The Eulenspiegel Society

The Soft Objects Party
2020-02-29 20:00 - 2020-03-01 02:00 (America/New_York)
Join us for a kinky exploration of texture and vibe.
Come through in your velvets, feathers, satins, flannels, fleeces, fuzzies, furs, and fluffs. Show up at your most chill, flexible, patient, fluid, gentle, and malleable. Challenge yourself to inflict and receive new levels of pain (and maybe even pleasure) using the most tender, quiet, delicate, pliable, squishy, downy, cushy instruments you can find. And when you’re done, relax into a comfy corner, enjoy some silky-smooth treats, and decompress.
But that’s not all. Join us for our pre-party munch at the Bread and Butter Café from 7:30-9pm. The munch is a GREAT way to meet people in a low-key, non-kinky setting.
Join us on Leap Year, February 29th, 2020
8pm-2am at The Parth
5 W 30th St, 2nd floor, New York, NY
$25 for TES members, $30 for munch attendees, $35 for other non-members
THIS IS AN EXCLUSIVE PARTY.
In order to attend this party you must be:

a TES member
an affiliate organization member
the guest of any of the above
an attendee of the pre-party munch arriving with the munch leaders

If you are not yet a member, please consider becoming one today! Click here to join!!!
Please take a moment and familiarize yourself with our party rules. If you have any questions, please contact zero@tes.org
Looking for a playdate? Please check out our official playdate thread on Fetlife!
Are you a TES member and haven’t volunteered in the last year? Why not start now? New volunteers are welcome to help us work the door, coat check, DM, as well as help with setup and cleanup, so please consider volunteering your time. Those volunteering 1 hour of their time get in for just $10, and those volunteering at least 2 hours get in free! To volunteer, please contact socials@tes.org!
Accessibility needs? Please contact socials@tes.org regarding accommodations.

TES Novices and Newcomers Munch: Soft & Sweet
2020-02-29 19:30 - 21:00
Are you new to the scene? New to the NYC area? Looking to get back into the scene after a long layoff? Just want to hang out with some fun and kinky people on a Sat night, in a safe, no pressure atmosphere with knowledgeable people to guide you if needed? Come alone or with partner(s). No admission fee to the munch, just pay for your food and drinks. We’ll be in the upstairs seating area by 7:30PM and then, we’re heading for the Soft Objects Party @ the Parth at 9PM.
The TES party is optional, but only open to members and their guests or munch attendees.
We will be on the second floor of the Bread and Butter Café, located at 419 Park Ave S, New York, NY 10016, on the corner at 29th Street.
Please take the time to familiarize yourself with our Munch Code of Conduct before you arrive.
We will be headed afterwards to the TES PARTY @ THE PARTH with a special discount… just $30 admission for attendees!
Questions? Write us at novice@tes.org.

Hypno SIG: Hypnosis and D/s
2020-02-26 19:30 - 22:00 | The Loft, 245 W 29th St, 11th floor, New York, NY, 10013, United States
Fantasies about hypnosis often focus on control. While the hypnotist does not have to be dominant, and the subject does not have to be submissive, hypnotic play often explores those tropes. In this class, we’ll see how D/s fantasies come to life through hypnosis, in both short-term play and long-term dynamics. Taught by a Dominant and submissive in a years-long hypnotic relationship, we will show ways to share the intensity of hypnotic power exchange while still being fully based on consent.
While this class does not teach introductory hypnosis techniques, beginners interested in exploring D/s are encouraged to attend.
MrDream (David) has been organizing and presenting for the Hypnokink community since 2010. He is a co-founder of the Hypnosis New York group, the Deepmind Darkwood hypnosis retreat, and has attended all of the NEEHUs and taught classes on hypnosis, kink, intimacy, sex and romance nationally. He is the founder of the League of Ethical Evil Hypnotists; muahahahaha. He is a former board member for TES.
GleefulAbandon is a submissive hypnofetishist. In addition to being a hypnokink educator, she has also written professionally about her fetish. She is an active volunteer for TES as Media Representative.

Doors open at 7, class begins at 7:30
Buzzer #013

TES Members – $10, Students, Seniors, Military, and First Responders (with ID) – $15, Reciprocal Groups – $15, Non-Members – $25

Creating A Vision Board For Your D/s Relationship with Girl Stacey
2020-02-19 19:30 - 22:00 | The Loft, 245 W 29th St, 11th floor, New York, NY, 10013, United States
A vision board is a powerful tool that can help clarify, concentrate and maintain focus on a specific life goal. It can include words, phrases or sentences that affirm our intentions.We can use a vision board to represent what we want in our ideal D/s relationship)s).
girl stacey is a Birth Doula, a Life Coach, an aspiring herbalist, and an artist. She has been creating vision boards since her sadistic mother dragged her to a class three decades ago. She is a member of FLAG, the HardPink Sisterhood, and MAsT: Metro NY, and attends many community educational events. She is a slave to her Master and a girl to her Daddy.

Doors open at 7, class begins at 7:30. Buzzer #013

TES Members – $10, Students, Seniors, Military, and First Responders (with ID) – $15, Reciprocal Groups – $15, Non-Members – $25

H.O.T.: Hands Only Torture
2020-02-18 19:30 - 22:00 | The Loft, 245 W 29th St, 11th floor, New York, NY, 10013, United States
All too often, we are told that BDSM must utilize tools and toys to be effective. In this presentation Sir Guy and his girl Harley show how simply using one’s hands can provide an intimate, yet power scene without the use of any outside implements.
SirGuy lives in a 24/7 Master/slave relationship. He’s been active in the scene for over a decade and is an Emeritus Board Member of The Eulenspiegel Society (TES), Director of MAsT Metro New York, Founder of The Dark Lair: BDSM Support and Education for People of Color, and an Associate Member of ONYX NY/Northeast. He won the International Power Exchange 2013 title. SirGuy has presented at MsC several times, Brimstone, TES Fest, The Floating World, LLC, Leather History Preservation Weekend, several MAsT groups, South Jersey Power Exchange, LILNR/LICK and over 30 groups and events.
SirGuy lives in a 24/7 Master/slave relationship. He’s been active in the scene for over a decade and is an Emeritus Board Member of The Eulenspiegel Society (TES), Director of MAsT Metro New York, Founder of The Dark Lair: BDSM Support and Education for People of Color, and an Associate Member of ONYX NY/Northeast. He won the International Power Exchange 2013 title. SirGuy has presented at MsC several times, Brimstone, TES Fest, The Floating World, LLC, Leather History Preservation Weekend, several MAsT groups, South Jersey Power Exchange, LILNR/LICK and over 30 groups and events.
He delivered the keynote address at Beyond Leather 2014, Our Traditions Live speech at Master/slave Conference 2015, Sir Guy was winner of the 2014 Beyond Leather Community Achievement Award and the 2005 TES Dominant Men/submissive women’s Literary Contest, served as head judge of the Western Canada Power Exchange Contest 2015 and nominated for the Pantheon of Leather Man of the Year award among others. He is the author of a uniform themed erotic collection featuring People of Color and contributing author to the anthology Our Lives, Our History: Consensual Master/slave Relationships from Ancient Times to the 21st Century. Interviews with Sir Guy also appear in Dr. Gloria Brame’s, A Different Loving Too.
A uniform enthusiast, former NYC police officer and NY State certified Emergency Medical Technician, Sir Guy participated in rescue efforts at Ground Zero and Hurricane Katrina.
Harley is a Black owned and operated slave in Brooklyn, NY belonging to Sir Guy for 6 years. She has been involved in the BDSM community for over 15 years. During her time in the community, Harley has presented or co-presented at TES, various MAsT groups, Lupercalia, the Master/slave Conference, and more. Harley served on the staff of Master Taino’s Training Academy for 2 years before winning the Northeast Master/slave 2008 title with her Owner at the time, which she held until February 2009. She currently serves as the Treasurer for MAsT Metro NY.

Doors open at 7, class begins at 7:30.

TES Members – $10, Students, Seniors, Military, and First Responders (with ID) – $15, Reciprocal Groups – $15, Non-Members – $25

TES Board of Directors Meeting
2020-02-13 19:00 - 22:00
Free and open to all current members.
This meeting will be accessible via teleconference. Details will be available via the monthly membership-only email.

Handheld Fucking Machines from Drilldos to Fucksaws
2020-02-12 19:30 - 22:00 | The Loft, 245 W 29th St, 11th floor, New York, NY, 10013, United States
Fucking machines in general are one of the coolest and most exciting pieces of equipment one can use when exploring the sexual side of our world. It can also be one of the least accessible and riskiest activities, which is why it’s often harder to establish a foundation of skills or opportunity to participate under ideal conditions. The primary purpose of this class to make this activity less alien and offer that foundation of skills and knowledge that can develop into better practices for everyone whether new or experienced.
There are many thoughts and questions that one often thinks about when diving into this activity. How do I use these machines safely? How do I know if my partner or I are ready for this play? How can I negotiate to do this play? How do I integrate it into my play or scene? As a DM, event organizer, or venue operator; what should I know to vet people and equipment? What are some skills I should learn? Can I use electric tools/devices I already have? What types of dildo’s and attachments can I use? Where do I get this stuff? How much is this going to cost me? How do I make or assemble my own machines or attachments? Am I crazy for even thinking about playing with what is essentially just a power tool with a sex toy attached to it? All these questions and more will be answered.
I will offer my best practices to help you in your journey based on my 10+ years of experience researching, building, and using these devices.
There will be an opportunity to ask specific questions and try out general use of these devices. Please wear closed toed shoes/boots for a hands-on demo experience.

Doors open at 7, class begins at 7:30
Buzzer #013

TES Members – $10, Students, Seniors, Military, and First Responders (with ID) – $15, Reciprocal Groups – $15, Non-Members – $25

Bondage Group: Intro to Rope Styles & Interaction Ideas
2020-02-11 19:30 - 22:00 | The Loft, 245 W 29th St, 11th floor, New York, NY, 10013, United States
Zero-Gi and samjay team up to give you ideas about ways to tie your partner that map intent to interaction to produce consent-consistent connection. Dispelling various dogmas on purist rope styles, permission is granted to evolve your own unique way of communicating. The class involves some discussion, brief demonstrations and a whole lot of opportunities to explore via practice and participation.
What to bring: 3 ropes (any kind), 2 blindfolds, 1 partner

Doors open at 7, class begins at 7:30. Buzzer #013

TES Members – $10, Students, Seniors, Military, and First Responders (with ID) – $15, Reciprocal Groups – $15, Non-Members – $25

BDSM 101 Q&A with BexTalksSex
2020-02-05 19:30 - 22:00 | The Loft, 245 W 29th St, 11th floor, New York, NY, 10013, United States
Join us for an informal Q&A with one of our favorite sex (and sexy) educators – Bex! This is your chance to ask those kinky questions you’ve been meaning to but have’t found the right TES meeting for yet.

Bex is a NYC based sex educator, speaker, and podcaster. He’s been a proud and undeniable kinkster ever since he insisted on being served his meals in a dog bowl at the age of 8 (and even before that, probably). He’s taught everything from blowjobs to negotiation at sex shops, events, and conferences all along the East Coast, and appeared as a guest on True Life, Sex Gets Real, and The Life On The Swingset Podcast. You can find him on Twitter @BexTalksSex, on his blog at BexTalksSex.com, or on his weekly podcast The Dildorks!

Doors open at 7, class begins at 7:30
Buzzer #013

TES Members – $10, Students, Seniors, Military, and First Responders (with ID) – $15, Reciprocal Groups – $15, Non-Members – $25

Feet-ure Presentation: Foot Domination Clinic with Domina Katarina
2020-02-04 19:30 - 22:00 | The Loft, 245 W 29th St, 11th floor, New York, NY, 10013, United States
Big or small, smooth or wrinkly, bedazzled or au naturale. Feet come in every shape, size and style under the sun and are just waiting to be invited to the party. In this class we will explore the many sexy ways to dominate using your feet. From choking to trampling, foot rubs to forced worship, we’ll cover the harder and softer sides of foot fetish delights. This class is perfect for people looking to incorporate foot play for the first time, as well as those who are looking to up their foot game. Will include pro-demonstrations plus opportunities for you to explore. Come with a partner or find one here!
Domina Katarina (theDommeKat) has been called “casually cruel” and “compassionately sadistic” – a treat for those who find themselves under Her size 8.5s. The ProDomme and Fetish Wrestler can often be found wrestling with Doom Maidens, flogging for funsies at parties or teaching others the joys of butt stuff.
https://twitter.com/theDommeKat
www.theDommeKat.com
Ursa Fierce is the proud owner of two super arched and curvy size 8s. She is a professional Wrestle Domme and enjoys putting her feet on peoples’ faces, necks and nether bits. You can find her around NYC teaching beginner wrestling classes and co-hosting Grapple Den parties. https://twitter.com/UrsaFierce

Doors open at 7, class begins at 7:30
Buzzer #013

TES Members – $10, Students, Seniors, Military, and First Responders (with ID) – $15, Reciprocal Groups – $15, Non-Members – $25

TES Presents: Savvy Strap-On Seduction (Strap-On Sex 101) with Andre Shakti
2020-01-29 19:30 - 22:00
Harnesses and dildos are sold to women who fuck women, men who fuck men, women who fuck men, men who fuck women and not to mention transgender folks of all orientations and expressions. People strap it on for a variety of reasons, some of which are: because it feels good, because playing with power dynamics is sexy, for double penetration, for variety in gender expression, for variety in cock size, shape, and color possibilities, because it looks hot, to have a permanent hard-on, and because watching your partner bob their head up and down on your cock is pretty awesome no matter what sex organs you were born with!
Andre Shakti is the queen of cock confidence, and whether you’re a strap-on novice or a longtime aficionado, she’s ready to up your erotic ante!
In this workshop we will cover:

How to talk to your partner(s) about wanting to explore strap-on play
How to source the best gear and sex accessories for your strap-on experience
Inspiration for incorporating dirty talk, role play and gender fuckery into your dynamic
Basic anatomy and tips for enhancing physical strap-on pleasure
Exuding confidence while strapping it on
A variety of strap-on positions that are inclusive of larger and disabled bodies
& MORE!

Andre Shakti is a journalist, educator, performer, activist, and professional slut living in Baltimore, MD. She is devoted to normalizing alternative desires, de-stigmatizing sex workers and their clients, and not taking herself too seriously. Andre wrestles mediocre white men into submission is the reigning polyamory pundit at her biweekly non-monogamy advice column “I Am Poly(amorous) & So Can You!”, which you can visit – and submit
questions to! – via IAmPoly.net. She also helms Baltimore OUTLoud’s LGBTQ+ advice column “The In & Out” and holds court as Slixa.com’s resident sexpert. Andre frequently lectures, coaches and advises on the intersecting issues of sexual health, politics and pleasure, race, trauma, gender, sex worker rights, non-monogamy and queerness. When not working, Andre can typically be found marathoning “Law & Order: SVU” under a chaotic pile of partners and pitbulls, and yes, she knows how problematic that show is. Andre encourages you to connect with her on Facebook via “Andre Shakti”, follow her NSFW exploits on Twitter via @andreshakti, and support her Patreon via patreon.com/IAmPolyamorous.

Doors open at 7, class begins at 7:30. If you will require the elevator, please call ahead: (212) 675-1390. If you will need any assistance accessing our space, please contact us at operations@tes.org.

TES Members $5 Students & Military with ID $10 Reciprocal Groups $10 Non-Members $20 Cash Only

Hypno Group: Hypnosis and Consensual Non-Consent
2020-01-28 19:30 - 22:00 | The Loft, 245 W 29th St, 11th floor, New York, NY, 10013, United States
The junction between the reality of erotic hypnosis and the fantasy of mind-control is both challenging and rewarding terrain to explore. Consensual Non-Consent (CNC) allows partners to experience a wide range of scenes and play styles that are not possible through more explicit negotiation styles, yet the need for effective communication and collaboration is just as crucial as any other form of play. As both a style of relationship and method of negotiation, CNC is a valuable yet often misunderstood part of the kink world.
Hypnosis provides tools and theme that ideally can add both to the thrill and feasibility of CNC based scenes..triggers, enhanced role-play, amnesia, and the wide range of suggestions possible with hypnosis offers an infinite creative palette. At the same time, hypnosis is also misunderstood, especially where it comes to questions of agency and consent.
Through demonstration and honest discussion of some difficult topics, this class aims to provide realistic ways to explore the darker sides of hypnosis, and the use of hypnosis to enhance other BDSM applications of CNC, whether as part of a long term relationship, or as a component of negotiated play with trusted partners. This class is intended for any experience level but will deal with intense themes including consensual ‘rape play’ and emotional and physical sado-masochism.
@MrDream (David) has been organizing and presenting for the Hypnokink community since 2010. He is a co-founder of the Hypnosis New York group, the Deepmind Darkwood hypnosis retreat, and has attended all of the NEEHUs and taught classes on hypnosis, kink, intimacy, sex and romance nationally. He is the founder of the League of Ethical Evil Hypnotists; muahahahaha. He is a former board member for TES.

Doors open at 7, class begins at 7:30.
TES Members – $10, Students, Seniors, Military, and First Responders (with ID) – $15, Reciprocal Groups – $15, Non-Members – $25

Intro to Dark Ageplay with MorriganMaeve
2020-01-22 19:30 - 22:00 | The Loft, 245 W 29th St, 11th floor, New York, NY, 10013, United States
Class description coming soon.
From pageant winner to kinky sinner, this former Girl Scout and girl-next-door from New Jersey has been stirring up the scene for the better part of a decade. Since 2012, @MorriganMaeve has been a staff member for Conduit Enterprises (New Jersey’s premiere monthly sex-positive kink/fetish/BDSM party). She’s the founder of Conduit’s “Little Sparks” and a co-leader for Conduit’s festival and camp collective presence. Known for her penchant for prosecco, and her over-the-top, extra AF party planning and production, this classy bitch is the mastermind behind events such as THUNDERFOAM! and Midnight Margaritas. As an age player, Morrigan is an advocate for learning to let go and embracing vulnerability without shame through consensual play associated with reconnection with lost innocence. With her infectious laugh, her vibrant squeals from excitement, and her twisted ideas of fun, she might just make you suffer from cute aggression, or she might get you to walk her Lego™ walk of fire. When in doubt, little out!

Doors open at 7, class begins at 7:30.

TES Members – $10, Students, Seniors, Military, and First Responders (with ID) – $15, Reciprocal Groups – $15, Non-Members – $25

Better Bottoming with Bex
2020-01-21 19:30 - 22:00 | The Loft, 245 W 29th St, 11th floor, New York, NY, 10013, United States
Bottoms bring more to the table than just a good butt! Bottoming requires skill – skill that’s rarely recognized, acknowledged, or taught. This workshop will help bottoms develop and hone the skills they’ll need most, and will help tops better understand the tools they need to train the perfect plaything. We’ll cover how to embody the kind of reactions that make a sadist’s mouth water, techniques for processing pain, and how to recognize and communicate your desires.
This class welcomes people of all genders, orientations, and experience levels from both sides of the slash.
Bex is a NYC based sex educator, speaker, and podcaster. He’s been a proud and undeniable kinkster ever since he insisted on being served his meals in a dog bowl at the age of 8 (and even before that, probably). He’s taught everything from blowjobs to negotiation at sex shops, events, and conferences all along the East Coast, and appeared as a guest on True Life, Sex Gets Real, and The Life On The Swingset Podcast.You can find him on Twitter @BexTalksSex, on his blog at BexTalksSex.com, or on his weekly podcast The Dildorks!

Doors open at 7, class begins at 7:30. If you need any assistance accessing our programming, please reach out to our operations team at Operations@tes.org. We will do our best to assist you.

TES Members $10 Students & Military with ID $15 Reciprocal Groups $15 Non-Members $25 Cash Only

TES Board of Directors Meeting
2020-01-16 19:00 - 22:00
Open to all current members.
This meeting will be held online only. Details for how to join the meeting will be available shortly.

Black Leather: A History of Black/POC folks in the Leather and BDSM Communities
2020-01-15 19:30 - 22:00 | The Loft, 245 W 29th St, 11th floor, New York, NY, 10013, United States
When discussing Leather and BDSM history most often we hear histories based in the white gay male community. Fact of the matter is, the history of Blacks and other People of Color in this lifestyle is a long and storied one. Sir Guy helps bring this history alive.
SirGuy lives in a 24/7 Master/slave relationship. He’s been active in the scene for over a decade and is an Emeritus Board Member of The Eulenspiegel Society (TES), Director of MAsT Metro New York, Founder of The Dark Lair: BDSM Support and Education for People of Color, and an Associate Member of ONYX NY/Northeast. He won the International Power Exchange 2013 title. SirGuy has presented at MsC several times, Brimstone, TES Fest, The Floating World, LLC, Leather History Preservation Weekend, several MAsT groups, South Jersey Power Exchange, LILNR/LICK and over 30 groups and events.
He delivered the keynote address at Beyond Leather 2014, Our Traditions Live speech at Master/slave Conference 2015, Sir Guy was winner of the 2014 Beyond Leather Community Achievement Award and the 2005 TES Dominant Men/submissive women’s Literary Contest, served as head judge of the Western Canada Power Exchange Contest 2015 and nominated for the Pantheon of Leather Man of the Year award among others. He is the author of a uniform themed erotic collection featuring People of Color and contributing author to the anthology Our Lives, Our History: Consensual Master/slave Relationships from Ancient Times to the 21st Century. Interviews with Sir Guy also appear in Dr. Gloria Brame’s, A Different Loving Too.
A uniform enthusiast, former NYC police officer and NY State certified Emergency Medical Technician, Sir Guy participated in rescue efforts at Ground Zero and Hurricane Katrina.

Doors open at 7, class begins at 7:30.

TES Members – $10, Students, Seniors, Military, and First Responders (with ID) – $15, Reciprocal Groups – $15, Non-Members – $25

Bondage Group: Zero to Fun on Day One with BoundtoFly
2020-01-14 19:30 - 22:00 | The Loft, 245 W 29th St, 11th floor, New York, NY, 10013, United States
Want to explore rope, but confused by all the apparent complexity? Scared by the possible risks of this style of play? In this fast paced workshop, learn the basics of safe rope bondage. and go home and have safe erotic play – today! This class, designed for newcomers to rope as well as kink, goes into the basics of safety, levels of risk, negotiation, consent, single column ties, and connection. Everyone ties/is tied! Participants leave feeling empowered and excited, with the knowledge to continue exploring rope!
Doors open at 7, class begins at 7:30.

TES Members – $10, Students, Seniors, Military, and First Responders (with ID) – $15, Reciprocal Groups – $15, Non-Members – $25

TES Presents: Fire Play 101 with NYCJosh
2020-01-08 19:30 - 22:00 | The Loft, 245 W 29th St, 11th floor, New York, NY, 10013, United States
Both a mix of pleasure and pain, fear and awe, fire invokes something primal in all of us. An element that is both feared and revered, man has tried to control fire since the beginning of our time. Come and learn from this untamable element from Sir Josh. This class is designed for the beginning level and will teach the basic technical skills that go into fire play and fire cupping. We will also cover safety and precautions, as well as equipment, literature, and all the fun games that can come with fire play and fire cupping. This is a great class for anyone interested in playing with fire as a top or a bottom.
Sir Josh has been part of the M/s community for around 10 years and a part of the general NYC BDSM community for a few longer. His past experience includes co-founding NYC TNG, being Assistant Director/Director, of MAsT:MetroNY, a board member for TES, and Special Events chair for TES Fest, and past CFO for LHF.
Doors open at 7, class begins at 7:30. If you need any assistance accessing our programming, please reach out to our operations team at Operations@tes.org. We will do our best to assist you.

TES Members $10 Students & Military with ID $15 Reciprocal Groups $15 Non-Members $25 Cash Only

TES Presents: Intro to Candle Wax Play
2020-01-07 19:30 - 22:00
This class is designed to introduce people to candle wax play. I’ll go over general safety tips, where one may source candles, and an overview from the Top and Bottom perspectives.
Nox has been active in the NJ scene since 2012. They’ve been playing with candle wax for about the same length of time and are interested in sharing what they’ve learned over the years.

Doors open at 7, class begins at 7:30. If you will require the elevator, please call ahead: (212) 675-1390. If you will need any assistance accessing our space, please contact us at operations@tes.org.
TES Members $5 Students & Military with ID $10 Reciprocal Groups $10 Non-Members $20 Cash Only

Hypno Group: Getting In Touch with Kinesthetic Inductions with Sex Obsessed Lesbian
2019-12-18 19:30 - 22:00
Lots of us do lots of our hypnosis via the internet, listening to files and reading from the same old scripts. But how do you hypnotize people who prefer the physical to the auditory (listening to your soothing voice) or the visual (fixating on your shiny pocket-watch)? And what kind of fun, whacky ways can you hypnotize someone when you get the chance to do it in person? Kinesthetic hypnosis – that is, hypnosis focused on the Boyd – is a great tool to have in your toolbox. Come learn some fun ways to trance more body-oriented subjects, and explore the world of possibilities of trancing someone via physical interaction.
In this class we’ll talk about some principles of kinesthetic hypnosis, and go over a grab-bag of techniques and tricks that you can use to create your own body-rockin’ kinesthetic inductions! This class is primarily hypnotist-directed, but subjects are welcome as well; hopefully everyone will come away with neat ideas to use in their hypno-play
Bio:
Sex-obsessed-lesbian has been doing hypnosis for a few years, nerving out about sex since high school, and making bad puns since approximately forever. Hypnosis turned her on before she even knew what it meant to get turned on, and the wonderful world of Tumblr daughter her that it was an actual thing. Since then, she’s been romping around the countryside thinking and talking about consent, creativity, and ways to do silly and sexy things with people’s brains.
Blog: sexobsessedlesbian.blogspot.com
Twitter: @sexobsessedlesb
Tumblr: sex-obsessed-lesbian.tumblr.com
Doors open at 7, class begins at 7:30. If you will require the elevator, please call ahead: (212) 675-1390. If you will need any assistance accessing our space, please contact us at operations@tes.org.

TES Members $10 Students & Military with ID $15 Reciprocal Groups $15 Non-Members $25 Cash Only

Intro to Scene Building: Mood Setting and Intentional Tool Use
2019-12-17 19:30 - 22:00
Join Lady Euphoria for a workshop on scene building – a topic that isn’t commonly discussed, we all know building a memorable scene isn’t always easy or intuitive for everyone!
This workshop will discuss the basics to creating a smooth scene:
mood setting and intentional tool use.
We’ll talk about the nuances of a play scene, establishing communication, a scene point-of-departure and some tips for future scene creating.
Feel free to come with questions for Lady Euphoria & of course, if any suggestions to share are always welcome!
Meet Lady Euphoria: NYC Power Dynamic Practitioner & Kink Educator serving the BDSM Community through providing novice accessible workshops with a comprehensive hands-on and group approach. Lady Euphoria has experience as a lifestyle and pro-dominatrix working with couples and kinksters of various levels, abilities, and genders. Her goal is to make kink education: safe, comprehensive, and humane. She offers mindfulness, growth-focused, and intention-based D/S dynamic BDSM experiences.
Doors open at 7, class begins at 7:30. If you will require the elevator, please call ahead: (212) 675-1390. If you will need any assistance accessing our space, please contact us at operations@tes.org.
TES Members $10 Students & Military with ID $15 Reciprocal Groups $15 Non-Members $25 Cash Only

STARTING AT 8PM: Group Sex with Vonka
2019-12-11 20:00 - 22:00
The threesome or orgy fantasy is a classic. Yet group sex often plays out disappointingly in real life without proper planning and communication. There’s a lot to consider in advance and so much of it is hard to predict without practical experience. Learn from examples of others’ mistakes as we discuss how to bring these fantasies to life in the best possible ways.
Vonka is a fierce femme Bluenette sadist passionate about sharing knowledge and creating safer spaces. In addition to organizing the largest and longest running monthly play parties in NJ with Conduit Enterprises, Vonka is a NJTNG moderator and a frequent presenter at Dark Odyssey. Outside of the dungeon, you can usually find her performing Burlesque across the North Eastern US or gracing the screens of your technical devices with her modeling and fetish work.

Doors open at 8pm, and class begins soon after. If you’ll require the elevator, please call ahead: (212) 675-1390. If you will need any assistance accessing our space, please contact us at operations@tes.org.

TES Members – $10, Students, Seniors, Military, and First Responders (with ID) – $15, Reciprocal Groups – $15, Non-Members – $25

Bondage Group: Impromptu Bondage
2019-12-10 19:30 - 22:00
No rope? No problem! Many common household items and pieces of clothing can be used to incapacitate a willing victim. This class will explore what kinds of items work well for what kinds of bondage. Bring scarves, ties, shoelaces, and anything else that inspires you to be kinky!

Doors open at 7, class begins at 7:30. If you will require the elevator, please call ahead: (212) 675-1390. If you will need any assistance accessing our space, please contact us at operations@tes.org.
TES Members $10 Students & Military with ID $15 Reciprocal Groups $15 Non-Members $25 Cash Only

Asexual and Aromantic Spectrums
2019-12-04 19:30 - 22:00
Come explore various kinds of attraction including sexual, romantic and platonic. We will debunk common myths and learn about identities on the asexual and aromantic spectrum. We will also discuss some different ways of looking at relationships and learn some (possibly new) language for describing such things. The intersections with other identities will be discussed.
Akabi Daystar is a kinky queer geek. They have been educating on queer, kink and consent related subjects since 2013. They are the co-organizer of the Jersey City Polyamory and Alternative Relationship Network and they are on the Leadership Team of Open Love New York. When not thinking about, reading about, and discussing such things, they enjoy ranting endlessly about superheroes and making art.

Doors open at 7, class begins at 7:30. If you will require the elevator, please call ahead: (212) 675-1390. If you will need any assistance accessing our space, please contact us at operations@tes.org.

TES Members – $10, Students, Seniors, Military, and First Responders (with ID) – $15, Reciprocal Groups – $15, Non-Members – $25

Trampling with Louie
2019-12-03 19:30 - 22:00
There is nothing quite like being physically on top of someone else. In this class we are going to learn how to step on, walk on and crawl on top of another human body, otherwise known as trampling.
Louis (DanceInMyPants) is a sex educator by trade, a consent nerd by calling, and the kinky boy next door. Louis is a polyamorus trans dude, a massage enthusiast, a sadomasochist and a proud switch. He’s been rubbing feet and taking names since 2011. Out of kink, he’s a born and bred Brooklynite, a witch, a lover of spreadsheets, a writer of smut, and plays a ton of Dungeons and Dragons.
Doors open at 7, class begins at 7:30. If you will require the elevator, please call ahead: (212) 675-1390. If you will need any assistance accessing our space, please contact us at operations@tes.org.

TES Members – $10 Students, Seniors, Military, and First Responders (with ID) – $15 Reciprocal Groups – $15 Non-Members – $25

Hypno Group
2019-11-20 19:30 - 22:00
Come out and explore ideas you have and learn from experienced mentors at the November Hypnokink meeting. Come play, explore, and learn! We will be hosting a Koala Box (as made famous by BEHIVE), which is an opportunity to see and participate in hypnotic technique and phenomenon completely shaped by the participants! For more information on the Koala Box, click here! Just want to come and hang out with and meet new people? That’s fine too! If you have any questions, please contact @PerfectMonster or @DizzyDemonette.
Doors open at 7, class begins at 7:30. If you will require the elevator, please call ahead: (212) 675-1390. If you will need any assistance accessing our space, please contact us at operations@tes.org.

TES Members $10 Students & Military with ID $15 Reciprocal Groups $15 Non-Members $25 Cash Only

BDSM & Criminal Law w. Meanstreakmilewide
2019-11-19 19:30 - 22:00
Join us as we hear from a criminal defense lawyer who’s got a “meanstreakmilewide.” Some of the topics covered could include: Dos and Don’ts when interacting with law enforcement; What people should know about playing for pay; What happens when a lawyer needs to get involved (and how to avoid it!), and so on. With live demonstrations of potential crimes against people in sexy ways.
meanstreakmilewide is a dominant, sadistic, polyamorous, professional-fitness-monster-world-champion-athlete, anarcho-syndicalist, vegetarian, former music growler, radical lawyer. Lifetime lifestyle leaning type with over a decade of experience living down this rabbit hole with a tendency for M/s TPE 24/7 type of connections which are designed to better both. They teach and write on topics of kink and the law, polyamory and power exchange and whatever strikes my fancy or the community asks them for.

Doors open at 7, class begins at 7:30. If you will require the elevator, please call ahead: (212) 675-1390. If you will need any assistance accessing our space, please contact us at operations@tes.org.

TES Members – $10 Students, Seniors, Military, and First Responders (with ID) – $15 Reciprocal Groups – $15 Non-Members – $25

OTK is A-OK: An Intro to Impact
2019-11-13 19:30 - 22:00
This is an intro to Impact play. You will learn by a demonstration about how to give an ideal swat in an ideal situation. The presentation will give a good baseline about how to strike and then there will be further discussion about how to expand into other impact scenes. There will also be discussion about the mental and emotion effects of impact play and how to incorporate them into your scenes.
James, is an impact top and self-proclaimed impact scientist. He is a Pansexual Daddy Dominant with a penchant for all things domestic. He is also a Primal, Poly, Klingon warrior who loves to teach as a way of helping people reach a better connection with their partners.

Doors open at 7, class begins at 7:30. If you will require the elevator, please call ahead: (212) 675-1390. If you will need any assistance accessing our space, please contact us at operations@tes.org.

TES Members – $10 Students, Seniors, Military, and First Responders (with ID) – $15 Reciprocal Groups – $15 Non-Members – $25

Bondage Group: Heavy Metal, or Fun with Toys that Lock with Greg Cuffs
2019-11-12 19:30 - 22:00
Rope got you in a rut? Think a clove hitch is something you’ll find in your spice rack? Join GregCuffs for an intro to metal bondage gear and a hands-on tour of selections from his extensive collection. He’ll go over safety tips and other practical concerns, then show some variations on traditional handcuff use and talk about how to start building your own collection.
GregCuffs bought his first pair of handcuffs at age 13. He has been involved in the kink and poly community for 20 years and met his wife at TES 2000. Despite his love for lockable gear, he does dabble in rope and other bondage media on occasion.

Doors open at 7, class begins at 7:30. If you will require the elevator, please call ahead: (212) 675-1390. If you will need any assistance accessing our space, please contact us at operations@tes.org.

TES Members $10 Students & Military with ID $15 Reciprocal Groups $15 Non-Members $25 Cash Only

The Leather Weather Party
2019-11-09 20:00 - 2019-11-10 20:00
It’s officially autumn and that means it’s leather weather! So put on your favorite leather gear (or pleather for our vegan friends) and come out to play!
Can’t decide what to wear? Leather and/or fetishwear are encouraged, but not required, so really, whatever makes you comfortable is fine. What’s most important is that you have fun!
There will be light snacks, but it’s BYO pumpkin spice.
But that’s not all. Join us for our pre-party munch at the Bread and Butter Café from 7:30-9pm. The munch is a GREAT way to meet people in a low-key, non-kinky setting. You’ll find more info about it [here][https://fetlife.com/events/842313]!
**8pm-2am at The Parth**
**$25 for TES members, $30 for munch attendees, $35 for other non-members**
RSVP on Fetlife
THIS IS AN EXCLUSIVE PARTY.
In order to attend this party you must be:
* a TES member
* an affiliate organization member
* the guest of any of the above
* an attendee of the pre-party munch arriving with the munch leaders
If you are not yet a member, please consider becoming one today! [Click here][https://membership.tesassociation.org/] to join!!!
Please take a moment and familiarize yourself with our [party rules][https://docs.google.com/document/d/1-QSynfedvC8QpD82ZtLCpEANw5PLHKO619qq6lU01hU/edit?usp=sharing]. If you have any questions, please contact zero@tes.org
Looking for a playdate? Please check out our [official playdate thread on Fetlife!
Are you a TES member and haven’t volunteered in the last year? Why not start now? New volunteers are welcome to help us work the door, coat check, DM, as well as help with setup and cleanup, so please consider volunteering your time. Those volunteering 1 hour of their time get in for just $10, and those volunteering at least 2 hours get in free! To volunteer, please contact socials@tes.org!
Accessibility needs? Please contact socials@tes.org regarding accommodations.
