The Eulenspiegel Society

ONLINE - Alpha Bits: the “s” Version with AttorneyLadySteele
2022-05-24 19:00 - 22:00 (America/New_York)
Join Lady Steele as she presents a class on how to negotiate the sometimes unpredictable waters of power exchange relationships when you are an Alpha type on the “right side of the slash”. She will discuss Alpha personalities and what challenges are inherent to being a strong personality in a position that requires that someone else be in control. This class is beneficial for those currently both in and out of a power exchange relationship.
Lady Steele identifies as a femme queer Alpha leather slave. She has served in the Leather community since 1999. She has presented and volunteered across the U. S. and internationally. She resides in Atlanta where she operates her law practice that serves people in the various BDSM worlds and the ethical non-monogamy (ENM) community. She is the only out, open, and practicing attorney in the U.S. that specializes in the issues that are unique to the BDSM and ENM communities.
She is the founder of the Center of Learning and School of Success (C.L.A.S.S.), the Worthless Bastards (Cigar) Club (W.B.C. – Atlanta), and The Leather Coterie (T.L.C.). She proudly leads all of these organizations under the umbrella of the West Inclusive Georgia Socials (W.I.N.G.S.) group. Lady Steele held the position of Social Coordinator for NLA – Atlanta during its last incarnation in Atlanta.
She continues to give back to the community as Board Support and Vendor Coordinator for the Leather Leadership Conference and is also a proud member of Onyx Pearls – Southern Leather.
When she is not presenting, Lady Steele has shared her knowledge through multiple podcasts on BlogTalk (“The Legal Show”), the KinkyCast, the Poly Podcast, Kuldrin’s Krypt, Nightlife 24/7, Dating Kinky, Excite Me, and the Black to Leather podcast.

To register:
MEMBERS -$10

Create a Member Portal account using the same email address used when you purchased your membership. (Email membership@tes.org if you have forgotten the one you used when registering for TES.) Be sure to respond to respond to confirmation email & choose a password. After that, log back into the Member Portal.
To complete your purchase, click here and follow the instructions. Your membership discount will be automatically applied.

NON-MEMBERS – $20
Click here register for this class.
REGISTRATION CLOSES 30 MINUTES BEFORE CLASS. ALL QUESTIONS TO MEMBERSHIP@TES.ORG
If you’re unable to afford this, contact tes@tes.org & we’ll do our best to find a way to help you attend this class.

The DatingKinky platform is supported by multiple browsers, but if you are having any technical difficulties please try a different browser, as certain settings may interfere. Note that this link will only be active during scheduled meeting times.
You are welcome to participate as actively as you are comfortable. By default, users’ cameras and microphones will be switched off, and you may simply watch passively or participate solely by text in the chat box if you are uncomfortable being seen or heard. Please note that while we have selected this platform to be as private as possible while maintaining sufficient ease of use for participants, no online platform is ever fully secure. While all regular TES rules regarding privacy remain in effect, and anyone caught violating these rules will be subject to consequences (please see our Online Meeting Terms of Service), we advise participants to treat online events as though the event is being recorded by a third party. For more information on protecting your online privacy, please see our online privacy guide.

TES Final Thursday Munch: Almost Summer Edition
2022-05-26 19:00 - 22:00
Memorial Day is just around the corner, which means so is Hot Kink Summer! So we’re kicking it off right with the latest TES’s monthly munch! Whether you’re new to the scene, an old friend, or just passing through, we’re excited to see you!
Come join us:
Thursday, May 26th, at 7pm
at the
Skylight Diner
402 W 34th St. (@ 9th Ave)
New York, NY 10001
Our hosts, Infinity and Ara, will be there to welcome you and answer any questions. There is no cost to attend this event beyond paying for the food you order (and please tip your server well!).
The TES Final Thursday Munch is our monthly gathering on the last Thursday of each month. It’s a great opportunity to meet and hangout with your fellow kinksters in a low-key, low pressure environment. It is open to all members of the community in good standing, and those who are new to the scene are especially encouraged to attend. There is no requirement to RSVP ahead of time, and you do not need to be a TES member to attend.
Please note, that any and all city and state COVID safety protocols, including any masking requirements and/or showing proof of vaccination to restaurant staff, remain in effect. We will be providing a discrete option for contact tracing, which is highly encouraged.

ONLINE - From the Sensual to the Sting: How to make your Dragon's Tail Do What You Mean with PlaineJane
2022-05-31 19:00 - 22:00
So you have your rope, your blindfold and your toy bag FULL of goodies, but do you have the most efficient yet elegant tool in a Top’s arsenal? A tool that incites instant anxiety at the mere thought of its tender touch? But that tender touch can feel as soft as a lover’s caress or as mean as a bee sting. The trick is making your Dragon’s Tail do what you want while making your bottom feel what you mean. PlaineJane will take you on a sensational journey into the effective use of a Dragon’s Tail.
Jane will discuss the types and parts of a Dragon’s Tail, techniques for different sensations, practice options, application as well as safety and aftercare for both Top and bottom. So, bring a Dragon’s tail and a bottom, if you got ’em. This class will give full marks for participation!”
PlaineJane has been active in the Atlanta BDSM community for almost fifteen years. As an enthusiastic Event Coordinator & Educator, Jane is a strong advocate for promoting and producing educational events for and within the BDSM and Leather communities. Jane is the Director and Organizer of MAsT: Marietta Women and F.L.A.I.R. (Female Led Authority Inspired Relationships) which offers educational Intensives for different faucets of the BDSM Lifestyle. She is also on the Board of Leather Leadership Conference (LLC). Her area of interest and experience includes service, domination and discipline, impact play, dragon’s tails, high protocol, power exchange from both sides of the slash, humiliation & degradation, chemical play, genitorture and of course Male on Male Action… to name a few.
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To register:
MEMBERS -$10

Create a Member Portal account using the same email address used when you purchased your membership. (Email membership@tes.org if you have forgotten the one you used when registering for TES.) Be sure to respond to respond to confirmation email & choose a password. After that, log back into the Member Portal.
To complete your purchase, click here and follow the instructions. Your membership discount will be automatically applied.

NON-MEMBERS – $20
Click here register for this class.
REGISTRATION CLOSES 30 MINUTES BEFORE CLASS. ALL QUESTIONS TO MEMBERSHIP@TES.ORG
If you’re unable to afford this, contact tes@tes.org & we’ll do our best to find a way to help you attend this class.

The DatingKinky platform is supported by multiple browsers, but if you are having any technical difficulties please try a different browser, as certain settings may interfere. Note that this link will only be active during scheduled meeting times.
You are welcome to participate as actively as you are comfortable. By default, users’ cameras and microphones will be switched off, and you may simply watch passively or participate solely by text in the chat box if you are uncomfortable being seen or heard. Please note that while we have selected this platform to be as private as possible while maintaining sufficient ease of use for participants, no online platform is ever fully secure. While all regular TES rules regarding privacy remain in effect, and anyone caught violating these rules will be subject to consequences (please see our Online Meeting Terms of Service), we advise participants to treat online events as though the event is being recorded by a third party. For more information on protecting your online privacy, please see our online privacy guide.

ONLINE - Neurodiversity in Kink with AttorneyLadySteele
2022-06-07 19:00 - 22:00
It is time. It is time that we open the discussion about what it means to be a neurodiverse person in the kink world. Are you autistic? Depressed? Anxious? Have PTSD? All of the above? Do you have something else going on? This is the class where you can hear about, and speak about if you are willing, what it’s like to be neurodiverse in kink. Lady Steele will discuss how neurodiversity affects safety, negotiations, play, and aftercare through her own experiences.
Lady Steele identifies as a femme Alpha leather slave. She has served in the Leather community since 1999 wherein she has presented and volunteered across the country. She resides in Atlanta where she operates her law practice that serves alternative lifestyles. She is the only out, open, and practicing attorney in the southeast that specializes in the issues that are unique to the BDSM and ethical non-momogamy communities.
Lady Steele is the co-founder and co-lead of the Center of Learning and School of Success (C.L.A.S.S.), Atlanta’s Worthless Bastards (Cigar) Club, and The Leather Coterie’s (T.L.C.) Atlanta Chapter. She acts as Board Support, Convention Attorney, and Vendor Coordinator for the Leather Leadership Conference, serves at Treasurer of Anafiel House and is a proud member of Onyx Pearls Southern Leather. In addition, she has presented at national events including TES Fest, DomCon, Frolicon, Southeast Leather Fest, DragonCon, Sex Down South, Atlanta Poly Weekend. Lady Steele also shares her knowledge through her BlogTalk radio program, “The Legal Show,” co-hosted by renowned Sci-Fi author Bennet Pomerantz. Lady Steele has been on the KinkyCast, discussing topics like Consent Apps; No Collar, No Problem; BDSM and the Law; Cigar Service and Play; and Poly and the Law, and on the Poly Podcast, speaking about Poly and the Law.

To register:
MEMBERS -$10

Create a Member Portal account using the same email address used when you purchased your membership. (Email membership@tes.org if you have forgotten the one you used when registering for TES.) Be sure to respond to respond to confirmation email & choose a password. After that, log back into the Member Portal.
To complete your purchase, click here and follow the instructions. Your membership discount will be automatically applied.

NON-MEMBERS – $20
Click here register for this class.
REGISTRATION CLOSES 30 MINUTES BEFORE CLASS. ALL QUESTIONS TO MEMBERSHIP@TES.ORG
If you’re unable to afford this, contact tes@tes.org & we’ll do our best to find a way to help you attend this class.

The DatingKinky platform is supported by multiple browsers, but if you are having any technical difficulties please try a different browser, as certain settings may interfere. Note that this link will only be active during scheduled meeting times.
You are welcome to participate as actively as you are comfortable. By default, users’ cameras and microphones will be switched off, and you may simply watch passively or participate solely by text in the chat box if you are uncomfortable being seen or heard. Please note that while we have selected this platform to be as private as possible while maintaining sufficient ease of use for participants, no online platform is ever fully secure. While all regular TES rules regarding privacy remain in effect, and anyone caught violating these rules will be subject to consequences (please see our Online Meeting Terms of Service), we advise participants to treat online events as though the event is being recorded by a third party. For more information on protecting your online privacy, please see our online privacy guide.

TES Board of Directors Meeting
2022-06-09 19:00 - 22:00
Open to all current members. Information on how to join will be distributed June 1. If you are a current member, did not receive this information, and would like to join, please contact secretary@tes.org

ONLINE - How To Dress For Kink Events & Finding Your Personal Style with AbundantMischief
2022-06-14 19:00 - 22:00
Getting ready to go to your first play party, but have no idea what to wear? Feeling confused by dungeon dress codes? Been in the scene for a while, but none of your outfits feel quite like “you”?
This class will include:
*How to understand and navigate party dress codes
*How to cultivate your own unique personal style, regardless of size, age, gender identity, or kink identity
*How to plan party outfits for particular environments and play possibilities
*How to build a kink wardrobe without breaking the bank
AbundantMischief is a toppy switch, gleeful sadomasochist, and enthusiastic boot fetishist. She has over 12 years of experience as a member of the kink community, as well as over 2 decades of experience as a professional dancer, circus artist, and performing arts educator. She has been an informal mentor to kinksters over the years across a wide variety of interests, as well as a long-standing member of Hitchin’ Bitches Boston and frequent attendee of rope and kink events throughout the New England area.
To register:
MEMBERS -$10

Create a Member Portal account using the same email address used when you purchased your membership. (Email membership@tes.org if you have forgotten the one you used when registering for TES.) Be sure to respond to confirmation email & choose a password. After that, log back into the Member Portal.
To complete your purchase, return to this FL event page, click here and follow the instructions. Your membership discount will be automatically applied.

NON-MEMBERS – $20
Click here register for this class.
REGISTRATION ENDS 3O MINUTES BEFORE CLASS! ALL QUESTIONS TO MEMBERSHIP@TES.ORG
If you’re unable to afford this, contact tes@tes.org & we’ll do our best to find a way to help you attend this class.

The DatingKinky platform is supported by multiple browsers, but if you are having any technical difficulties please try a different browser, as certain settings may interfere. Note that this link will only be active during scheduled meeting times.
You are welcome to participate as actively as you are comfortable. By default, users’ cameras and microphones will be switched off, and you may simply watch passively or participate solely by text in the chat box if you are uncomfortable being seen or heard. Please note that while we have selected this platform to be as private as possible while maintaining sufficient ease of use for participants, no online platform is ever fully secure. While all regular TES rules regarding privacy remain in effect, and anyone caught violating these rules will be subject to consequences (please see our Online Meeting Terms of Service), we advise participants to treat online events as though the event is being recorded by a third party. For more information on protecting your online privacy, please see our online privacy guide.

ONLINE -- Hit Me, Baby!: Impact Play 101 with MiaAction
2022-06-21 19:00 - 22:00
Are you turned on by the idea of spanking? Have you experimented a bit but want to take things up a notch with your partner? This class will arm you with tools to feel confident on your sexy journey into impact play (using your hands, paddles, and household items). We will cover key definitions and how to ask for what you want, types of toys you can use, and safety during play. We will finish with an impact demonstration.
This class is excellent for couples and singles, whether you are a beginner or would like to brush up on your skills. As always, all genders, sexualities and experience levels welcome!
Mia Action is a professional Dominatrix, lifestyle sadomasochist and alternative sexuality consultant based in Philadelphia and South New Jersey. Mia has been formally involved in the alt sex community since 2017, but has been drawn to the margins of desire from a young age. While her class roster is varied, she has a particular predilection for discussing sadomasochism of all kinds, power exchange, and the psychology of BDSM. Mia is also passionate about educating the public on kink literacy and sex work.
web: miaaction.com
fet: MiaACTION
twitter: @MiaActionBDSM
instagram: @mia_action_official
To register:
MEMBERS -$10

Create a Member Portal account using the same email address used when you purchased your membership. (Email membership@tes.org if you have forgotten the one you used when registering for TES.) Be sure to respond to respond to confirmation email & choose a password. After that, log back into the Member Portal.
To complete your purchase, click here and follow the instructions. Your membership discount will be automatically applied.

NON-MEMBERS – $20
Click here register for this class.
Once you register, you’ll receive the link to the class approximately 15 – 20 minutes before it starts.
REGISTRATION CLOSES 30 MINUTES BEFORE CLASS. ALL QUESTIONS TO MEMBERSHIP@TES.ORG
If you’re unable to afford this, contact tes@tes.org & we’ll do our best to find a way to help you attend this class.

The DatingKinky platform is supported by multiple browsers, but if you are having any technical difficulties please try a different browser, as certain settings may interfere. Note that this link will only be active during scheduled meeting times.
You are welcome to participate as actively as you are comfortable. By default, users’ cameras and microphones will be switched off, and you may simply watch passively or participate solely by text in the chat box if you are uncomfortable being seen or heard. Please note that while we have selected this platform to be as private as possible while maintaining sufficient ease of use for participants, no online platform is ever fully secure. While all regular TES rules regarding privacy remain in effect, and anyone caught violating these rules will be subject to consequences (please see our Online Meeting Terms of Service), we advise participants to treat online events as though the event is being recorded by a third party. For more information on protecting your online privacy, please see our online privacy guide.

ONLINE - TES presents: The Law and Sex Work with meanstreakmilewide
2022-07-26 19:00 - 22:00
A look at the legal risks and rights of sex workers. Also a discussion of how FOSTA/SESTA impacts sex work and sex workers. Also a discussion on which different forms of sex work carry different legal consequences.
Bio coming soon.

To register:
MEMBERS -$10

Create a Member Portal account using the same email address used when you purchased your membership. (Email membership@tes.org if you have forgotten the one you used when registering for TES.) Be sure to respond to respond to confirmation email & choose a password. After that, log back into the Member Portal.
To complete your purchase, click here and follow the instructions. Your membership discount will be automatically applied.

NON-MEMBERS – $20
Click here register for this class.
Once you register, you’ll receive the link to the class approximately 15 – 20 minutes before it starts.
REGISTRATION CLOSES 30 MINUTES BEFORE CLASS. ALL QUESTIONS TO MEMBERSHIP@TES.ORG
If you’re unable to afford this, contact tes@tes.org & we’ll do our best to find a way to help you attend this class.

The DatingKinky platform is supported by multiple browsers, but if you are having any technical difficulties please try a different browser, as certain settings may interfere. Note that this link will only be active during scheduled meeting times.
You are welcome to participate as actively as you are comfortable. By default, users’ cameras and microphones will be switched off, and you may simply watch passively or participate solely by text in the chat box if you are uncomfortable being seen or heard. Please note that while we have selected this platform to be as private as possible while maintaining sufficient ease of use for participants, no online platform is ever fully secure. While all regular TES rules regarding privacy remain in effect, and anyone caught violating these rules will be subject to consequences (please see our Online Meeting Terms of Service), we advise participants to treat online events as though the event is being recorded by a third party. For more information on protecting your online privacy, please see our online privacy guide.

TES Final Thursday Munch: Too Damn Hot Edition
2022-07-28 19:00 - 22:00
The mercury is rising, and we’re all broiling!

Thankfully, there’s nothing quite like hanging out with your fellow kinksters in an air conditioned diner with cold drinks and frozen treats to help beat the heat! Stay cool the only way we know how with the latest TES’s monthly munch! Whether you’re new to the scene, an old friend, or just passing through, we’re excited to see you!
Come join us:
Thursday, July 28th, at 7pm
at the
Skylight Diner
402 W 34th St. (@ 9th Ave)
New York, NY 10001
Our hosts, Ash and Chucky, will be there to welcome you and answer any questions. There is no cost to attend this event beyond paying for the food you order (and please tip your server well!).
The TES Final Thursday Munch is our monthly gathering on the last Thursday of each month. It’s a great opportunity to meet and hangout with your fellow kinksters in a low-key, low pressure environment. It is open to all members of the community in good standing, and those who are new to the scene are especially encouraged to attend. There is no requirement to RSVP ahead of time, and you do not need to be a TES member to attend.
Please note that we highly encourage all attendees to be vaccinated and up-to-date against Covid. However, this event is hosted at a diner that is open to other patrons, and we cannot control for anything beyond what the restaurant requires. Please assess your own risk profiles and act accordingly. We will be providing a discrete option for contact tracing, which is highly encouraged.

ONLINE - Barbed Wire Suspension with SiRoberto & Helen-Alexandria
2022-08-02 19:00 - 22:00
Description

Coming soon!

To register:
MEMBERS -$10

Create a Member Portal account using the same email address used when you purchased your membership. (Email membership@tes.org if you have forgotten the one you used when registering for TES.) Be sure to respond to respond to confirmation email & choose a password. After that, log back into the Member Portal.
To complete your purchase, click here and follow the instructions. Your membership discount will be automatically applied.

NON-MEMBERS – $20
Click here to register for this class.
Once you register, you’ll receive the link to the class approximately 15 – 20 minutes before it starts.
REGISTRATION CLOSES 30 MINUTES BEFORE CLASS. ALL QUESTIONS TO MEMBERSHIP@TES.ORG
If you’re unable to afford this, contact tes@tes.org & we’ll do our best to find a way to help you attend this class.

The DatingKinky platform is supported by multiple browsers, but if you are having any technical difficulties please try a different browser, as certain settings may interfere. Note that this link will only be active during scheduled meeting times.
You are welcome to participate as actively as you are comfortable. By default, users’ cameras and microphones will be switched off, and you may simply watch passively or participate solely by text in the chat box if you are uncomfortable being seen or heard. Please note that while we have selected this platform to be as private as possible while maintaining sufficient ease of use for participants, no online platform is ever fully secure. While all regular TES rules regarding privacy remain in effect, and anyone caught violating these rules will be subject to consequences (please see our Online Meeting Terms of Service), we advise participants to treat online events as though the event is being recorded by a third party. For more information on protecting your online privacy, please see our online privacy guide.

ONLINE - Media Representations of BDSM with TheHeartBreakPup
2022-08-09 19:00 - 22:00
What attracts mainstream media to develop texts that incorporate BDSM? Is part of changing sexual norms? The need to entertain to sell goods? Or is it, plainly, the shock value? The Heart Break Pup discusses the varied representations of BDSM in the media and what scholars have identified in the broadcasting of BDSM to the masses.
Heart Break Pup is a college professor in the Midwest teaching in the fields of mass media, popular culture and gender. He has published work on popular sports, subcultures and popular music. He has been in the scene for nearly 10 years, mostly in the tri-state area.

To register:
MEMBERS -$10

Create a Member Portal account using the same email address used when you purchased your membership. (Email membership@tes.org if you have forgotten the one you used when registering for TES.) Be sure to respond to respond to confirmation email & choose a password. After that, log back into the Member Portal.
To complete your purchase, click here and follow the instructions. Your membership discount will be automatically applied.

NON-MEMBERS – $20
Click here to register for this class.
Once you register, you’ll receive the link to the class approximately 15 – 20 minutes before it starts.
REGISTRATION CLOSES 30 MINUTES BEFORE CLASS. ALL QUESTIONS TO MEMBERSHIP@TES.ORG
If you’re unable to afford this, contact tes@tes.org & we’ll do our best to find a way to help you attend this class.

The DatingKinky platform is supported by multiple browsers, but if you are having any technical difficulties please try a different browser, as certain settings may interfere. Note that this link will only be active during scheduled meeting times.
You are welcome to participate as actively as you are comfortable. By default, users’ cameras and microphones will be switched off, and you may simply watch passively or participate solely by text in the chat box if you are uncomfortable being seen or heard. Please note that while we have selected this platform to be as private as possible while maintaining sufficient ease of use for participants, no online platform is ever fully secure. While all regular TES rules regarding privacy remain in effect, and anyone caught violating these rules will be subject to consequences (please see our Online Meeting Terms of Service), we advise participants to treat online events as though the event is being recorded by a third party. For more information on protecting your online privacy, please see our online privacy guide.

ONLINE - Scene Negotiations with Transgender Partners 101 with Skullpup
2022-08-16 19:00 - 22:00
An informative 101 style class with the main focus being education about gender identity/sexuality and guidelines for negotiating scenes with trans individuals. This class is good beginner level introduction for people who may feel uncomfortable or less informed around the topic.
Key points within the presentation are:

“Why does this matter?”
A guide to some commonly used language surrounding gender identity and transition – Definitions are provided for things such as Cisgender, AGAB, Femme/Masc, etc.
Explaining the different types of gender identity and presentation – Binary Gender vs. Gender on a Spectrum
Defining sexuality and how gender presentation/identity can affect a scene
A more trans-inclusive guide for negotiating play – A do’s and don’t list with a quick reference guide/checklist for future personal use

“Awkward Question Time”: An additional time period for individuals to be able to ask appropriate questions in person/write-in ahead of time that they may feel could be deemed as awkward/offensive.
Chuck [He/They] is a switchy transmasc nonbinary person who has been active in the community since 2016. They have a passion for LGBTQ+ education and informing others on intersectional issues that affect us all. Feel free to ask any appropriate questions you may have!
To register:
MEMBERS -$10

Create a Member Portal account using the same email address used when you purchased your membership. (Email membership@tes.org if you have forgotten the one you used when registering for TES.) Be sure to respond to respond to confirmation email & choose a password. After that, log back into the Member Portal.
To complete your purchase, return to this FL event page, click here and follow the instructions. Your membership discount will be automatically applied.

NON-MEMBERS – $20
Click here register for this class.
Once you register, you’ll receive the link to the class approximately 15 – 20 minutes before it starts.
REGISTRATION CLOSES 30 MINUTES BEFORE CLASS. ALL QUESTIONS TO MEMBERSHIP@TES.ORG
If you’re unable to afford this, contact tes@tes.org & we’ll do our best to find a way to help you attend this class.

The DatingKinky platform is supported by multiple browsers, but if you are having any technical difficulties please try a different browser, as certain settings may interfere. Note that this link will only be active during scheduled meeting times.
You are welcome to participate as actively as you are comfortable. By default, users’ cameras and microphones will be switched off, and you may simply watch passively or participate solely by text in the chat box if you are uncomfortable being seen or heard. Please note that while we have selected this platform to be as private as possible while maintaining sufficient ease of use for participants, no online platform is ever fully secure. While all regular TES rules regarding privacy remain in effect, and anyone caught violating these rules will be subject to consequences (please see our Online Meeting Terms of Service), we advise participants to treat online events as though the event is being recorded by a third party. For more information on protecting your online privacy, please see our online privacy guide.

ONLINE - I Ask The Questions Here: Military and Police Style Interrogations with SirGuy
2022-08-23 19:00 - 22:00
With recent news events, the gathering of information via interrogation utilized by the military and the methodology utilized by law enforcement in what they call “interviews” has gotten a lot of attention lately . Most of us grew up on police shows or movies and their interrogation methods. Being who we are we can see the kink potential in everything, thus, here is a class that uses the government’s own manuals from the 1960s to Abu Ghraib and Guantanamo and police procedures to show sound methodologies of extracting information, or of just having good clean, dirty fun. Sir Guy will describe and demonstrate some of these methods and discuss the psychology and the aftermath of interrogation.
I live in a 24/7 Master/slave relationship. I’ve been active in the scene for over a decade. I am an Emeritus Board Member of The Eulenspiegel Society (TES), Director of MAsT Metro New York, Founder of The Dark Lair: BDSM Support and Education for People of Color, and an Associate Member of ONYX NY/Northeast. He won the International Power Exchange 2013 title. I have presented at MsC several times, Brimstone, TES Fest, The Floating World, LLC, Leather History Preservation Weekend, several MAsT groups, South Jersey Power Exchange, LILNR/LICK and over 30 groups and events.

To register:
MEMBERS -$10

Create a Member Portal account using the same email address used when you purchased your membership. (Email membership@tes.org if you have forgotten the one you used when registering for TES.) Be sure to respond to respond to confirmation email & choose a password. After that, log back into the Member Portal.
To complete your purchase, click here and follow the instructions. Your membership discount will be automatically applied.

NON-MEMBERS – $20
Click here register for this class.
Once you register, you’ll receive the link to the class approximately 15 – 20 minutes before it starts.
REGISTRATION CLOSES 30 MINUTES BEFORE CLASS. ALL QUESTIONS TO MEMBERSHIP@TES.ORG
If you’re unable to afford this, contact tes@tes.org & we’ll do our best to find a way to help you attend this class.

The DatingKinky platform is supported by multiple browsers, but if you are having any technical difficulties please try a different browser, as certain settings may interfere. Note that this link will only be active during scheduled meeting times.
You are welcome to participate as actively as you are comfortable. By default, users’ cameras and microphones will be switched off, and you may simply watch passively or participate solely by text in the chat box if you are uncomfortable being seen or heard. Please note that while we have selected this platform to be as private as possible while maintaining sufficient ease of use for participants, no online platform is ever fully secure. While all regular TES rules regarding privacy remain in effect, and anyone caught violating these rules will be subject to consequences (please see our Online Meeting Terms of Service), we advise participants to treat online events as though the event is being recorded by a third party. For more information on protecting your online privacy, please see our online privacy guide.

TES Final Thursday Munch: Dog Days Edition
2022-08-26 19:30 - 22:00
Summer is almost over, but we’re not going anywhere! Kiss the heat goodbye the only way we know how with the latest TES’s monthly munch! Whether you’re new to the scene, an old friend, or just passing through, we’re excited to see you!
Come join us:
Thursday, August 25th, at 7:30pm
(please note the updated start time)
at the
Skylight Diner
402 W 34th St. (@ 9th Ave)
New York, NY 10001
Our host Ash will be there to welcome you and answer any questions. There is no cost to attend this event beyond paying for the food you order (and please tip your server well!).
The TES Final Thursday Munch is our monthly gathering on the last Thursday of each month. It’s a great opportunity to meet and hangout with your fellow kinksters in a low-key, low pressure environment. It is open to all members of the community in good standing, and those who are new to the scene are especially encouraged to attend. There is no requirement to RSVP ahead of time, and you do not need to be a TES member to attend.
Please note that we highly encourage all attendees to be vaccinated and up-to-date against Covid. However, this event is hosted at a diner that is open to other patrons, and we cannot control for anything beyond what the restaurant requires. Please assess your own risk profiles and act accordingly. We will be providing a discrete option for contact tracing, which is highly encouraged.

ONLINE - Pain Processing with meanstreakmilewide
2022-08-30 19:00 - 22:00
Join sadomasochist and professional endurance sports world champion Meanstreakmilewide as he explains the process of dealing with, over coming, and embracing pain and physical suffering. Drawing both from his own professional training as pro and world champion an ironman and ultra marathon World Champion and his two decades of hurting others and himself as an expression of sexual intimacy and exploration; Meanstreakmilewide will guild you through steps on how submissives and bottoms can better process pain, and how Doms and tops can better guild those under them. This talk includes live demonstrations.
Bio coming soon.

To register:
MEMBERS -$10

Create a Member Portal account using the same email address used when you purchased your membership. (Email membership@tes.org if you have forgotten the one you used when registering for TES.) Be sure to respond to respond to confirmation email & choose a password. After that, log back into the Member Portal.
To complete your purchase, click here and follow the instructions. Your membership discount will be automatically applied.

NON-MEMBERS – $20
Click here register for this class.
Once you register, you’ll receive the link to the class approximately 15 – 20 minutes before it starts.
REGISTRATION CLOSES 30 MINUTES BEFORE CLASS. ALL QUESTIONS TO MEMBERSHIP@TES.ORG
If you’re unable to afford this, contact tes@tes.org & we’ll do our best to find a way to help you attend this class.

The DatingKinky platform is supported by multiple browsers, but if you are having any technical difficulties please try a different browser, as certain settings may interfere. Note that this link will only be active during scheduled meeting times.
You are welcome to participate as actively as you are comfortable. By default, users’ cameras and microphones will be switched off, and you may simply watch passively or participate solely by text in the chat box if you are uncomfortable being seen or heard. Please note that while we have selected this platform to be as private as possible while maintaining sufficient ease of use for participants, no online platform is ever fully secure. While all regular TES rules regarding privacy remain in effect, and anyone caught violating these rules will be subject to consequences (please see our Online Meeting Terms of Service), we advise participants to treat online events as though the event is being recorded by a third party. For more information on protecting your online privacy, please see our online privacy guide.

ONLINE - The ABCs of Attending a Kink/Leather Conference
2022-09-06 19:00 - 22:00
Attending your first kink/leather conference? Or maybe you’re a seasoned pro and you’re looking to brush up on your skills and maybe learn a new trick or two. From budgeting to packing checklists and coordinating schedules, we will talk all about how to prepare for your next big conference!
Devyn Stone is a self-awareness and BDSM educator, author, and alternative lifestyles coach. He has been actively practicing authority transfer dynamics since 2004. Today he lives in Colorado Springs, CO with his property, Guan-Xuan.

To register:
MEMBERS -$10

Create a Member Portal account using the same email address used when you purchased your membership. (Email membership@tes.org if you have forgotten the one you used when registering for TES.) Be sure to respond to respond to confirmation email & choose a password. After that, log back into the Member Portal.
To complete your purchase, click here and follow the instructions. Your membership discount will be automatically applied.

NON-MEMBERS – $20
Click here register for this class.
Once you register, you’ll receive the link to the class approximately 15 – 20 minutes before it starts.
REGISTRATION CLOSES 30 MINUTES BEFORE CLASS. ALL QUESTIONS TO MEMBERSHIP@TES.ORG
If you’re unable to afford this, contact tes@tes.org & we’ll do our best to find a way to help you attend this class.

The DatingKinky platform is supported by multiple browsers, but if you are having any technical difficulties please try a different browser, as certain settings may interfere. Note that this link will only be active during scheduled meeting times.
You are welcome to participate as actively as you are comfortable. By default, users’ cameras and microphones will be switched off, and you may simply watch passively or participate solely by text in the chat box if you are uncomfortable being seen or heard. Please note that while we have selected this platform to be as private as possible while maintaining sufficient ease of use for participants, no online platform is ever fully secure. While all regular TES rules regarding privacy remain in effect, and anyone caught violating these rules will be subject to consequences (please see our Online Meeting Terms of Service), we advise participants to treat online events as though the event is being recorded by a third party. For more information on protecting your online privacy, please see our online privacy guide.

TES Board of Directors Meeting
2022-09-08 19:00 - 22:00
Open to all current members. Information on how to join was distributed to the membership on September 1. If you are a member and did not receive this information, please contact secretary@tes.org

ONLINE - Pick-Up D/s - Power Exchange on the Fly with DarrenInfinity
2022-09-13 19:00 - 22:00
So we just met a hot Dominant or Submissive in the Dungeon. We’d love to play with them, but we don’t want it to just be about Top & Bottom. We want to play with power, with intention. We’re feeling that connection and want to explore it further. How do we do this? How do we create D/s connections that are temporary but authentic? How do we use language to reinforce the dynamic? How does physical play support the emotional connection we’re trying to nourish? Darren will address these questions and more as he provides practical tips and tricks for creating hot D/s Pick-Up play.
Darren is a sexuality and relationship educator and coach based out of Toronto, Ontario. He loves to facilitate discussions about making our relationships richer and our play hotter, with a particular focus on power exchange relationships and play. He is a relationship coach and mental wellness advocate.
In his classes, Darren focuses on providing participants practical tools to communicate about the kind of dynamics, play, and sex they want, focusing on collaborative consent and shared vulnerability. He can be reached at darren@learngrowrepeat.ca.

To register:
MEMBERS -$10

Create a Member Portal account using the same email address used when you purchased your membership. (Email membership@tes.org if you have forgotten the one you used when registering for TES.) Be sure to respond to respond to confirmation email & choose a password. After that, log back into the Member Portal.
To complete your purchase, click here and follow the instructions. Your membership discount will be automatically applied.

NON-MEMBERS – $20
Click here to register for this class.
Once you register, you’ll receive the link to the class approximately 15 – 20 minutes before it starts.
REGISTRATION CLOSES 30 MINUTES BEFORE CLASS. ALL QUESTIONS TO MEMBERSHIP@TES.ORG
If you’re unable to afford this, contact tes@tes.org & we’ll do our best to find a way to help you attend this class.

The DatingKinky platform is supported by multiple browsers, but if you are having any technical difficulties please try a different browser, as certain settings may interfere. Note that this link will only be active during scheduled meeting times.
You are welcome to participate as actively as you are comfortable. By default, users’ cameras and microphones will be switched off, and you may simply watch passively or participate solely by text in the chat box if you are uncomfortable being seen or heard. Please note that while we have selected this platform to be as private as possible while maintaining sufficient ease of use for participants, no online platform is ever fully secure. While all regular TES rules regarding privacy remain in effect, and anyone caught violating these rules will be subject to consequences (please see our Online Meeting Terms of Service), we advise participants to treat online events as though the event is being recorded by a third party. For more information on protecting your online privacy, please see our online privacy guide.

ONLINE - How to Succeed at an Event 101 with AuralFixation87 & Odile
2022-09-20 19:00 - 22:00
Never set foot inside a play space? Want to know a little about the weird, wild and sexy things you might find in there? Looking for some guidance on how to approach someone in the dungeon – whether for play or just to tell them how cool their flogger is? This class will cover the basics of what to expect in play spaces and the importance of pre-play negotiations.
Bio coming soon.
To register:
MEMBERS -$10

Create a Member Portal account using the same email address used when you purchased your membership. (Email membership@tes.org if you have forgotten the one you used when registering for TES.) Be sure to respond to respond to confirmation email & choose a password. After that, log back into the Member Portal.
To complete your purchase, click here and follow the instructions. Your membership discount will be automatically applied.

NON-MEMBERS – $20
Click here to register for this class.
Once you register, you’ll receive the link to the class approximately 15 – 20 minutes before it starts.
REGISTRATION CLOSES 30 MINUTES BEFORE CLASS. ALL QUESTIONS TO MEMBERSHIP@TES.ORG
If you’re unable to afford this, contact tes@tes.org & we’ll do our best to find a way to help you attend this class.

The DatingKinky platform is supported by multiple browsers, but if you are having any technical difficulties please try a different browser, as certain settings may interfere. Note that this link will only be active during scheduled meeting times.
You are welcome to participate as actively as you are comfortable. By default, users’ cameras and microphones will be switched off, and you may simply watch passively or participate solely by text in the chat box if you are uncomfortable being seen or heard. Please note that while we have selected this platform to be as private as possible while maintaining sufficient ease of use for participants, no online platform is ever fully secure. While all regular TES rules regarding privacy remain in effect, and anyone caught violating these rules will be subject to consequences (please see our Online Meeting Terms of Service), we advise participants to treat online events as though the event is being recorded by a third party. For more information on protecting your online privacy, please see our online privacy guide.

ONLINE - Better Bottoming For Submissives with BexTalksSex
2022-09-27 19:00 - 22:00
Whether you’re a masochistic power bottom or a shy service slut, you know bottoming requires skill–skill that’s rarely recognized, acknowledged, or taught. Written specifically for s-types who want to broaden their knowledge base, this two-hour discussion includes my best tips for both new and experienced submissives alike. We’ll discuss your responsibilities as a bottom to both your top and yourself, share tips for pain management, give advice for accessing subspace, and arm you with the tools you need to be the subby slut your dream dominant craves.
This class welcomes people of all genders, orientations, and experience levels. Although the class is presented for submissives who bottom, we welcome tops, bottoms, and switches of all stripes who are interested in learning more about the skills that go into being a great bottom.
Bex has experience teaching events ranging from intimate gatherings to large crowds both in person and online. For more details on how to book Bex for your conference, event, or organization please visit our contact page or email BexTalksSex (at) gmail (.) com.
or email BexTalksSex (at) gmail (.) com.
To register:
MEMBERS -$10

Create a Member Portal account using the same email address used when you purchased your membership. (Email membership@tes.org if you have forgotten the one you used when registering for TES.) Be sure to respond to respond to confirmation email & choose a password. After that, log back into the Member Portal.
To complete your purchase, return to this FL event page, click this class registration link and follow the instructions. Your membership discount will be automatically applied.

NON-MEMBERS – $20
Click here to register for this class.
Once you register, you’ll receive the link to the class approximately 15 – 20 minutes before it starts.
REGISTRATION CLOSES 30 MINUTES BEFORE CLASS. ALL QUESTIONS TO MEMBERSHIP@TES.ORG
If you’re unable to afford this, contact tes@tes.org & we’ll do our best to find a way to help you attend this class.

The DatingKinky platform is supported by multiple browsers, but if you are having any technical difficulties please try a different browser, as certain settings may interfere. Note that this link will only be active during scheduled meeting times.
You are welcome to participate as actively as you are comfortable. By default, users’ cameras and microphones will be switched off, and you may simply watch passively or participate solely by text in the chat box if you are uncomfortable being seen or heard. Please note that while we have selected this platform to be as private as possible while maintaining sufficient ease of use for participants, no online platform is ever fully secure. While all regular TES rules regarding privacy remain in effect, and anyone caught violating these rules will be subject to consequences (please see our Online Meeting Terms of Service), we advise participants to treat online events as though the event is being recorded by a third party. For more information on protecting your online privacy, please see our online privacy guide.

TES Final Thursday Munch: Back to School Edition
2022-09-29 19:30 - 22:00
Summer has come to a close, and school is back in session, and we’re having visions of plaid skirts, knee socks, and ruler-wielding disciplinarians. So why not come and matriculate with TES at our monthly munch? Whether you’re new to the scene, an old friend, or just passing through, we’re excited to see you!
Come join us:
Thursday, September 29th, at 7:30pm
at the
Skylight Diner
402 W 34th St. (@ 9th Ave)
New York, NY 10001
Our host Zero will be there to welcome you and answer any questions. There is no cost to attend this event beyond paying for the food you order (and please tip your server well!).
The TES Final Thursday Munch is our monthly gathering on the last Thursday of each month. It’s a great opportunity to meet and hangout with your fellow kinksters in a low-key, low pressure environment. It is open to all members of the community in good standing, and those who are new to the scene are especially encouraged to attend. There is no requirement to RSVP ahead of time, and you do not need to be a TES member to attend.
Please note that we highly encourage all attendees to be vaccinated and up-to-date against Covid. However, this event is hosted at a diner that is open to other patrons, and we cannot control for anything beyond what the restaurant requires. Please assess your own risk profiles and act accordingly. We will be providing a discrete option for contact tracing, which is highly encouraged.

ONLINE - Poly and Families (aka how to be a poly parent) with EdWood27
2022-10-04 19:00 - 22:00
This class will discuss how Poly while being part of family with kids of different ages. There are different ways to handle coming out to your kids. We’ll also cover dealing with when and how to introduce your partners if you want them to be involved in your family life and how this can vary with different types ethical non-monogamy practices.
EdWood27 is 44 years old and gender fluid, mostly presenting as male (using he/him and they/them pronouns). They have been Poly for over 10 years, and is out as poly and queer to their family and friends. They believe in being honest with yourself and others, including your kids.
To register:
MEMBERS -$10

Create a Member Portal account using the same email address used when you purchased your membership. (Email membership@tes.org if you have forgotten the one you used when registering for TES.) Be sure to respond to respond to confirmation email & choose a password. After that, log back into the Member Portal.
To complete your purchase, click here and follow the instructions. Your membership discount will be automatically applied.

NON-MEMBERS – $20
Click here to register for this class.
If you’re unable to afford this, contact tes@tes.org & we’ll do our best to find a way to help you attend this class.

The DatingKinky platform is supported by multiple browsers, but if you are having any technical difficulties please try a different browser, as certain settings may interfere. Note that this link will only be active during scheduled meeting times.
You are welcome to participate as actively as you are comfortable. By default, users’ cameras and microphones will be switched off, and you may simply watch passively or participate solely by text in the chat box if you are uncomfortable being seen or heard. Please note that while we have selected this platform to be as private as possible while maintaining sufficient ease of use for participants, no online platform is ever fully secure. While all regular TES rules regarding privacy remain in effect, and anyone caught violating these rules will be subject to consequences (please see our Online Meeting Terms of Service), we advise participants to treat online events as though the event is being recorded by a third party. For more information on protecting your online privacy, please see our online privacy guide.

ONLINE - Meet the Candidates for TES Board of Directors
2022-10-11 19:00 - 22:00
Come join us and meet the candidates for this year’s TES elections in this live online town hall. This is your opportunity to ask questions and find out where each candidate stands on the important issues affecting TES and the greater kink scene in 2020. The link to participate will be sent in your TES email newsletter closer to the event date.
Your link to join will be in your member email newsletter, so check your spam folder.

No additional downloads or software required! This platform is supported by multiple browsers, but if you are having any technical difficulties please try a different browser, as certain settings may interfere. Note that this link will only be active during scheduled meeting times.
You are welcome to participate as actively as you are comfortable. By default, users’ cameras and microphones will be switched off, and you may simply watch passively or participate solely by text in the chat box if you are uncomfortable being seen or heard. Please note that while we have selected this platform to be as private as possible while maintaining sufficient ease of use for participants, no online platform is ever fully secure. While all regular TES rules regarding privacy remain in effect, and anyone caught violating these rules will be subject to consequences (please see our Online Meeting Terms of Service), we advise participants to treat online events as though the event is being recorded by a third party. For more information on protecting your online privacy, please see our online privacy guide.

ONLINE - Companion Service with InquisitiveElle
2022-10-18 19:00 - 22:00
Companionship, how one accompanies another, can be a wonderful addition to the service tasks one might provide or receive. While often discussed as a feature of service relationships, this class gives companion service its full focus. Through stories and maybe a few laughs, InquisitiveElle shares his experiences in negotiating, developing, and addressing struggles in companion service. Come learn some ideas and tools for intentionally building connection in the relationships you have or would like to create.
InquisitiveElle (he/they/she) has been active in BDSM and kink communities since 2016. Elle is an avid volunteer both at his home base in Albany, NY, as well as in virtual spaces. Elle is passionate about service, negotiation, communication, and connection. Elle is excited to offer a collaborative environment to share experiences and learn together.
To register:
MEMBERS -$10

Create a Member Portal account using the same email address used when you purchased your membership. (Email membership@tes.org if you have forgotten the one you used when registering for TES.) Be sure to respond to respond to confirmation email & choose a password. After that, log back into the Member Portal.
To complete your purchase, click here and follow the instructions. Your membership discount will be automatically applied.

NON-MEMBERS – $20
Click here to register for this class.
Once you register, you’ll receive the link to the class approximately 15 – 20 minutes before it starts.
REGISTRATION CLOSES 30 MINUTES BEFORE CLASS. ALL QUESTIONS TO MEMBERSHIP@TES.ORG
If you’re unable to afford this, contact tes@tes.org & we’ll do our best to find a way to help you attend this class.

The DatingKinky platform is supported by multiple browsers, but if you are having any technical difficulties please try a different browser, as certain settings may interfere. Note that this link will only be active during scheduled meeting times.
You are welcome to participate as actively as you are comfortable. By default, users’ cameras and microphones will be switched off, and you may simply watch passively or participate solely by text in the chat box if you are uncomfortable being seen or heard. Please note that while we have selected this platform to be as private as possible while maintaining sufficient ease of use for participants, no online platform is ever fully secure. While all regular TES rules regarding privacy remain in effect, and anyone caught violating these rules will be subject to consequences (please see our Online Meeting Terms of Service), we advise participants to treat online events as though the event is being recorded by a third party. For more information on protecting your online privacy, please see our online privacy guide.

ONLINE - TES 2022 Board of Directors Elections & Membership Meeting
2022-10-25 19:00 - 22:00
This meeting is held twice yearly for the purpose of conducting official organization business and giving the membership an opportunity to be directly involved in that process. The fall meeting, usually held in October, is also when officers for the organization are elected. All members in good standing are entitled to attend and participate in all of these functions. The link to participate will be sent in your TES email newsletter closer to the event date.

No additional downloads or software required! This platform is supported by multiple browsers, but if you are having any technical difficulties please try a different browser, as certain settings may interfere. Note that this link will only be active during scheduled meeting times.
You are welcome to participate as actively as you are comfortable. By default, users’ cameras and microphones will be switched off, and you may simply watch passively or participate solely by text in the chat box if you are uncomfortable being seen or heard. Please note that while we have selected this platform to be as private as possible while maintaining sufficient ease of use for participants, no online platform is ever fully secure. While all regular TES rules regarding privacy remain in effect, and anyone caught violating these rules will be subject to consequences (please see our Online Meeting Terms of Service), we advise participants to treat online events as though the event is being recorded by a third party. For more information on protecting your online privacy, please see our online privacy guide.

ONLINE - Digital Privacy with JoeCool
2022-11-01 19:00 - 23:00
A discussion of the intersection of our lives, laws, and technology. Topics covered will include email, passwords, selfies, and more! Class includes both practical advice, policy, and resources for further reading.
Joe Cool is a queer, polyamorous switch who enjoys a variety of kinky activities. He’s been a happy, occasionally active member of the DC/Baltimore scene for almost a decade. His passions include service, leather, and puns, and he’s a proud member of the Pittsburgh Queer Leather Family (PQLF)
To register:
MEMBERS -$10

Create a Member Portal account using the same email address used when you purchased your membership. (Email membership@tes.org if you have forgotten the one you used when registering for TES.) Be sure to respond to respond to confirmation email & choose a password. After that, log back into the Member Portal.
To complete your purchase, return to this FL event page, click here and follow the instructions. Your membership discount will be automatically applied.

NON-MEMBERS – $20
Click here to register for this class.
Once you register, you’ll receive the link to the class approximately 15 – 20 minutes before it starts.
REGISTRATION CLOSES 30 MINUTES BEFORE CLASS. ALL QUESTIONS TO MEMBERSHIP@TES.ORG
If you’re unable to afford this, contact tes@tes.org & we’ll do our best to find a way to help you attend this class.

The DatingKinky platform is supported by multiple browsers, but if you are having any technical difficulties please try a different browser, as certain settings may interfere. Note that this link will only be active during scheduled meeting times.
You are welcome to participate as actively as you are comfortable. By default, users’ cameras and microphones will be switched off, and you may simply watch passively or participate solely by text in the chat box if you are uncomfortable being seen or heard. Please note that while we have selected this platform to be as private as possible while maintaining sufficient ease of use for participants, no online platform is ever fully secure. While all regular TES rules regarding privacy remain in effect, and anyone caught violating these rules will be subject to consequences (please see our Online Meeting Terms of Service), we advise participants to treat online events as though the event is being recorded by a third party. For more information on protecting your online privacy, please see our online privacy guide.

ONLINE - Productivity for Service with HannahTheScribe
2022-11-08 19:00 - 22:00
In this class, we’ll cover how to build a customizable productivity system from your core values up. We’ll cover creating your task/to do generation system from values to spheres of life to projects and goals to habits and events, reviewing your progress, and assorted productivity tips and tricks, especially geared at service oriented s-types who may have an atypical schedule. We’ll wrap up with a brief Q+A session.
I’m a 24/7 high protocol service slave/housewife to my wonderful Mistress and wife. I’m monogamous to her and she has my irrevocable consent. I live with her and our two adorable cats.
To register:
MEMBERS -$10

Create a Member Portal account using the same email address used when you purchased your membership. (Email membership@tes.org if you have forgotten the one you used when registering for TES.) Be sure to respond to respond to confirmation email & choose a password. After that, log back into the Member Portal.
To complete your purchase, click on this link and follow the instructions. Your membership discount will be automatically applied.

NON-MEMBERS – $20
Click here to register for this class.
Once you register, you’ll receive the link to the class approximately 15 – 20 minutes before it starts.
REGISTRATION CLOSES 30 MINUTES BEFORE CLASS. ALL QUESTIONS TO MEMBERSHIP@TES.ORG
If you’re unable to afford this, contact tes@tes.org & we’ll do our best to find a way to help you attend this class.

The DatingKinky platform is supported by multiple browsers, but if you are having any technical difficulties please try a different browser, as certain settings may interfere. Note that this link will only be active during scheduled meeting times.
You are welcome to participate as actively as you are comfortable. By default, users’ cameras and microphones will be switched off, and you may simply watch passively or participate solely by text in the chat box if you are uncomfortable being seen or heard. Please note that while we have selected this platform to be as private as possible while maintaining sufficient ease of use for participants, no online platform is ever fully secure. While all regular TES rules regarding privacy remain in effect, and anyone caught violating these rules will be subject to consequences (please see our Online Meeting Terms of Service), we advise participants to treat online events as though the event is being recorded by a third party. For more information on protecting your online privacy, please see our online privacy guide.

ONLINE - Trials & Tribulations of Dating While Poly with MasterLolaSmiles
2022-11-15 19:00 - 22:00
I am a married poly dominant leather female and I’ll be talking about the challenges faced when trying to date. Will discuss what polyamory is, the misconceptions people have about what being poly is, the stigma of what society sees married people dating and how to cope with the pitfalls of it all.
Ms. Lola Smiles is a Latina Femdom Fatale from Long Island, NY who has been in the lifestyle for over 25 years – a BDSM educator & presenter and event promoter for 8 years. As a presenter/educator Ms Lola Smiles has presented on topics including Consent & Negotiations, Scene Etiquette, Vetting, CBT, Impact Play, Wax Play, Breath Play, Dungeon Monitors (DM) Training, to name a few. She has also participated and moderated a variety of panels on dominance and People of Color (POC) in the Scene. Ms. Lola has been honored to present for Sanctuary Events, Avant-Garde, Pangea, TES, SCK, LILNR-LICK, The Steam Factory, EPIC, Weekend Reunion, Feel My Breath, DomCon LA, LEASH Weekend, Jax Fet Fest, Dating Kinky and ONYX Pearls NE. Ms. Lola founded SCK Events and House of SCK. SCK Events hosts munches and a variety of upscale events and parties on LI & NYC. Adapting to the post COVID world, Ms Lola & SCK host the F#@k You Coronavirus Virtual Events. SCK’s mantra is – Corrupting the World one vanilla at a time.®
To register:
MEMBERS -$10

Create a Member Portal account using the same email address used when you purchased your membership. (Email membership@tes.org if you have forgotten the one you used when registering for TES.) Be sure to respond to respond to confirmation email & choose a password. After that, log back into the Member Portal.
To complete your purchase, click on this link and follow the instructions. Your membership discount will be automatically applied.

NON-MEMBERS – $20
Click here register for this class.
Once you register, you’ll receive the link to the class approximately 15 – 20 minutes before it starts.
REGISTRATION CLOSES 30 MINUTES BEFORE CLASS. ALL QUESTIONS TO MEMBERSHIP@TES.ORG
If you’re unable to afford this, contact tes@tes.org & we’ll do our best to find a way to help you attend this class.

The DatingKinky platform is supported by multiple browsers, but if you are having any technical difficulties please try a different browser, as certain settings may interfere. Note that this link will only be active during scheduled meeting times.
You are welcome to participate as actively as you are comfortable. By default, users’ cameras and microphones will be switched off, and you may simply watch passively or participate solely by text in the chat box if you are uncomfortable being seen or heard. Please note that while we have selected this platform to be as private as possible while maintaining sufficient ease of use for participants, no online platform is ever fully secure. While all regular TES rules regarding privacy remain in effect, and anyone caught violating these rules will be subject to consequences (please see our Online Meeting Terms of Service), we advise participants to treat online events as though the event is being recorded by a third party. For more information on protecting your online privacy, please see our online privacy guide.

ONLINE - Be-Weave Me, I Don't Need a Knot! with CTW
2022-11-29 19:00 - 22:00
No apologies for the pun, but be-weave it or not – learning to weave can be a great introduction to rope bondage. Weave patterns create the basis for many aesthetic and functional harnesses. And no knots are required! Attendees of this introductory rope class will learn to weave patterns for hand bondage, foot bondage, and a hip harness. Viewers should have two to three standard lengths of rope (26-30 feet) and one to two half length of rope (13-15 feet) to tie along, plus have an emergency cutting tool on hand. Self-tiers are recommended to have a spotter or emergency exit plan in place.
Bio:
Cecilia T. Winters (‘CTW’ – She/Her) is your typical queer Millennial. Born at the start of the internet age, she has always benefited from information at her fingertips. She identifies as bisexual and ethically non-monogamous. She has served as a dungeon and playspace monitor, a demo top for a number of local and national kink events, and as a presenter. She enjoys giving first suspensions to people new to being tied in rope; suspending willing victims for long, sadistic scenes; and suspending herself with rope and chain. Her non-kink interests include reading, making lists, watching early 2000s crime dramas, and learning about ancient human cultures. Together with her partner Fischer Garrett (‘Mister’ – He/Him), they teach chain bondage. Check out their website (www.theartofchain.com) for more information about their upcoming book, The Art of Chain: A Guide to Steel Restraint.

To register:
MEMBERS -$10

Create a Member Portal account using the same email address used when you purchased your membership. (Email membership@tes.org if you have forgotten the one you used when registering for TES.) Be sure to respond to confirmation email & choose a password. After that, log back into the Member Portal.
To complete your purchase, return to this FL event page, click here and follow the instructions. Your membership discount will be automatically applied.

NON-MEMBERS – $20
Click here to register for this class.

The DatingKinky platform is supported by multiple browsers, but if you are having any technical difficulties please try a different browser, as certain settings may interfere. Note that this link will only be active during scheduled meeting times.
You are welcome to participate as actively as you are comfortable. By default, users’ cameras and microphones will be switched off, and you may simply watch passively or participate solely by text in the chat box if you are uncomfortable being seen or heard. Please note that while we have selected this platform to be as private as possible while maintaining sufficient ease of use for participants, no online platform is ever fully secure. While all regular TES rules regarding privacy remain in effect, and anyone caught violating these rules will be subject to consequences (please see our Online Meeting Terms of Service), we advise participants to treat online events as though the event is being recorded by a third party. For more information on protecting your online privacy, please see our online privacy guide.

ONLINE - TES presents - Beautifully Bruised Booties (and Other Bits) with Billy Lore (formerly @BexTalksSex) and Dee Darkholme
2022-12-06 19:00 - 22:00
Whether you’re cruisin’ for a bruisin’ or looking to pull your favorite little slut over your knee for a spanking – preparing for an impact scene from either side of the slash can be intimidating. Luckily, this workshop covers everything you need to know to get started! From bare hands to paddles and from floggers to canes we’ll be discussing the many tools at your disposal and the things to consider when building up your collection. Then we’ll move on to discussing safety tips, and the skills that go into successfully planning, negotiating, and executing your scenes.
We’ll cover essential skills for tops, such as how and where to hit someone, rhythm and pacing, interpreting your bottom’s reactions, and the art of leaving marks (or not!). We’ll also dig into pain management tools, subspace, bruise aftercare, and other essential skills every masochist should know. Finally, we’ll wrap it all up with a live demo where you can see how everything we discussed comes together while I dole out some “intense sensation” to my eager co-presenter!

To register:
MEMBERS -$10

Create a Member Portal account using the same email address used when you purchased your membership. (Email membership@tes.org if you have forgotten the one you used when registering for TES.) Be sure to respond to confirmation email & choose a password. After that, log back into the Member Portal.
To complete your purchase, click here and follow the instructions. Your membership discount will be automatically applied.

NON-MEMBERS – $20
Click here to register for this class.
If you’re unable to afford this, contact tes@tes.org & we’ll do our best to find a way to help you attend this class.

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