In these uncertain times, we all have lots of questions. While we don't have the answers to your questions about the lockdown, we may be able to answer your questions about locking down your lover! Join Alex and Madeline, a kinky couple with 16 years of experience in the public BDSM scene, for a BDSM Q&A. What they haven't experienced, they have probably seen or helped clean up after. No question will be deemed too dumb or basic, and not just because we haven't negotiated humiliation. Alex and Madeline are both trained scientists who love to use their analytical minds and love of learning both in the bedroom and the dungeon. They have been very active in the Chicago, Minneapolis/St. Paul and now New York communities, helping to run BDSM organizations, assisting with large-scale events, and teaching classes on various edge play techniques. They have a reputation for enjoying some of the odder branches of BDSM play and for being lucky to have found each other’s sick minds. Alex can be found on Fetlife at ninjajuicer and Madeline can be found at saltygoodness. To participate, simply visit https://datingkinky.com/TES-Tuesdays every Tuesday, at 7pm. No additional downloads or software required! This platform is supported by multiple browsers, but if you are having any technical difficulties please try a different browser, as certain settings may interfere. Note that this link will only be active during scheduled meeting times. You are welcome to participate as actively as you are comfortable. By default, users' cameras and microphones will be switched off, and you may simply watch passively or participate solely by text in the chat box if you are uncomfortable being seen or heard. Please note that while we have selected this platform to be as private as possible while maintaining sufficient ease of use for participants, no online platform is ever fully secure. While all regular TES rules regarding privacy remain in effect, and anyone caught violating these rules will be subject to consequences (please see our Online Meeting Terms of Service), we advise participants to treat online events as though the event is being recorded by a third party. For more information on protecting your online privacy, please see our online privacy guide.

The meeting will be held online; information on how to join has been distributed to the membership.  If you are a current member, would like to join, and did not receive the information, please email secretary@tes.org

Power permeates our every interpersonal interaction, from how we interact with the grocery clerk to our kink in the bedroom, and there is a difference between unconscious and conscious power use. However, in a variety of alternative sexuality and BDSM populations, these concepts are eroticized, often glossing over the context where these consensual erotic power plays come from. Let’s examine where power arises unconsciously or through oppression in culture, various types of power exchange dynamics, and why people would want to engage in them (for an evening, a long-term connection or between lifetimes). This will include conscious and unconscious roles, bonding within relationships, and even destructive behaviors. Power is power, but inequality is not inequity, so let us look at this together with eyes wide open. Lee Harrington is an internationally known spiritual and erotic authenticity educator, gender explorer, eclectic artist and award-winning author and editor on erotic and sacred experience. He’s been traveling the globe teaching and talking about sexuality, psychology, faith and desire, and believes you deserve passion and connection in your life. His books include “Playing Well With Others: Your Guide to Discovering, Exploring and Negotiating the Kink, Leather and BDSM Communities” (with Mollena Williams), “Sacred Kink: The Eightfold Paths of BDSM and Beyond,” “Shibari You Can Use: Japanese Rope Bondage and Erotic Macramé,” and “Traversing Gender: Understanding Transgender Realities,” amongst many others. Lee has been a passion instigator, academic, adult film performer, world class sexual adventurer, outspoken philosopher, polytheist priest/ess, kink/bondage expert, and has been blogging about sex and spirit since 1998. Read more about Lee at PassionAndSoul.com. To participate, simply visit https://datingkinky.com/TES-Tuesdays every Tuesday, at 7pm. No additional downloads or software required! This platform is supported by multiple browsers, but if you are having any technical difficulties please try a different browser, as certain settings may interfere. Note that this link will only be active during scheduled meeting times.

Just as the pacing on the delivery of a joke can have a strong impact on its comedic effect, the powerful hypnotic effect of matching your flow with your subjects and guiding them along a mesmeric melody cannot be understated. Improvisation skills will also be given in a hypnotic context, using lessons from Improv and Jazz in addition to hypnosis-based ideas to help unleash your inner confidence and creativity in forming inductions on the fly! The class will also delve into tone, imagery, and cultural examples of hypnotic rhythm across the world. Demos will be given of the techniques in question, as well as their potential application in several inductions and kinky hypnotic scenes! Participation is optional, but please be prepared to see hypnotic inductions being performed. Come and discover your own Inductive Verse with us. CW: Hypnotic language, hypnotic inductions, discussion of sensory enhancement, discussion of sexual elements of hypnotic play, discussion of painplay, discussion of bondage, discussion of headspaces, potential examples of robotification, potential examples of fantasy/sci-fi scenes, examples of conversational inductions. Ragezdasta is a Hypnotist, and has been for the past nine years. He enjoys the things hypnosis does to people and wants to remove a lot of the mystery and confusion people have around hypnosis and the nature of suggestion. He understands that this whole hypnotic shebang is both incredibly simple and infinitely complex, and figuring out what's fine to keep simple and what should be understood as complex has been his goal for the past several years. Hailing from the Middle East, he travels across the states visiting hypnopeeps and enjoying hypnocons/munches to the fullest extent of his abilities as a hypnotist, and a subject...and it's a heck of a lot of fun! To participate, simply visit https://datingkinky.com/TES-Tuesdays every Tuesday, at 7pm. No additional downloads or software required! This platform is supported by multiple browsers, but if you are having any technical difficulties please try a different browser, as certain settings may interfere. Note that this link will only be active during scheduled meeting times. You are welcome to participate as actively as you are comfortable. By default, users' cameras and microphones will be switched off, and you may simply watch passively or participate solely by text in the chat box if you are uncomfortable being seen or heard. Please note that while we have selected this platform to be as private as possible while maintaining sufficient ease of use for participants, no online platform is ever fully secure. While all regular TES rules regarding privacy remain in effect, and anyone caught violating these rules will be subject to consequences (please see our Online Meeting Terms of Service), we advise participants to treat online events as though the event is being recorded by a third party. For more information on protecting your online privacy, please see our online privacy guide.

Come learn the basics for a foundation in age play. Do you have an inner child, or a desire to be a caregiver to someone? We come with unique perspectives on a wide range of age play dynamics, experiences, and interests. We will cover basic vocabulary and the wide variety of dynamics you are likely to see. Also we will talk about how you can mix your M/s relationships or kinks with an age play dynamic. So bring your sippy cups, teddy's, and questions and join us for an enjoyable experience. Mystic Storm has been active in Leather/BDSM communities since 2000. Experiences with her own biological horse fed her natural desire and instinct to become a human pony. Mystic Storm is a mischievous show pony who is semi-retired due to health issues. She loved to prance around the show ring and win awards. Now Mystic Storm shares her love and knowledge of pony play and kink with others. She is the creator of the Pony Pride Flag as well as founder and co-leader of the South Central PA Little Scouts Troop #1863. Other interests include age play, leather care, relationship dynamics, and a need to think outside the box. Pronouns: She/Her. Contact: https://fetlife.com/users/13286 To participate, simply visit https://datingkinky.com/TES-Tuesdays every Tuesday, at 7pm. No additional downloads or software required! This platform is supported by multiple browsers, but if you are having any technical difficulties please try a different browser, as certain settings may interfere. Note that this link will only be active during scheduled meeting times. You are welcome to participate as actively as you are comfortable. By default, users' cameras and microphones will be switched off, and you may simply watch passively or participate solely by text in the chat box if you are uncomfortable being seen or heard. Please note that while we have selected this platform to be as private as possible while maintaining sufficient ease of use for participants, no online platform is ever fully secure. While all regular TES rules regarding privacy remain in effect, and anyone caught violating these rules will be subject to consequences (please see our Online Meeting Terms of Service), we advise participants to treat online events as though the event is being recorded by a third party. For more information on protecting your online privacy, please see our online privacy guide.

You’re in the middle of an intense play session when you hear hard knocks on the door. When you answer, you see your local law enforcement officer. What do you do? You are travelling to an event, and have all your accouterments in your checked baggage. You even checked it out with the TSA. Yet, you are being escorted now by airport police. What do you do? Sir Guy, a former NYC police officer, will guide you through the dilemma of dealing with law enforcement and other first responders I live in a 24/7 Master/slave relationship. I've been active in the scene for over a decade. I am an Emeritus Board Member of The Eulenspiegel Society (TES), Director of MAsT Metro New York, Founder of The Dark Lair: BDSM Support and Education for People of Color, and an Associate Member of ONYX NY/Northeast. He won the International Power Exchange 2013 title. I have presented at MsC several times, Brimstone, TES Fest, The Floating World, LLC, Leather History Preservation Weekend, several MAsT groups, South Jersey Power Exchange, LILNR/LICK and over 30 groups and events. To participate, simply visit https://datingkinky.com/TES-Tuesdays every Tuesday, at 7pm. No additional downloads or software required! This platform is supported by multiple browsers, but if you are having any technical difficulties please try a different browser, as certain settings may interfere. Note that this link will only be active during scheduled meeting times. You are welcome to participate as actively as you are comfortable. By default, users' cameras and microphones will be switched off, and you may simply watch passively or participate solely by text in the chat box if you are uncomfortable being seen or heard. Please note that while we have selected this platform to be as private as possible while maintaining sufficient ease of use for participants, no online platform is ever fully secure. While all regular TES rules regarding privacy remain in effect, and anyone caught violating these rules will be subject to consequences (please see our Online Meeting Terms of Service), we advise participants to treat online events as though the event is being recorded by a third party. For more information on protecting your online privacy, please see our online privacy guide.

Description and bio coming soon. To participate, simply visit https://datingkinky.com/TES-Tuesdays every Tuesday, at 7pm. No additional downloads or software required! This platform is supported by multiple browsers, but if you are having any technical difficulties please try a different browser, as certain settings may interfere. Note that this link will only be active during scheduled meeting times. You are welcome to participate as actively as you are comfortable. By default, users' cameras and microphones will be switched off, and you may simply watch passively or participate solely by text in the chat box if you are uncomfortable being seen or heard. Please note that while we have selected this platform to be as private as possible while maintaining sufficient ease of use for participants, no online platform is ever fully secure. While all regular TES rules regarding privacy remain in effect, and anyone caught violating these rules will be subject to consequences (please see our Online Meeting Terms of Service), we advise participants to treat online events as though the event is being recorded by a third party. For more information on protecting your online privacy, please see our online privacy guide.

Open to all valid members.  Information on how to join has already been distributed to the membership.  If you are a member, did not receive this information, and would like to join, please email secretary@tes.org

Anyone can peg, and anyone can be pegged. In this class, you'll learn how to do both! You don't need a prostate to enjoy this workshop. This workshop is designed for first-timers who want to start from the very basics. We'll get you going so you feel confident and safe trying it on your own. Bring your curiosity! Don't want to use a toy? Totally OK! DommeKat will demonstrate anal massage techniques, prostate massage and pegging basics on her demo bottom. To make the most of the class (and join in on the fun), a these are a few items i like to have nearby: Boy Butter Waterbased creamy lube (or another viscous lube) Dildo suitable for anal with a flared base (can't have those toys going all Lemmiwinks) Harness Butt stuff toys for warmups and anal training Condoms Disposable gloves A towel or two Protip: A puppy pad to lie on makes cleanup easy CONSENT (because consent is sexy) I use the high-protocol honorific "Domina," but I'm a pretty rough-and-tumble gal so fetish wrestling became a perfect fit for me! I’m a hedonist with a sadistic streak; I get the giggles when I hear suffering. I've been called "casually cruel," a "compassionate sadist” and definitely "a dick" once or twice. I've been quoted as saying, "All I wanna do in life is to wrestle, fuck butts and make money." A gal can dream! And part of that dream includes spreading the joys of butt stuff, because I love putting things in people's butts. In addition to life experience with various partners, I taught "Unicorn Porn," a pegging workshop hosted by Hacienda and co-instructed on numerous occasions with Lola Jean, sex educator. I've demonstrated pegging and other BDSM techniques for various instructional videos and TV shows. I had a great experience "in the before times" teaching a foot domination clinic for TES, so I'm excited to be back! theDommeKat.com LinkTr.ee/theDommeKat Twitter: @theDommeKat IG: @domina_katarina IG: @the_dommekat IG: @thedommekat2.0 To participate, simply visit https://datingkinky.com/TES-Tuesdays every Tuesday, at 7pm. No additional downloads or software required! This platform is supported by multiple browsers, but if you are having any technical difficulties please try a different browser, as certain settings may interfere. Note that this link will only be active during scheduled meeting times. You are welcome to participate as actively as you are comfortable. By default, users' cameras and microphones will be switched off, and you may simply watch passively or participate solely by text in the chat box if you are uncomfortable being seen or heard. Please note that while we have selected this platform to be as private as possible while maintaining sufficient ease of use for participants, no online platform is ever fully secure. While all regular TES rules regarding privacy remain in effect, and anyone caught violating these rules will be subject to consequences (please see our Online Meeting Terms of Service), we advise participants to treat online events as though the event is being recorded by a third party. For more information on protecting your online privacy, please see our online privacy guide.

Join Lady Steele as she explores several darker sides of tea service for the guest’s total pleasure and the server’s delight. The concept of “a proper” tea will be turned on its crumpet. She will illustrate the basic “how to’s” in regards to setting the table and then move to the actual service at the table. This presentation will be beneficial to both tops and bottoms – the tops will learn what to expect from the bottoms that will learn what to do. See how endless the naughty possibilities are in something that is traditionally so…proper. Lady Steele identifies as a femme Alpha leather slave. She has served in the Leather community since 1999 wherein she has presented and volunteered across the country. She resides in Atlanta where she operates her law practice that serves alternative lifestyles. She is the only out, open, and practicing attorney in the southeast that specializes in the issues that are unique to the BDSM and ethical non-momogamy communities. Lady Steele is the co-founder and co-lead of the Center of Learning and School of Success (C.L.A.S.S.), Atlanta's Worthless Bastards (Cigar) Club, and The Leather Coterie’s (T.L.C.) Atlanta Chapter. She acts as Board Support, Convention Attorney, and Vendor Coordinator for the Leather Leadership Conference, serves at Treasurer of Anafiel House and is a proud member of Onyx Pearls Southern Leather. In addition, she has presented at national events including TES Fest, DomCon, Frolicon, Southeast Leather Fest, DragonCon, Sex Down South, Atlanta Poly Weekend. Lady Steele also shares her knowledge through her BlogTalk radio program, “The Legal Show,” co-hosted by renowned Sci-Fi author Bennet Pomerantz. Lady Steele has been on the KinkyCast, discussing topics like Consent Apps; No Collar, No Problem; BDSM and the Law; Cigar Service and Play; and Poly and the Law, and on the Poly Podcast, speaking about Poly and the Law. To participate, simply visit https://datingkinky.com/TES-Tuesdays every Tuesday, at 7pm. No additional downloads or software required! This platform is supported by multiple browsers, but if you are having any technical difficulties please try a different browser, as certain settings may interfere. Note that this link will only be active during scheduled meeting times. You are welcome to participate as actively as you are comfortable. By default, users' cameras and microphones will be switched off, and you may simply watch passively or participate solely by text in the chat box if you are uncomfortable being seen or heard. Please note that while we have selected this platform to be as private as possible while maintaining sufficient ease of use for participants, no online platform is ever fully secure. While all regular TES rules regarding privacy remain in effect, and anyone caught violating these rules will be subject to consequences (please see our Online Meeting Terms of Service), we advise participants to treat online events as though the event is being recorded by a third party. For more information on protecting your online privacy, please see our online privacy guide.