I have been to many wax play classes and noticed they are solely focused on so called “kink safe” wax candles. Usually these are candles that are handmade and burn at a lower temperature. They are also very expensive. But despite this I have seen these kink safe candles being misused and causing serious burns. I wanted to offer a class based on my research on how to do wax play scenes with regular candles that are far cheaper, and emphasize using the candles safely. Whether one uses a lit candle for wax play or melts a larger amount of wax using slow cooker there is a way to do it safely and get the most from your wax play scene. I will also talk a bit about the second part of wax play which is removing the wax. So a bit of knife play will be discussed as well as other methods. I also want to explore the different styles of wax play scenes including sensation based scenes, artistic scenes and ritualistic scenes.  I will also show how to incorporate wax play into other kinds of scenes as well, such as impact, bondage and suspension. My class will have a demo bottom to showcase one of the styles of wax play. And the class will get a chance to try a little bit of wax to get a feeling for the sensation. TES Members $5 Students & Military with ID $10 Reciprocal Groups $10 Non-Members $20 Cash Only`

We talk about hypnosis as a multi-tool that can do everything from create an intense connection between partners to create a fun and silly role play scene. And that's true, but in essence, these wildly different scenarios can be expressions of the same but powerful transformative effect. What do being deep and cataleptic and being a ""Bimbo Dinosaur"" have in common? What is it to change who you are, a little or a lot, for a period of time with (or for) another person? This introspective class, taught through the filter of D/s from a submissive perspective, will include demos that highlight that at its core, a hypnotic relationship can be about the ever-changing expression of self of a person (or persons) and what it means to be transformed from the outside in. While it's geared more intermediate to advanced, the larger ideas of what we're discussing are applicable to any kinkster. GleefulAbandon is a hypnofetishist, submissive, and queer (in multiple senses of the word). After over five amazing years in the Scene so far, she is constantly thrilled by the wonderful people and weird experiences (and vice versa) that she encounters. She is an active volunteer for TES as Media Representative. (Call the studio at 212-675-1390 if in need of use of the freight elevator to attend) TES Members $5 Students & Military with ID $10 Reciprocal Groups $10 Non-Members $20 Cash Only

TES and TES Fest are holding another CPR Certification /First Aid for Kinksters/Bloodborne Pathogen Training with Operation Hammond on Sunday, June 3rd. We urge you to take advantage of this opportunity to train alongside our staff and dungeon monitors. New this year: we are offering the ability to observe (if you feel you can't meet the certification requirements for the hands-on portion) and/or take just the segment of the workshop that meets your needs. Limited slots are available so act now! Here’s a schedule for planning purposes: ENTRY AT 12PM – 12:15PM – All Inclusive CPR Certification/First Aid for Kinksters/ Bloodborne Pathogen Workshop ENTRY AT 2:45PM- 3PM –  First Aid for Kinksters +  Bloodborne Pathogens (Non Certification) ENTRY AT 4:15 – 4:30PM –  Only Bloodborne Pathogens (Non Certification) WORKSHOP CONCLUDES AT 6PM. The workshop will be held at ALCHEMICAL STUDIOS, 104 West 14th Street , The Lab (2nd floor). The studio is surrounded by a wide variety of affordable and fast eateries for the lunch break. Food and beverages other than bottled water are not permitted in the room. There may be children present in the building, so be mindful of what you say in the hallways or stairs. You may purchase your registration to this event here!   Cost: $20-$100 depending on how much of the workshop you choose to attend and whether you want to participate or observe.

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Its an introduction to what BDSM is about, consent, safety, negotiation, your rights and responsibilities and of course, a introduction to what Bondage play is about. In this class we'll discuss multiple topics and also have a quick introduction to Rope Bondage to better prepare newcomers to immerse themselves in the TESfest Rope Track. What's the Rope Track? There will be at least one Rope class during every class time slot during TESfest. So, if you are new to the scene, want to get better at rope, please attend! In this workshop, everyone ties/is tied so they get a sense of what Rope Bondage play is about. It is strongly advised to bring 2 pieces of 1/4" (6mm) rope, 25-30 ft in length. Since I strongly prefer Jute rope for Japanese style bondage (aka Shibari or Kinbaku), thats what I tie with and will be offering hanks of jute for sale at the class. Please contact BoundtoFly on Fetlife if you would like to reserve yours for purchase. TES Members $5 Students & Military with ID $10 Reciprocal Groups $10 Non-Members $20 Cash Only

What better time to draw a model than when they are in bondage? The model is focused and excited, they can’t move (much), the ropes and other ties make for dramatic lines and unusual poses. Join greg1113 for a fun evening of art making. He will guide you through getting down on paper the sight and feel of the caress of the bonds, and give you tools to take back to your own dungeon. People of all artistic abilities are welcome. Please bring art materials or $5 to contribute towards supplies. Creations will be considered for publication (with consent) in Prometheus!   TES Members $5 Students & Military with ID $10 Reciprocal Groups $10 Non-Members $20 Cash Only

Do you know a thing or two about dungeon safety? Have you had a less than perfect experience with a DM at a party and thought, “I can do better”? Maybe you just have a fetish for neon-yellow traffic vests? If you answered yes to any of these questions, please join us for our live training workshops on at the Players Theatre, 115 MacDougal St, on Monday June 11th, 7 - 10PM Studio 3B, and Monday June 18th, 7 - 10PM Studio 3C These workshops are intended to supplement our online training found here, and are free to anyone who has successfully completed the unit “DM 101”. All others are welcome to join us at our standard class rates. Please note that, due to time constraints, we will not be able to more than a quick review of the materials covered online. In combination with our online training, these workshops are designed as a comprehensive introduction to DMing, and will cover everything you need to know to get started DMing at TES events and TES Fest. Experienced DMs are invited to attend as a refresher and to share their wisdom with others. Our DM Training Workshop will consist of two parts: Play Safety & Scene Vetting Forum- In this knowledge share session, we will discuss safety considerations for various types of play you are likely to encounter as a DM. Attendees are invited to bring their personal experience and expertise as we analyze what to look for in different types of scenes, what to prioritize, and how best to ensure scenes are in harmony with event rules. Scenario Roleplay and Discussion Lab- In this section, we will roleplay various situations you may encounter as a DM, many derived for real-life incidents. Attendees will take turns acting out different scenarios, each followed by a brief discussion and constructive critique to determine the best course of action for similar situations in the future. Free to anyone who has completed online training, TES Members $5 Students & Military with ID $10 Reciprocal Groups $10 Non-Members $20 Cash Only

Excited about TES Fest? So are we! The schedule’s been released and evolving, but there’s still more news about all the goodness we have planned! Come by and hear directly from some of the team members working feverishly to make TES Fest 2017 the best one yet! FREE TO ALL!

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Free and open to all members with a valid membership card.

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  Do you know a thing or two about dungeon safety? Have you had a less than perfect experience with a DM at a party and thought, “I can do better”? Maybe you just have a fetish for neon-yellow traffic vests? If you answered yes to any of these questions, please join us for our live training workshops on at the Players Theatre, 115 MacDougal St, on Monday June 11th, 7 - 10PM Studio 3B, and Monday June 18th, 7 - 10PM Studio 3C These workshops are intended to supplement our online training found here, and are free to anyone who has successfully completed the unit “DM 101”. All others are welcome to join us at our standard class rates. Please note that, due to time constraints, we will not be able to more than a quick review of the materials covered online. In combination with our online training, these workshops are designed as a comprehensive introduction to DMing, and will cover everything you need to know to get started DMing at TES events and TES Fest. Experienced DMs are invited to attend as a refresher and to share their wisdom with others. Our DM Training Workshop will consist of two parts: Play Safety & Scene Vetting Forum- In this knowledge share session, we will discuss safety considerations for various types of play you are likely to encounter as a DM. Attendees are invited to bring their personal experience and expertise as we analyze what to look for in different types of scenes, what to prioritize, and how best to ensure scenes are in harmony with event rules. Scenario Roleplay and Discussion Lab- In this section, we will roleplay various situations you may encounter as a DM, many derived for real-life incidents. Attendees will take turns acting out different scenarios, each followed by a brief discussion and constructive critique to determine the best course of action for similar situations in the future. Free to anyone who has completed online training, TES Members $5 Students & Military with ID $10 Reciprocal Groups $10 Non-Members $20 Cash Only

An overview of non-violent communication strategies for the effective handling of charged situations, especially those that arise in kink venues, e.g., dungeons, play parties and kink conventions. Led by volunteer community members trained and experienced in Alternative Dispute Resolution, strategies covered will be helpful for everyone. This meeting is mandatory for TES Fest senior staff,  recommended for event organizers, DMs, group facilitators, etc. and open to all. TES Members $5 Students & Military with ID $10 Reciprocal Groups $10 Non-Members $20 Cash Only

With TESFest 2018 coming in July, there will be a lot of opportunities to meet new people who are interested in playing with hypnosis. Practicing hypnosis with someone new offers unique challenges and opportunities. The idea of pickup play is often considered a risky scenario for hypnokink, but in many cases it is the first step in developing the play partnerships we are looking for. This class will discuss some approaches to having scenes with new partners, whether there is an existing relationship, or truly a first meeting. Topics covered will include: How to introduce the idea of hypnosis to a prospective partner Negotiation for limited scenes Best practices for safety and consent What to expect from the subject/hypnotist Simple induction techniques for a new partner In addition we will spend time practicing hypnosis in our Speed Trance/Date format: Each participant will have 6 minutes to negotiate and conduct a simple scene with someone who they don’t normally play. Note: No one is obligated to trance or be tranced in any given round. You can always have a nice conversation. TES Members $5 Students & Military with ID $10 Reciprocal Groups $10 Non-Members $20 Cash Only

Are you new to the scene? New to the NYC area? Looking to get back into the scene after a long layoff? Just want to hang out with some fun and kinky people on a Sat night, in a safe, no pressure atmosphere with knowledgeable people to guide you if needed? Come alone or with partner(s). No dress code. No admission fee to the munch, just pay for your food and drinks. We’ll be in the upstairs seating area by 7:30PM and then, we’re heading for the Summer of Love is Love is Love Play Party @ the Parth at 9PM. The TES party is optional, but only open to members and their guests or munch attendees. We will be on the second floor of the Bread and Butter Café, located at 419 Park Ave S, New York, NY 10016, on the corner at 29th Street. Here are the Do’s and Do Not’s of the Munch: DO’s Be friendly and courteous to each other. It is OK to ask each others’ scene names, roles, and fetishes. If you do not have a scene name/ Fetlife handle, have a pseudonym. Get permission before touching someone else’s belongings. Get permission before touching someone else. It is OK to drink responsibly at the munch. Respect others’ privacy. DO NOT’s Do NOT ask attendees their personal information (real name, middle name, last name, where they live, work, breed, go to school or favorite Starbucks location). Do NOT touch others without their permission. Do NOT touch others’ belongings without their permission. Do NOT get intoxicated before or during the munch. You will be told to go home. Do NOT kink shame. Sometimes someone else’s kink is not yours. Appreciate their differences. Do NOT bring outside food or beverages to the munch. Do NOT take pictures or videos during the munch. We prefer to maintain an environment of anonymity. Do NOT ask attendees their personal information (real name, middle name, last name, where they live, work, go to school, where they grew up, etc). We will be headed afterwards to the TES PARTY @ THE PARTH with a special discount….just $30 admission for attendees! Questions? Write us at novice@tes.org.

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