Events

Come join the TES Writers Group to share work and discuss creative writing for kink!

Join us for an evening where we talk about what s-types look for in Dominants, how the D/s or M/s dynamic is maintained, and what particular challenges are being faced.

Join Master Fine Arse for a fun evening of kinky live drawing and art making.

Happy holiday!

So you and someone(s) else want to scene? Now what? If you've ever been at a loss for how to negotiate, this workshop is for you. We will explore how to negotiate ethically and effectively. This class will focus on the concepts of consent, vetting, strategies for negotiating, topics to cover during negotiation, and common pitfalls. Novice and Newcomers classes are geared towards those with less experience in the NYC BDSM scene, but they are open to anyone! TES Members $5 Students & Military with ID $10 Reciprocal Groups $10 Non-Members $20 Cash Only

Free and open to all members with a current ID card. Come hear what the board is working on, offer feedback/suggestions, or volunteer to help out!

Come join the TES Writers Group to share work and discuss creative writing for kink! TES Members $5 Students & Military with ID $10 Reciprocal Groups $10 Non-Members $20 Cash Only

In this novice level class, we'll examine the tricks and techniques that are unique to Japanese-style Shibari and move from basic western techniques to the flowing aesthetics of Shibari. We'll review the basics of western style (reverse tension and cinching) then move on to shibari.  Participants must know be able to tie a basic single column tie.  Bring several pieces of rope 1/4" (6mm), 25-30 ft in length (natural fiber such as Jute or Hemp strongly preferred). TES Members $5 Students & Military with ID $10 Reciprocal Groups $10 Non-Members $20 Cash Only

We hope to see you in the new year for our first class of 2018 on January 9th!

Are you new to the scene? New to the NYC area? Looking to get back into the scene after a long layoff? Just want to hang out with some fun and kinky people on a Saturday night, in a safe, no pressure atmosphere with knowledgeable people to guide you if needed? Come alone or with partner(s). No dress code. No admission fee to the munch, just pay for your food and drinks. We’ll be in the upstairs seating area by 7:30PM and then, we’re heading for the Jolly Bloody Good Holiday Party @ the Parthenon at 9PM. We're meeting and ending earlier so we can take part in the White Elephant Gift Exchange at the party. The TES party is optional, but only open to members and their guests or munch attendees. We will be on the second floor of the Bread and Butter Café, located at 419 Park Ave S, New York, NY 10016, on the corner at 29th Street. We will be headed afterwards to the TES PARTY @ THE PARTHENON with a special discount….just $20 admission for attendees! Questions? Write us at novice@tes.org.