• SWs Group: How to Give Good Phone with Robin Wildheart

    Robin Wildheart was hired in 1998 in a phone sex call center. She left for a few months in 2003 on maternity leave, and on returning was promoted to the training department. She stayed there until 2008 when she began her independent career on NiteFlirt, where she has been ever since. In this presentation, Robin will share wisdom from her more than 20 years of experience as a phone sex operator. With insights and tips on both the business side of phone sex and also how to do it well while having fun, this presentation is open to both professionals and non. Doors open at 7, class begins at 7:30. If you will require the elevator, please call ahead: (212) 675-1390. If you will need any assistance accessing our space, please contact us at operations@tes.org. TES Members $5 Students & Military with ID $10 Reciprocal Groups $10 Non-Members $20 Cash Only

  • Novices and Newcomers Munch: Raise a Glass Edition

    Are you new to the scene? New to the NYC area? Looking to get back into the scene after a long layoff? Just want to hang out with some fun and kinky people on a Sat night, in a safe, no pressure atmosphere with knowledgeable people to guide you if needed? Come alone or with partner(s). No admission fee to the munch, just pay for your food and drinks. We’ll be in the upstairs seating area by 7:30PM and then, we’re heading for the Tribute! Party @ the Parth at 9PM. The TES party is optional, but only open to members and their guests or munch attendees. We will be on the second floor of the Bread and Butter Café, located at 419 Park Ave S, New York, NY 10016, on the corner at 29th Street. Please take the time to familiarize yourself with our Munch Code of Conduct before you arrive. We will be headed afterwards to the TES PARTY @ THE PARTH with a special discount….just $30 admission for attendees! Questions? Write us at novice@tes.org.

  • Tribute! A Volunteer-Appreciation Extravaganza

    TES Fest is behind us, regular programming has started back up, and as always, we couldn’t do any of it without our incredible volunteers! So come join us at The Parth on Saturday, August 24th, for Tribute, a celebration of all those who make TES (and TES Fest) possible!!! As our special thank you to all our volunteers at TES Fest and throughout the year, we will be sending out invitations to attend this party free of charge. If you’ve volunteered for us this past year, watch your inbox! All others are invited to attend at our standard rates. Can’t decide what to wear? Fetish-wear is encouraged, but not required, so come in your best leather harness, rainbow hot-pants, or even just basic black- whatever makes you proud! But that’s not all. Join us for our pre-party munch at the Bread and Butter Café from 7:30-9pm. The munch is a GREAT way to meet people in a low-key, non-kinky setting. You'll find more info about it on Fetlife here! **8pm-2am at The Parth** **Free for TES Volunteers (by invitation)** **$25 for TES members, $30 for munch attendees, $35 for other non-members** RSVP on Fetlife  THIS IS AN EXCLUSIVE PARTY. In order to attend this party you must be: * a TES or TES Fest volunteer * a TES member * an affiliate organization member * the guest of any of the above * an attendee of the pre-party munch arriving with the munch leaders If you are not yet a member, please consider becoming one today! to join!!! Please take a moment and familiarize yourself with our . If you have any questions, please contact zero@tes.org Looking for a playdate? Please check out our official playdate thread on Fetlife! Are you a TES member and haven’t volunteered in the last year? Why not start now? New volunteers are welcome to help us work the door, coat check, DM, as well as help with setup and cleanup, so please consider volunteering your time. Those volunteering 1 hour of their time get in for just $10, and those volunteering at least 2 hours get in free! To volunteer, please contact socials@tes.org! Accessibility needs? Please contact socials@tes.org regarding accommodations and we will do our level best to assist you.

  • DW/sm Group – Wax Play: Artistic, Sadistic and Cheaptastic with Miss Simone B

    Originally scheduled for TES Fest, this class was cancelled due to presenter illness. Now, we are pleased to make this class available during our regular yearly programming! This Wax Play class is centered around safety, materials, types of wax play scenes, and negotiations. I include an extensive section on how to find and use everyday style candles or make them yourself in a safe and inexpensive way. I focus on how to safely test and use a variety of candles to avoid burns, including preheated wax. I also emphasize fun, spirituality, and ritual style scenes along with including other forms of kink, like rope, impact etc to form and create wax play scenes. Miss Simone B. is a sadomasochistic switch who has been active in the public kink scene for the last five years or so. Her love of the more extreme has grown with her appreciation of enthusiastic and well educated consent culture. She applies this to not only her lifestyle kink but as a Professional Dominant as well. Doors open at 7, class begins at 7:30. If you will require the elevator, please call ahead: (212) 675-1390. If you will need any assistance accessing our space, please contact us at operations@tes.org. TES Members $5 Students & Military with ID $10 Reciprocal Groups $10 Non-Members $20 Cash Only

  • Hypno Group: Hypnosis and S&M with Mr. Dream & PerfectMonster

    Stay tuned for more info! Doors open at 7, class begins at 7:30. If you will require the elevator, please call ahead: (212) 675-1390. If you will need any assistance accessing our space, please contact us at operations@tes.org. TES Members $5 Students & Military with ID $10 Reciprocal Groups $10 Non-Members $20 Cash Only

  • TES Fest Redux! Mean-eedles with Lady Estrella

    Getting stabbed by a needle will always hurt. This class covers different needling techniques on how to make it hurt even more. >8-) Some chemical play will also be covered. This is a demonstration only class. Attendees should have some needleplay experience and most definitely medically sound space setup, skin prep, and clean up knowledge. Lady Estrella (@plaisirnoir on FetLife) has been unknowingly kinky since she was a little girl. She loves to explore most flavors of kink and is always looking to push her and her partners’ personal edge. Being a sadistic trouble making pain in the… everywhere little kitten princess who makes you suffer is her happy place. She’s also a body piercer and brander trained by Fakir Musafar. Lady Estrella is a member of ClubFEM NYC & TES. She has taught at LIFE in Nassau, ApeX Summer Bash, GKE:NE, Dark Odyssey Summer Fest, TES, EPIC, Wicked Women, SubCon, Iceland’s BDSM community and performed at The Floating World 2014. Doors open at 7, class begins at 7:30. If you will require the elevator, please call ahead: (212) 675-1390. If you will need any assistance accessing our space, please contact us at operations@tes.org. TES Members $5 Students & Military with ID $10 Reciprocal Groups $10 Non-Members $20 Cash Only

  • Bondage Group: TBA

    Stay tuned for more info! Doors open at 7, class begins at 7:30. If you will require the elevator, please call ahead: (212) 675-1390. If you will need any assistance accessing our space, please contact us at operations@tes.org.

  • From The Minds Of Babes – Littles & The Psyche with Morrigan

    Age play can be a fun, healthy, cathartic and even therapeutic activity, bringing joy and playfulness into the ageplayers' lives and relationships. Whatever the reason one is drawn to ageplay, there’s a common desire to seek out and capture the perfect childhood, now. In this workshop, we will take a deeper look at some of the “building blocks” and psychology behind this topic. We’ll also address and debunk some of the most common, and maybe some uncommon myths surrounding age play with a fun and entertaining game! From pageant winner to kinky sinner, this former Girl Scout and girl-next-door from New Jersey has been stirring up the scene for the better part of a decade. Since 2012, Morrigan has been a staff member for Conduit Enterprises (New Jersey’s premiere monthly sex-positive kink/fetish/BDSM party). She’s the founder of Conduit’s “Little Sparks” and a co-leader for Conduit’s festival and camp collective presence. Known for her penchant for prosecco, and her over-the-top, extra AF party planning and production, this classy bitch is the mastermind behind events such as THUNDERFOAM! and Midnight Margaritas. As an age player, Morrigan is an advocate for learning to let go and embracing vulnerability without shame through consensual play associated with reconnection with lost innocence. With her infectious laugh, her vibrant squeals from excitement, and her twisted ideas of fun, she might just make you suffer from cute aggression, or she might get you to walk her Lego™ walk of fire. When in doubt, little out! Doors open at 7, class begins at 7:30. If you will require the elevator, please call ahead: (212) 675-1390. If you will need any assistance accessing our space, please contact us at operations@tes.org. TES Members $10 Students & Military with ID $15 Reciprocal Groups $15 Non-Members $25 Cash Only

  • Kinky Board Game Social

    Come and enjoy some gaming with your fellow kinky gamers! Bring your favorite board game to share! Doors open at 7, games begin at 7:30. If you will require the elevator, please call ahead: (212) 675-1390. If you will need any assistance accessing our space, please contact us at operations@tes.org.

  • DW/sm Group – Slave Skills: an exchange about essential skills for submissively inclined folx

    What makes service work? Equipped with a diverse toolbox and versatile majordomo expertise, Slave Gaius will share the skills and tactics they've gleaned from their years as a Head Slave. This presentation will cover some of the physical, mental, and emotional skills that they've found to be the most useful while in service to Verseria, as an integral part of the Hive, an O/s polyamorous household in the Hudson Valley. Slave Gaius has been a Head Slave for the last seven years and has been in service for much longer than that. He is also a NYS EMT with a dozen years of experience. His interests in the kink lifestyle include service, latex/rubber, bondage, single tail whips and making affordable toys. Outside of kink he is currently a farmer in NYS and tries to practice the theory of kaizen (continuous improvement) in all aspects of his work. ________________________________ Doors open at 7, class begins at 7:30. If you will require the elevator, please call ahead: (212) 675-1390. If you will need any assistance accessing our space, please contact us at operations@tes.org. ________________________________ The TES DW/sm SIG prioritizes people who identify as femme dominants/tops or masc. submissives/bottoms. Switches, as well as those who do not identify as the prioritized group but who wish to learn more, are welcome, but please remember to respect the dynamics of the the space. Our group also welcomes the disabled and those living with physical impairments and/or chronic pain. Although this group encourages consensual participation, all are welcome to observe without obligation to participate.