Are you new to the scene? New to the NYC area? Looking to get back into the scene after a long layoff? Just want to hang out with some fun and kinky people on a Sat night, in a safe, no pressure atmosphere with knowledgeable people to guide you if needed? Come alone or with partner(s). No dress code. No admission fee to the munch, just pay for your food and drinks. We’ll be in the upstairs seating area by 7:30PM and then, we’re heading for the Spanksgiving Play Party @ the Parth at 9PM. The TES party is optional, but only open to members and their guests or munch attendees. We will be on the second floor of the Bread and Butter Café, located at 419 Park Ave S, New York, NY 10016, on the corner at 29th Street. Here are the Do’s and Do Not’s of the Munch: DO’s Be friendly and courteous to each other. It is OK to ask each others’ scene names, roles, and fetishes. If you do not have a scene name/ Fetlife handle, have a pseudonym. Get permission before touching someone else’s belongings. Get permission before touching someone else. It is OK to drink responsibly at the munch. Respect others’ privacy. DO NOT’s Do NOT ask attendees their personal information (real name, middle name, last name, where they live, work, breed, go to school or favorite Starbucks location). Do NOT touch others without their permission. Do NOT touch others’ belongings without their permission. Do NOT get intoxicated before or during the munch. You will be told to go home. Do NOT kink shame. Sometimes someone else’s kink is not yours. Appreciate their differences. Do NOT bring outside food or beverages to the munch. Do NOT take pictures or videos during the munch. We prefer to maintain an environment of anonymity. Do NOT ask attendees their personal information (real name, middle name, last name, where they live, work, go to school, where they grew up, etc). We will be headed afterwards to the TES PARTY @ THE PARTH with a special discount….just $30 admission for attendees! Questions? Write us at novice@tes.org.

It’s that time of year again. The time to gather with the people who matter most, and reflect on what we’re most thankful for. And no question about it, we’re most thankful for our volunteers! So come join us at The Parth on Saturday, November 17th, for Spanksgiving, a celebration of all those who make TES (and TES Fest) possible!!! As our special thank you to all our volunteers at TES Fest and throughout the year, we will be sending out invitations to attend this party free of charge. So if you’ve volunteered for us this past year, watch your inbox! All others are invited to attend at our standard rates. But that’s not all. Join us for our pre-party munch at the Bread and Butter Café from 7:30-9pm. The munch is a GREAT way to meet people in a low-key, non-kinky setting. You'll find more info about it here! 8pm-2am at The Parth $25 for TES members, $30 for munch attendees, $35 for other non-members More Info RSVP on Fetlife THIS IS AN EXCLUSIVE PARTY. In order to attend this party you must be: a TES or TES Fest volunteer a TES member the guest of a TES member an affiliate organization member the guest of an affiliate organization member an attendee of the pre-party munch arriving with the munch leaders If you are not yet a member, please consider becoming one today! Click here to join!!! Please take a moment and familiarize yourself with our party rules. If you have any questions, please contact zero@tes.org Looking for a playdate? Please check out our official playdate thread on Fetlife! Accessibility needs? Please contact zero@tes.org regarding accommodations.

This class looks at the instruments of torture that lie within your kitchen cabinet. Fresh from exploring some legendary tropical spice gardens and markets, Rati is delighted to share with you the sadomasochistic pleasures of spices. We'll go over: - the advantages (and drawbacks) of using spices in kinky play, - the qualities of different spices, - the range of sensations they can invoke when applied to genitals or other sensitive bits--from gentle tingling to searing anguish, - ways to amplify these sensations, and - ideas for incorporating spices into play. For a true appreciation of spices though, it's important to experience them firsthand. You'll have the opportunity in class to test out the spices on yourself--or on another poor soul--should you wish. You won't look at the spice aisle of your grocery store the same way again. Doors open at 7, class starts at 7:30 TES Members $5 Students & Military with ID $10 Reciprocal Groups $10 Non-Members $20 Cash Only

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Pre- Requisite- It would be helpful if you already knew how to tie a Karada but it will be reviewed at the beginning of class. TES' Bondage group is pleased to welcome back Jakel for another rendition of Rough Body Rope! You might ask what is Rough Body Rope? Well, Rough Body Rope is exactly what it sounds like: rough body play and rope play smashed together. You might think carabiners are just for suspension, but in this class Jakal will teach you how to take a nice, beautiful, comfortable Karada, add a hand full of carabiners and your sadistic mind and suddenly transform this tie into something way more fun (and painful) than it was ever meant to be. Please bring 3-30 Foot lengths of whatever type of rope you like to tie with and at least 4-6 carabineers (some loner carabineers will be available). This class is intended for partners but we will try and pair single rope tops/bottoms up at the beginning of class. TES Members $5 Students & Military with ID $10 Reciprocal Groups $10 Non-Members $20 Cash Only Doors open at 7, class starts at 7:30

This class takes an up-close look at one of the most basic inductions and demonstration techniques to enhance efficacy. Attendees will discuss skills in establishing rapport, identifying opportunities in the pre and post-talks, and analyzing the basic sections of the Elman induction to see how to get the most out of it the first time around. MrTaqtiks- is a certified hypnotist, was a founding member of the Charmed Hypnosis conference, and currently helps to run the Black Rose Hypnosis Special Interest Group (Washington, DC area). He has presented at multiple events including BlackBEAT, Weekend Reunion, TES, Black Rose, Tawse Manor (New Zealand) and many others. As a member of the erotic hypnosis community he works to promote positive consent, risk aware practices, inclusivity, and community development. TES Members $5 Students & Military with ID $10 Reciprocal Groups $10 Non-Members $20 Cash Only Doors open at 7, class starts at 7:30

Free and open to all TES members with a valid membership card.

Makeup holds a place of power in our society - a symbol of high femme, often considered transgressive for cis men, and a wickedly useful tool for gender fuckery and gender transformation. Come learn from a professional makeup artist how to use these paints and potions to best advantage, whether your goal is to perform high femme, transform your gender presentation (or someone else's!), or just fuck with the binary! Doors open at 7, class starts at 7:30 TES Members $5 Students & Military with ID $10 Reciprocal Groups $10 Non-Members $20 Cash Only

Do you feel like you're on auto pilot during impact play? In this class we'll be discussing: The choices we don't know we're making during our impact scenes. How both physical and mental factors can influence the longevity of your scene. The importance of mindfulness, and being in the moment during your scene. Rein has experience as a top, bottom, sadist, and as a masochist. If you want a 360° view of impact, this is your chance! Doors open at 7, class starts at 7:30 TES Members $5 Students & Military with ID $10 Reciprocal Groups $10 Non-Members $20 Cash Only

Over the last year, many changes in the legal landscape that affect members of sexual minorities have occurred. While individual laws and policies appear to affect only one community, such as sex workers, the LGBTQIA community, or the kink community, they are each only pieces of a bigger picture that affects EVERYONE - including YOU. This is a time for alternative sexuality communities to come together and support each other. Come hear from members of these different communities about their experiences, what is being done to protect the rights of sexual minorities, how you might be affected, and what you can do to help. Panelists: Ceyenne Doroshow is the founder of GLITS and author of "Cooking in Heels". She currently sits on four boards for national and international LGBTQ and sex worker rights organizations. At the intersection of sex education and creativity is where you will find multiracial pansexual genderqueer professional dominant, Mistress/Master Leigh. They are an international LGBTQIAP and sex worker rights’ advocate/organizer, community-based sex researcher/educator, filmmaker/performer, martial artist/fetish wrestler, an alternative sex media consultant, and a professional dominant who does fetish work as both male and female. Melissa Sontag Broudo, JD/MPH, is General Counsel/ RI Coordinator of Decriminalize Sex Work. She is also the Co Director of the SOAR Institute, a group advocating for sex workers' rights, and has been an activist in the sex workers rights movement for over 15 years. Crystal DeBoise, LCSW, is a licensed psychotherapist and the Outreach Director/NH Coordinator of the new organization Decriminalize Sex Work. She is also the Co Director of the SOAR Institute, a group advocating for the rights of sex workers, and is a leading policy and social service expert on issues relating to sex work and human trafficking. Aurora Labelle (moderator) is a professional dominatrix, classically trained soprano, and sexual freedom activist. She volunteers heavily with @TES-NYC and organizations that work to protect and advance the rights of sex workers, the LGBTQIA community, the kink community, and other marginalized populations. In her spare time (ha), she enjoys blues and contra dancing and kittens. Doors open at 7, class starts at 7:30 TES Members $5 Students & Military with ID $10 Reciprocal Groups $10 Non-Members $20 Cash Only