TES IN PERSON – From Nervous Newbie to Intentional Sub: What I’m Actually Learning

Ever wonder what happens when curiosity meets kink and nerves turn into nuance? Join a senior submissive member of the community as he dishes the real lessons from his journey—from anxious newbie to confident, intentional sub. Expect laughs, insight, and ah-ha moments as we explore how mindful service transforms “Am I doing this right?” into “This is exactly where I belong.

Bios:
KoolWise (he/him) began exploring kink back in the 90s—though his journey took a few unconventional turns before truly taking shape. It wasn’t until 2016, when he began visiting a professional Domme, that his curiosity deepened into active discovery. In 2023, meeting his current Domme opened the door to the broader organized kink and BDSM community, where he’s found connection, purpose, and growth.

A former schoolteacher, KoolWise brings a natural gift for reflection and storytelling to his kink journey. He’s passionate about sharing his experiences to help others navigate their own paths with openness, respect, and a little bit of wisdom earned from his years of exploration.

Location:
The Center (The Lesbian, Gay, Bisexual & Transgender Community Center)
208 West 13th Street,
New York, NY 10011

Cost:
Members: $10
Non-Members: $25
Registration in advance is strongly encouraged due to limited internet access at the venue.
Note: Each attendee will need to have a separate account to register.

Registration Instructions

If You Already Have an Account

1. Register: Click here to go to the class registration page.
2. Log in: Use your existing account information to log in and register for the class. Your membership discount will be applied automatically.
3. Complete Purchase: Follow the instructions to complete your payment. Your membership discount will be automatically applied.

If You Need to Create an Account

For Members:

1. Create Your Account: Go to the Member Portal and create your account here. Be sure to use the same email address you used when you purchased your TES membership. If you’ve forgotten it, email membership@tes.org for assistance.
2. Confirm Your Email: Check your inbox for a confirmation email and follow the link to set your password.
3. Log In and Register: Click this link to log back into the Member Portal and register for the class.
4. Complete Purchase: Follow the instructions to complete your payment. Your membership discount will be automatically applied.

For Non-Members:

1. Create Your Account: Go to the registration page and create your member portal account here.
   Confirm Your Email: Check your inbox for a confirmation email and follow the link to set enter your password.
2. Log In and Register: Click this link to log back into the Member Portal and register for the class.
   Complete Purchase: Follow the instructions to complete your payment.

On-Site Registration

• On-site registration is available, but please be aware that internet access may be limited.
• You will be able to register by scanning a QR code with your smartphone.
• The registration process is the same as the advanced registration steps listed above. Cash payments are not accepted at the door.