• ONLINE – Bedroom Rope Bondage with Kinbaku_Studio

    Let's spice things up with a little bedroom rope bondage presented by @Kinbaku_Studio The class teaches attendees some fun rope ties to spice up their bedroom play time and turn up the heat on Sexy time. Be sure to drink plenty of water because it’s going to get hot in class! @Kinbaku_Studio has been practicing the art of rope bondage for over 14 years. They have attended many rope-centric cons, private lessons and intensives worldwide. Susuwatari and Lady Yu have taught at many local, regional and larger conventions for 8 years and been on staff as a rope artist/demonstrator at Adult Cons/Expos for the last 6 years. When they aren’t performing, they use the studio to sell their brand of rope, candles, and other products.They opened The Knotty Spot, a private members club, to create content, make art, offer inclusive classes and a consent focused play space to their local community. They also rent their space to other professionals for them to have a private and secure location for their sessions.He takes pride in being one of the few Asian Americans Kink Business owners. Their focus is on body positive, consensual rope, making it an enjoyable experience for all. TES classes include instruction, Q&A and TES Circle. To register: MEMBERS -$10 Create a Member Portal account using the same email address used when you purchased your membership. (Email membership@tes.org if you have forgotten the one you used when registering for TES.) Be sure to respond to confirmation email & choose a password. After that, log back into the Member Portal. To complete your purchase, click on this link and follow the instructions. Your membership discount will be automatically applied. NON-MEMBERS - $20 /$25 day of event Click this link to register for this class. If you're unable to afford this, contact tes@tes.org & we'll do our best to find a way to help you attend this class. REGISTRATION CLOSES 30 MINUTES BEFORE START OF CLASS! ALL QUESTIONS GO TO MEMBERSHIP@TES.ORG! YOU WILL RECEIVE THE LINK 10-15 MINUTES BEFORE THE START OF CLASS. **Note – if you are seeing an “event ended” screen – try one or more of the following: Refresh Clear cache Try a different browser** The DatingKinky platform is supported by multiple browsers, but if you are having any technical difficulties please try a different browser, as certain settings may interfere. Note that this link will only be active during scheduled meeting times. You are welcome to participate as actively as you are comfortable. By default, users' cameras and microphones will be switched off, and you may simply watch passively or participate solely by text in the chat box if you are uncomfortable being seen or heard. Please note that while we have selected this platform to be as private as possible while maintaining sufficient ease of use for participants, no online platform is ever fully secure. While all regular TES rules regarding privacy remain in effect, and anyone caught violating these rules will be subject to consequences (please see our Online Meeting Terms of Service), we advise participants to treat online events as though the event is being recorded by a third party. For more information on protecting your online privacy, please see our online privacy guide.

    $10 – $25
  • IN PERSON – Life in Plastic: Doll Play with Alex and Madeline Wrapped in Plastic, it’s Fantastic

    LGBT Community Center 208 W 13th St, New York, NY, United States

    Hi Barbie!  Doll play is a broad topic that has many more facets than some people realize.  This class will give an overview of the types of doll play that are commonly done and how different forms can be adjusted depending on the doll’s body, needs, and the desires of those involved.  We will discuss resources for doll play, including how to find or make doll clothes, what kind of accessories are commonly (or uncommonly) used, etc.  We will cover the different kinds of headspace that might occur during doll play, and how it differs from “normal” bottom headspace.  We will also show our personal transformation process and the kinds of fun that can be had with our particular dolly. Alex and Madeline are both trained scientists who love to use their analytical minds and love of learning both in the bedroom and the dungeon.  They have been very active in the Chicago, Minneapolis/St. Paul  and now New York communities, helping to run BDSM organizations, assisting with large-scale events, and teaching classes on various edge play techniques.  They have a reputation for enjoying some of the odder branches of BDSM play and for being lucky to have found each other’s sick minds.  Alex can be found on Fetlife at ninjajuicer and Madeline can be found at saltygoodness TES has returned to IN PERSON classes every other Thursday, now at The Lesbian, Gay, Bisexual & Transgender Community Center, AKA The Center!!! TES classes include instruction, Q&A and TES Circle. Please bring a legal ID to verify your age, and be prepared to show proof of a primary course of COVID vaccination and proof of having received a booster or wear a KN95 mask while in our class space. TES will supply masks at ops, and anyone requiring help providing the required proof can reach out to customer-care@tes.org for assistance. To register in advance (strongly preferred): If you already have a TES account, CLICK HERE TO REGISTER MEMBERS -$10 / NON-MEMBERS - $25 Create a Member Portal account Members: use the same email address used when you purchased your membership. (Email membership@tes.org if you have forgotten the one you used when registering for TES.) Be sure to respond to confirmation email & choose a password. After that, log back into the Member Portal. Non-members: you will still need to make an account to register . Be sure to respond to confirmation email & choose a password. After that, log back into the Member Portal. To complete your purchase, return to this FL event page, click on THIS LINK and follow the instructions. Your membership discount will be automatically applied. To register on-site: There will be a QR code available to allow you to register on-site following the same process above, but TES will not be able to accept cash at the door. If you're unable to afford this, contact tes@tes.org & we'll do our best to find a way to help you attend this class.

    $10 – $25
  • TES Board of Directors Meeting

    Open to all current members.  Information on how to join was distributed to the membership on November 1.  If you are a member, would like to join, and did not receive this information, please email secretary@tes.org

  • ONLINE – The Art of Pick Up Play with Ms_J

    If you are attending an event but don’t know anyone who is going and want to play: Where or how can you find potential partners; are there online threads or a sign-up board to post your desires; what about flagging for your desire? Join us for a discussion of navigating the art of pick-up play, with @Ms_J Define the types of scenes you like/dislike as your own starting point. Figure out what types of play appeals to each of you and establish limits and safe words for play. Ms. J (she/her) identifies as a community educator, sensual sadist, the Nana-Dragon pyromaniac, Agent of Chaos, Mama Bear to many, a self-proclaimed connection junkie, Purveyor of bruise poking and hair pulling, the Happy Bouncy Sadist, a bus-driving RACK playing mostly toppy kinda girl, and a happily married monogamish human. Although, best known for her fire play passion, Ms. J also enjoys rough body play coupled with soft and gentle contact for an impact mind fuck, blade play with sharp and shinies to slice off your clothes, the sticky sloppy wet sensations of food play, and drive-by dork play. TES classes include instruction, Q&A and TES Circle. To register: MEMBERS -$10 Create a Member Portal account using the same email address used when you purchased your membership. (Email membership@tes.org if you have forgotten the one you used when registering for TES.) Be sure to respond to confirmation email & choose a password. After that, log back into the Member Portal. To complete your purchase, click on this link and follow the instructions. Your membership discount will be automatically applied. NON-MEMBERS - $20 /$25 day of event Click here to register for this class. If you're unable to afford this, contact tes@tes.org & we'll do our best to find a way to help you attend this class. REGISTRATION CLOSES 30 MINUTES BEFORE START OF CLASS! ALL QUESTIONS GO TO MEMBERSHIP@TES.ORG! YOU WILL RECEIVE THE LINK 10-15 MINUTES BEFORE THE START OF CLASS. **Note – if you are seeing an “event ended” screen – try one or more of the following: Refresh Clear cache Try a different browser** The DatingKinky platform is supported by multiple browsers, but if you are having any technical difficulties please try a different browser, as certain settings may interfere. Note that this link will only be active during scheduled meeting times. You are welcome to participate as actively as you are comfortable. By default, users' cameras and microphones will be switched off, and you may simply watch passively or participate solely by text in the chat box if you are uncomfortable being seen or heard. Please note that while we have selected this platform to be as private as possible while maintaining sufficient ease of use for participants, no online platform is ever fully secure. While all regular TES rules regarding privacy remain in effect, and anyone caught violating these rules will be subject to consequences (please see our Online Meeting Terms of Service), we advise participants to treat online events as though the event is being recorded by a third party. For more information on protecting your online privacy, please see our online privacy guide.

    $10 – $25
  • IN PERSON – Impactful Inductions with Moon-Gazer

    LGBT Community Center 208 W 13th St, New York, NY, United States

    Do you enjoy impact play? Do you enjoy hypnosis? If you do, this is the perfect class for you! In this class we will go over different techniques and methods to induce someone into a trance state through impact play, how to use post-hypnotic triggers to enhance impact scene. You will get to see different types of impact toys and techniques to create very hot inductions. Moon-Gazer is the founder of Hypnosis New Jersey. Moon has loved the idea of mind control and hypnosis since they've been young. Pure reaction junkie, Moon uses a combination of creative sadistic scenarios along with sensual hypnotic techniques to create a very hot BDSM scene. TES has returned to IN PERSON classes every other Thursday, now at The Lesbian, Gay, Bisexual & Transgender Community Center, AKA The Center!!! TES classes include instruction, Q&A and TES Circle. Please bring proof of vaccination (base dose(s) & booster, physical card or photo of card showing booster is OK) and a legal ID to verify your age. To register in advance (strongly preferred): If you already have a TES account, CLICK HERE TO REGISTER MEMBERS -$10 / NON-MEMBERS - $25 Create a Member Portal account Members: use the same email address used when you purchased your membership. (Email membership@tes.org if you have forgotten the one you used when registering for TES.) Be sure to respond to confirmation email & choose a password. After that, log back into the Member Portal. Non-members: you will still need to make an account to register . Be sure to respond to confirmation email & choose a password. After that, log back into the Member Portal. To complete your purchase, return to this FL event page, click on THIS LINK and follow the instructions. Your membership discount will be automatically applied. To register on-site: There will be a QR code available to allow you to register on-site following the same process above, but TES will not be able to accept cash at the door. If you're unable to afford this, contact tes@tes.org & we'll do our best to find a way to help you attend this class.

    $10 – $25
  • ONLINE – How to Create and Teach a Kink Class (even if you hate public speaking) with @Izzyokay

    Do you have a desire to share your knowledge or ideas in the kink community? This course is designed to help individuals of all experience levels address fears, improve preparation, and seek productive feedback related to public speaking. Discover techniques for creating well-structured speeches and visually appealing presentations, as well as lessening your anxiety about public speaking. Before the end of this class, you will have valuable tips for delivering clear, concise, and engaging presentations. Note: This course is not a substitute for professional therapy or mental health advice regarding self-image. @Izzyokay (she/him) joined the kink community in 2020 and recently joined the team that organizes Orlando’s TNG. Izzy enjoys topping and bottoming for impact, knife play, as well as age play. With a recent exit from public education, Izzy is excited to teach in a more welcoming space. Outside of kink, Izzy loves Lego, reading, rewatching the same 3 shows, going to the gym, and making Excel spreadsheets. TES classes include instruction, Q&A and TES Circle. To register: MEMBERS -$10 Create a Member Portal account using the same email address used when you purchased your membership. (Email customer-care@tes.org if you have forgotten the one you used when registering for TES.) Be sure to respond to confirmation email & choose a password. After that, log back into the Member Portal. To complete your purchase, click on this link and follow the instructions. Your membership discount will be automatically applied. NON-MEMBERS - $20 /$25 day of event Click here to register for this class. If you're unable to afford this, contact tes@tes.org & we'll do our best to find a way to help you attend this class. REGISTRATION CLOSES 30 MINUTES BEFORE START OF CLASS! ALL QUESTIONS GO TO CUSTOMER-CARE@TES.ORG! YOU WILL RECEIVE THE LINK 10-15 MINUTES BEFORE THE START OF CLASS. **Note – if you are seeing an “event ended” screen – try one or more of the following: Refresh Clear cache Try a different browser** The DatingKinky platform is supported by multiple browsers, but if you are having any technical difficulties please try a different browser, as certain settings may interfere. Note that this link will only be active during scheduled meeting times. You are welcome to participate as actively as you are comfortable. By default, users' cameras and microphones will be switched off, and you may simply watch passively or participate solely by text in the chat box if you are uncomfortable being seen or heard. Please note that while we have selected this platform to be as private as possible while maintaining sufficient ease of use for participants, no online platform is ever fully secure. While all regular TES rules regarding privacy remain in effect, and anyone caught violating these rules will be subject to consequences (please see our Online Meeting Terms of Service), we advise participants to treat online events as though the event is being recorded by a third party. For more information on protecting your online privacy, please see our online privacy guide.

    $10 – $25
  • ONLINE – Rope and Wax Play with Kinbaku_Studio

    This class will teach students how to incorporate wax play candles safely with their rope. It will cover what kind of wax is safe to put on the body as well as the rope, and tricks for everyone to enjoy this level of play. @Kinbaku_Studio has been practicing the art of rope bondage for over 14 years. They have attended many rope-centric cons, private lessons and intensives worldwide. Susuwatari and Lady Yu have taught at many local, regional and larger conventions for 8 years and been on staff as a rope artist/demonstrator at Adult Cons/Expos for the last 6 years. When they aren’t performing, they use the studio to sell their brand of rope, candles, and other products.  They opened The Knotty Spot, a private members club, to create content, make art, offer inclusive classes and a consent focused play space to their local community. They also rent their space to other professionals for them to have a private and secure location for their sessions.  He takes pride in being one of the few Asian Americans Kink Business owners. Their focus is on body positive, consensual rope, making it an enjoyable experience for all. TES classes include instruction, Q&A and TES Circle. To register: MEMBERS -$10 Create a Member Portal account using the same email address used when you purchased your membership. (Email membership@tes.org if you have forgotten the one you used when registering for TES.) Be sure to respond to confirmation email & choose a password. After that, log back into the Member Portal. To complete your purchase, click on this link and follow the instructions. Your membership discount will be automatically applied. NON-MEMBERS - $20 /$25 day of event Click here to register for this class. If you're unable to afford this, contact tes@tes.org & we'll do our best to find a way to help you attend this class. REGISTRATION CLOSES 30 MINUTES BEFORE START OF CLASS! ALL QUESTIONS GO TO MEMBERSHIP@TES.ORG! YOU WILL RECEIVE THE LINK 10-15 MINUTES BEFORE THE START OF CLASS. **Note – if you are seeing an “event ended” screen – try one or more of the following: Refresh Clear cache Try a different browser** The DatingKinky platform is supported by multiple browsers, but if you are having any technical difficulties please try a different browser, as certain settings may interfere. Note that this link will only be active during scheduled meeting times. You are welcome to participate as actively as you are comfortable. By default, users' cameras and microphones will be switched off, and you may simply watch passively or participate solely by text in the chat box if you are uncomfortable being seen or heard. Please note that while we have selected this platform to be as private as possible while maintaining sufficient ease of use for participants, no online platform is ever fully secure. While all regular TES rules regarding privacy remain in effect, and anyone caught violating these rules will be subject to consequences (please see our Online Meeting Terms of Service), we advise participants to treat online events as though the event is being recorded by a third party. For more information on protecting your online privacy, please see our online privacy guide.

    $10 – $25
  • IN PERSON -TES Holiday Potluck Dinner Celebrate The End to Another Kinky Year!

    LGBT Community Center 208 W 13th St, New York, NY, United States

    Join TES Board members, Staff, and members, as we celebrate holidays of all faiths! Christmas, Hanukkah, Kwanzaa, Winter Solstice--all are welcome, no matter what you celebrate! As we all bask in the holiday glow of our wishes for peace on earth, goodwill to all, come to renew old friendships and make new ones. All we ask is that you bring three things: Your favorite dish, to share with your fellow kinksters. A gift for a White Elephant exchange, costing no more than $10. Your sweet self!

    FREE!
  • ONLINE – TES December Board of Directors Meeting

    The Board Meetings will now be held on the 3rd Monday of the month to accommodate our growing in person class schedule. If the third Monday falls on a holiday, the meeting will shift to the 4th Monday. Open to all current members. Information on how to join was distributed to the membership on December 1. If you are a member, would like to join, and did not receive this information, please email secretary@tes.org We have board vacancies! Please click here to find out requirements and consider nominating yourself. Need to renew your membership or join for the first time? Click here.

  • ONLINE – Fire Cupping with Ms_J

    Have you seen those big round bruises on someone’s back and thought “Those are some really big hickeys”; OR heard of cupping as one method of Traditional Chinese Medicine. But then ask yourself how does cupping relate to us kinky folks? @Ms_J will start with an explanation of cupping and its history. She will teach you basic fire safety precautions specific to cupping. You will learn what is in a typical cupping kit. A short demo with a suction cupping set. Then fire cupping. Watch a demonstration on how to give your bottom a nice massage; an evil massage; or just have them look like been attacked by an octopus! @Ms_J (she/her) identifies as a community educator, sensual sadist, the Nana-Dragon pyromaniac, Agent of Chaos, Mama Bear to many, a self-proclaimed connection junkie, Purveyor of bruise poking and hair pulling, the Happy Bouncy Sadist, a bus-driving RACK playing mostly toppy kinda girl, and a happily married monogamish human. Although, best known for her fire play passion, Ms. J also enjoys rough body play coupled with soft and gentle contact for an impact mind fuck, blade play with sharp and shinies to slice off your clothes, the sticky sloppy wet sensations of food play, and drive-by dork play. TES classes include instruction, Q&A and TES Circle. To register: MEMBERS -$10 Create a Member Portal account using the same email address used when you purchased your membership. (Email membership@tes.org if you have forgotten the one you used when registering for TES.) Be sure to respond to confirmation email & choose a password. After that, log back into the Member Portal. To complete your purchase, return to this FL event page, click on this link and follow the instructions. Your membership discount will be automatically applied. NON-MEMBERS - $20 /$25 day of event Click here to register for this class. If you're unable to afford this, contact tes@tes.org & we'll do our best to find a way to help you attend this class. REGISTRATION CLOSES 30 MINUTES BEFORE START OF CLASS! ALL QUESTIONS GO TO CUSTOMER-CARE@TES.ORG! YOU WILL RECEIVE THE LINK 10-15 MINUTES BEFORE THE START OF CLASS. **Note – if you are seeing an “event ended” screen – try one or more of the following: Refresh Clear cache Try a different browser** The DatingKinky platform is supported by multiple browsers, but if you are having any technical difficulties please try a different browser, as certain settings may interfere. Note that this link will only be active during scheduled meeting times. You are welcome to participate as actively as you are comfortable. By default, users' cameras and microphones will be switched off, and you may simply watch passively or participate solely by text in the chat box if you are uncomfortable being seen or heard. Please note that while we have selected this platform to be as private as possible while maintaining sufficient ease of use for participants, no online platform is ever fully secure. While all regular TES rules regarding privacy remain in effect, and anyone caught violating these rules will be subject to consequences (please see our Online Meeting Terms of Service), we advise participants to treat online events as though the event is being recorded by a third party. For more information on protecting your online privacy, please see our online privacy guide.

    $10 – $25