impact class. There will be no cutting scenes during the demonstration.
Bio:
The Boss Dian, lifestyle switch, professional Dominatrix, and occasional kink muppet, has been cackling maniacally at parties and dungeons since 2009. An impact top, Dian loves finding unique tools and skills to optimize a scene. Ask about the time they used drumsticks and a rubber chicken one evening.
Location and Cost
Location:
The Center (The Lesbian, Gay, Bisexual & Transgender Community Center)
208 West 13th Street,
New York, NY 10011
Cost:

Members: $10
Non-Members: $25

Registration in advance is strongly encouraged due to limited internet access at the venue.
Note: Each attendee will need to have a separate account to register.
Online Registration:
If You Already Have an Account

Register: Click here to go to the class registration page.
Log in: Use your existing account information to log in and register for the class. Your membership discount will be applied automatically.
Complete Purchase: Follow the instructions to complete your payment. Your membership discount will be automatically applied.

If You Need to Create an Account
For Members:

Create Your Account: Go to the Member Portal and create your account here. Be sure to use the same email address you used when you purchased your TES membership. If you’ve forgotten it, email membership@tes.org for assistance.
Confirm Your Email: Check your inbox for a confirmation email and follow the link to set your password.
Log In and Register: Click this link to log back into the Member Portal and register for the class.
Complete Purchase: Follow the instructions to complete your payment. Your membership discount will be automatically applied.

For Non-Members:

Create Your Account: Go to the registration page and create your member portal account here.
Confirm Your Email: Check your inbox for a confirmation email and follow the link to enter your password.
Log In and Register: Click this link to log back into the Member Portal and register for the class.
Complete Purchase: Follow the instructions to complete your payment.

On-Site Registration
On-site registration is available, but please be aware that internet access may be limited.

You will be able to register by scanning a QR code with your smartphone.
The registration process is the same as the advanced registration steps listed above.
Cash payments are not accepted at the door.

ONLINE - TES Board Meeting
2025-09-15 19:00 - 22:00

IN-PERSON: Rope and Neurodivergence
2025-09-25 19:00 - 22:00 | LGBT Community Center, 208 W 13th St, New York, NY, 10011, United States
This class will explore the fascinating intersection of rope and neurodivergence. We’ll delve into how elements like deep pressure, clear communication, sensory stimulation, and grounding, which are central to both BDSM and neurodivergence, beautifully overlap within the community. Drawing from both lived autistic/neurodivergent experience and extensive rope practice, the class will discuss and demonstrate:

How topping and bottoming rope resonate in this context
Important accommodations and considerations
Neurodivergent-inclusive negotiation, tying, and active bottoming

There will also be time for hands-on exploration for those who are interested, so bring your rope.
Bios:
Knotty Chris (he/him): Chris is a bottom/sub-leaning switch deeply involved in the NYC rope and kink scene since January 2024. He views rope & bondage as a connective somatic language and BDSM as a form of self-expression, shared energy, and joyful co-creation. As a passionate community builder and neurodivergent kinkster, Chris organizes two local munches (the movie-focused CineMunch and the neurodivergent-centered The Yap), and facilitates the Bushwick Rope Share and the movie night/rope jam CineNawa.
Emji (they/them): With a decade of experience in feeling, interacting, and connecting with rope, Emji, “the ‘little’ rigger,” deeply values the connection between bottom and rigger. Their first and greatest love is rope, and they are a strong advocate for active bottoming and thorough negotiation. When not engaged in rope experiences and education, Emji enjoys “little” adventures with their “little” friends around the city.
Location and Cost
Location:
The Center (The Lesbian, Gay, Bisexual & Transgender Community Center)
208 West 13th Street,
New York, NY 10011
Cost:

Members: $10
Non-Members: $25

Registration in advance is strongly encouraged due to limited internet access at the venue.
Note: Each attendee will need to have a separate account to register.
Online Registration:
If You Already Have an Account

Register: Click here to go to the registration page.
Log in: Use your existing account information to log in and register for the class. Your membership discount will be applied automatically.
Complete Purchase: Follow the instructions to complete your payment.

If You Need to Create an Account
For Members:

Create Your Account: Go to the Member Portal and create your account here. Be sure to use the same email address you used when you purchased your TES membership. If you’ve forgotten it, email membership@tes.org for assistance.
Confirm Your Email: Check your inbox for a confirmation email and follow the link to set your password.
Log In and Register: Click this link to log in and register for the class. Your membership discount will be applied automatically.
Complete Purchase: Follow the instructions to complete your payment. Your membership discount will be automatically applied.

For Non-Members:

Create Your Account: Go to the registration page and create your account here.
Confirm Your Email: Check your inbox for a confirmation email and follow the link to set your password.
Log In and Register: Click this link to log in and register for the class.
Complete Purchase: Follow the instructions to complete your payment.

On-Site Registration:
On-site registration is available, but please be aware that internet access may be limited.

You will be able to register by scanning a QR code with your smartphone.
The registration process is the same as the advanced registration steps listed above.
Cash payments are not accepted at the door.

ONLINE - Off the Leash: Feral States/Play with Tower
2025-09-30 19:00 - 22:00 | Virtual
Some animals are made to be tamed…to be harnessed as beasts of burden or coddled as pets. Some can only be sated, and woe be to those who stand between these feral beasts and their prey. Others are runts of the pack, knowing only the pathetic existence as the Omega. In this class, we will discuss how to tap into this primal state, the forms feral expressions can take and the types of play that emerge. We’ll also discuss how to move safely into and out of feral states and ways to take your inner beast to the next level.
Bio: Tower (fka Joshua HighTower) has been involved in New York’s BDSM scene for most of his life, having presented dozens of times for The Eulenspiegel Society, Long Island Leather and Roses, and Conversio Virium as well as at events including TES Fest, IMsL, Black Rose, Fusion, Fet Fest, Winter Wickedness, and Leather Leadership Conference. In addition to being cofounder of TES-TNG, he was involved in the initial conceptualization and proliferation of the TNG movement. Nothing makes him happier than seeing what makes people tick and seeing folks use what he taught them. Well, okay, maybe there are a couple of things…
TES classes include instruction, Q&A, and TES Circle; class length varies.

To register:
MEMBERS – $5

Create a Member Portal account using the same email address used when you purchased your membership. (Email membership@tes.org if you have forgotten the one you used when registering for TES.) Be sure to respond to the confirmation email & choose a password. After that, log back into the Member Portal.
To complete your purchase, click on this link and follow the instructions. Your membership discount will be automatically applied.

NON-MEMBERS – $10 /$15 day of event

Click here to register for this class.

If cost is a barrier to attendance, please email customer-care@tes.org
REGISTRATION CLOSES 30 MINUTES BEFORE THE START OF CLASS! ALL QUESTIONS GO TO CUSTOMER-CARE@TES.ORG! YOU WILL RECEIVE THE LOGIN LINK WITH THE CONFIRMATION EMAIL.

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The DatingKinky platform is supported by multiple browsers, but if you are having any technical difficulties, please try a different browser, as certain settings may interfere. Note that this link will only be active during scheduled meeting times.
You are welcome to participate as actively as you are comfortable. By default, users’ cameras and microphones will be switched off, and you may simply watch passively or participate solely by text in the chat box if you are uncomfortable being seen or heard. Please note that while we have selected this platform to be as private as possible while maintaining sufficient ease of use for participants, no online platform is ever fully secure. While all regular TES rules regarding privacy remain in effect, and anyone caught violating these rules will be subject to consequences (please see our Online Meeting Terms of Service), we advise participants to treat online events as though the event is being recorded by a third party. For more information on protecting your online privacy, please see our online privacy guide.

IN-PERSON - TES Monthly Munch
2025-10-06 19:00 - 22:00, 2025-11-03 19:00 - 22:00 | Skylight Diner, 402 West 34th Street, New York, NY, 10001, United States
We’d love to have you at the TES Monthly Munch!
Whether you’re new to the scene, an old friend, or just curious, our monthly munch is a great opportunity to meet fellow kinksters in a low-key, low-pressure setting. There’s no need to RSVP, and everyone is welcome—you don’t even have to be a TES member to join us!
We gather on the first Monday of every month (if it’s a holiday, we’ll meet on the following Monday) at an alternative lifestyle-friendly diner in NYC. Our hosts will be there to give you a warm welcome and answer any questions. Attending is free; you just pay for your food and please remember to tip your server well! We also ask that you wear “vanilla” (non-BDSM) clothes.

A Note on Safety
This event is held at a public diner, and while we highly encourage all attendees to be vaccinated against COVID-19, we cannot control what the restaurant requires of other patrons. Please assess your own risk and act accordingly. We will have a discreet contact tracing option available, which we encourage you to use.
For more information, including a code of conduct for newcomers, please visit our FAQ page.
We can’t wait to see you there!

IN-PERSON: Trampling for All Bodies with B0ihazard
2025-10-09 19:30 - 22:00 | LGBT Community Center, 208 W 13th St, New York, NY, 10011, United States
There are numerous myths surrounding trampling, many of which are rooted in body negativity or stigma surrounding body size or ability. Please join b0ihazard for this 1.5-hour intensive, specifically designed to accommodate individuals new to trampling and finding their feet. We will go over strategies for balance, and work up from kneeling/stepping onto walking/stomping on our bottoms. We will incorporate pressure point work, impact, and verbal degradation that are specific to trampling. This class is designed to be hands-on, so please come with your practice/partner, and a towel/sheet/yoga mat. Please be rested, fed, hydrated, and free of any substances that could negatively impact your balance. This class is for all bodies, so please contact b0ihazard, and we will work hard to try to make any accommodations for you.
Bios:
b0ihazard (Louis) is a polyamorous, queer trans man, a sadomasochist, and a proud switch. He’s been in the public BDSM scene since 2011. He’s been a (head) DM, a volunteer, and an organizer at parties in NYC and beyond. He’s brought kink education to folks all over the East Coast, specializing in sadistic touch where one’s body is the implement of pain. Outside of kink, he’s a witch, a lover of spreadsheets, a writer of smut, and plays a ton of Dungeons and Dragons.
_Scout_The_Pup (he/they) is a demisexual, switchy, rope-loving nerd. He loves eating pancakes with Maple syrup and has graced New York City and Philadelphia with his baked goods. He can normally be found in the kitchen making something marvelous, at the computer playing a violent video game, at the boffer LARP as one of his many characters, or hanging out with b0ihazard, sometimes under his boot.
Location and Cost
Location:
The Center (The Lesbian, Gay, Bisexual & Transgender Community Center)
208 West 13th Street,
New York, NY 10011
Cost:

Members: $10
Non-Members: $25

Registration in advance is strongly encouraged due to limited internet access at the venue.
Note: Each attendee will need to have a separate account to register.
Online Registration:
If You Already Have an Account

Register: Click here to go to the registration page.
Log in: Use your existing account information to log in and register for the class. Your membership discount will be applied automatically.
Complete Purchase: Follow the instructions to complete your payment.

If You Need to Create an Account
For Members:

Create Your Account: Go to the Member Portal and create your account here. Be sure to use the same email address you used when you purchased your TES membership. If you’ve forgotten it, email membership@tes.org for assistance.
Confirm Your Email: Check your inbox for a confirmation email and follow the link to set your password.
Log In and Register: Click this link to log in and register for the class. Your membership discount will be applied automatically.
Complete Purchase: Follow the instructions to complete your payment. Your membership discount will be automatically applied.

For Non-Members:

Create Your Account: Go to the registration page and create your account here.
Confirm Your Email: Check your inbox for a confirmation email and follow the link to set your password.
Log In and Register: Click this link to log in and register for the class.
Complete Purchase: Follow the instructions to complete your payment.

On-Site Registration:
On-site registration is available, but please be aware that internet access may be limited.

You will be able to register by scanning a QR code with your smartphone.
The registration process is the same as the advanced registration steps listed above.
Cash payments are not accepted at the door.

ONLINE - 2025 Meet the Candidates Night
2025-10-14 19:00 - 22:00 | Virtual
Come join us and meet the candidates for this year’s TES elections in this live online town hall. This is your opportunity to ask questions and find out where each candidate stands on the important issues affecting TES and the greater kink scene. The link to participate will be sent in your TES email newsletter closer to the event date.
Your link to join will be in your member email newsletter, so check your spam folder. These meetings are exclusive to TES Members! Didn’t get the links? Contact us at secretary@tes.org.

No additional downloads or software required! This platform is supported by multiple browsers, but if you are having any technical difficulties, please try a different browser, as certain settings may interfere. Note that this link will only be active during scheduled meeting times.
You are welcome to participate as actively as you are comfortable. By default, users’ cameras and microphones will be switched off, and you may simply watch passively or participate solely by text in the chat box if you are uncomfortable being seen or heard. Please note that while we have selected this platform to be as private as possible while maintaining sufficient ease of use for participants, no online platform is ever fully secure. While all regular TES rules regarding privacy remain in effect, and anyone caught violating these rules will be subject to consequences (please see our Online Meeting Terms of Service), we advise participants to treat online events as though the event is being recorded by a third party. For more information on protecting your online privacy, please see our online privacy guide.

ONLINE - TES Board Meeting
2025-10-20 19:00 - 22:00 | Virtual
Are you a current TES member? You’re invited to our monthly board meeting! This is your chance to connect with fellow members, hear what the board is working on, and help shape the future of our organization.
This meeting is online only and is open to current TES members only.
How to Join
All members receive details on how to join the meeting in our monthly newsletter, The Eulenspiegel Mirror, sent on the first of the month. If you are a current member and didn’t receive the information, please email us at secretary@tes.org.
We Have Board Vacancies!
Looking to get more involved? We have several board vacancies and would love for you to join us. If you’re interested, you can review the requirements and nominate yourself.
Not a Member Yet?
If you’re interested in becoming a member or need to renew your membership, you can do so here. We’d love to have you!

IN-PERSON - Spooky Game Night
2025-10-23 19:30 - 22:00 | LGBT Community Center, 208 W 13th St, New York, NY, 10011, United States
Join us for a 👻 spooktacular evening of fun and board games. Get together with your TES friends for a relaxing social. While we will have some popular board games available, feel free to bring some of your favorites. All are welcome.
Please register before attending for convenience and more fun! In celebration of the season, come dressed in your favorite cosplay.
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Location and Cost
Location:
The Center (The Lesbian, Gay, Bisexual & Transgender Community Center)
208 West 13th Street,
New York, NY 10011
Cost:

Members/Non-Members: FREE

Registration in advance is strongly encouraged due to limited internet access at the venue.
Note: Each attendee will need to have a separate account to register.
Online Registration:
If You Already Have an Account

Register: Click here to go to the registration page.
Log in: Use your existing account information to log in and register for the class.
Complete Purchase: Follow the instructions to complete your payment.

If You Need to Create an Account
For Members:

Create Your Account: Go to the Member Portal and create your account here. Be sure to use the same email address you used when you purchased your TES membership. If you’ve forgotten it, email membership@tes.org for assistance.
Confirm Your Email: Check your inbox for a confirmation email and follow the link to set your password.
Log In and Register: Click this link to log in and register for the class. Your membership discount will be applied automatically.
Complete Purchase: Follow the instructions to complete your registration.

For Non-Members:

Create Your Account: Go to the registration page and create your account here.
Confirm Your Email: Check your inbox for a confirmation email and follow the link to set your password.
Log In and Register: Click this link to log in and register for the class.
Complete Purchase: Follow the instructions to complete your registration.

On-Site Registration:
On-site registration is available, but please be aware that internet access may be limited.

You will be able to register by scanning a QR code with your smartphone.
The registration process is the same as the advanced registration steps listed above.

ONLINE - TES 2025 Elections & Membership Meeting
2025-10-28 19:00 - 22:00 | Virtual
This meeting is held twice a year to conduct official organizational business and allow the membership to be directly involved in that process. The fall meeting, usually held in October, is also when officers for the organization are elected. All members in good standing are entitled to attend and participate in all of these functions.
Your link to join will be in TES’s October members-only newsletter, The Eulenspiegel Mirror, so please check your spam folder. These meetings are exclusive to TES Members! Didn’t get the links? Contact us at secretary@tes.org.

No additional downloads or software are required! This platform is compatible with multiple browsers. However, if you encounter any technical difficulties, please try using a different browser, as certain settings may interfere. Note that this link will only be active during scheduled meeting times.
You are welcome to participate as actively as you are comfortable. By default, users’ cameras and microphones will be switched off, and you may simply watch passively or participate solely by text in the chat box if you are uncomfortable being seen or heard. Please note that while we have selected this platform to be as private as possible while maintaining sufficient ease of use for participants, no online platform is ever fully secure. While all regular TES rules regarding privacy remain in effect, and anyone caught violating these rules will be subject to consequences (please see our Online Meeting Terms of Service), we advise participants to treat online events as though the event is being recorded by a third party. For more information on protecting your online privacy, please see our online privacy guide.
