Events

Join us for an evening where we talk about what s-types look for in Dominants, how the D/s or M/s dynamic is maintained, and what particular challenges are being faced.

Join Master Fine Arse for a fun evening of kinky live drawing and art making.

Happy holiday!

So you and someone(s) else want to scene? Now what? If you've ever been at a loss for how to negotiate, this workshop is for you. We will explore how to negotiate ethically and effectively. This class will focus on the concepts of consent, vetting, strategies for negotiating, topics to cover during negotiation, and common pitfalls. Novice and Newcomers classes are geared towards those with less experience in the NYC BDSM scene, but they are open to anyone! TES Members $5 Students & Military with ID $10 Reciprocal Groups $10 Non-Members $20 Cash Only

Free and open to all members with a current ID card. Come hear what the board is working on, offer feedback/suggestions, or volunteer to help out!

Come join the TES Writers Group to share work and discuss creative writing for kink! TES Members $5 Students & Military with ID $10 Reciprocal Groups $10 Non-Members $20 Cash Only

In this novice level class, we'll examine the tricks and techniques that are unique to Japanese-style Shibari and move from basic western techniques to the flowing aesthetics of Shibari. We'll review the basics of western style (reverse tension and cinching) then move on to shibari.  Participants must know be able to tie a basic single column tie.  Bring several pieces of rope 1/4" (6mm), 25-30 ft in length (natural fiber such as Jute or Hemp strongly preferred). TES Members $5 Students & Military with ID $10 Reciprocal Groups $10 Non-Members $20 Cash Only

We hope to see you in the new year for our first class of 2018 on January 9th!

Are you new to the scene? New to the NYC area? Looking to get back into the scene after a long layoff? Just want to hang out with some fun and kinky people on a Saturday night, in a safe, no pressure atmosphere with knowledgeable people to guide you if needed? Come alone or with partner(s). No dress code. No admission fee to the munch, just pay for your food and drinks. We’ll be in the upstairs seating area by 7:30PM and then, we’re heading for the Jolly Bloody Good Holiday Party @ the Parthenon at 9PM. We're meeting and ending earlier so we can take part in the White Elephant Gift Exchange at the party. The TES party is optional, but only open to members and their guests or munch attendees. We will be on the second floor of the Bread and Butter Café, located at 419 Park Ave S, New York, NY 10016, on the corner at 29th Street. We will be headed afterwards to the TES PARTY @ THE PARTHENON with a special discount….just $20 admission for attendees! Questions? Write us at novice@tes.org.

Ah, the holidays… that time of year when we gather round the parlour to play games involving bowls of flaming fruits, when naughty children face beatings and kidnappings from Germanic folk demons, and when we all hope we’re the lucky one to find the glass pickle. Sound strange? Well that’s how things were done back in the Victorian Age, and on December 23rd, TES is taking you back to that classic era for our Jolly Bloody Good Holiday Play Party!!! Costumes are encouraged, but not required, and there will be door prizes for those with the best themed costumes and scenes, so whether your preference is classical Victorian corsets or steam-punk attire, come out with your best dress! Remember, this is the era that gave us rattan canes, crops, the violet ray (better known now as the violet wand), medicine show mesmerization (hypnokink anyone?), and all sorts of kinky vintage medical equipment, including the original vibrators (though please respect the party rules regarding penetration). Not sure what else to bring to the party? Forget something at home? Looking for that last minute kinky gift? Not to worry, we are thrilled to have Machine Mike Toys and Kacima, who have come together this holiday season as our exclusive party vendor, and will have all you need to stuff your stocking! And speaking of kinky gifts, come early and join us for our annual Dirty Santa gift exchange. To play, just bring a wrapped gift of up to $25 in value (or alternatively, visit Mike and Kacima). We’ll take turns picking, opening, and stealing each other’s gifts until the smoke clears (but don’t worry, for a small donation to our FounderCare Committee, you can secure immunity for the round! Because giving and receiving isn’t just about Tops and Bottoms!!! Full Rules Here But that’s not all. Join us for our pre-party munch at the Bread and Butter Café from 7:30-9pm. The munch is a GREAT way to meet people in a low-key, non-kinky setting. You'll find more info about it here! 8pm-2am at Parthenon Studios $20 for members and munch attendees, $30 for other non-members RSVP on Fetlife THIS IS AN EXCLUSIVE PARTY. In order to attend this party you must be: - a TES member - the guest of a TES member - an affiliate organization member - the guest of an affiliate organization member - an attendee of the pre-party munch arriving with the munch leaders If you are not yet a member, please consider becoming one today! Click Here Looking for a playdate? Please check out our official playdate thread on Fetlife, or come to the party and make a wish on our wishboard. Simply write down what you’re looking for on the board and take the corresponding number and stick it somewhere everyone can see. And if you’re interest in something written on the board, simply look for the person wearing that number. And there’s nothing like tossing a little money in the ol’ wishing well to help your wish come true, so please consider donating what you can. All proceeds go to benefit NCSF! As always, TES is a volunteer-based organization, and great events like this can’t happen without you! We need volunteers to work the door, coat check, DM, as well as up with setup and cleanup, so please consider volunteering your time. Those volunteering 1 hour of their time get in for half price, and those volunteering at least 2 hours get in free! To volunteer, please contact Zero at zero@tes.org!