Consider the state of mind you need to be in to have a good hypnotic scene? Surely some such states come to mind. Think about the overall feel and energy that scene needs to have, the way that the environment transforms if only in the smallest ways. What do these considerations do to make a scene better? What do they potentially limit. In this presentation and open conversation we’ll be exploring atmosphere, the overarching tone and feel of our inductions, suggestions and presentation. Attendees will leave with a good deal to think about and if we put our minds to it even more to practice. This class is open to all skill levels. Doors open at 7, class starts at 7:30 TES Members $5 Students & Military with ID $10 Reciprocal Groups $10 Non-Members $20 Cash Only

Free and open to all members with a current membership card or number. If you will need elevator access, please call ahead: (212) 675-1390

D/s? M/s? S&M? ABDL? Are you discovering kink, but find the alphabet soup of terms confusing? Do you have a wild hair to try something, but you're not quite sure what? Does communicating these interests to a partner sound intimidating? Do you wonder just how deep the rabbit hole goes? If this sounds like you, worry no more, because this class is for you. In this 101 class, we'll cover what BDSM is (and isn't!), explain all those abbreviations, and show you how to get started for success. This class is geared towards those who are new to kink and BDSM but open to all experience levels. Come with an open mind, with or without a partner, and expect nothing more than to hear some information about BDSM. We'll provide plenty of time for questions, so come curious! PLEASE NOTE: TES does not permit recording of any kind at any TES functions; all phones must be put away during the class. You may take hand-written notes if you wish. TES Members $5 Students & Military with ID $10 Reciprocal Groups $10 Non-Members $20 Cash Only Doors open at 7, class begins at 7:30. If you will require the elevator, please call ahead: (212) 675-1390

What better time to draw a model than when they are in bondage? The model is focused and excited, they can’t move (much), the ropes and other ties make for dramatic lines and unusual poses. Join Master Fine Arse and greg1113 for a fun evening of art making. They will guide you through getting down on paper the sight and feel of the caress of the bonds, and give you tools to take back to your own dungeon. People of all artistic abilities are welcome. Please bring art materials or $5 to contribute towards supplies in addition to the class fee. Creations will be considered for publication (with consent) in Prometheus! All those who wish to offer their work to Prometheus must sign a consent form along with the model. Doors open at 7, class begins at 7:30 TES Members $5 Students & Military with ID $10 Reciprocal Groups $10 Non-Members $20 Cash Only Please call ahead if you will need elevator access: (212) 675-1390

In this partner-oriented workshop, we’ll introduce some exercises and practices from yoga that can improve our connection and fun while tying. We’ll be discussing connection, flow, mindfulness and breathing. Tops are expected to be able to tie a single column tie without looking while tying. Please bring at least 2 lengths of 6mm (¼”) rope 25’-30’ in length and a yoga mat (can be shared by partners) or a heavy towel to help cushion your knees. Loose, comfortable clothes that you can move in (or strip down). TES Members $5 Students & Military with ID $10 Reciprocal Groups $10 Non-Members $20 Cash Only Doors open at 7, class begins at 7:30. If you will require the elevator, please call ahead: (212) 675-1390

A panel discussion on the perspective of gender as a spectrum and some of the issues that those on various points in the spectrum may encounter. In this discussion we will have a panel for people to ask and answer questions surrounding the topics of different gender identifications. How they interact with gender roles and sexuality. As well as some common issues that arise as a result. Attendees are encouraged to come with questions/input. This discussion is meant to be an interactive exchange between consenting adults. This discussion is intended to be a safe space to ask questions and share experiences. Infinity is a gender fluid switch that has been in and out of the public scene over the last 10+ years. They have also taught classes and done presentations and demonstrations for a variety of groups including Dark Odyssey, Stu with medio 58, TES, SCK, and CiniKink. TES Members $5 Students & Military with ID $10 Reciprocal Groups $10 Non-Members $20 Cash Only Doors open at 7, class begins at 7:30. If you will require the elevator, please call ahead: (212) 675-1390

Free and open to all members with a current membership card or number. If you will need elevator access, please call ahead: (212) 675-1390

So you're interested in power-exchange… Now what? This lecture is about the foundations and skills necessary to successfully create and/or better develop power exchange relationships. Topics included in the discussion will be how to lay the foundations for your “house”, modalities to use as primers, and shared experiences. This is intended to be an interactive lecture with audience participation, to help both sides of the slash on their personal journeys. Ramon is an active member of the NYC BDSM scene and involved with various organizations including TES, where he is an Emeritus Board member as well as a class presenter. In his spare time, Ramon designs and fabricates custom metal BDSM equipment and furniture. He particularly enjoys rope bondage, fire play, single tails, and making pretty girls cry. TES Members $5 Students & Military with ID $10 Reciprocal Groups $10 Non-Members $20 Cash Only Doors open at 7, class begins at 7:30. If you will require the elevator, please call ahead: (212) 675-1390

Ever wanted to get into wrestling play but we're sure where to start? Want to throw down with friends at a party, but aren't sure how to avoid potentially-injurious maneuvers? Need a few moves to muddle your way through as an absolute novice?  We've got a workshop that could help with that! How to get started in Submission Wrestling, a full-body-entanglement sport where partners lock up, grapple for control, and attempt to make each other surrender by using "submission holds."   Geared specifically toward absolute novices, this workshop will provide newcomers with a set of basic tactics and techniques that allows them to hit the mats right away. - Safety concerns: How to play rough while minimizing risk - Objectives of the game: Positions and Submissions - How to start a match: Ways to Engage while starting on the mats - Basic attacks and defenses This is a participatory workshop wherein attendees can work in pairs to learn and practice basic grips and body positioning techniques, both standing and on the mats.  However, participation is NOT required, and attendees may simply observe, if they prefer.  Technique practice only; there will be no live sparring during this workshop.  Comfortable athletic-ish attire is recommended if you choose to participate. Presenters: Diablo has been practicing submission wrestling for over a decade.  He facilitates an LGBTQ grappling club in Brooklyn and trains regularly to continue learning and evolving in the sport.  He got his official start in wrestling by throwing down at a fetish party in 2005, and he is invested in helping to make rough play adventures as safe as possible. VeVe Lane is a professional fetish wrestler who has also been practicing submission wrestling for over a decade.  She will be assisting Diablo during this workshop. Doors open at 7, class starts at 7:30 TES Members $5 Students & Military with ID $10 Reciprocal Groups $10 Non-Members $20 Cash Only If you will need elevator access, please call ahead: (212) 675-1390

Are you new to the scene? New to the NYC area? Looking to get back into the scene after a long layoff? Just want to hang out with some fun and kinky people on a Sat night, in a safe, no pressure atmosphere with knowledgeable people to guide you if needed? Come alone or with partner(s). No dress code. No admission fee to the munch, just pay for your food and drinks. We’ll be in the upstairs seating area by 7:30PM and then, we’re heading for the Espionage a Trois Play Party @ the Parth at 9PM. The TES party is optional, but only open to members and their guests or munch attendees. We will be on the second floor of the Bread and Butter Café, located at 419 Park Ave S, New York, NY 10016, on the corner at 29th Street. Here are the Do’s and Do Not’s of the Munch: DO’s Be friendly and courteous to each other. It is OK to ask each others’ scene names, roles, and fetishes. If you do not have a scene name/ Fetlife handle, have a pseudonym. Get permission before touching someone else’s belongings. Get permission before touching someone else. It is OK to drink responsibly at the munch. Respect others’ privacy. DO NOT’s Do NOT ask attendees their personal information (real name, middle name, last name, where they live, work, breed, go to school or favorite Starbucks location). Do NOT touch others without their permission. Do NOT touch others’ belongings without their permission. Do NOT get intoxicated before or during the munch. You will be told to go home. Do NOT kink shame. Sometimes someone else’s kink is not yours. Appreciate their differences. Do NOT bring outside food or beverages to the munch. Do NOT take pictures or videos during the munch. We prefer to maintain an environment of anonymity. Do NOT ask attendees their personal information (real name, middle name, last name, where they live, work, go to school, where they grew up, etc). We will be headed afterwards to the TES PARTY @ THE PARTH with a special discount….just $30 admission for attendees! Questions? Write us at novice@tes.org.