Events

If you’ve been to any public dungeon or play party, you’ve heard it a thousand times. “Please Mistress, may I touch your feet!” And yet everywhere there are tops and Dom(mes,) yearning for great massage service, prefering to go untouched then suffer another abysmal service massage. Furthermore, a communal lack of skill in the art of bodywork doesn't just affect the service-oriented quotient of kinksters. How often have you heard “I'm not warmed up enough for that tie” or “I'm having a hard time coming down” or “I'm really droppy after that convention...” These situations might seem like par for the course--a hazard of doing what we do. Or, to the initiated, the perfect time to use a bit of cocoa butter, and get in there with both hands. No matter your role, gender or other fetishes, this class is designed for you to help you get better at using your hands to touch people. Louis (DanceInMyPants) is a sex educator by trade, a consent nerd by calling, and the kinky boy next door. Louis is a polyamorus trans dude, a massage enthusiast, a sadomasochist and a proud switch. He's been rubbing feet and taking names since 2011. Out of kink, he's a born and bred Brooklynite, a witch, a lover of spreadsheets, a writer of smut, and plays a ton of Dungeons and Dragons. Novice & Newcomers classes are open to all, but accessible to those who are new to the scene, the subject, or the area. Experienced members of the community are welcome and encouraged to attend. Doors open at 7, class begins at 7:30. If you will require the elevator, please call ahead: (212) 675-1390.

In this class, Anya Demure will discuss important bottoming skills such as body awareness, communication, and vetting. She will also touch on physical and emotional aspects of safety before, after, and during a scene. This class is for tops, bottoms, and switches alike! These skills are valuable for everyone, so come one come all! In addition to the discussion, there will be a hands on portion where we practice some of these skills, so if you wish to participate, please bring a partner who can tie you, and some rope! If you don't have a partner, you can still practice on yourself. Doors open at 7, class begins at 7:30. If you will require the elevator, please call ahead: (212) 675-1390. TES Members $5 Students & Military with ID $10 Reciprocal Groups $10 Non-Members $20 Cash Only

Are you a cunning linguist? This class is for those who want to improve their tongue game as well as those who want to learn how to receive a good licking. Vonka will demystify going down on innie bits/vulvas in addition to the mental and emotional elements of eating out. You’re gunna lick it. @Vonka is a fierce feline femme Bluenette sadist from Dirty Jersey. She is passionate about communication and the sharing of knowledge so that we can all both do better and be better. This is what draws her to educate as well as facilitate safe spaces. In addition to organizing the largest and longest running monthly play parties in NJ with Conduit Enterprises, Vonka is a NJTNG moderator and a regular presenter at House of Scorpio in NY. Outside of the dungeon, you can usually find her performing Burlesque across the North Eastern U.S. or gracing the screens of your technical devices with her modeling and fetish work. TES Members $5 Students & Military with ID $10 Reciprocal Groups $10 Non-Members $20 Cash Only Doors open at 7, class begins at 7:30 If you will require the elevator, please call ahead: (212) 675-1390

What do you do when you're a masochist, but don't consent to the physical pain brought on by your own body? How can you feel comfortable in your submissive role when you feel like you can't serve to the best of your ability? Or dominate when you're in too much pain to move? Developing a chronic physical illness can be challenging for anybody, but it may be especially challenging in our context. This class will focus on what it is like to have a chronic physical illness while in the kink community. We will discuss how limits/negotiation might change, how to fulfill your kinky needs, and learning how to accept this new part of you and integrate it into new or existing dynamics. KinseyStarr is a 27 year old breast cancer survivor who has been an active member of the New York scene for over three years. She is the co-founder of the Society of Switches (SOS) and the Switch Munch. Kinsey has taught a SSASE class on non-monogamy and has been on panels for subjects such as bratting, ethical non-monogamy, and running a munch. In the past two years, Kinsey has had six surgeries on various part of her body and six rounds of chemotherapy. She has gained a great deal of firsthand experience figuring out new limits and learning to love her new body and scars. Doors open at 7, class begins at 7:30. If you will require the elevator, please call ahead: (212) 675-1390. TES Members $5 Students & Military with ID $10 Reciprocal Groups $10 Non-Members $20 Cash Only

Amongst all these delectable activities we engage in, acts of sadism in their various forms are among the most popular and diverse means with which we express ourselves, provoke reactions and get our rocks off. In this class, Sasori will cover his favorite brands of sadistic play, including pressure points, hand based impact, and body manipulation. We will cover the concept of each type of play, basic technique, risks involved, and negotiation considerations. This is a hands on class so if possible bring a partner who is comfortable with sadistic play, no equipment is required or used in this class. If you don't have a partner to learn with, feel free to come observe! Doors open at 7, class begins at 7:30. If you will require the elevator, please call ahead: (212) 675-1390

Open and free to all current members with membership card. If you will require the elevator, please call ahead: (212) 675-1390.

Want to explore rope, but confused by all the apparent complexity? Scared by the possible risks of this style of play? In this fast paced workshop, learn the basics of safe rope bondage. and go home and have safe erotic play - today! This class, designed for newcomers to rope as well as kink, goes into the basics of safety, levels of risk, negotiation, consent, single column ties, and connection. Everyone ties/is tied! Participants leave feeling empowered and excited, with the knowledge to continue exploring rope! TES Members $5 Students & Military with ID $10 Reciprocal Groups $10 Non-Members $20 Cash Only Doors open at 7, class begins at 7:30 If you will require the elevator, please call ahead: (212) 675-1390

"I don’t think I was really in trance." "But I was still able to move my arm." "I’m a really difficult subject." "I guess I just can’t be hypnotized." Most of us have heard these sentiments, from our subjects or friends or even our own brains. This kind of thinking can lead to, at best, self-doubt, and at worst, someone deciding that hypno just isn’t for them. How can we as ‘tists make sure that our subjects have a successful and empowering trance experience, and come away from it knowing that hypnosis is a thing that they can do?  In this class, we’ll explore this very question, and discuss the things that ‘tists can do to help their subjects succeed. Some of the topics we'll cover: pre-talk and negotiation; safety; choosing the right inductions and triggers; and how to respond when your subject says, "That didn’t work!" Subject-inclined folks are more than welcome as well: we would love to hear your thoughts on these questions! And if you feel like a quote-unquote difficult subject, we hope we can give you a new perspective! Doors open at 7, class begins at 7:30 TES Members $5 Students & Military with ID $10 Reciprocal Groups $10 Non-Members $20 Cash Only Please call ahead if you will need elevator access: (212) 675-1390

Join Ramon for a beginners intensive on single-tail whips. Learn to wield and control the majestic and sublime Cadillac of BDSM toys. We’ll discuss materials, vendors, and resources for this simple, yet versatile method of inducing pain, as well as whip care, maintenance, and storage. You’ll learn various single handed methods for throwing your whip, from beginner to more advanced. You’ll also learn how to vary your pace, power, and speed for maximum effect. Class materials: Your own whip. (We highly recommend using your TES Membership card to take advantage of your membership discount with our affiliated whip vendors.) Ramon is an active member of the NYC BDSM scene and involved with various organizations including TES, where he is an Emeritus Board member as well as a class presenter. In his spare time, Ramon designs and fabricates custom metal BDSM equipment and furniture. He particularly enjoys using whips to cause pain and tears. Doors open at 7, class begins at 7:30 TES Members $5 Students & Military with ID $10 Reciprocal Groups $10 Non-Members $20 Cash Only Please call ahead if you will need elevator access: (212) 675-1390

Are you considering starting to teach kink classes for the first time? Are you an experienced presenter, but want to try out a brand new class for the first time? Are you new to the area but a seasoned educator and want to get your name out there? Are you ANY of these three things and interested in teaching for TES Fest? Come participate in this TED-Talks-style workshop event! 6 new, new to the area, or new to the subject presenters will have 10-15 minutes to present a mini class for the chance to be selected as a presenter for TES Fest this coming July 4th Weekend! To apply to participate, email odile@tes.org with the name you would like to appear on our website, the title of the class, and a BRIEF description. Not interested in presenting? Come check out new ideas from new faces and get a sneak peek at what you might see at TES Fest! Doors open at 7, class begins at 7:30. If you will require the elevator, please call ahead: (212) 675-1390. TES Members $5 Students & Military with ID $10 Reciprocal Groups $10 Non-Members $20 Cash Only