TES Online – Discovering Dominance: A Guide to the Dominant Beginner

Many and varied are the guides and resources for those who are new to the submissive lifestyle, but those who are new to the Dominant side appear to have limited avenues to explore. Are the expectations for the Dominant in relationships higher? Should they be? What types of skills are essential? Are they physical skills, like flogging, using the single tail whip, or rope bondage? Is there something deeper, more complicated than that? Sir Guy will discuss the physical, spiritual, and psychological dimensions of Dominance, as well as share his personal journey, mistakes, and all. Topics include the attributes of leadership, command presence, and other poignant aspects using military, religious, and business sources and models to explore and develop Dominance for the beginner.

Bio:

Sir Guy (He/Him) is a covered Master, Dominant Leatherman, educator, author, and activist. He heads the House of the Black Panther and leads the group, The Dark Lair: a BDSM Education and Support group for People of Color.

Sir Guy has been in the lifestyle for 20+ years, has held several organizational leadership roles, and has also held a title. He has judged relationship-based Leather titles, given several keynote addresses, and won awards, including the Master Jack McGeorge Excellence in Education Award, the MAsT International People’s Choice Presenter of the Year Award, and the Sir Leon Strange Memorial Award, among others.

In addition, He has written several chapters in prominent lifestyle-related books and has spoken at Columbia and Hofstra Universities.

Sir Guy is a uniform enthusiast, former police officer, EMS supervisor, and Ground Zero first responder.

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MEMBERS – $5

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NON-MEMBERS – $10 /$15 day of event

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