POSTPONED - Hypno SIG: In Plain Sight - Public Power Exchange and Private Triggers
2020-03-25 19:30 - 22:00 (America/New_York) | The Loft, 245 W 29th St, 11th floor, New York, NY, 10013, United States
Due to recommendations from the medical community, this event has been postponed. Keep an eye out for the rescheduled date. In the meantime, stay healthy!
The focus of this class is to describe and provide information and guidance needed to construct a session/scene with power exchange elements, reinforced by different types of post hypnotic suggestions, triggered in a public place.
@MissMel54 (Mel) has been in the erotic hypno community since 2016. She has just started teaching and her interest lie mostly around creative scene development, D/s, power exchange dynamics and control. She was recently named a Mod and helps run the NJ Hypnosis Group.

Doors open at 7, class begins at 7:30
Buzzer #013

TES Members – $10, Students, Seniors, Military, and First Responders (with ID) – $15, Reciprocal Groups – $15, Non-Members – $25

POSTPONED - Fire Play with Shermie
2020-03-31 19:30 - 22:00 | The Loft, 245 W 29th St, 11th floor, New York, NY, 10013, United States
Due to recommendations from the medical community, this event has been postponed. Keep an eye out for the rescheduled date. In the meantime, stay healthy!
Shermie will teach the basics of “safe” fire play, as oxymoronic as it sounds, including fire fleshing and fire cupping. Within the “What It Is That We Do” community, fire play is considered one of the most dangerous, if not the most dangerous, form of play. It can also be an intensely sensual form of edge play. It’s classified as edge play simply because out-of-control flame could result in terrible consequences. This class will go over safety techniques and basic kinds of fire play.
Shermie has been in the scene for well over a decade. Subjects he has taught include fire play, dry and wet (blood) cupping, suturing, pallet wrap suspension and mummification, BDSM and Dungeon 101, as well as needle play. He has also taught about sex, health and kink at Columbia Presbyterian Medical School and the Mount Sinai School of Medicine.

Doors open at 7, class begins at 7:30.

TES Members – $10, Students, Seniors, Military, and First Responders (with ID) – $15, Reciprocal Groups – $15, Non-Members – $25

POSTPONED - Non-rope Bondage Skillshare
2020-04-07 19:30 - 22:00 | NY
Due to recommendations from the medical community, this event has been postponed. Keep an eye out for the rescheduled date. In the meantime, stay healthy!
Join bondage enthusiast BlueFluke37 to trade tips and talk about your favorite form(s) of non-rope bondage. He will be bringing his collection of non-rope bondage gear, which will be available for demos/trying on gear/sampling. Attendees are encouraged to bring their favorite gear for a kinky show and tell of sorts.

Doors open at 7, class begins at 7:30. Buzzer #013
TES Members – $10, Students, Seniors, Military, and First Responders (with ID) – $15, Reciprocal Groups – $15, Non-Members – $25

ONLINE - TES presents: BDSM Q&A: Ask the Weirdos Edition
2020-04-21 19:00 - 22:00 | NY
In these uncertain times, we all have lots of questions. While we don’t have the answers to your questions about the lockdown, we may be able to answer your questions about locking down your lover! Join Alex and Madeline, a kinky couple with 16 years of experience in the public BDSM scene, for a BDSM Q&A. What they haven’t experienced, they have probably seen or helped clean up after. No question will be deemed too dumb or basic, and not just because we haven’t negotiated humiliation.
Alex and Madeline are both trained scientists who love to use their analytical minds and love of learning both in the bedroom and the dungeon. They have been very active in the Chicago, Minneapolis/St. Paul and now New York communities, helping to run BDSM organizations, assisting with large-scale events, and teaching classes on various edge play techniques. They have a reputation for enjoying some of the odder branches of BDSM play and for being lucky to have found each other’s sick minds. Alex can be found on Fetlife at ninjajuicer and Madeline can be found at saltygoodness.

To participate, simply visit https://datingkinky.com/TES-Tuesdays every Tuesday, at 7pm. No additional downloads or software required! This platform is supported by multiple browsers, but if you are having any technical difficulties please try a different browser, as certain settings may interfere. Note that this link will only be active during scheduled meeting times.
You are welcome to participate as actively as you are comfortable. By default, users’ cameras and microphones will be switched off, and you may simply watch passively or participate solely by text in the chat box if you are uncomfortable being seen or heard. Please note that while we have selected this platform to be as private as possible while maintaining sufficient ease of use for participants, no online platform is ever fully secure. While all regular TES rules regarding privacy remain in effect, and anyone caught violating these rules will be subject to consequences (please see our Online Meeting Terms of Service), we advise participants to treat online events as though the event is being recorded by a third party. For more information on protecting your online privacy, please see our online privacy guide.

ONLINE - TES Presents: slave-ability - Being a 24/7 slave with a disability.
2020-04-28 19:00 - 22:00 | NY
Join slave_ela in this workshop exploring Kink and Power Exchange with a Disability. slave_ela will describe her personal journey as she entered the kink community in Philadelphia, PA as a woman with a physical disability and over time became a 24/7 slave. slave_ela lives in a a 24/7 Total Power Exchange dynamic with her Sir today. She will also discuss how her body image and self-worth have improved since entering this dynamic. slave_ela will dispel myths about people with disabilities regarding sex and kink. She will suggest ways to welcome folks with disabilities into the scene.
slave_ela is a sex positive educator and advocate for folx with disabilities. She is owned by Sir Ghee. You can follow her work at http://disirability.com. She has been in the lifestyle almost 10 years and has been living in a 24/7 total power exchange dynamic, on the right side of the slash, for the last four years.
To participate, simply visit https://datingkinky.com/TES-Tuesdays every Tuesday, at 7pm. No additional downloads or software required! This platform is supported by multiple browsers, but if you are having any technical difficulties please try a different browser, as certain settings may interfere. Note that this link will only be active during scheduled meeting times.
You are welcome to participate as actively as you are comfortable. By default, users’ cameras and microphones will be switched off, and you may simply watch passively or participate solely by text in the chat box if you are uncomfortable being seen or heard. Please note that while we have selected this platform to be as private as possible while maintaining sufficient ease of use for participants, no online platform is ever fully secure. While all regular TES rules regarding privacy remain in effect, and anyone caught violating these rules will be subject to consequences (please see our Online Meeting Terms of Service), we advise participants to treat online events as though the event is being recorded by a third party. For more information on protecting your online privacy, please see our online privacy guide.

ONLINE - TES presents: Non-Monogamy & the Law
2020-05-05 19:00 - 22:00 | NY
What legal dangers are inherent to being non-monogamous? The simple truth is, legal issues abound when it comes to participating in the non-monogamy lifestyle. It can affect several areas in a non-monogamous person’s life, including family, criminal, estate planning, healthcare, employment, business, and even landlord/tenant law. How can you prepare yourself for the worst case scenario? Come find out when Lady Steele presents Non-Monogamy and the Law.
Lady Steele identifies as a femme Alpha leather slave. She has served in the Leather community since 1999 wherein she has presented and volunteered across the country. She resides in Atlanta where she operates her law practice that serves alternative lifestyles. She is the only out, open, and practicing attorney in the southeast that specializes in the issues that are unique to the BDSM and ethical non-momogamy communities.
Lady Steele is the co-founder and co-lead of the Center of Learning and School of Success (C.L.A.S.S.), Atlanta’s Worthless Bastards (Cigar) Club, and The Leather Coterie’s (T.L.C.) Atlanta Chapter. She acts as Board Support, Convention Attorney, and Vendor Coordinator for the Leather Leadership Conference, serves at Treasurer of Anafiel House and is a proud member of Onyx Pearls Southern Leather. In addition, she has presented at national events including TES Fest, DomCon, Frolicon, Southeast Leather Fest, DragonCon, Sex Down South, Atlanta Poly Weekend. Lady Steele also shares her knowledge through her BlogTalk radio program, “The Legal Show,” co-hosted by renowned Sci-Fi author Bennet Pomerantz. Lady Steele has been on the KinkyCast, discussing topics like Consent Apps; No Collar, No Problem; BDSM and the Law; Cigar Service and Play; and Poly and the Law, and on the Poly Podcast, speaking about Poly and the Law.

To participate, simply visit https://datingkinky.com/TES-Tuesdays every Tuesday, at 7pm. No additional downloads or software required! This platform is supported by multiple browsers, but if you are having any technical difficulties please try a different browser, as certain settings may interfere. Note that this link will only be active during scheduled meeting times.
You are welcome to participate as actively as you are comfortable. By default, users’ cameras and microphones will be switched off, and you may simply watch passively or participate solely by text in the chat box if you are uncomfortable being seen or heard. Please note that while we have selected this platform to be as private as possible while maintaining sufficient ease of use for participants, no online platform is ever fully secure. While all regular TES rules regarding privacy remain in effect, and anyone caught violating these rules will be subject to consequences (please see our Online Meeting Terms of Service), we advise participants to treat online events as though the event is being recorded by a third party. For more information on protecting your online privacy, please see our online privacy guide.

ONLINE - TES Presents: Creating a Submissive Resume
2020-05-12 19:00 - 22:00 | NY
Creating a Submissive Resume is a class where both new and experienced s-types can document their skills, abilities, training, and community involvement, to give to prospective Dominants or just to chart their own growth as an s-type.
We will also discuss creating a resume to document presenter experience.
girl stacey is a Birth Doula, a Life Coach, an aspiring herbalist, and an artist. She has been creating vision boards since her sadistic mother dragged her to a class three decades ago. She is a member of FLAG, the HardPink Sisterhood, and MAsT: Metro NY, and attends many community educational events. She is a slave to her Master and a girl to her Daddy.
To participate, simply visit https://datingkinky.com/TES-Tuesdays every Tuesday, at 7pm. No additional downloads or software required! This platform is supported by multiple browsers, but if you are having any technical difficulties please try a different browser, as certain settings may interfere. Note that this link will only be active during scheduled meeting times.
You are welcome to participate as actively as you are comfortable. By default, users’ cameras and microphones will be switched off, and you may simply watch passively or participate solely by text in the chat box if you are uncomfortable being seen or heard. Please note that while we have selected this platform to be as private as possible while maintaining sufficient ease of use for participants, no online platform is ever fully secure. While all regular TES rules regarding privacy remain in effect, and anyone caught violating these rules will be subject to consequences (please see our Online Meeting Terms of Service), we advise participants to treat online events as though the event is being recorded by a third party. For more information on protecting your online privacy, please see our online privacy guide.

TES Board of Directors Meeting
2020-05-14 19:00 - 22:00 | NY
Information on how to join the meeting has already been distributed to the membership. If you did not receive this information, are a member, and would like to join, please contact tes@tes.org

ONLINE - TES presents: Discovering Dominance
2020-05-19 19:00 - 22:00 | NY
Many and varied are the guides and resources for those who are new to the submissive lifestyle, but those who are new to the Dominant side appear to have limited avenues to explore. Are the expectations for the Dominant in relationships higher? Should they be? What types of skills are essential? Are they physical skills, like flogging, using the single tail whip, or rope bondage? Is there something deeper, more complicated than that? Sir Guy will discuss the physical, spiritual and psychological dimensions of Dominance as well as sharing his personal journey, mistakes and all. Topics include the attributes of leadership, command presence and other poignant aspects using military, religious and business sources and models to explore and develop Dominance for the beginner.
I live in a 24/7 Master/slave relationship. I’ve been active in the scene for over a decade. I am an Emeritus Board Member of The Eulenspiegel Society (TES), Director of MAsT Metro New York, Founder of The Dark Lair: BDSM Support and Education for People of Color, and an Associate Member of ONYX NY/Northeast. He won the International Power Exchange 2013 title. I have presented at MsC several times, Brimstone, TES Fest, The Floating World, LLC, Leather History Preservation Weekend, several MAsT groups, South Jersey Power Exchange, LILNR/LICK and over 30 groups and events.

To participate, simply visit https://datingkinky.com/TES-Tuesdays every Tuesday, at 7pm. No additional downloads or software required! This platform is supported by multiple browsers, but if you are having any technical difficulties please try a different browser, as certain settings may interfere. Note that this link will only be active during scheduled meeting times.
You are welcome to participate as actively as you are comfortable. By default, users’ cameras and microphones will be switched off, and you may simply watch passively or participate solely by text in the chat box if you are uncomfortable being seen or heard. Please note that while we have selected this platform to be as private as possible while maintaining sufficient ease of use for participants, no online platform is ever fully secure. While all regular TES rules regarding privacy remain in effect, and anyone caught violating these rules will be subject to consequences (please see our Online Meeting Terms of Service), we advise participants to treat online events as though the event is being recorded by a third party. For more information on protecting your online privacy, please see our online privacy guide.

ONLINE - TES Presents:Being a Slave: My Path, My Journey
2020-05-26 19:00 - 22:00 | NY
As a slave who has found their slave heart, one question that is realized is what do i do next? Where do i go to learn? How do i navigate into this community? This community has many different avenues, and many different paths, and even though you may not know what you want yet, this class will teach you Myths vs. Reality, describing a slave, how to find a Master and many other new things. Come and join slave mike on this journey that you are beginning.
slave mike is an alpha slave in MasterBearRobert’s Leather Family. slave mike is a collared and owned slave by MasterBearRobert for 5 years. slave mike identifies as a slave and little. slave mike is also differently abled (a term he uses with his Master) and doesn’t let that stop him from serving his Master proudly.

To participate, simply visit https://datingkinky.com/TES-Tuesdays every Tuesday, at 7pm. No additional downloads or software required! This platform is supported by multiple browsers, but if you are having any technical difficulties please try a different browser, as certain settings may interfere. Note that this link will only be active during scheduled meeting times.
You are welcome to participate as actively as you are comfortable. By default, users’ cameras and microphones will be switched off, and you may simply watch passively or participate solely by text in the chat box if you are uncomfortable being seen or heard. Please note that while we have selected this platform to be as private as possible while maintaining sufficient ease of use for participants, no online platform is ever fully secure. While all regular TES rules regarding privacy remain in effect, and anyone caught violating these rules will be subject to consequences (please see our Online Meeting Terms of Service), we advise participants to treat online events as though the event is being recorded by a third party. For more information on protecting your online privacy, please see our online privacy guide.

ONLINE - TES presents: Long Distance Dynamics with @MasterKaddan
2020-06-02 19:00 - 22:00 | NY
This discussion focuses on Long Distance M/s, how it can work, personal experience, what M/s looks like in a distance dynamic, and what principles of M/s may be applied. By the end of this discussion, participants will learn:

How to define M/s dynamics for themselves
What defines long distance
How to get to know someone in a long-distance relationship
How communication, boundaries, expectations, and goals all work together and what they mean
How to balance real time and long-distance commitments

I have more than 30 years experience of living the lifestyle. I spent three years of my life training from the bottom up” to become the third generation of my Leather Family’s line to come from that style of training. I currently have a Household with a mix of babygirls, slaves and property.
I hold a Professional Human Services Degree (with emphasis on Cognitive and Behavioral Therapy). The forensic populations I worked with included violent offenders, those with mental health issues and those with HIV/AIDS, both on Federal and State levels. Now that I am retired from that aspect of my life, I can focus on the M/s community and volunteering. I am currently the Northeast Leatherwoman 2020, a full associate of ONYX NY/Northeast, president of the ONYX Pearls NY/Northeast, sergeant at arms of the ONYX Pearls National Council, treasurer and member of The Hard Pink Sisterhood, a member of MAsT Metro NY, a member of Leather Houses of Color Coalition (LHOCC), and former Pantheon of Leather Northeast nominee

To participate, simply visit https://datingkinky.com/TES-Tuesdays every Tuesday, at 7pm. No additional downloads or software required! This platform is supported by multiple browsers, but if you are having any technical difficulties please try a different browser, as certain settings may interfere. Note that this link will only be active during scheduled meeting times.
You are welcome to participate as actively as you are comfortable. By default, users’ cameras and microphones will be switched off, and you may simply watch passively or participate solely by text in the chat box if you are uncomfortable being seen or heard. Please note that while we have selected this platform to be as private as possible while maintaining sufficient ease of use for participants, no online platform is ever fully secure. While all regular TES rules regarding privacy remain in effect, and anyone caught violating these rules will be subject to consequences (please see our Online Meeting Terms of Service), we advise participants to treat online events as though the event is being recorded by a third party. For more information on protecting your online privacy, please see our online privacy guide.

ONLINE - TES presents: Arms-Front Chest Harness in Rope, and Then in Chain
2020-06-09 19:00 - 22:00 | NY
This class / demo will show an arms front rope harness as an example in rope, and then demonstrate how to build it in chain, step by step, with questions being answered as it happens. The objective is to demonstrate how to build a chain harness and basic chain bondage techniques employed.
From the Mid-Atlantic area, Mister(he/him) and CTW(she/her) have been practicing chain bondage for two years. In that time they have developed harnesses that are easy to reproduce, comfortable, and sustainable for bottoms. Their style incorporates different metal fasteners that make the chain work most efficiently for their needs. They have presented their work at various Dark Odyssey events (as IONs), at the North American Rope Innovation eXchange, and online. When not doing chain, they are developing a kinky podcast called “Bondage for Your Mind”. CTW also practices rope bondage on herself and others and has presented and demoed for several local and international events.

To participate, simply visit https://datingkinky.com/TES-Tuesdays every Tuesday, at 7pm. No additional downloads or software required! This platform is supported by multiple browsers, but if you are having any technical difficulties please try a different browser, as certain settings may interfere. Note that this link will only be active during scheduled meeting times.
You are welcome to participate as actively as you are comfortable. By default, users’ cameras and microphones will be switched off, and you may simply watch passively or participate solely by text in the chat box if you are uncomfortable being seen or heard. Please note that while we have selected this platform to be as private as possible while maintaining sufficient ease of use for participants, no online platform is ever fully secure. While all regular TES rules regarding privacy remain in effect, and anyone caught violating these rules will be subject to consequences (please see our Online Meeting Terms of Service), we advise participants to treat online events as though the event is being recorded by a third party. For more information on protecting your online privacy, please see our online privacy guide.

TES Board of Directors Meeting
2020-06-11 19:00 - 22:00, 2020-07-09 19:00 - 22:00, 2020-08-13 19:00 - 22:00 | NY
Information on how to join the meeting will be distributed to the membership in advance. If you did not receive this information, are a member, and would like to join, please contact tes@tes.org

ONLINE - TES presents: Cigar Service and Play with AttorneyLadySteele
2020-06-16 19:00 - 22:00 | NY
You have seen people smoking cigars at events, but how do the worlds of smoking pleasure and fetish intersect? What does serving a cigar entail? Receiving this service? What do you do with the ash? Is there more to cigar play than just smoking the cigar? These questions will be answered as Lady Steele speaks about and demonstrates this very elegant form of service.
Lady Steele identifies as a femme Alpha leather slave. She has served in the Leather community since 1999 wherein she has presented and volunteered across the country. She resides in Atlanta where she operates her law practice that serves alternative lifestyles. She is the only out, open, and practicing attorney in the southeast that specializes in the issues that are unique to the BDSM and ethical non-momogamy communities.
Lady Steele is the co-founder and co-lead of the Center of Learning and School of Success (C.L.A.S.S.), Atlanta’s Worthless Bastards (Cigar) Club, and The Leather Coterie’s (T.L.C.) Atlanta Chapter. She acts as Board Support, Convention Attorney, and Vendor Coordinator for the Leather Leadership Conference, serves at Treasurer of Anafiel House and is a proud member of Onyx Pearls Southern Leather. In addition, she has presented at national events including TES Fest, DomCon, Frolicon, Southeast Leather Fest, DragonCon, Sex Down South, Atlanta Poly Weekend. Lady Steele also shares her knowledge through her BlogTalk radio program, “The Legal Show,” co-hosted by renowned Sci-Fi author Bennet Pomerantz. Lady Steele has been on the KinkyCast, discussing topics like Consent Apps; No Collar, No Problem; BDSM and the Law; Cigar Service and Play; and Poly and the Law, and on the Poly Podcast, speaking about Poly and the Law.

To participate, simply visit https://datingkinky.com/TES-Tuesdays every Tuesday, at 7pm. No additional downloads or software required! This platform is supported by multiple browsers, but if you are having any technical difficulties please try a different browser, as certain settings may interfere. Note that this link will only be active during scheduled meeting times.
You are welcome to participate as actively as you are comfortable. By default, users’ cameras and microphones will be switched off, and you may simply watch passively or participate solely by text in the chat box if you are uncomfortable being seen or heard. Please note that while we have selected this platform to be as private as possible while maintaining sufficient ease of use for participants, no online platform is ever fully secure. While all regular TES rules regarding privacy remain in effect, and anyone caught violating these rules will be subject to consequences (please see our Online Meeting Terms of Service), we advise participants to treat online events as though the event is being recorded by a third party. For more information on protecting your online privacy, please see our online privacy guide.

ONLINE - TES presents: Keeping Secrets: Managing Your Kink Online
2020-06-23 19:00 - 22:00 | NY
From Fetlife and Facebook to emails and tweets, how do you keep your private life private. While we use the internet every day, we often don’t really think about all the ways our activities leave a trail that could lead to your privacy being violated or being outed publicly. The Internet is a big ball of technology that can be overwhelming, this class is not about that , we will not be going int to things is not about firewalls ,security protocols and hiding from big data, rather, it’s a conversation about managing your privacy and internet activity. We’ll run through how some of the most popular social media sites work and where there are potential trouble points , by walking through real life examples of being outed by digital communications, to ways of keeping your kink and vanilla separate, and have time to address your questions and concerns.
RiggerJay is a Canadian born Baltimore based rope enthusiast who is often seen with rope in hand and a camera over the shoulder. After finding a copy of Lee Harrington’s “Shibari You Can Use”, his passion for rope and kink was born. From there RiggerJay became very active in his local rope scene running local events as well as helping on-line communities. His goal is to spread that same passion to others! Beyond, rope, RiggerJay’s passion is photography, coming full circle and blending both skills, RiggerJay did the photography for the latest version of Shibari You can Use (the book he first learned rope from) as well as More Shibari You can Use. You can follow his photography and writing at http://riggerjay.tumblr.com

To participate, simply visit https://datingkinky.com/TES-Tuesdays every Tuesday, at 7pm. No additional downloads or software required! This platform is supported by multiple browsers, but if you are having any technical difficulties please try a different browser, as certain settings may interfere. Note that this link will only be active during scheduled meeting times.
You are welcome to participate as actively as you are comfortable. By default, users’ cameras and microphones will be switched off, and you may simply watch passively or participate solely by text in the chat box if you are uncomfortable being seen or heard. Please note that while we have selected this platform to be as private as possible while maintaining sufficient ease of use for participants, no online platform is ever fully secure. While all regular TES rules regarding privacy remain in effect, and anyone caught violating these rules will be subject to consequences (please see our Online Meeting Terms of Service), we advise participants to treat online events as though the event is being recorded by a third party. For more information on protecting your online privacy, please see our online privacy guide.

ONLINE - TES presents: Just Quillin': Porcupine Quills for Sadists
2020-06-30 19:00 - 22:00 | NY
Piercing doesn’t have to just been metallic and medical. In this class we will discuss the details around using porcupine quills for piercing play. Class will include safety concerns, how to acquire quills, and techniques for play. A hands-on demo will be included if possible.
I am JustRob or just Rob 🙂 I identify with masculine pronouns (he/him). I have been involved in the public community in Jacksonville, FL since 2008. I identify primarily as a Top and a Leatherman, but on occasion, I inhabit the roles of Sadist, Dominant, Leader, Mentor, and Teacher. I lead the committee that runs the local group Alternative Lifestyles Enthusiasts (A.L.E.),. I organize” the weekly Taco Tuesdays event and I am especially passionate about and active in our local polyamory group. My areas of experience are primarily; impact play (everything from fists and palms to whips and everything in between), electricity (specifically the violet wand), and medical play (focused on play piercing and staples). In general, I am a reaction junkie who craves blood and other bodily fluids. Overall, my passion is helping people find their way in this lifestyle and helping those who have already found it to navigate it safely and grow personally.
To participate, simply visit https://datingkinky.com/TES-Tuesdays every Tuesday, at 7pm. No additional downloads or software required! This platform is supported by multiple browsers, but if you are having any technical difficulties please try a different browser, as certain settings may interfere. Note that this link will only be active during scheduled meeting times.
You are welcome to participate as actively as you are comfortable. By default, users’ cameras and microphones will be switched off, and you may simply watch passively or participate solely by text in the chat box if you are uncomfortable being seen or heard. Please note that while we have selected this platform to be as private as possible while maintaining sufficient ease of use for participants, no online platform is ever fully secure. While all regular TES rules regarding privacy remain in effect, and anyone caught violating these rules will be subject to consequences (please see our Online Meeting Terms of Service), we advise participants to treat online events as though the event is being recorded by a third party. For more information on protecting your online privacy, please see our online privacy guide.

Online--TES Membership Meeting
2020-07-07 19:00 - 22:00 | NY
Rescheduled from April–The link will be distributed to the membership in advance of the meeting. If you are a member, did not receive the link on July 1, and would like to participate, please email secretary@tes.org

ONLINE - TES presents: Age, Disability and BDSM
2020-07-14 19:00 - 22:00 | NY
The traditional images of BDSM and Kink show long lithe bodies with minimal body fat in tiny outfits accentuating muscular sinewy forms. The fact of the matter is that image represents a small percentage of the kink community. There are many who have disabilities, some invisible, others very visible. In addition to our physical limitations, many of us have suffered life traumas that have affected us in a variety of ways. It has recently been realized that many in the general population suffer from post-traumatic stress disorder (PTSD) as a result. How do we deal with our limitations and still enjoy kink and life? How do we help our partners do so? Sir Guy, a 9/11 first responder who himself deals with cancer, depression and other disabilities leads this discussion.
I live in a 24/7 Master/slave relationship. I’ve been active in the scene for over a decade. I am an Emeritus Board Member of The Eulenspiegel Society (TES), Director of MAsT Metro New York, Founder of The Dark Lair: BDSM Support and Education for People of Color, and an Associate Member of ONYX NY/Northeast. He won the International Power Exchange 2013 title. I have presented at MsC several times, Brimstone, TES Fest, The Floating World, LLC, Leather History Preservation Weekend, several MAsT groups, South Jersey Power Exchange, LILNR/LICK and over 30 groups and events.

To participate, simply visit https://datingkinky.com/TES-Tuesdays every Tuesday, at 7pm. No additional downloads or software required! This platform is supported by multiple browsers, but if you are having any technical difficulties please try a different browser, as certain settings may interfere. Note that this link will only be active during scheduled meeting times.
You are welcome to participate as actively as you are comfortable. By default, users’ cameras and microphones will be switched off, and you may simply watch passively or participate solely by text in the chat box if you are uncomfortable being seen or heard. Please note that while we have selected this platform to be as private as possible while maintaining sufficient ease of use for participants, no online platform is ever fully secure. While all regular TES rules regarding privacy remain in effect, and anyone caught violating these rules will be subject to consequences (please see our Online Meeting Terms of Service), we advise participants to treat online events as though the event is being recorded by a third party. For more information on protecting your online privacy, please see our online privacy guide.

ONLINE - TES presents: Cuckolding for Couples
2020-07-21 19:00 - 22:00 | NY
Cuckolding is a hot trend online these days, but is it a viable kink? I’ll give an enthusiastic YES! Not only is it a fun fetish for cuck and cuckoldress, but it actually enhances intimacy, love, creativity and fun in your relationship. Based on my popular 2 1/2 month online course, this class covers setting ground rules, finding a bull, creating an amazing cuckolding relationship and trouble shooting.
NookieNotes, known by most as Nookie, grew up in the lifestyle and around people of every color and bent. Her primary fetishes are communication and behavior modification. She’s a lifestyle dominant who runs her relationships and enjoys switching in the bedroom. She is currently building a new kinky dating site: https://datingkinky.com

To participate, simply visit https://datingkinky.com/TES-Tuesdays every Tuesday, at 7pm. No additional downloads or software required! This platform is supported by multiple browsers, but if you are having any technical difficulties please try a different browser, as certain settings may interfere. Note that this link will only be active during scheduled meeting times.
You are welcome to participate as actively as you are comfortable. By default, users’ cameras and microphones will be switched off, and you may simply watch passively or participate solely by text in the chat box if you are uncomfortable being seen or heard. Please note that while we have selected this platform to be as private as possible while maintaining sufficient ease of use for participants, no online platform is ever fully secure. While all regular TES rules regarding privacy remain in effect, and anyone caught violating these rules will be subject to consequences (please see our Online Meeting Terms of Service), we advise participants to treat online events as though the event is being recorded by a third party. For more information on protecting your online privacy, please see our online privacy guide.

ONLINE - TES presents: BDSM Q&A - Ask the Weirdos Edition with ninjajuicer and saltygoodness
2020-07-28 19:00 - 22:00 | NY
In these uncertain times, we all have lots of questions. While we don’t have the answers to your questions about the lockdown, we may be able to answer your questions about locking down your lover! Join Alex and Madeline, a kinky couple with 16 years of experience in the public BDSM scene, for a BDSM Q&A. What they haven’t experienced, they have probably seen or helped clean up after. No question will be deemed too dumb or basic, and not just because we haven’t negotiated humiliation.
Alex and Madeline are both trained scientists who love to use their analytical minds and love of learning both in the bedroom and the dungeon. They have been very active in the Chicago, Minneapolis/St. Paul and now New York communities, helping to run BDSM organizations, assisting with large-scale events, and teaching classes on various edge play techniques. They have a reputation for enjoying some of the odder branches of BDSM play and for being lucky to have found each other’s sick minds. Alex can be found on Fetlife at ninjajuicer and Madeline can be found at saltygoodness

To participate, simply visit https://datingkinky.com/TES-Tuesdays every Tuesday, at 7pm. No additional downloads or software required! This platform is supported by multiple browsers, but if you are having any technical difficulties please try a different browser, as certain settings may interfere. Note that this link will only be active during scheduled meeting times.
You are welcome to participate as actively as you are comfortable. By default, users’ cameras and microphones will be switched off, and you may simply watch passively or participate solely by text in the chat box if you are uncomfortable being seen or heard. Please note that while we have selected this platform to be as private as possible while maintaining sufficient ease of use for participants, no online platform is ever fully secure. While all regular TES rules regarding privacy remain in effect, and anyone caught violating these rules will be subject to consequences (please see our Online Meeting Terms of Service), we advise participants to treat online events as though the event is being recorded by a third party. For more information on protecting your online privacy, please see our online privacy guide.

ONLINE - TES presents: Love Dolls & Sex Bots- Opening Pandora's Box with @LuckyAlbatross
2020-08-04 19:00 - 22:00 | NY
Pandora was created from earth by the gods as the “gift of all.” The creation stories of humans emerging from earth and objects are no less tantalizing today (Anyone hear of Westworld?). In our modern world we’ve come to fetishize and adore our dolls and bots and their creator/masters., From dust to circuitry, learn about this fantastic side of objectification and how to easily open your own Pandora’s Box of transformation in your sexy play
Liz/LuckyAlbatross (she/her) has been active in the public scene since 1998. Bisexual, open, polyamorous, switch, slave, Liz has been a member of Black Rose in DC, the Baltimore Educational and Social Society (BESS), where she was elected as Secretary and Chair of the Board, and Austin, TX where she was Arbiter of the local group GWNN and Service Leader of Element. Currently living outside Philadelphia helping run a polyamorous social group and active in the Black Rose based annual hypnosis event, Charmed. Her favorite fetishes are formal wear and connections and she greatly enjoys hypnosis and objectification.
To participate, simply visit https://datingkinky.com/TES-Tuesdays every Tuesday, at 7pm. No additional downloads or software required! This platform is supported by multiple browsers, but if you are having any technical difficulties please try a different browser, as certain settings may interfere. Note that this link will only be active during scheduled meeting times.
You are welcome to participate as actively as you are comfortable. By default, users’ cameras and microphones will be switched off, and you may simply watch passively or participate solely by text in the chat box if you are uncomfortable being seen or heard. Please note that while we have selected this platform to be as private as possible while maintaining sufficient ease of use for participants, no online platform is ever fully secure. While all regular TES rules regarding privacy remain in effect, and anyone caught violating these rules will be subject to consequences (please see our Online Meeting Terms of Service), we advise participants to treat online events as though the event is being recorded by a third party. For more information on protecting your online privacy, please see our online privacy guide.

ONLINE - TES presents: Wanna Play Doctor? with @Ignixia
2020-08-11 19:00 - 22:00 | NY
Heart racing at the sight of needles? Weak in the knees thinking about scalpels and sutures? Sounds like you’ve come down with a case of medical fetishism. Not to worry though, this specialist has just the prescription you need to break your fever caused by routine play session blues. So get ready to open up and say “ah” as we cover how to go from scenes that’ll put a dungeon to sleep to play that will have you screaming “Hellooo Nurse!” The doctor will see you now.
Ignixia is an internationally renowned professional kink educator and leather-woman who was the owner and sole-operator of an award-winning leather business designed around creating custom, quality leather goods that are affordable to all. She has used her skills as a leatherworker to create the Kinkability toy line, first of its kind fetish gear designed for those with disabilities. As someone who lives with chronic pain, along with her partner, she uses her experiences to help others with chronic pain through an online support group and classes designed to make daily life and kink easier to manage. ​

To participate, simply visit https://datingkinky.com/TES-Tuesdays every Tuesday, at 7pm. No additional downloads or software required! This platform is supported by multiple browsers, but if you are having any technical difficulties please try a different browser, as certain settings may interfere. Note that this link will only be active during scheduled meeting times.
You are welcome to participate as actively as you are comfortable. By default, users’ cameras and microphones will be switched off, and you may simply watch passively or participate solely by text in the chat box if you are uncomfortable being seen or heard. Please note that while we have selected this platform to be as private as possible while maintaining sufficient ease of use for participants, no online platform is ever fully secure. While all regular TES rules regarding privacy remain in effect, and anyone caught violating these rules will be subject to consequences (please see our Online Meeting Terms of Service), we advise participants to treat online events as though the event is being recorded by a third party. For more information on protecting your online privacy, please see our online privacy guide.

ONLINE - TES presents: Reluctant Leadership: Power Exchange When You Just Don't Wanna with @HumbleCunt
2020-08-18 19:00 - 22:00 | NY
Coming soon!

To participate, simply visit https://datingkinky.com/TES-Tuesdays every Tuesday, at 7pm. No additional downloads or software required! This platform is supported by multiple browsers, but if you are having any technical difficulties please try a different browser, as certain settings may interfere. Note that this link will only be active during scheduled meeting times.
You are welcome to participate as actively as you are comfortable. By default, users’ cameras and microphones will be switched off, and you may simply watch passively or participate solely by text in the chat box if you are uncomfortable being seen or heard. Please note that while we have selected this platform to be as private as possible while maintaining sufficient ease of use for participants, no online platform is ever fully secure. While all regular TES rules regarding privacy remain in effect, and anyone caught violating these rules will be subject to consequences (please see our Online Meeting Terms of Service), we advise participants to treat online events as though the event is being recorded by a third party. For more information on protecting your online privacy, please see our online privacy guide.

ONLINE - TES presents: My Legs are Tied! Rope Foundations for Self-Tying with @CTW
2020-08-25 19:00 - 22:00 | NY
(Level – beginner) 1.5 hours
This educational will cover three different single column ties, and half hitches and Munter hitches. A simple decorative leg binder will be created by combining the techniques. This class may be self-tied or tied on a partner.
CTW(she/her) is a fem-presenting rope top and sadomasochist from Virginia. She enjoys tying herself and others, teaching rope, and encouraging body positivity and inclusivity in bondage. She believes any body can be tied. When not doing rope, she co-teaches and bottoms for chain bondage with her long-term partner.

To participate, simply visit https://datingkinky.com/TES-Tuesdays every Tuesday, at 7pm. No additional downloads or software required! This platform is supported by multiple browsers, but if you are having any technical difficulties please try a different browser, as certain settings may interfere. Note that this link will only be active during scheduled meeting times.
You are welcome to participate as actively as you are comfortable. By default, users’ cameras and microphones will be switched off, and you may simply watch passively or participate solely by text in the chat box if you are uncomfortable being seen or heard. Please note that while we have selected this platform to be as private as possible while maintaining sufficient ease of use for participants, no online platform is ever fully secure. While all regular TES rules regarding privacy remain in effect, and anyone caught violating these rules will be subject to consequences (please see our Online Meeting Terms of Service), we advise participants to treat online events as though the event is being recorded by a third party. For more information on protecting your online privacy, please see our online privacy guide.

ONLINE - TES presents: Two Decades Plus of the Black Male Submissive Experience
2020-09-01 19:00 - 22:00 | NY
The trials and tribulations of anyone who travels in the field of the fetish world can be very daunting and enlightening. Based on one man’s experience, this is very challenging, yet, meaningful in terms of how to handle himself in the throes of BDSM as well as taking those lessons and applying it to regular, vanilla life. Let’s discuss how someone can turn anything into a positive and learning lesson, even in the face of negativism in a place that misleads all into thinking there is solace in its being.
Chucky (Houseslave2000), who has been a part of the NYC fetish scene for over 25 years, is inconspicuous, yet, fairly recognizable! He has been a houseboy at almost every known dungeon (The Parthenon, Pandora’s Box, The Den of Iniquity, Arena/Blaze,The Crown/Taillor Group, Nutcracker Suite, etc.) in NYC, while serving some of the most prestigious Dommes (Even having an integral role in the ‘development’ of some) in the scene. He thrives in intense scenes and has been known to be a bit playful while at the mercy of Sadists who only want to see him suffer. When he is not in service, you may see him behind some bar at a fetish event, holding and serving you drinks with a big smile.

To participate, simply visit https://datingkinky.com/TES-Tuesdays every Tuesday, at 7pm. No additional downloads or software required! This platform is supported by multiple browsers, but if you are having any technical difficulties please try a different browser, as certain settings may interfere. Note that this link will only be active during scheduled meeting times.
You are welcome to participate as actively as you are comfortable. By default, users’ cameras and microphones will be switched off, and you may simply watch passively or participate solely by text in the chat box if you are uncomfortable being seen or heard. Please note that while we have selected this platform to be as private as possible while maintaining sufficient ease of use for participants, no online platform is ever fully secure. While all regular TES rules regarding privacy remain in effect, and anyone caught violating these rules will be subject to consequences (please see our Online Meeting Terms of Service), we advise participants to treat online events as though the event is being recorded by a third party. For more information on protecting your online privacy, please see our online privacy guide.

ONLINE - TES presents: Tell it Who's Boss! with DevynStone
2020-09-08 19:00 - 22:00 | NY
Using objectification, dehumanization in a way that is designed to build up the property versus tearing it down. In this class we will discuss some points of objectification that can be integrated into the protocol. We will talk about how to use objectification to assert authority and even talk some philosophy!
Devyn Stone A.K.A. SirHorror (He/Him) is a transgender, dominant leatherman who has been actively practicing nonmonogamy and authority transfer since 2004. He has overcome tremendous odds including abuse, trauma and mental illness to fulfill his lifelong dream… to be loved for who he truly is.
He is a mental health and LGBTQ+ advocate. In 2019 Devyn made the life changing decision to build his career as a BDSM author and educator. He has a passion for giving and receiving education and he can often be found speaking on topics such as; protocol, authority transfer, organization, gender and negotiation.
Devyn is an extrovert that loves to tell stories and make friends. He believes in diversity not division and he actualizes that idea by promoting strongly inclusive spaces and interactions.
Devyn has published several books and is excited to release more resources to his community soon.
He lives in Dallas, TX His property 840 that is unquestionably devoted to his will and serves as his useful object.
Learn more about Devyn, his classes, books, and upcoming events at www.DevynStone.info

To participate, simply visit https://datingkinky.com/TES-Tuesdays every Tuesday, at 7pm. No additional downloads or software required! This platform is supported by multiple browsers, but if you are having any technical difficulties please try a different browser, as certain settings may interfere. Note that this link will only be active during scheduled meeting times.
You are welcome to participate as actively as you are comfortable. By default, users’ cameras and microphones will be switched off, and you may simply watch passively or participate solely by text in the chat box if you are uncomfortable being seen or heard. Please note that while we have selected this platform to be as private as possible while maintaining sufficient ease of use for participants, no online platform is ever fully secure. While all regular TES rules regarding privacy remain in effect, and anyone caught violating these rules will be subject to consequences (please see our Online Meeting Terms of Service), we advise participants to treat online events as though the event is being recorded by a third party. For more information on protecting your online privacy, please see our online privacy guide.

TES Board Meeting--Online
2020-09-10 19:00 - 22:00 | NY
Open to all current members. Information on how to join the meeting has been distributed to the membership. If you are a member, would like to join, and did not receive it, please email tes@tes.org

ONLINE - TES presents: Coming Out as Kinky with Medical Professionals with @DISIRability
2020-09-15 19:00 - 22:00 | NY
Join Angela Car as we discuss the importance of coming out as kinky with doctors, nurses, counselors, physical therapists, etc. Having a physical disability and mental health concerns, Angela has spent a lot of time in doctor’s offices and hospitals. She is also in a 24/7 total power exchange dynamic on the right side of the slash. Angela will talk about advocating for her health needs and challenging professional’s biases she has encountered around her kinky D/s identity.
I am a Sex Positive Disability Educator/Advocate who was born with Spina Bifida sharing my unique perspective navigating relationships, sex and intimacy. I educate through story telling and sharing my own lived experience. I am in a 24/7 Power Exchange Dynamic on the right side of the slash. I’ve noticed that many other people with disabilities were also interested in kink and power-exchange, so I started a podcast DISIRabilityALT (http://DISIRabilityAlt.castos.com) to explore Disability, Desire, and Alternative Relationships.
To participate, simply visit https://datingkinky.com/TES-Tuesdays every Tuesday, at 7pm. No additional downloads or software required! This platform is supported by multiple browsers, but if you are having any technical difficulties please try a different browser, as certain settings may interfere. Note that this link will only be active during scheduled meeting times.
You are welcome to participate as actively as you are comfortable. By default, users’ cameras and microphones will be switched off, and you may simply watch passively or participate solely by text in the chat box if you are uncomfortable being seen or heard. Please note that while we have selected this platform to be as private as possible while maintaining sufficient ease of use for participants, no online platform is ever fully secure. While all regular TES rules regarding privacy remain in effect, and anyone caught violating these rules will be subject to consequences (please see our Online Meeting Terms of Service), we advise participants to treat online events as though the event is being recorded by a third party. For more information on protecting your online privacy, please see our online privacy guide.
