Good Evening, Your mission, should you choose to accept it, is to locate and enjoy a night of covert debauchery. It’s time to come in from the cold, and join us at The Parth on Saturday, January 26th, for a night of sexy spy vs spy, code name: Espionage a Trois. Costumes and fetish-wear are encouraged, but not required, so don your finest evening-wear, catsuits, and trenchcoats! But that’s not all. Join us for our pre-party munch at the Bread and Butter Café from 7:30-9pm. The munch is a GREAT way to meet people in a low-key, non-kinky setting. You'll find more info about it here! 8pm-2am at The Parth $25 for TES members, $30 for munch attendees, $35 for other non-members RSVP on Fetlife THIS IS AN EXCLUSIVE PARTY. In order to attend this party you must be: a TES member the guest of a TES member an affiliate organization member the guest of an affiliate organization member an attendee of the pre-party munch arriving with the munch leaders If you are not yet a member, please consider becoming one today! Click here to join!!! Please take a moment and familiarize yourself with our party rules. If you have any questions, please contact zero@tes.org Looking for a playdate? Please check out our official playdate thread on Fetlife! As always, TES is a volunteer-based organization, and great events like this can’t happen without you! We need volunteers to work the door, coat check, DM, as well as help with setup and cleanup, so please consider volunteering your time. Those volunteering 1 hour of their time get in for just $10, and those volunteering at least 2 hours get in free! To volunteer, please contact Zero at zero@tes.org! Accessibility needs? Please contact zero@tes.org regarding accommodations. This post will self-destruct in five seconds.

Are you new to the kink scene and thinking about how to draw the line between your kink and vanilla life? Are you an experienced kinkster concerned about how your kink or sexual life could affect your work, future career or family? In the kink scene, protecting your privacy is a priority. However, in the age of social media and google, it's easier said than done. This class will cover the topic of kink identity, what it means, how to protect it, and ways to mitigate the effects if your privacy is violated. We'll be using the same techniques used in computer and network security as well as techniques used to protect political dissonants and activists and apply them to the kink/fetish/sex-positive/poly and leather communities. Whatever your experience is, this is a subject that you can benefit from! YOU DO NOT NEED TO BE TECH SAVVY TO BENEFIT FROM THIS CLASS. TES Members $5 Students & Military with ID $10 Reciprocal Groups $10 Non-Members $20 Cash Only Doors open at 7, class begins at 7:30. If you will require the elevator, please call ahead: (212) 675-1390

Fractionation is a well known hypnotic technique, both in the therapeutic and erotic hypnosis communities. People use it for improving the ability for the subject to enter into deep trance more quickly. It is also a way to create specific experiences related to control, the power to bring someone into a state and out of it generating feelings of power exchange. This class will delve into how fractionation works, and explore different techniques to facilitate many different aspects of the phenomenon. By breaking down the concepts of induction, awakening, awakeness, and the experience of trance states both as subjective and contextual, we can redefine both the methods and processes of hypnosis. Fractionation as a transition between two contrasting states provides us with a more general approach towards exploring mental states, hypnotic phenomenon, emotion, intimacy and sex. In addition we will discuss the ways we can visualize the narrative of a hypnotic scene and how the trance state can be charted through the various elements of play. Visual aids will be used to help explain some core concepts and novel approaches to creating unique and dynamic scenes based on Fractionation. This class is intended for all levels of experience. Doors open at 7, class begins at 7:30 TES Members $5 Students & Military with ID $10 Reciprocal Groups $10 Non-Members $20 Cash Only Please call ahead if you will need elevator access: (212) 675-1390

Whether doing pick-up play or playing as part of a long distance relationship, useful self-care in the days, and sometimes even weeks, after an intense scene or weekend can be a challenge. Without the help of a partner, it can be a bit overwhelming to be the one in charge of putting yourself back together again. After years of being both in a long distance relationship and refusing to give up the intense play she loves, Madeline has picked up more than a few tips and tricks on self-aftercare. This class will focus on preparation, wound care, nutrition, and psychology to help get your back on your feet and ready to take on the next big scene. Madeline is a trained scientists who loves to use her analytical mind and love of learning both in the bedroom and the dungeon. For the past 15 years, she has been very active in the Chicago, Minneapolis/St. Paul and New York communities, helping to run BDSM organizations, assisting with large-scale events, and teaching classes on various edge play techniques. After winning the Leather title of International Little Miss Little in 2011, she retired from the stressful pageant circuit to pursue teaching. Madeline can be found on Fetlife at saltygoodness. Doors open at 7, class begins at 7:30. If you will require the elevator, please call ahead: (212) 675-1390.

If you’ve been to any public dungeon or play party, you’ve heard it a thousand times. “Please Mistress, may I touch your feet!” And yet everywhere there are tops and Dom(mes,) yearning for great massage service, prefering to go untouched then suffer another abysmal service massage. Furthermore, a communal lack of skill in the art of bodywork doesn't just affect the service-oriented quotient of kinksters. How often have you heard “I'm not warmed up enough for that tie” or “I'm having a hard time coming down” or “I'm really droppy after that convention...” These situations might seem like par for the course--a hazard of doing what we do. Or, to the initiated, the perfect time to use a bit of cocoa butter, and get in there with both hands. No matter your role, gender or other fetishes, this class is designed for you to help you get better at using your hands to touch people. Louis (DanceInMyPants) is a sex educator by trade, a consent nerd by calling, and the kinky boy next door. Louis is a polyamorus trans dude, a massage enthusiast, a sadomasochist and a proud switch. He's been rubbing feet and taking names since 2011. Out of kink, he's a born and bred Brooklynite, a witch, a lover of spreadsheets, a writer of smut, and plays a ton of Dungeons and Dragons. Novice & Newcomers classes are open to all, but accessible to those who are new to the scene, the subject, or the area. Experienced members of the community are welcome and encouraged to attend. Doors open at 7, class begins at 7:30. If you will require the elevator, please call ahead: (212) 675-1390.

In this class, Anya Demure will discuss important bottoming skills such as body awareness, communication, and vetting. She will also touch on physical and emotional aspects of safety before, after, and during a scene. This class is for tops, bottoms, and switches alike! These skills are valuable for everyone, so come one come all! In addition to the discussion, there will be a hands on portion where we practice some of these skills, so if you wish to participate, please bring a partner who can tie you, and some rope! If you don't have a partner, you can still practice on yourself. Doors open at 7, class begins at 7:30. If you will require the elevator, please call ahead: (212) 675-1390. TES Members $5 Students & Military with ID $10 Reciprocal Groups $10 Non-Members $20 Cash Only

Are you a cunning linguist? This class is for those who want to improve their tongue game as well as those who want to learn how to receive a good licking. Vonka will demystify going down on innie bits/vulvas in addition to the mental and emotional elements of eating out. You’re gunna lick it. @Vonka is a fierce feline femme Bluenette sadist from Dirty Jersey. She is passionate about communication and the sharing of knowledge so that we can all both do better and be better. This is what draws her to educate as well as facilitate safe spaces. In addition to organizing the largest and longest running monthly play parties in NJ with Conduit Enterprises, Vonka is a NJTNG moderator and a regular presenter at House of Scorpio in NY. Outside of the dungeon, you can usually find her performing Burlesque across the North Eastern U.S. or gracing the screens of your technical devices with her modeling and fetish work. TES Members $5 Students & Military with ID $10 Reciprocal Groups $10 Non-Members $20 Cash Only Doors open at 7, class begins at 7:30 If you will require the elevator, please call ahead: (212) 675-1390

What do you do when you're a masochist, but don't consent to the physical pain brought on by your own body? How can you feel comfortable in your submissive role when you feel like you can't serve to the best of your ability? Or dominate when you're in too much pain to move? Developing a chronic physical illness can be challenging for anybody, but it may be especially challenging in our context. This class will focus on what it is like to have a chronic physical illness while in the kink community. We will discuss how limits/negotiation might change, how to fulfill your kinky needs, and learning how to accept this new part of you and integrate it into new or existing dynamics. KinseyStarr is a 27 year old breast cancer survivor who has been an active member of the New York scene for over three years. She is the co-founder of the Society of Switches (SOS) and the Switch Munch. Kinsey has taught a SSASE class on non-monogamy and has been on panels for subjects such as bratting, ethical non-monogamy, and running a munch. In the past two years, Kinsey has had six surgeries on various part of her body and six rounds of chemotherapy. She has gained a great deal of firsthand experience figuring out new limits and learning to love her new body and scars. Doors open at 7, class begins at 7:30. If you will require the elevator, please call ahead: (212) 675-1390. TES Members $5 Students & Military with ID $10 Reciprocal Groups $10 Non-Members $20 Cash Only

Amongst all these delectable activities we engage in, acts of sadism in their various forms are among the most popular and diverse means with which we express ourselves, provoke reactions and get our rocks off. In this class, Sasori will cover his favorite brands of sadistic play, including pressure points, hand based impact, and body manipulation. We will cover the concept of each type of play, basic technique, risks involved, and negotiation considerations. This is a hands on class so if possible bring a partner who is comfortable with sadistic play, no equipment is required or used in this class. If you don't have a partner to learn with, feel free to come observe! Doors open at 7, class begins at 7:30. If you will require the elevator, please call ahead: (212) 675-1390

Open and free to all current members with membership card. If you will require the elevator, please call ahead: (212) 675-1390.