As a slave who has found their slave heart, one question that is realized is what do i do next? Where do i go to learn? How do i navigate into this community? This community has many different avenues, and many different paths, and even though you may not know what you want yet, this class will teach you Myths vs. Reality, describing a slave, how to find a Master and many other new things. Come and join slave mike on this journey that you are beginning. slave mike is an alpha slave in MasterBearRobert's Leather Family. slave mike is a collared and owned slave by MasterBearRobert for 5 years. slave mike identifies as a slave and little. slave mike is also differently abled (a term he uses with his Master) and doesn't let that stop him from serving his Master proudly. To participate, simply visit https://datingkinky.com/TES-Tuesdays every Tuesday, at 7pm. No additional downloads or software required! This platform is supported by multiple browsers, but if you are having any technical difficulties please try a different browser, as certain settings may interfere. Note that this link will only be active during scheduled meeting times. You are welcome to participate as actively as you are comfortable. By default, users' cameras and microphones will be switched off, and you may simply watch passively or participate solely by text in the chat box if you are uncomfortable being seen or heard. Please note that while we have selected this platform to be as private as possible while maintaining sufficient ease of use for participants, no online platform is ever fully secure. While all regular TES rules regarding privacy remain in effect, and anyone caught violating these rules will be subject to consequences (please see our Online Meeting Terms of Service), we advise participants to treat online events as though the event is being recorded by a third party. For more information on protecting your online privacy, please see our online privacy guide.

This discussion focuses on Long Distance M/s, how it can work, personal experience, what M/s looks like in a distance dynamic, and what principles of M/s may be applied. By the end of this discussion, participants will learn: How to define M/s dynamics for themselves What defines long distance How to get to know someone in a long-distance relationship How communication, boundaries, expectations, and goals all work together and what they mean How to balance real time and long-distance commitments I have more than 30 years experience of living the lifestyle. I spent three years of my life training from the bottom up" to become the third generation of my Leather Family's line to come from that style of training. I currently have a Household with a mix of babygirls, slaves and property. I hold a Professional Human Services Degree (with emphasis on Cognitive and Behavioral Therapy). The forensic populations I worked with included violent offenders, those with mental health issues and those with HIV/AIDS, both on Federal and State levels. Now that I am retired from that aspect of my life, I can focus on the M/s community and volunteering. I am currently the Northeast Leatherwoman 2020, a full associate of ONYX NY/Northeast, president of the ONYX Pearls NY/Northeast, sergeant at arms of the ONYX Pearls National Council, treasurer and member of The Hard Pink Sisterhood, a member of MAsT Metro NY, a member of Leather Houses of Color Coalition (LHOCC), and former Pantheon of Leather Northeast nominee To participate, simply visit https://datingkinky.com/TES-Tuesdays every Tuesday, at 7pm. No additional downloads or software required! This platform is supported by multiple browsers, but if you are having any technical difficulties please try a different browser, as certain settings may interfere. Note that this link will only be active during scheduled meeting times. You are welcome to participate as actively as you are comfortable. By default, users' cameras and microphones will be switched off, and you may simply watch passively or participate solely by text in the chat box if you are uncomfortable being seen or heard. Please note that while we have selected this platform to be as private as possible while maintaining sufficient ease of use for participants, no online platform is ever fully secure. While all regular TES rules regarding privacy remain in effect, and anyone caught violating these rules will be subject to consequences (please see our Online Meeting Terms of Service), we advise participants to treat online events as though the event is being recorded by a third party. For more information on protecting your online privacy, please see our online privacy guide.

This class / demo will show an arms front rope harness as an example in rope, and then demonstrate how to build it in chain, step by step, with questions being answered as it happens. The objective is to demonstrate how to build a chain harness and basic chain bondage techniques employed. From the Mid-Atlantic area, Mister(he/him) and CTW(she/her) have been practicing chain bondage for two years. In that time they have developed harnesses that are easy to reproduce, comfortable, and sustainable for bottoms. Their style incorporates different metal fasteners that make the chain work most efficiently for their needs. They have presented their work at various Dark Odyssey events (as IONs), at the North American Rope Innovation eXchange, and online. When not doing chain, they are developing a kinky podcast called "Bondage for Your Mind". CTW also practices rope bondage on herself and others and has presented and demoed for several local and international events. To participate, simply visit https://datingkinky.com/TES-Tuesdays every Tuesday, at 7pm. No additional downloads or software required! This platform is supported by multiple browsers, but if you are having any technical difficulties please try a different browser, as certain settings may interfere. Note that this link will only be active during scheduled meeting times. You are welcome to participate as actively as you are comfortable. By default, users' cameras and microphones will be switched off, and you may simply watch passively or participate solely by text in the chat box if you are uncomfortable being seen or heard. Please note that while we have selected this platform to be as private as possible while maintaining sufficient ease of use for participants, no online platform is ever fully secure. While all regular TES rules regarding privacy remain in effect, and anyone caught violating these rules will be subject to consequences (please see our Online Meeting Terms of Service), we advise participants to treat online events as though the event is being recorded by a third party. For more information on protecting your online privacy, please see our online privacy guide.

Information on how to join the meeting will be distributed to the membership in advance.  If you did not receive this information, are a member, and would like to join, please contact tes@tes.org

You have seen people smoking cigars at events, but how do the worlds of smoking pleasure and fetish intersect? What does serving a cigar entail? Receiving this service? What do you do with the ash? Is there more to cigar play than just smoking the cigar? These questions will be answered as Lady Steele speaks about and demonstrates this very elegant form of service. Lady Steele identifies as a femme Alpha leather slave. She has served in the Leather community since 1999 wherein she has presented and volunteered across the country. She resides in Atlanta where she operates her law practice that serves alternative lifestyles. She is the only out, open, and practicing attorney in the southeast that specializes in the issues that are unique to the BDSM and ethical non-momogamy communities. Lady Steele is the co-founder and co-lead of the Center of Learning and School of Success (C.L.A.S.S.), Atlanta's Worthless Bastards (Cigar) Club, and The Leather Coterie’s (T.L.C.) Atlanta Chapter. She acts as Board Support, Convention Attorney, and Vendor Coordinator for the Leather Leadership Conference, serves at Treasurer of Anafiel House and is a proud member of Onyx Pearls Southern Leather. In addition, she has presented at national events including TES Fest, DomCon, Frolicon, Southeast Leather Fest, DragonCon, Sex Down South, Atlanta Poly Weekend. Lady Steele also shares her knowledge through her BlogTalk radio program, “The Legal Show,” co-hosted by renowned Sci-Fi author Bennet Pomerantz. Lady Steele has been on the KinkyCast, discussing topics like Consent Apps; No Collar, No Problem; BDSM and the Law; Cigar Service and Play; and Poly and the Law, and on the Poly Podcast, speaking about Poly and the Law. To participate, simply visit https://datingkinky.com/TES-Tuesdays every Tuesday, at 7pm. No additional downloads or software required! This platform is supported by multiple browsers, but if you are having any technical difficulties please try a different browser, as certain settings may interfere. Note that this link will only be active during scheduled meeting times. You are welcome to participate as actively as you are comfortable. By default, users' cameras and microphones will be switched off, and you may simply watch passively or participate solely by text in the chat box if you are uncomfortable being seen or heard. Please note that while we have selected this platform to be as private as possible while maintaining sufficient ease of use for participants, no online platform is ever fully secure. While all regular TES rules regarding privacy remain in effect, and anyone caught violating these rules will be subject to consequences (please see our Online Meeting Terms of Service), we advise participants to treat online events as though the event is being recorded by a third party. For more information on protecting your online privacy, please see our online privacy guide.

From Fetlife and Facebook to emails and tweets, how do you keep your private life private. While we use the internet every day, we often don't really think about all the ways our activities leave a trail that could lead to your privacy being violated or being outed publicly. The Internet is a big ball of technology that can be overwhelming, this class is not about that , we will not be going int to things is not about firewalls ,security protocols and hiding from big data, rather, it’s a conversation about managing your privacy and internet activity. We’ll run through how some of the most popular social media sites work and where there are potential trouble points , by walking through real life examples of being outed by digital communications, to ways of keeping your kink and vanilla separate, and have time to address your questions and concerns. RiggerJay is a Canadian born Baltimore based rope enthusiast who is often seen with rope in hand and a camera over the shoulder. After finding a copy of Lee Harrington's "Shibari You Can Use", his passion for rope and kink was born. From there RiggerJay became very active in his local rope scene running local events as well as helping on-line communities. His goal is to spread that same passion to others! Beyond, rope, RiggerJay's passion is photography, coming full circle and blending both skills, RiggerJay did the photography for the latest version of Shibari You can Use (the book he first learned rope from) as well as More Shibari You can Use. You can follow his photography and writing at http://riggerjay.tumblr.com To participate, simply visit https://datingkinky.com/TES-Tuesdays every Tuesday, at 7pm. No additional downloads or software required! This platform is supported by multiple browsers, but if you are having any technical difficulties please try a different browser, as certain settings may interfere. Note that this link will only be active during scheduled meeting times. You are welcome to participate as actively as you are comfortable. By default, users' cameras and microphones will be switched off, and you may simply watch passively or participate solely by text in the chat box if you are uncomfortable being seen or heard. Please note that while we have selected this platform to be as private as possible while maintaining sufficient ease of use for participants, no online platform is ever fully secure. While all regular TES rules regarding privacy remain in effect, and anyone caught violating these rules will be subject to consequences (please see our Online Meeting Terms of Service), we advise participants to treat online events as though the event is being recorded by a third party. For more information on protecting your online privacy, please see our online privacy guide.

Piercing doesn't have to just been metallic and medical. In this class we will discuss the details around using porcupine quills for piercing play. Class will include safety concerns, how to acquire quills, and techniques for play. A hands-on demo will be included if possible. I am JustRob or just Rob :) I identify with masculine pronouns (he/him). I have been involved in the public community in Jacksonville, FL since 2008. I identify primarily as a Top and a Leatherman, but on occasion, I inhabit the roles of Sadist, Dominant, Leader, Mentor, and Teacher. I lead the committee that runs the local group Alternative Lifestyles Enthusiasts (A.L.E.),. I organize" the weekly Taco Tuesdays event and I am especially passionate about and active in our local polyamory group. My areas of experience are primarily; impact play (everything from fists and palms to whips and everything in between), electricity (specifically the violet wand), and medical play (focused on play piercing and staples). In general, I am a reaction junkie who craves blood and other bodily fluids. Overall, my passion is helping people find their way in this lifestyle and helping those who have already found it to navigate it safely and grow personally. To participate, simply visit https://datingkinky.com/TES-Tuesdays every Tuesday, at 7pm. No additional downloads or software required! This platform is supported by multiple browsers, but if you are having any technical difficulties please try a different browser, as certain settings may interfere. Note that this link will only be active during scheduled meeting times. You are welcome to participate as actively as you are comfortable. By default, users' cameras and microphones will be switched off, and you may simply watch passively or participate solely by text in the chat box if you are uncomfortable being seen or heard. Please note that while we have selected this platform to be as private as possible while maintaining sufficient ease of use for participants, no online platform is ever fully secure. While all regular TES rules regarding privacy remain in effect, and anyone caught violating these rules will be subject to consequences (please see our Online Meeting Terms of Service), we advise participants to treat online events as though the event is being recorded by a third party. For more information on protecting your online privacy, please see our online privacy guide.

Rescheduled from April--The link will be distributed to the membership in advance of the meeting.  If you are a member, did not receive the link on July 1, and would like to participate, please email secretary@tes.org

Information on how to join the meeting will be distributed to the membership in advance.  If you did not receive this information, are a member, and would like to join, please contact tes@tes.org

The traditional images of BDSM and Kink show long lithe bodies with minimal body fat in tiny outfits accentuating muscular sinewy forms. The fact of the matter is that image represents a small percentage of the kink community. There are many who have disabilities, some invisible, others very visible. In addition to our physical limitations, many of us have suffered life traumas that have affected us in a variety of ways. It has recently been realized that many in the general population suffer from post-traumatic stress disorder (PTSD) as a result. How do we deal with our limitations and still enjoy kink and life? How do we help our partners do so? Sir Guy, a 9/11 first responder who himself deals with cancer, depression and other disabilities leads this discussion. I live in a 24/7 Master/slave relationship. I've been active in the scene for over a decade. I am an Emeritus Board Member of The Eulenspiegel Society (TES), Director of MAsT Metro New York, Founder of The Dark Lair: BDSM Support and Education for People of Color, and an Associate Member of ONYX NY/Northeast. He won the International Power Exchange 2013 title. I have presented at MsC several times, Brimstone, TES Fest, The Floating World, LLC, Leather History Preservation Weekend, several MAsT groups, South Jersey Power Exchange, LILNR/LICK and over 30 groups and events. To participate, simply visit https://datingkinky.com/TES-Tuesdays every Tuesday, at 7pm. No additional downloads or software required! This platform is supported by multiple browsers, but if you are having any technical difficulties please try a different browser, as certain settings may interfere. Note that this link will only be active during scheduled meeting times. You are welcome to participate as actively as you are comfortable. By default, users' cameras and microphones will be switched off, and you may simply watch passively or participate solely by text in the chat box if you are uncomfortable being seen or heard. Please note that while we have selected this platform to be as private as possible while maintaining sufficient ease of use for participants, no online platform is ever fully secure. While all regular TES rules regarding privacy remain in effect, and anyone caught violating these rules will be subject to consequences (please see our Online Meeting Terms of Service), we advise participants to treat online events as though the event is being recorded by a third party. For more information on protecting your online privacy, please see our online privacy guide.