Curious about the heart of a sadist? Merriam-Webster defines sadism as "delight in cruelty.” Join us as MissL talks with some perfectly nice sadists about what they love to do and why they love to do it, and how they find delight in (consensual) cruelty. TES Members $5 Students & Military with ID $10 Reciprocal Groups $10 Non-Members $20 Cash Only

No matter what techniques we learn in the practice of hypnokink, intimate hypnosis and erotic hypnosis, we continually encounter questions of ‘Now What?’ Whether advanced, novice, subjects, or hypnotist, how we approach this challenge can define both the quality of our scenes and the fundamental values we share with our partners as we pursue mutual desires. This class will specifically focus on the initial steps in the Exploration pattern: Exploring With Your Partner Responding With Intent This foundation starts us down the path towards dynamic, responsive, creative, explorative play. The ultimate goal of a kinky scene is shared experiences leading to increased intimacy between partners. While intermediate to advanced subjects and hypnotists will learn how to utilize their existing knowledge in a new way, novices are encourage to attend and learn a well defined, easy to follow practical approach to creating extraordinary hypnotic experiences. The class will include exercises suitable for established partners as well as those who meet at the class with a goal to not just teach the hypnotist how to practice their craft, but to establish shared mutual exploration as the first step and ultimate goal of every scene. About MrDream: Mr Dream has been organizing and presenting erotic hypnosis, hypnokink, and general BDSM events and classes since 2010 throughout the United States. He is a founding member of the Hypnosis New York/TES Hypnokink Group as well as a former board member and active volunteer for TES in NYC. He is the co-founder of Deepmind Darkwood, an intimate erotic hypnosis retreat in western Massachusetts. He can be reached at mrdaviddream@gmail.com and mrdream@fetlife

Are you kinky? Are you a writer? The TES Writer’s Group is curated by and for people like you. Join us as we think tank various topics. Get answers to questions or feedback on your current masterpiece. We value positivity and encouragement. All skill levels welcome. TES Members $5 Students & Military with ID $10 Reciprocal Groups $10 Non-Members $20 Cash Only

This discussion, aimed at party promoters and event organizers but open to all, continues the discussion from TES and NCSF's joint consent summit and the first of these discussions in November. As before, this event will produce notes to be published publicly on how we as a community can better work to uphold our shared values of consent and mutual support. TES Members $5 Students & Military with ID $10 Reciprocal Groups $10 Non-Members $20 Cash Only

In 2011, Barkas started to develop his personal way of doing ropes, which was very stormy and overwhelming. His Sensei Osada Steve called it ranboo and since then, this way of doing ropes became one of the well-known styles in the world of kinbaku (Source) This class provides an introduction to the key principles of Ranboo and several hands-on exercises to explore tying in this style. Please note that this may be a physically intense class for both the top and bottom. Requirements: 3+ lengths of 25-30ft rope Single column tie KeepOnKeepinOn is a NYC based rope educator and kinkster. He has presented at national events across the US, such as TES Fest and Shibaricon, and at a variety of local events throughout North America. He has been interested in rope since 2013 when he first discovered kink. While interested in many disciplines of rope bondage, his style has been primarily influenced by his friend, mentor, and teacher: barkas. Outside of kink KeepOnKeepinOn has a deep interest in psychology, neuroscience and emerging technology. If you see him at an event, please stop by and say hello!

3/13 Kink & Men of Color Panel Discussion moderated by MsLolaSmiles has been POSTPONED. Instead, we will feature a Supersized Circle Discussion led by our newest Board Member, Jaden. Circle is a TES tradition in which people can share or simply hold the space for a moderated group discussion. Topics depend on whatever participants bring up, as long as the topics are relevant to our community and the conversation remains respectful of differing points of view. And remember, what's said in Circle, stays in Circle!   TES Members $5 Students & Military with ID $10 Reciprocal Groups $10 Non-Members $20 Cash Only

Come join us for a tasting of different kinky activities, including (but not limited to): Hot wax play with Zero Floggers with ComtesseAurora TES Members $5 Students & Military with ID $10 Reciprocal Groups $10 Non-Members $20 Cash Only

Come hear what the board has planned for the future, offer suggestions, or volunteer! Free and open to all TES members with a membership card.

Are you kinky? Are you a writer? The TES Writer’s Group is curated by and for people like you. Join us as we think tank various topics. Get answers to questions or feedback on your current masterpiece. We value positivity and encouragement. All skill levels welcome. TES Members $5 Students & Military with ID $10 Reciprocal Groups $10 Non-Members $20 Cash Only

Stay tuned for more info about this class from TES Rope Group coordinator, BoundtoFly! TES Members $5 Students & Military with ID $10 Reciprocal Groups $10 Non-Members $20 Cash Only

This class has been cancelled due to severe weather. Check back for this class to be rescheduled, and stay safe!

See a retired SVU Sergeant go head-to-head with a NYC Criminal Defense Attorney for what we can only call Law and Order: S&M! What's the real skinny on interacting with the police? How to avoid even having that encounter in the first place? What's their best advice on what you can or can't do - and your best next step when it all goes sideways? Join us for this must see back and forth. TES Members $5 Students & Military with ID $10 Reciprocal Groups $10 Non-Members $20 Cash Only Doors open at 7, class begins at 7:30.

Note: While all are welcome, this is not a beginner level course, and do to the intense nature of the subject matter, may not be suited for the faint of heart. Do you ever fantasize about inflicting or experiencing intense pain, such as vivisections, skinning or filleting, but can't because that pesky mortality gets in the way? Never fear, hypnosis can help. Join Jaden for a night of demonstration, tips and tricks for pushing your mind, or that of your bottom, past your physical limitations, as well as dealing with potential sub/top drop. It's bound to be a Hell of a time. TES Members $5 Students & Military with ID $10 Reciprocal Groups $10 Non-Members $20 Cash Only Doors open at 7, class starts at 7:30.