The Eulenspiegel Society

ONLINE - Butler’s Books, S-Type Files, and Other Service Records with HannahTheScribe
2021-09-14 19:00 - 22:00 (America/New_York) | NY
In this class, we’ll cover how to assemble a butler’s book, s-type file, and beyond, including tracking preferences, doing event debriefs, sharing information about yourself, saving household information and guides, and creating references for productivity, packing, shopping, cooking, and gifting. On the doc cam, we’ll run through the templates, and we’ll wrap up with a brief Q+A session.
I’m a 24/7 high protocol service slave/housewife to my wonderful Mistress and wife. I’m monogamous to her and she has my irrevocable consent. I live with her and our two adorable cats.
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To register:
MEMBERS -$10

Create a Member Portal account using the same email address used when you purchased your membership. (Email membership@tes.org if you have forgotten the one you used when registering for TES.) Be sure to respond to confirmation email & choose a password. After that, log back into the Member Portal.
To complete your purchase, click here and follow the instructions. Your membership discount will be automatically applied.

NON-MEMBERS – $20
Click here register for this class.
If you’re unable to afford this, contact tes@tes.org & we’ll do our best to find a way to help you attend this class.
Registration closes 24 hours prior to the event.

The DatingKinky platform is supported by multiple browsers, but if you are having any technical difficulties please try a different browser, as certain settings may interfere. Note that this link will only be active during scheduled meeting times.
You are welcome to participate as actively as you are comfortable. By default, users’ cameras and microphones will be switched off, and you may simply watch passively or participate solely by text in the chat box if you are uncomfortable being seen or heard. Please note that while we have selected this platform to be as private as possible while maintaining sufficient ease of use for participants, no online platform is ever fully secure. While all regular TES rules regarding privacy remain in effect, and anyone caught violating these rules will be subject to consequences (please see our Online Meeting Terms of Service), we advise participants to treat online events as though the event is being recorded by a third party. For more information on protecting your online privacy, please see our online privacy guide.

ONLINE - Delving Into Your Darkness: Dehumanization and Extreme Degradation with VintageKinkyDoll
2021-09-21 19:00 - 22:00
Welcome to the dark side. Emotions to the left, humanity to the right, drop the baggage and let’s talk about the power you get from no longer being a human. Come with me. I’ll teach you how to abandoned your moral center and teachings…because only when you’ve cast aside you facade of propriety can you admit you’re beautiful as a filthy fucking it!
VintageKinkyDoll has been active in the lifestyle for 19 years. She is a participating member in the scene of numerous locales and very active in the Houston and Texas scenes. She is Chairman of the Board for HPEP, a member of HEAT, Eros, Italia Fetish and SCK. She is best known for her presentations and demonstrations on dollification, degradation, objectification and 50s Household, from a submissive point of view and learning. Her vanilla life is filled with family, friends, being a business owner and serving the community by serving on a few too many vanilla committees and boards.
To register:
MEMBERS -$10

Create a Member Portal account using the same email address used when you purchased your membership. (Email membership@tes.org if you have forgotten the one you used when registering for TES.) Be sure to respond to respond to confirmation email & choose a password. After that, log back into the Member Portal.
To complete your purchase, click on this class registration link and follow the instructions. Your membership discount will be automatically applied.

NON-MEMBERS – $20
Click here register for this class.
If you’re unable to afford this, contact tes@tes.org & we’ll do our best to find a way to help you attend this class.

The DatingKinky platform is supported by multiple browsers, but if you are having any technical difficulties please try a different browser, as certain settings may interfere. Note that this link will only be active during scheduled meeting times.
You are welcome to participate as actively as you are comfortable. By default, users’ cameras and microphones will be switched off, and you may simply watch passively or participate solely by text in the chat box if you are uncomfortable being seen or heard. Please note that while we have selected this platform to be as private as possible while maintaining sufficient ease of use for participants, no online platform is ever fully secure. While all regular TES rules regarding privacy remain in effect, and anyone caught violating these rules will be subject to consequences (please see our Online Meeting Terms of Service), we advise participants to treat online events as though the event is being recorded by a third party. For more information on protecting your online privacy, please see our online privacy guide.

ONLINE - TES presents: BDSM & the Law, part II with AttorneyLadySteele
2021-09-28 19:00 - 22:00
People participate in Bondage, Discipline, and Sadism/Masochism, and do so while not knowing the potential legal pitfalls. It is time to get down to brass tacks. What legal dangers are inherent to what it is we do? The simple truth is, legal issues abound when it comes to participating in BDSM and always have. It can affect several areas in our lives, including family, criminal, civil, estate planning, healthcare, and even businesses law. How can you prepare yourself for the worst case scenario? Come find out more with Lady Steele.
Lady Steele identifies as a femme Alpha leather slave. She has served in the Leather community since 1999 wherein she has presented and volunteered across the country. She resides in Atlanta where she operates her law practice that serves alternative lifestyles. She is the only out, open, and practicing attorney in the southeast that specializes in the issues that are unique to the BDSM and ethical non-momogamy communities.
Lady Steele is the co-founder and co-lead of the Center of Learning and School of Success (C.L.A.S.S.), Atlanta’s Worthless Bastards (Cigar) Club, and The Leather Coterie’s (T.L.C.) Atlanta Chapter. She acts as Board Support, Convention Attorney, and Vendor Coordinator for the Leather Leadership Conference, serves at Treasurer of Anafiel House and is a proud member of Onyx Pearls Southern Leather. In addition, she has presented at national events including TES Fest, DomCon, Frolicon, Southeast Leather Fest, DragonCon, Sex Down South, Atlanta Poly Weekend. Lady Steele also shares her knowledge through her BlogTalk radio program, “The Legal Show,” co-hosted by renowned Sci-Fi author Bennet Pomerantz. Lady Steele has been on the KinkyCast, discussing topics like Consent Apps; No Collar, No Problem; BDSM and the Law; Cigar Service and Play; and Poly and the Law, and on the Poly Podcast, speaking about Poly and the Law.

To register:
MEMBERS -$10

Create a Member Portal account using the same email address used when you purchased your membership. (Email membership@tes.org if you have forgotten the one you used when registering for TES.) Be sure to respond to respond to confirmation email & choose a password. After that, log back into the Member Portal.
To complete your purchase, click here and follow the instructions. Your membership discount will be automatically applied.

NON-MEMBERS – $20
Click here to register for this class.
Registration closes 24 hours before the start of class.
If you’re unable to afford this, contact tes@tes.org & we’ll do our best to find a way to help you attend this class.

The DatingKinky platform is supported by multiple browsers, but if you are having any technical difficulties please try a different browser, as certain settings may interfere. Note that this link will only be active during scheduled meeting times.
You are welcome to participate as actively as you are comfortable. By default, users’ cameras and microphones will be switched off, and you may simply watch passively or participate solely by text in the chat box if you are uncomfortable being seen or heard. Please note that while we have selected this platform to be as private as possible while maintaining sufficient ease of use for participants, no online platform is ever fully secure. While all regular TES rules regarding privacy remain in effect, and anyone caught violating these rules will be subject to consequences (please see our Online Meeting Terms of Service), we advise participants to treat online events as though the event is being recorded by a third party. For more information on protecting your online privacy, please see our online privacy guide.

Meet the Candidates
2021-10-05 19:00 - 22:00
Meet the Candidates running for the TES Board. Open to all TES members. Link will be distributed to the membership.
If you are a member and did not receive the link by October 2, please email secretary@tes.org

ONLINE - Indigenizing BDSM with SirMrWombat
2021-10-06 08:00 - 17:00
Exploring BDSM through a lens of indigenous ideologies can be difficult. Learning to reindigenize and reclaim culture, spirituality, and fetishes is an art and skill. This class is an informal approach that will explore how to galvanize two seemingly polarized identities into one. This class is intended to engage, inform, and bring about discussion in hopes of broadening our understanding of kink.
Sir Wombat, aka Erik James Escareño, DSW (he,she,they) is a two-spirited indigenous (Yavapai Apache and Chiricahua Apache) Los Angelino who is fueled by social justice and perpetuating meaningful change. Sir Wombat identifies as a Specialized Mental Health Clinical Social Worker, Interpreter, Sir, Handler/Trainer, Sadist, and Leather Daddy. As a clinician social worker, they provide mental health services to Deaf folx within Los Angeles County. As a Sir and Leather Daddy, they are the head of a leather family and are adept at a multitude of kinks and BDSM disciplines which they continue to hone and pass down to their boys.
Holding a Doctorate of Social Work, Sir Wombat focuses on creating systemic change in accessibility to mental health services for Deaf folx. Their fervent hope is to create accessible mental health services for all. Having an intimate connection to, and understanding of, the Deaf community they provide ASL interpretation in many QIPOC and Kink spaces; striving to ensure the message of positive queerness and sex is not compromised. Guided by honesty, open-mindedness, and willingness, Sir Wombat mentors others through an ethical lens while honoring sexual spirit.

To register:
MEMBERS -$10

Create a Member Portal account using the same email address used when you purchased your membership. (Email membership@tes.org if you have forgotten the one you used when registering for TES.) Be sure to respond to confirmation email & choose a password. After that, log back into the Member Portal.
To complete your purchase, return to this FL event page, click on this class registration link and follow the instructions. Your membership discount will be automatically applied.

NON-MEMBERS – $20
Click here register for this class.
If you’re unable to afford this, contact tes@tes.org & we’ll do our best to find a way to help you attend this class.

The DatingKinky platform is supported by multiple browsers, but if you are having any technical difficulties please try a different browser, as certain settings may interfere. Note that this link will only be active during scheduled meeting times.
You are welcome to participate as actively as you are comfortable. By default, users’ cameras and microphones will be switched off, and you may simply watch passively or participate solely by text in the chat box if you are uncomfortable being seen or heard. Please note that while we have selected this platform to be as private as possible while maintaining sufficient ease of use for participants, no online platform is ever fully secure. While all regular TES rules regarding privacy remain in effect, and anyone caught violating these rules will be subject to consequences (please see our Online Meeting Terms of Service), we advise participants to treat online events as though the event is being recorded by a third party. For more information on protecting your online privacy, please see our online privacy guide.

ONLINE - High Heels & Tip-Toes with AbundantMischief
2021-10-12 19:00 - 22:00
Do you love the look of sky-high heels but worry about falling over? Have you been watching your shoe collection gather dust during the pandemic and wondering how to get used to wearing them again?
This class will cover how to find a good pair of heels or ballet boots and how to make the shoes you already have more comfortable. I will demonstrate a variety strategies for walking in heels and standing in ballet boots. We will also cover simple exercises you can do to prevent injuries and feel more confident in heels, as well as risk mitigation when combining heels with various kinks. Finally I will share aftercare tips for your feet and legs, both partnered and solo.
AbundantMischief is a toppy switch, gleeful sadomasochist, and enthusiastic boot fetishist. She has over 12 years of experience as a member of the kink community, as well as over 2 decades of experience as a professional dancer, circus artist, and performing arts educator. She has been an informal mentor to kinksters over the years across a wide variety of interests, as well as a long-standing member of Hitchin’ Bitches Boston and frequent attendee of rope and kink events throughout the New England area.

To register:
MEMBERS -$10

Create a Member Portal account using the same email address used when you purchased your membership. (Email membership@tes.org if you have forgotten the one you used when registering for TES.) Be sure to espond to confirmation email & choose a password. After that, log back into the Member Portal.
To complete your purchase, click here and follow the instructions. Your membership discount will be automatically applied.

NON-MEMBERS – $20
Click here to register for this class.
Registration closes 24 hours before the start of class.
If you’re unable to afford this, contact tes@tes.org & we’ll do our best to find a way to help you attend this class.

The DatingKinky platform is supported by multiple browsers, but if you are having any technical difficulties please try a different browser, as certain settings may interfere. Note that this link will only be active during scheduled meeting times.
You are welcome to participate as actively as you are comfortable. By default, users’ cameras and microphones will be switched off, and you may simply watch passively or participate solely by text in the chat box if you are uncomfortable being seen or heard. Please note that while we have selected this platform to be as private as possible while maintaining sufficient ease of use for participants, no online platform is ever fully secure. While all regular TES rules regarding privacy remain in effect, and anyone caught violating these rules will be subject to consequences (please see our Online Meeting Terms of Service), we advise participants to treat online events as though the event is being recorded by a third party. For more information on protecting your online privacy, please see our online privacy guide.

TES Board of Directors Meeting
2021-10-14 19:00 - 22:00
Open to all current members; information on how to join has already been distributed to the membership. If you are a member and did not receive this information, please contact secretary@tes.org

TES presents: You Clean Up Well, For A Dirty Slut with Mórrígan
2021-10-19 19:00 - 22:00
This presentation/demonstration will focus on tips to know about the materials of your sex toys, how to properly clean them and store them so you can use them safely and a small demonstration on the different methods and good practices you can use in your home and on the go for keeping it clean when you’re getting down and dirty.
From pageant winner to kinky sinner, this former Girl Scout and girl-next-door from New Jersey has been stirring up the scene for the better part of a decade. Since 2012, Morrigan has been a staff member for Conduit Enterprises (New Jersey’s premiere monthly sex-positive kink/fetish/BDSM party). She’s the founder of Conduit’s “Little Sparks” and a co-leader for Conduit’s festival and camp collective presence. Known for her penchant for prosecco, and her over-the-top, extra AF party planning and production, this classy bitch is the mastermind behind events such as THUNDERFOAM! and Midnight Margaritas. As an age player, Morrigan is an advocate for learning to let go and embracing vulnerability without shame through consensual play associated with reconnection with lost innocence. With her infectious laugh, her vibrant squeals from excitement, and her twisted ideas of fun, she might just make you suffer from cute aggression, or she might get you to walk her Lego™ walk of fire. When in doubt, little out!

To register:
MEMBERS -$10

Create a Member Portal account using the same email address used when you purchased your membership. (Email membership@tes.org if you have forgotten the one you used when registering for TES.) Be sure to respond to confirmation email & choose a password. After that, log back into the Member Portal.
To complete your purchase, click here and follow the instructions. Your membership discount will be automatically applied.

NON-MEMBERS – $20
Click here to register for this class.
Registration closes 24 hours before the start of class.
If you’re unable to afford this, contact tes@tes.org & we’ll do our best to find a way to help you attend this class.

The DatingKinky platform is supported by multiple browsers, but if you are having any technical difficulties please try a different browser, as certain settings may interfere. Note that this link will only be active during scheduled meeting times.
You are welcome to participate as actively as you are comfortable. By default, users’ cameras and microphones will be switched off, and you may simply watch passively or participate solely by text in the chat box if you are uncomfortable being seen or heard. Please note that while we have selected this platform to be as private as possible while maintaining sufficient ease of use for participants, no online platform is ever fully secure. While all regular TES rules regarding privacy remain in effect, and anyone caught violating these rules will be subject to consequences (please see our Online Meeting Terms of Service), we advise participants to treat online events as though the event is being recorded by a third party. For more information on protecting your online privacy, please see our online privacy guide.

TES Pop-up Munch
2021-10-21 19:00 - 22:00
You’ve asked, and we’re heard you! TES is excited to announce we will be holding our very first…
TES Pop-up Munch
Thursday, October 21st, at 7pm
at the
Skylight Diner
402 W 34th St. (@ 9th Ave)
New York, NY 10001
Our host, Ann, will be there to welcome you and answer any questions. There is no cost to attend this event beyond paying for the food you order (and please tip your server well!).
Please note, this is our very first in-person event since the beginning of the pandemic, and all city and state safety protocols, including masking requirements and showing proof of vaccination to restaurant staff, remain in effect.
We hope that you’ll be able to join us. We are so excited to at long last be able to gather with you and the rest of our community! Stay safe, and see you on Thursday!

ONLINE -- Annual Elections and Membership Meeting
2021-10-26 19:00 - 22:00
Open to all current members. Information on how to join will be distributed on October 1. If you are a member and did not receive this information, please contact secretary@tes.org after October 1.

TES presents - Your PhD in Understanding Submissives with undergroundsea
2021-11-09 19:00 - 22:00
Take away models and terminology that will help you understand, negotiate, and (for s-types) explain your brand of submission. Learn about (a) 6 types of masochism, (b) 5 need centers of submissives, (c) 3 core languages of D/s, (d) 9 motivation types of service submissives, and (e) 2 distinct types of humiliation play. This class brings together highlights of multiple classes to give a broader picture of how submissives are wired. It often prompts breakthrough discussions for attendees. Helpful to* Dominants who wish for a broader understanding of submissives
Submissives who wish to learn models and terminology to examine and articulate their submission.
Sea has attended kink events for 19 years. He presents nationally to help people communicate and understand each other’s kink needs, especially to understand submission. He currently serves on Advisory Board for DomCon BDSM weekend conventions. Previously, he wrote a BDSM column for fearlesspress.com, represented BDSM on college campuses and mainstream forums, and chaired Austin TNG for 4 years.
He splits time between Austin and DC. He performs with a DC BDSM-themed burlesque and comedy troupe. He previously helped keep Austin weird by arranging fetish nights where he wrote, performed in, and arranged music for fetish shows. BDSM has influenced his artistic expression in the form of fetish photography, DJing music, dance, writings, and kinky stand-up comedy.

To register:
MEMBERS -$10

Create a Member Portal account using the same email address used when you purchased your membership. (Email membership@tes.org if you have forgotten the one you used when registering for TES.) Be sure to respond to confirmation email & choose a password. After that, log back into the Member Portal.
To complete your purchase, click here and follow the instructions. Your membership discount will be automatically applied.

NON-MEMBERS – $20
Click here register for this class.
Registration closes 24 hours before class begins.
If you’re unable to afford this, contact tes@tes.org & we’ll do our best to find a way to help you attend this class.

The DatingKinky platform is supported by multiple browsers, but if you are having any technical difficulties please try a different browser, as certain settings may interfere. Note that this link will only be active during scheduled meeting times.
You are welcome to participate as actively as you are comfortable. By default, users’ cameras and microphones will be switched off, and you may simply watch passively or participate solely by text in the chat box if you are uncomfortable being seen or heard. Please note that while we have selected this platform to be as private as possible while maintaining sufficient ease of use for participants, no online platform is ever fully secure. While all regular TES rules regarding privacy remain in effect, and anyone caught violating these rules will be subject to consequences (please see our Online Meeting Terms of Service), we advise participants to treat online events as though the event is being recorded by a third party. For more information on protecting your online privacy, please see our online privacy guide.

TES Board of Directors Meeting
2021-11-11 19:00 - 22:00
Open to all current members. The link to join will be distributed to members on November 1st. If you are a member, would like to join, and did not receive the link, please email secretary@tes.org

ONLINE - Behavior Modification and Obedience Training with Sir_Lisa & leathergem
2021-11-16 19:00 - 22:00
Just as rules and protocols vary in every relationship, so do the styles and techniques of behavior modification and obedience training for a slave that will yield the most accurate assessment of the Master. We will give various examples of techniques and strategies that worked for us to set clear expectations to ensure the Masters’ needs are being met and that the slave has a clear understanding of what that looks like with all the resources given.
Sir Lisa (He/Him/They) and leathergem (her/she) live a 24/7 TPE Master/slave relationship structured in protocols and rituals involving the chemistry of Leather, spirituality, and consent-non-consent. Their deep connection fuels the energy that allows them to live unapologetically for who they are.
Sir Lisa is a Trans-masculine Sadistic Leather Master and leathergem who is a queer masochist leatherwoman. Together, they live by the code to “Each one Teach one” and are dedicated to serving their community with education, mentorship, and lots of fun.
Sir Lisa and leathergem are the owners of the Tampa Bay Phoenix Club. Sir Lisa is the Co-Director of MAsT-Tampa and the founder of the Living in Leather Group® that has chapters in Florida, NYC, Boise, and Boston.
To register:
MEMBERS -$10

Create a Member Portal account using the same email address used when you purchased your membership. (Email membership@tes.org if you have forgotten the one you used when registering for TES.) Be sure to respond to respond to confirmation email & choose a password. After that, log back into the Member Portal.
To complete your purchase, click on this class registration link and follow the instructions. Your membership discount will be automatically applied.

NON-MEMBERS – $20
Click here register for this class.
If you’re unable to afford this, contact tes@tes.org & we’ll do our best to find a way to help you attend this class.

This platform is supported by multiple browsers, but if you are having any technical difficulties please try a different browser, as certain settings may interfere. Note that this link will only be active during scheduled meeting times.
You are welcome to participate as actively as you are comfortable. By default, users’ cameras and microphones will be switched off, and you may simply watch passively or participate solely by text in the chat box if you are uncomfortable being seen or heard. Please note that while we have selected this platform to be as private as possible while maintaining sufficient ease of use for participants, no online platform is ever fully secure. While all regular TES rules regarding privacy remain in effect, and anyone caught violating these rules will be subject to consequences (please see our Online Meeting Terms of Service), we advise participants to treat online events as though the event is being recorded by a third party. For more information on protecting your online privacy, please see our online privacy guide.

ONLINE - Gender as a Spectrum with Infinity_Rising
2021-11-23 19:00 - 22:00
An open discussion on the perspective of gender as a spectrum and some of the issues that those on various points on the spectrum may encounter. In this discussion we will have an open forum for people to ask and answer questions surrounding the topic of different gender identifications as well as how they interact with gender roles and sexuality. The class will also cover some common issues that arise as a result. Attendees are encouraged to come with questions/input. This discussion is meant to be an interactive exchange between consenting adults. This discussion is intended to be a safe space to ask questions and share experiences.
Infinity Rising is a gender fluid, pan sexual, switch whos pronouns vary based on their gender presentation. They have presented on and conducted demos for a variety of topics for: TES, TES FEST, SCK, LICK, LIL&R, HVTNG, and Dark Odyssey. They teach and lead discussions on a variety of BDSM/Kink/LBGTQAI+ topics including electro play, gender identity, sex machines, and DIY kink. Infinity has had the pleasure of having many phenomenal mentors throughout their life and truly appreciates the knowledge that was shared with them. This is one of the many reasons why they continue to present/demo/lead discussions in the community now.
To register:
MEMBERS -$10

Create a Member Portal account using the same email address used when you purchased your membership. (Email membership@tes.org if you have forgotten the one you used when registering for TES.) Be sure to respond to confirmation email & choose a password. After that, log back into the Member Portal.
To complete your purchase, click on this class registration link and follow the instructions. Your membership discount will be automatically applied.

NON-MEMBERS – $20
Click here register for this class.
If you’re unable to afford this, contact tes@tes.org & we’ll do our best to find a way to help you attend this class.

The DatingKinky platform is supported by multiple browsers, but if you are having any technical difficulties please try a different browser, as certain settings may interfere. Note that this link will only be active during scheduled meeting times.
You are welcome to participate as actively as you are comfortable. By default, users’ cameras and microphones will be switched off, and you may simply watch passively or participate solely by text in the chat box if you are uncomfortable being seen or heard. Please note that while we have selected this platform to be as private as possible while maintaining sufficient ease of use for participants, no online platform is ever fully secure. While all regular TES rules regarding privacy remain in effect, and anyone caught violating these rules will be subject to consequences (please see our Online Meeting Terms of Service), we advise participants to treat online events as though the event is being recorded by a third party. For more information on protecting your online privacy, please see our online privacy guide.

ONLINE - Indigenizing BDSM with SirMrWombat
2021-11-30 19:00 - 22:00
Exploring BDSM through a lens of indigenous ideologies can be difficult. Learning to reindigenize and reclaim culture, spirituality, and fetishes is an art and skill. This class is an informal approach that will explore how to galvanize two seemingly polarized identities into one. This class is intended to engage, inform, and bring about discussion in hopes of broadening our understanding of kink.
Sir Wombat, aka Erik James Escareño, DSW (he,she,they) is a two-spirited indigenous (Yavapai Apache and Chiricahua Apache) Los Angelino who is fueled by social justice and perpetuating meaningful change. Sir Wombat identifies as a Specialized Mental Health Clinical Social Worker, Interpreter, Sir, Handler/Trainer, Sadist, and Leather Daddy. As a clinician social worker, they provide mental health services to Deaf folx within Los Angeles County. As a Sir and Leather Daddy, they are the head of a leather family and are adept at a multitude of kinks and BDSM disciplines which they continue to hone and pass down to their boys.
Holding a Doctorate of Social Work, Sir Wombat focuses on creating systemic change in accessibility to mental health services for Deaf folx. Their fervent hope is to create accessible mental health services for all. Having an intimate connection to, and understanding of, the Deaf community they provide ASL interpretation in many QIPOC and Kink spaces; striving to ensure the message of positive queerness and sex is not compromised. Guided by honesty, open-mindedness, and willingness, Sir Wombat mentors others through an ethical lens while honoring sexual spirit.

To register:
MEMBERS -$10

Create a Member Portal account using the same email address used when you purchased your membership. (Email membership@tes.org if you have forgotten the one you used when registering for TES.) Be sure to respond to confirmation email & choose a password. After that, log back into the Member Portal.
To complete your purchase, click on this class registration link and follow the instructions. Your membership discount will be automatically applied.

NON-MEMBERS – $20
Click here register for this class.
If you’re unable to afford this, contact tes@tes.org & we’ll do our best to find a way to help you attend this class.

The DatingKinky platform is supported by multiple browsers, but if you are having any technical difficulties please try a different browser, as certain settings may interfere. Note that this link will only be active during scheduled meeting times.
You are welcome to participate as actively as you are comfortable. By default, users’ cameras and microphones will be switched off, and you may simply watch passively or participate solely by text in the chat box if you are uncomfortable being seen or heard. Please note that while we have selected this platform to be as private as possible while maintaining sufficient ease of use for participants, no online platform is ever fully secure. While all regular TES rules regarding privacy remain in effect, and anyone caught violating these rules will be subject to consequences (please see our Online Meeting Terms of Service), we advise participants to treat online events as though the event is being recorded by a third party. For more information on protecting your online privacy, please see our online privacy guide.

ONLINE - Beautifully Bruised Booties (and Other Bits) with BexTalksSex
2021-12-07 19:00 - 22:00
Whether you’re cruisin’ for a bruisin’ or looking to pull your favorite little slut over your knee for a spanking – preparing for an impact scene from either side of the slash can be intimidating. Luckily, this workshop covers everything you need to know to get started! From bare hands to paddles and from floggers to canes we’ll be discussing the many tools at your disposal and the things to consider when building up your collection. Then we’ll move on to discussing safety tips, and the skills that go into successfully planning, negotiating, and executing your scenes.
We’ll cover essential skills for tops, such as how and where to hit someone, rhythm and pacing, interpreting your bottom’s reactions, and the art of leaving marks (or not!). We’ll also dig into pain management tools, subspace, bruise aftercare, and other essential skills every masochist should know. Finally, we’ll wrap it all up with a live demo where you can see how everything we discussed comes together while I dole out some “intense sensation” to my eager co-presenter!
This class welcomes people of all genders, orientations. Bex has experience teaching events ranging from intimate gatherings to large crowds both in person and online. For more details on how to book Bex for your conference, event, or organization please visit our contact page or email BexTalksSex (at) gmail (.) com.

To register:
MEMBERS -$10

Create a Member Portal account using the same email address used when you purchased your membership. (Email membership@tes.org if you have forgotten the one you used when registering for TES.) Be sure to respond to confirmation email & choose a password. After that, log back into the Member Portal.
To complete your purchase, click on this class registration link and follow the instructions. Your membership discount will be automatically applied.

NON-MEMBERS – $20
Click here register for this class.
If you’re unable to afford this, contact tes@tes.org & we’ll do our best to find a way to help you attend this class.

The DatingKinky platform is supported by multiple browsers, but if you are having any technical difficulties please try a different browser, as certain settings may interfere. Note that this link will only be active during scheduled meeting times.
You are welcome to participate as actively as you are comfortable. By default, users’ cameras and microphones will be switched off, and you may simply watch passively or participate solely by text in the chat box if you are uncomfortable being seen or heard. Please note that while we have selected this platform to be as private as possible while maintaining sufficient ease of use for participants, no online platform is ever fully secure. While all regular TES rules regarding privacy remain in effect, and anyone caught violating these rules will be subject to consequences (please see our Online Meeting Terms of Service), we advise participants to treat online events as though the event is being recorded by a third party. For more information on protecting your online privacy, please see our online privacy guide.

ONLINE--TES Board of Directors Meeting
2021-12-09 19:00 - 22:00
Open to all current members. Information on how to join has been distributed to the membership. If you are a member, did not receive this information, and would like to join, please contact secretary@tes.org

ONLINE - Be-Weave Me, I Don't Need a Knot! with CTW
2021-12-14 19:00 - 22:00
No apologies for the pun, but be-weave it or not – learning to weave can be a great introduction to rope bondage. Weave patterns create the basis for many aesthetic and functional harnesses. And no knots are required! Attendees of this introductory rope class will learn to weave patterns for hand bondage, foot bondage, and a hip harness. Viewers should have two to three standard lengths of rope (26-30 feet) and one half length of rope (13-15 feet) to tie along, plus have an emergency cutting tool on hand. Self-tiers are recommended to have a spotter or emergency exit plan in place.
CTW (she/her) is your average queer, ENM Millenial bondage kinkster. She specializes in rope and chain bondage, and she enjoys creating memorable and safe first rope suspension experiences, making her masochistic bottoms scream and giggle and swear in mean suspensions, and working with her main romantic partner on developing and teaching chain bondage techniques. Together they have a book coming out soon on chain bondage for the ground. (She is credited as Cecilia T. Winters.) She has previously presented in person for Fem Rope Hampton Roads, Williamsburg Rope Bite, Dark Odyssey, NARIX, NoVa Events, and The Space – Wichita, and virtually for TES Tuesdays and Sadovarius (Czech Rep.).

To register:
MEMBERS -$10

Create a Member Portal account using the same email address used when you purchased your membership. (Email membership@tes.org if you have forgotten the one you used when registering for TES.) Be sure to respond to confirmation email & choose a password. After that, log back into the Member Portal.
To complete your purchase, click on this class registration link and follow the instructions. Your membership discount will be automatically applied.

NON-MEMBERS – $20
Click here register for this class.
If you’re unable to afford this, contact tes@tes.org & we’ll do our best to find a way to help you attend this class.

The DatingKinky platform is supported by multiple browsers, but if you are having any technical difficulties please try a different browser, as certain settings may interfere. Note that this link will only be active during scheduled meeting times.
You are welcome to participate as actively as you are comfortable. By default, users’ cameras and microphones will be switched off, and you may simply watch passively or participate solely by text in the chat box if you are uncomfortable being seen or heard. Please note that while we have selected this platform to be as private as possible while maintaining sufficient ease of use for participants, no online platform is ever fully secure. While all regular TES rules regarding privacy remain in effect, and anyone caught violating these rules will be subject to consequences (please see our Online Meeting Terms of Service), we advise participants to treat online events as though the event is being recorded by a third party. For more information on protecting your online privacy, please see our online privacy guide.

TES End-of-Year Munch
2021-12-16 19:00 - 22:00
Please join us as we say goodbye to 2021 and look forward to a brighter, kinkier 2022! Come have a bite, mingle, and, if you like, participate in our holiday gift exchange (gifts in the $7-10 range suggested). Whether you’re new to the scene, an old friend, or just passing through, we’re excited to see you!

Our hosts, Ann and Rouge, will be there to welcome you and answer any questions. There is no cost to attend this event beyond paying for the food you order (and please tip your server well!).

Please note, that all city and state COVID safety protocols, including masking requirements and showing proof of vaccination to restaurant staff, remain in effect.

I hope that you’ll be able to join us. We are so excited to at long last be able to gather with you and the rest of our community! Stay safe, and see you next Thursday!

ONLINE - Playing with F-Words (Fear Play) with Ignixia
2022-01-11 19:00 - 22:00
Description

Fear. Fight or flight. These are words we’re familiar with hearing, but how do we use their concepts in play? In this class we’ll discuss fear, 4 response types to it, and how we can feed off that exchange to create scenes that will have everyone saying “oh hell no!” and “yes, more please” at the same time. We’ll also cover how to ensure that your fun and games don’t cross the line into abuse and psychological trauma.
Ignixia is an internationally renowned professional kink educator and leather-woman who was the owner and sole-operator of an award-winning leather business designed around creating custom, quality leather goods that are affordable to all. She has used her skills as a leatherworker to create the Kinkability toy line, first of its kind fetish gear designed for those with disabilities. As someone who lives with chronic pain, along with her partner, she uses her experiences to help others with chronic pain through an online support group and classes designed to make daily life and kink easier to manage. ​
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To register:
MEMBERS -$10

Create a Member Portal account using the same email address used when you purchased your membership. (Email membership@tes.org if you have forgotten the one you used when registering for TES.) Be sure to respond to confirmation email & choose a password. After that, log back into the Member Portal.
To complete your purchase, click on this link and follow the instructions. Your membership discount will be automatically applied.

NON-MEMBERS – $20
Click here register for this class.
If you’re unable to afford this, contact tes@tes.org & we’ll do our best to find a way to help you attend this class.
Registration closes 24 hours prior to the event.

The DatingKinky platform is supported by multiple browsers, but if you are having any technical difficulties please try a different browser, as certain settings may interfere. Note that this link will only be active during scheduled meeting times.
You are welcome to participate as actively as you are comfortable. By default, users’ cameras and microphones will be switched off, and you may simply watch passively or participate solely by text in the chat box if you are uncomfortable being seen or heard. Please note that while we have selected this platform to be as private as possible while maintaining sufficient ease of use for participants, no online platform is ever fully secure. While all regular TES rules regarding privacy remain in effect, and anyone caught violating these rules will be subject to consequences (please see our Online Meeting Terms of Service), we advise participants to treat online events as though the event is being recorded by a third party. For more information on protecting your online privacy, please see our online privacy guide.

TES Board of Directors Meeting
2022-01-13 19:00 - 22:00
Online, open to all current members. Information on how to join will be distributed to the membership on 1 January. If you are a member, would like to attend, and did not receive this information, please email secretary@tes.org

ONLINE - A is for Authority: The ABC's of Authority Transfer with DevynStone
2022-01-18 19:00 - 22:00
This class is an introduction to the concept and negotiation of authority transfer dynamics. Understand the foundational concepts and philosophies that inform authority transfer and the necessary components that go into negotiating and establishing an authority transfer. What are these relationships made of? What can you get out of them? What can they bring to you?
Devyn Stone is a self-awareness and BDSM educator, author, and alternative lifestyles coach. He dreams of globe trotting and helping folx achieve the connections they desire, while they learn themselves more deeply.
He believes in diversity not division, and actualizes that idea by promoting strongly affirming spaces and interactions. Devyn has a passion for giving and receiving education – his favorite topics are psychology, negotiation, consent, relationship construction, and organization.
His “Quick Reference” books covered affirming gender, creating protocol, negotiating authority in relationships, and more. He is the Founder of Pragmatically Kinking, where members discuss the practical aspects of BDSM, and THRIVE, a virtual conference dedicated to the intersection of mental health and BDSM.
Devyn’s been actively practicing authority transfer dynamics since 2004. Today he lives in Colorado Springs, CO with his property, Guan-Xuan, who is unquestionably devoted to his will. Devyn is an extrovert, a Sons of Anarchy fan, and a foodie.

To register:
MEMBERS -$10

Create a Member Portal account using the same email address used when you purchased your membership. (Email membership@tes.org if you have forgotten the one you used when registering for TES.) Be sure to respond to confirmation email & choose a password. After that, log back into the Member Portal.
To complete your purchase, click on this class registration link and follow the instructions. Your membership discount will be automatically applied.

NON-MEMBERS – $20
Click here to register for this class.
If you’re unable to afford this, contact tes@tes.org & we’ll do our best to find a way to help you attend this class.

The DatingKinky platform is supported by multiple browsers, but if you are having any technical difficulties please try a different browser, as certain settings may interfere. Note that this link will only be active during scheduled meeting times.
You are welcome to participate as actively as you are comfortable. By default, users’ cameras and microphones will be switched off, and you may simply watch passively or participate solely by text in the chat box if you are uncomfortable being seen or heard. Please note that while we have selected this platform to be as private as possible while maintaining sufficient ease of use for participants, no online platform is ever fully secure. While all regular TES rules regarding privacy remain in effect, and anyone caught violating these rules will be subject to consequences (please see our Online Meeting Terms of Service), we advise participants to treat online events as though the event is being recorded by a third party. For more information on protecting your online privacy, please see our online privacy guide.

ONLINE - Foot Domination & Jobs with theDommeKat
2022-01-25 19:00 - 22:00
Big or small, smooth or wrinkly, bedazzled or au naturale. Feet come in every shape, size and style under the sun and are just waiting to be invited to the party. In this class we will explore the many sexy ways to dominate using your feet. From choking to trampling, foot rubs to forced worship, we’ll cover the harder and softer sides of foot fetish delights. This class is perfect for people looking to incorporate foot play for the first time, as well as those who are looking to up their foot game. Will include pro-demonstrations plus opportunities for you to explore. And as for the “jobs” part… why work harder when you can work smarter? 😉
Domina Katarina (theDommeKat) has been called “casually cruel” and “compassionately sadistic” – a treat for those who find themselves under Her size 8.5s. The ProDomme and Fetish Wrestler can often be found wrestling with Doom Maidens, flogging for funsies at parties or teaching others the joys of butt stuff.
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To register:
MEMBERS -$10

Create a Member Portal account using the same email address used when you purchased your membership. (Email membership@tes.org if you have forgotten the one you used when registering for TES.) Be sure to respond to confirmation email & choose a password. After that, log back into the Member Portal.
To complete your purchase, click on this link and follow the instructions. Your membership discount will be automatically applied.

NON-MEMBERS – $20
Click here register for this class.
If you’re unable to afford this, contact tes@tes.org & we’ll do our best to find a way to help you attend this class.
Registration closes 24 hours prior to the event.

The DatingKinky platform is supported by multiple browsers, but if you are having any technical difficulties please try a different browser, as certain settings may interfere. Note that this link will only be active during scheduled meeting times.
You are welcome to participate as actively as you are comfortable. By default, users’ cameras and microphones will be switched off, and you may simply watch passively or participate solely by text in the chat box if you are uncomfortable being seen or heard. Please note that while we have selected this platform to be as private as possible while maintaining sufficient ease of use for participants, no online platform is ever fully secure. While all regular TES rules regarding privacy remain in effect, and anyone caught violating these rules will be subject to consequences (please see our Online Meeting Terms of Service), we advise participants to treat online events as though the event is being recorded by a third party. For more information on protecting your online privacy, please see our online privacy guide.

ONLINE - Strategies for Long-Duration Bondage with AbundantMischief
2022-02-01 19:00 - 22:00
Do you or your partner have fantasies of being tied up all day or all night? Learn strategies to safely extend the length of your bondage playtime, and fun ideas for what to do with all that additional time.
This class will include:

Considerations for planning and navigating longer bondage scenes, including what kinds of ties are best for longer scenes and how the same tie can change in sensation over time
*Discussion of the psychological effects of spending longer periods of time in bondage
*Practical considerations for snacks, hydration, bio breaks, varying attention spans, and sleep
*How aftercare needs can change after longer scenes, for both bottoms and tops

AbundantMischief is a toppy switch, gleeful sadomasochist, and enthusiastic boot fetishist. She has over 12 years of experience as a member of the kink community, as well as over 2 decades of experience as a professional dancer, circus artist, and performing arts educator. She has been an informal mentor to kinksters over the years across a wide variety of interests, as well as a long-standing member of Hitchin’ Bitches Boston and frequent attendee of rope and kink events throughout the New England area.
To register:
MEMBERS -$10

Create a Member Portal account using the same email address used when you purchased your membership. (Email membership@tes.org if you have forgotten the one you used when registering for TES.) Be sure to respond to confirmation email & choose a password. After that, log back into the Member Portal.
To complete your purchase, click here and follow the instructions. Your membership discount will be automatically applied.

NON-MEMBERS – $20
Click here to register for this class.
If you’re unable to afford this, contact tes@tes.org & we’ll do our best to find a way to help you attend this class.
Registration closes 24 hours prior to the event.

The DatingKinky platform is supported by multiple browsers, but if you are having any technical difficulties please try a different browser, as certain settings may interfere. Note that this link will only be active during scheduled meeting times.
You are welcome to participate as actively as you are comfortable. By default, users’ cameras and microphones will be switched off, and you may simply watch passively or participate solely by text in the chat box if you are uncomfortable being seen or heard. Please note that while we have selected this platform to be as private as possible while maintaining sufficient ease of use for participants, no online platform is ever fully secure. While all regular TES rules regarding privacy remain in effect, and anyone caught violating these rules will be subject to consequences (please see our Online Meeting Terms of Service), we advise participants to treat online events as though the event is being recorded by a third party. For more information on protecting your online privacy, please see our online privacy guide.

ONLINE - Culinary Services with HannahTheScribe
2022-02-08 19:00 - 22:00
In this class, we’ll cover how to provide excellent culinary service, from planning to allergens, safety, and kitchen basics, as well as plating and table service, with some quizzes along the way. On the doc cam, we’ll cover some napkin folds and briefly go over the table setting chart and a few of my favorite go to recipes that are sure to please. We’ll wrap up with a brief Q+A session.
I’m a 24/7 high protocol service slave/housewife to my wonderful Mistress and wife. I’m monogamous to her and she has my irrevocable consent. I live with her and our two adorable cats.
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To register:
MEMBERS -$10

Create a Member Portal account using the same email address used when you purchased your membership. (Email membership@tes.org if you have forgotten the one you used when registering for TES.) Be sure to respond to confirmation email & choose a password. After that, log back into the Member Portal.
To complete your purchase, click on this link and follow the instructions. Your membership discount will be automatically applied.

NON-MEMBERS – $20
Click here to register for this class.
If you’re unable to afford this, contact tes@tes.org & we’ll do our best to find a way to help you attend this class.
Registration closes 24 hours prior to the event.

The DatingKinky platform is supported by multiple browsers, but if you are having any technical difficulties please try a different browser, as certain settings may interfere. Note that this link will only be active during scheduled meeting times.
You are welcome to participate as actively as you are comfortable. By default, users’ cameras and microphones will be switched off, and you may simply watch passively or participate solely by text in the chat box if you are uncomfortable being seen or heard. Please note that while we have selected this platform to be as private as possible while maintaining sufficient ease of use for participants, no online platform is ever fully secure. While all regular TES rules regarding privacy remain in effect, and anyone caught violating these rules will be subject to consequences (please see our Online Meeting Terms of Service), we advise participants to treat online events as though the event is being recorded by a third party. For more information on protecting your online privacy, please see our online privacy guide.

TES Board of Directors Meeting
2022-02-10 19:00 - 22:00
Online. Information on how to join was distributed to the membership on February 1. If you are a member, did not receive this information, and would like to join, please contact secretary@tes.org

ONLINE - Bondage For Disabilities with Ignixia
2022-02-15 19:00 - 22:00
If you’ve ever heard the phrase “you’re too ___ for bondage” this class is probably for you. We’ll cover a variety of bondage methods that can be used for different ability statuses in a fluid class structure so we can address individual concerns as they arise. Be sure to bring your favorite bondage tools whether it’s rope, straps, plastic wrap, or something else entirely, so we can show practical application during roundtable-style problem-solving and troubleshooting.
Ignixia is an internationally renowned professional kink educator and leather-woman who was the owner and sole-operator of an award-winning leather business designed around creating custom, quality leather goods that are affordable to all. She has used her skills as a leatherworker to create the Kinkability toy line, first of its kind fetish gear designed for those with disabilities. As someone who lives with chronic pain, along with her partner, she uses her experiences to help others with chronic pain through an online support group and classes designed to make daily life and kink easier to manage. ​
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To register:
MEMBERS -$10

Create a Member Portal account using the same email address used when you purchased your membership. (Email membership@tes.org if you have forgotten the one you used when registering for TES.) Be sure to respond to confirmation email & choose a password. After that, log back into the Member Portal.
To complete your purchase, click on this link and follow the instructions. Your membership discount will be automatically applied.

NON-MEMBERS – $20
Click here to register for this class.
If you’re unable to afford this, contact tes@tes.org & we’ll do our best to find a way to help you attend this class.
Registration closes 24 hours prior to the event.

The DatingKinky platform is supported by multiple browsers, but if you are having any technical difficulties please try a different browser, as certain settings may interfere. Note that this link will only be active during scheduled meeting times.
You are welcome to participate as actively as you are comfortable. By default, users’ cameras and microphones will be switched off, and you may simply watch passively or participate solely by text in the chat box if you are uncomfortable being seen or heard. Please note that while we have selected this platform to be as private as possible while maintaining sufficient ease of use for participants, no online platform is ever fully secure. While all regular TES rules regarding privacy remain in effect, and anyone caught violating these rules will be subject to consequences (please see our Online Meeting Terms of Service), we advise participants to treat online events as though the event is being recorded by a third party. For more information on protecting your online privacy, please see our online privacy guide.

TES presents: Service for the Differently Abled with UnrulyNerdGirl
2022-02-22 19:00 - 22:00
Description coming soon!
Bio:
Canadian, technically Ausnadian after living for four years Down Under, domestic service (aka luxury lifestyle) submissive to the rich and famous and little – service little, cheeky bear, errant evil scout, fervent axe thrower, maker of things, BDSM taxonomist, co-creator of a BDSM board game, and writer/published author.
Entered the BDSM community and lifestyle in her early twenties, and hasn’t looked back since. Whether it is a day spent at an estate sale scoping out silverware, or acquiring a new skill for the service tool chest, this little bear makes the most of each day, and is thoroughly tuckered out when curling up next to a mound of stuffies at bed time. Active in local, national, and international BDSM communities as a moderator for various online activities, as one third of the triptych that organizes a local Ottawa munch, and as an educator.
Loves tacos, hot dogs, crafts, Minecraft, going to the gym, powerlifting, pinball, arcades, movie theatres, naps, drag queens, and Lego.

To register:
MEMBERS -$10

Create a Member Portal account using the same email address used when you purchased your membership. (Email membership@tes.org if you have forgotten the one you used when registering for TES.) Be sure to respond to confirmation email & choose a password. After that, log back into the Member Portal.
To complete your purchase, click on this link and follow the instructions. Your membership discount will be automatically applied.

NON-MEMBERS – $20
Click here to register for this class.
If you’re unable to afford this, contact tes@tes.org & we’ll do our best to find a way to help you attend this class.

No additional downloads or software required! This platform is supported by multiple browsers, but if you are having any technical difficulties please try a different browser, as certain settings may interfere. Note that this link will only be active during scheduled meeting times.
You are welcome to participate as actively as you are comfortable. By default, users’ cameras and microphones will be switched off, and you may simply watch passively or participate solely by text in the chat box if you are uncomfortable being seen or heard. Please note that while we have selected this platform to be as private as possible while maintaining sufficient ease of use for participants, no online platform is ever fully secure. While all regular TES rules regarding privacy remain in effect, and anyone caught violating these rules will be subject to consequences (please see our Online Meeting Terms of Service), we advise participants to treat online events as though the event is being recorded by a third party. For more information on protecting your online privacy, please see our online privacy guide.

ONLINE - AirBnB & BDSM: Planning Kinky Vacations in Vanilla Locations with AbundantMischief
2022-03-01 19:00 - 22:00
Dreaming of a kinky getaway, but feeling overwhelmed by the idea of attending a kink convention? This class will teach you how to create your own small-scale kinky vacation with your partner or a small group of friends.
Class topics include:

How to identify a rental property that’s suitable for a kinky vacation (and what’s more likely to fly under the radar at hotels)
*How to maintain your privacy before, during, and after your trip
*How to be a good guest (so that you can have another awesome kinky vacation in the same place!)
*Considerations for emergencies
*Ideas for getting creative with site-specific scenes

AbundantMischief is a toppy switch, gleeful sadomasochist, and enthusiastic boot fetishist. She has over 12 years of experience as a member of the kink community, as well as over 2 decades of experience as a professional dancer, circus artist, and performing arts educator. She has been an informal mentor to kinksters over the years across a wide variety of interests, as well as a long-standing member of Hitchin’ Bitches Boston and frequent attendee of rope and kink events throughout the New England area.
To register:
MEMBERS -$10

Create a Member Portal account using the same email address used when you purchased your membership. (Email membership@tes.org if you have forgotten the one you used when registering for TES.) Be sure to respond to confirmation email & choose a password. After that, log back into the Member Portal.
To complete your purchase, click here and follow the instructions. Your membership discount will be automatically applied.

NON-MEMBERS – $20
Click here to register for this class.
If you’re unable to afford this, contact tes@tes.org & we’ll do our best to find a way to help you attend this class.

The DatingKinky platform is supported by multiple browsers, but if you are having any technical difficulties please try a different browser, as certain settings may interfere. Note that this link will only be active during scheduled meeting times.
You are welcome to participate as actively as you are comfortable. By default, users’ cameras and microphones will be switched off, and you may simply watch passively or participate solely by text in the chat box if you are uncomfortable being seen or heard. Please note that while we have selected this platform to be as private as possible while maintaining sufficient ease of use for participants, no online platform is ever fully secure. While all regular TES rules regarding privacy remain in effect, and anyone caught violating these rules will be subject to consequences (please see our Online Meeting Terms of Service), we advise participants to treat online events as though the event is being recorded by a third party. For more information on protecting your online privacy, please see our online privacy guide.

ONLINE - Areas of Control with DevynStone
2022-03-08 19:00 - 22:00
The “Areas of Control” are sections of a person’s life in which authority can be exercised. The categories are divided by type. They include things like medical decisions, hair color, educational opportunities, diet and many more. This quick reference guide lays out each “area” and its subsequent categories. It is designed to get you thinking and talking about your power exchange or authority transfer dynamic in a whole new way. Whether you are new to authority transfer or a veteran of the practice, your dynamic is just starting or has lasted a lifetime you will find something in this guide for you!
Devyn Stone is a self-awareness and BDSM educator, author, and alternative lifestyles coach. He dreams of globe trotting and helping folx achieve the connections they desire, while they learn themselves more deeply.
He believes in diversity not division, and actualizes that idea by promoting strongly affirming spaces and interactions. Devyn has a passion for giving and receiving education – his favorite topics are psychology, negotiation, consent, relationship construction, and organization.
His “Quick Reference” books covered affirming gender, creating protocol, negotiating authority in relationships, and more. He is the Founder of Pragmatically Kinking, where members discuss the practical aspects of BDSM, and THRIVE, a virtual conference dedicated to the intersection of mental health and BDSM.
Devyn’s been actively practicing authority transfer dynamics since 2004. Today he lives in Colorado Springs, CO with his property, Guan-Xuan, who is unquestionably devoted to his will. Devyn is an extrovert, a Sons of Anarchy fan, and a foodie.

To register:
MEMBERS -$10

Create a Member Portal account using the same email address used when you purchased your membership. (Email membership@tes.org if you have forgotten the one you used when registering for TES.) Be sure to respond to confirmation email & choose a password. After that, log back into the Member Portal.
To complete your purchase, click on this link and follow the instructions. Your membership discount will be automatically applied.

NON-MEMBERS – $20
Click here to register for this class.
If you’re unable to afford this, contact tes@tes.org & we’ll do our best to find a way to help you attend this class.

No additional downloads or software required! This platform is supported by multiple browsers, but if you are having any technical difficulties please try a different browser, as certain settings may interfere. Note that this link will only be active during scheduled meeting times.
You are welcome to participate as actively as you are comfortable. By default, users’ cameras and microphones will be switched off, and you may simply watch passively or participate solely by text in the chat box if you are uncomfortable being seen or heard. Please note that while we have selected this platform to be as private as possible while maintaining sufficient ease of use for participants, no online platform is ever fully secure. While all regular TES rules regarding privacy remain in effect, and anyone caught violating these rules will be subject to consequences (please see our Online Meeting Terms of Service), we advise participants to treat online events as though the event is being recorded by a third party. For more information on protecting your online privacy, please see our online privacy guide.
