See a retired SVU Sergeant go head-to-head with a NYC Criminal Defense Attorney for what we can only call Law and Order: S&M! What's the real skinny on interacting with the police? How to avoid even having that encounter in the first place? What's their best advice on what you can or can't do - and your best next step when it all goes sideways? Join us for this must see back and forth. TES Members $5 Students & Military with ID $10 Reciprocal Groups $10 Non-Members $20 Cash Only Doors open at 7, class begins at 7:30.

Note: While all are welcome, this is not a beginner level course, and do to the intense nature of the subject matter, may not be suited for the faint of heart. Do you ever fantasize about inflicting or experiencing intense pain, such as vivisections, skinning or filleting, but can't because that pesky mortality gets in the way? Never fear, hypnosis can help. Join Jaden for a night of demonstration, tips and tricks for pushing your mind, or that of your bottom, past your physical limitations, as well as dealing with potential sub/top drop. It's bound to be a Hell of a time. TES Members $5 Students & Military with ID $10 Reciprocal Groups $10 Non-Members $20 Cash Only Doors open at 7, class starts at 7:30.

Stay tuned for more info on this meeting of the TES Writers Group! TES Members $5 Students & Military with ID $10 Reciprocal Groups $10 Non-Members $20 Cash Only

Panelists: Mr CL Oz Mr. Sith Marcus Wolven Ramon Eli Onyx, Mr. Maryland Leather 2016 Ms. Lola Smiles (moderator) is a Latina Femdom Fatale from Long Island NY and has been in the lifestyle for over 25 years. Ms. Lola has been a pro dom for the past 5 years and is very active in the LI & NYC Scene. She is one of the only female event promoters on LI and heads up SCK Events. SCK Events hosts munches and a variety of events and upscale BDSM parties on LI and NYC. Ms. Lola is also a BDSM educator and presenter and presents on a variety of topics including impact play, CBT, femdom, caning, dungeon monitors (DM) training, safety in the scene, a guide for new kinksters, and poly relationships. Ms. Lola has been honored to present for LILNR, Sanctuary Events, Avant-Garde, Pangea, TES, SCK, The Steam Factory, EPIC, and Weekend Reunion. TES Members $5 Students & Military with ID $10 Reciprocal Groups $10 Non-Members $20 Cash Only

In 2011, Barkas started to develop his personal way of doing ropes, which was very stormy and overwhelming. His Sensei Osada Steve called it ranboo and since then, this way of doing ropes became one of the well-known styles in the world of kinbaku (Source) This class provides an introduction to the key principles of Ranboo and several hands-on exercises to explore tying in this style. Please note that this may be a physically intense class for both the top and bottom. Requirements: 3+ lengths of 25-30ft rope Single column tie KeepOnKeepinOn is a NYC based kinkster. Upon discovering the lifestyle he quickly found himself drawnto all things rope. Although relatively new to the scene, KoKo has had the good fortune to study with local and international teachers who have helped him find his own style of sadistic, connective bondage. TES Members $5 Students & Military with ID $10 Reciprocal Groups $10 Non-Members $20 Cash Only

Join sadomasochist and professional endurance sports world champion Meanstreakmilewide as he explains the process of dealing with, over coming, and embracing pain and physical suffering. Drawing from his own professional training as a pro and world champion ironman, an ultra marathon World Champion, and his two decades of hurting others and himself as an expression of sexual intimacy and exploration, Meanstreakmilewide will guild you through steps on how submissives and bottoms can better process pain, and how Doms and tops can better guild those under them. This talk includes live demonstrations. TES Members $5 Students & Military with ID $10 Reciprocal Groups $10 Non-Members $20 Cash Only

Stay tuned for more info on this class from the TES Novice & Newcomers Group! TES Members $5 Students & Military with ID $10 Reciprocal Groups $10 Non-Members $20 Cash Only

Free and open to all members with a current membership card.

Stay tuned for more info about this meeting of the TES Writers Group! TES Members $5 Students & Military with ID $10 Reciprocal Groups $10 Non-Members $20 Cash Only

Fetish wrestling comes in many flavors - struggle play or domination; pin style, submission, or pro-style, sensual or sadistic... But it always offers the unique opportunity to dominate your partner with nothing but your own body - no whips, chains, or other toys between you. It may seem difficult, but you don't need to be a martial arts expert for this type of play. A few simple holds can more than get you started. In this demo we'll look at a variety of holds from different wrestling styles to control and dominate a partner with your arms, legs & ass, and feet. Will also include practice time for the eager and the brave. Come learn how simple and accessible fetish wrestling can be...and how much richness and complexity even a simple hold can hold! *** Led by VeVe Lane, a session wrestler (wrestling dominatrix) with over 10 years of experience in BJJ & submission grappling, & sexy ass-kicking.

This class will review a 3 rope box tie (commonly referred to as a Takate Kote or Gote) and teach students nuances of the mechanics, safety and tension necessary to make the tie both sustainable and beautiful. We will examine ways to incorporate modifications that fit the body of the person tied and still maintain a structurally sound tie. Requirements: 3+ lengths of 25-30ft rope TES Members $5 Students & Military with ID $10 Reciprocal Groups $10 Non-Members $20 Cash Only

Free and open to all members with a current membership card. Come hear what the TES board and volunteers have been working on, and what's on the horizon!

That's right folks, it's time for everyone's favorite part of hypnosis, grueling exercise! In this presentation we'll be going over how to practice as efficiently as we can. Starting with simple exercises and moving on to tools for self assessment, you'll leave with a better understanding of what your practice time needs. This is an intermediate class. TES Members $5 Students & Military with ID $10 Reciprocal Groups $10 Non-Members $20 Cash Only

7:30PM-9 PM Note Earlier Start Time! Are you new to the scene? New to the NYC area? Looking to get back into the scene after a long layoff? Just want to hang out with some fun and kinky people on a Sat night, in a safe, no pressure atmosphere with knowledgeable people to guide you if needed? Come alone or with partner(s). No dress code. No admission fee to the munch, just pay for your food and drinks. We’ll be in the upstairs seating area by 7:30PM and then, we’re heading for the Fet Gala Play Party @ the Parth at 9PM. We're meeting and ending earlier so we can take part in the “Who Are Your Wearing?” ice-breaker game at the party. The TES party is optional, but only open to members and their guests or munch attendees. We will be on the second floor of the Bread and Butter Café, located at 419 Park Ave S, New York, NY 10016, on the corner at 29th Street. Here are the Do’s and Do Not’s of the Munch: **DO’s** * Be friendly and courteous to each other. * It is OK to ask each others’ scene names, roles, and fetishes. If you do not have a scene name/ Fetlife handle, have a pseudonym. * Get permission before touching someone else’s belongings. * Get permission before touching someone else. * It is OK to drink responsibly at the munch. * Respect others’ privacy. **DO NOT’s** * Do NOT ask attendees their personal information (real name, middle name, last name, where they live, work, breed, go to school or favorite Starbucks location). * Do NOT touch others without their permission. * Do NOT touch others’ belongings without their permission. * Do NOT get intoxicated before or during the munch. You will be told to go home. * Do NOT kink shame. Sometimes someone else’s kink is not yours. Appreciate their differences. * Do NOT bring outside food or beverages to the munch. * Do NOT take pictures or videos during the munch. We prefer to maintain an environment of anonymity. * Do NOT ask attendees their personal information (real name, middle name, last name, where they live, work, go to school, where they grew up, etc). We will be headed afterwards to the TES PARTY @ THE PARTH with a special discount….just $30 admission for attendees! Questions? Write us at novice@tes.org.

Class description An unconventional introduction to the basics of belly dance. We will learn the stance and moves that are the building blocks to developing the seductive alluring moves that mesmerize people the world over. Take the first steps to developing the body awareness that make dancers exude confidence and sexual allure. Dress comfy, we dance bare foot. Bio Lady Dee is a cheerful Sadist that exudes energy in what ever she does. A frequent TES volunteer she can be seen doing Ops at classes and DMing at party. She enjoys impact and rope as much as she loves dancing. She first discovered belly dance over 4 years ago and hasn’t looked back.

More than just a Pretty Pattern hip harnesses play a fundamental role.  From supporting someone in the air in a variety of directions, to an attachment point for other fun, hip harnesses can provide a lot of fun. We'll explore some various harnesses and why we would choose one vs another for your use. Bring at least 2 pieces of 1/4" rope (25-30ft long) if you wish to tie. (Call the studio at 212-675-1390 if in need of use of the freight elevator to attend) TES Members $5 Students & Military with ID $10 Reciprocal Groups $10 Non-Members $20 Cash Only