Stay tuned for more info about this meeting of the TES Writers Group! TES Members $5 Students & Military with ID $10 Reciprocal Groups $10 Non-Members $20 Cash Only…

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Join sadomasochist and professional endurance sports world champion Meanstreakmilewide as he explains the process of dealing with, over coming, and embracing pain and physical suffering. Drawing from his own professional training as a pro and world champion ironman, an ultra marathon World Champion, and his two decades of hurting others and himself as an expression of sexual intimacy and exploration, Meanstreakmilewide will guild you through steps on how submissives and bottoms can better process pain, and how Doms and tops can better guild those under them. This talk includes live demonstrations. TES Members $5 Students & Military with ID $10 Reciprocal Groups $10 Non-Members $20 Cash Only…

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7:30PM-9 PM Note Earlier Start Time! Are you new to the scene? New to the NYC area? Looking to get back into the scene after a long layoff? Just want to hang out with some fun and kinky people on a Sat night, in a safe, no pressure atmosphere with knowledgeable people to guide you if needed? Come alone or with partner(s). No dress code. No admission fee to the munch, just pay for your food and drinks. We’ll be in the upstairs seating area by 7:30PM and then, we’re heading for the Fet Gala Play Party @ the Parth at 9PM. We’re meeting and ending earlier so we can take part in the “Who Are Your Wearing?” ice-breaker game at the party. The TES party is optional, but only open to members and their guests or munch attendees. We will be on the second floor of the Bread and Butter Café, located at 419 Park Ave S, New York, NY 10016, on the corner at 29th Street. Here are the Do’s and Do Not’s of the Munch: **DO’s** * Be friendly and courteous to each other. * It is OK to ask each others’ scene names, roles, and fetishes. If you do not have a scene name/ Fetlife handle, have a pseudonym. * Get permission before touching someone else’s belongings. * Get permission before touching someone else. * It is OK to drink responsibly at the munch. * Respect others’ privacy. **DO NOT’s** * Do NOT ask attendees their personal information (real name, middle name, last name, where they live, work, breed, go to school or favorite Starbucks location). * Do NOT touch others without their permission. * Do NOT touch others’ belongings without their permission. * Do NOT get intoxicated before or during the munch. You will be told to go home. * Do NOT kink shame. Sometimes someone else’s kink is not yours. Appreciate their differences. * Do NOT bring outside food or beverages to the munch. * Do NOT take pictures or videos during the munch. We prefer to maintain an environment of anonymity. * Do NOT ask attendees their personal information (real name, middle name, last name, where they live, work, go to school, where they grew up, etc). We will be headed afterwards to the TES PARTY @ THE PARTH with a special discount….just $30 admission for attendees! Questions? Write us at novice@tes.org….

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Glamour, fashion, and none of the annoying paparazzi! Why should celebrities have all the fun? Get ready for “fetish’s biggest night out”! Come join us on Saturday, April 28th as we walk the red carpet in our finest leathers, latex, and more at this freaky fetish fundraiser! Dress your best, and prove that the only thing better than charitable giving is looking great doing it! For the third year in a row, Operation Hammond is returning to TES Fest! But traveling the country providing on site first aid and medical support to conventions isn’t easy, and they need $1500 for a new van to get them to events like ours. Which is why we’ll be holding a special raffle to the raise funds for them! We’ve collected an array of toys, fetishwear, and more, all generously donated by vendors from this year’s Fetish Flea, and we’ll be raffling them off exclusively to you! It’s a great chance to snag some fantastic items from some of the best vendors around, so bid generously! More information on the raffle is coming soon, so keep checking back. And of course, no red carpet event would be complete without a red carpet interview! So don your finest fetish attire (however you define it), and join us at 10pm for a kinky ice-breaker game we’re calling “Who are you wearing?”! We’ll take turns showing off our favorite best attire, and maybe catching the eye of someone special! But that’s not all. Join us for our pre-party munch at the Bread and Butter Café from 7:30-9pm. The munch is a GREAT way to meet people in a low-key, non-kinky setting. You’ll find more info about it here! **8pm-2am at The Parth** **$25 for TES members, $30 for munch attendees, $35 for other non-members** RSVP on Fetlife THIS IS AN EXCLUSIVE PARTY. In order to attend this party you must be: – a TES member – the guest of a TES member – an affiliate organization member – the guest of an affiliate organization member – an attendee of the pre-party munch arriving with the munch leaders If you are not yet a member, please consider becoming one today! Membership forms are available at all TES classes and parties. Please take a moment and familiarize yourself with our party rules.  If you have any questions, please contact zero@tes.org Looking for a playdate? Please check out our official playdate thread on Fetlife! As always, TES is a volunteer-based organization, and great events like this can’t happen without you! We need volunteers to work the door, coat check, DM, as well as help with setup and cleanup, so please consider volunteering your time. Those volunteering 1 hour of their time get in for just $10, and those volunteering at least 2 hours get in free! To volunteer, please contact Zero at zero@tes.org!…

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That’s right folks, it’s time for everyone’s favorite part of hypnosis, grueling exercise! In this presentation we’ll be going over how to practice as efficiently as we can. Starting with simple exercises and moving on to tools for self assessment, you’ll leave with a better understanding of what your practice time needs. This is an intermediate class. TES Members $5 Students & Military with ID $10 Reciprocal Groups $10 Non-Members $20 Cash Only…

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Free and open to all members with a current membership card. Come hear what the TES board and volunteers have been working on, and what’s on the horizon!…

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This class will review a 3 rope box tie (commonly referred to as a Takate Kote or Gote) and teach students nuances of the mechanics, safety and tension necessary to make the tie both sustainable and beautiful. We will examine ways to incorporate modifications that fit the body of the person tied and still maintain a structurally sound tie. Requirements: 3+ lengths of 25-30ft rope TES Members $5 Students & Military with ID $10 Reciprocal Groups $10 Non-Members $20 Cash Only…

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Fetish wrestling comes in many flavors – struggle play or domination; pin style, submission, or pro-style, sensual or sadistic… But it always offers the unique opportunity to dominate your partner with nothing but your own body – no whips, chains, or other toys between you. It may seem difficult, but you don’t need to be a martial arts expert for this type of play. A few simple holds can more than get you started. In this demo we’ll look at a variety of holds from different wrestling styles to control and dominate a partner with your arms, legs & ass, and feet. Will also include practice time for the eager and the brave. Come learn how simple and accessible fetish wrestling can be…and how much richness and complexity even a simple hold can hold! *** Led by VeVe Lane, a session wrestler (wrestling dominatrix) with over 10 years of experience in BJJ & submission grappling, & sexy ass-kicking….

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Free and open to all members with a current membership card….

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Stay tuned for more info on this class from the TES Novice & Newcomers Group! TES Members $5 Students & Military with ID $10 Reciprocal Groups $10 Non-Members $20 Cash Only…

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