ONLINE – Brat Bondage Have a wriggly, wiggly bottom who won’t stay still? Know someone who enjoys the challenge of escaping rope? Come to this class to learn techniques to stimulate your Brat’s desire to rebel. Tops should understand basic frictions (such as reverse tension, munters, half hitches) Bottoms should understand the difference between good/bad pain and be able… Continue Reading
TES Online – TES Board Meeting Are you a current TES member? You’re invited to our monthly board meeting! This is your chance to connect with fellow members, hear what the board is working on, and help shape the future of our organization. This meeting is online only and is open to current TES members only. How to Join All members… Continue Reading
TES Online – TES Board Meeting Are you a current TES member? You’re invited to our monthly board meeting! This is your chance to connect with fellow members, hear what the board is working on, and help shape the future of our organization. This meeting is online only and is open to current TES members only. How to Join All members… Continue Reading
ONLINE – 2026 Fall Membership Meeting and Election Night TES Membership Meeting Join the conversation shaping TES! Our Membership Meeting takes place twice each year to conduct official organizational business and give members a direct voice in the process. The fall meeting—held in October—is especially important: TES officers are elected then. All members in good standing are welcome to attend, participate, and make their… Continue Reading
In-Person: Rope Bondage 101 This hands-on, introductory course in rope bondage will give participants a thorough grounding in how to safely restrain a partner for the purposes of play and power exchange, with an emphasis on applying simple, secure, sustainable restraint. We will cover: basic negotiation and safety; effective cuffs; anchoring to the body; wrapping and tension; basic tie… Continue Reading
ONLINE – Meet The Candidates Night Meet the Candidates TES elections are coming up, and your voice belongs in the conversation. Join us for a live, members-only online Town Hall to meet this year’s candidates, ask the questions on your mind, and hear where they stand on the issues shaping TES and the wider kink community. Come curious, come informed, and… Continue Reading
IN-PERSON: Tarot for Tops Discover how tarot’s symbolism, storytelling, intuition, and imagination can enrich power exchange, inspire creative scenes, and foster deeper communication and connection. In this discussion-based class, you’ll explore the foundations of tarot with a traditional Rider-Waite deck and learn practical ways to use the cards in your kink practice. Together, you’ll consider how tarot can support… Continue Reading
IN-PERSON: TES Monthly Munch We’d love to have you at the TES Monthly Munch! Whether you’re new to the scene, an old friend, or just curious, our monthly munch is a great opportunity to meet fellow kinksters in a low-key, low-pressure setting. There’s no need to RSVP, and everyone is welcome—you don’t even have to be a TES member… Continue Reading
IN-PERSON: TES Monthly Munch We’d love to have you at the TES Monthly Munch! Whether you’re new to the scene, an old friend, or just curious, our monthly munch is a great opportunity to meet fellow kinksters in a low-key, low-pressure setting. There’s no need to RSVP, and everyone is welcome—you don’t even have to be a TES member… Continue Reading
IN-PERSON: TES Monthly Munch We’d love to have you at the TES Monthly Munch! Whether you’re new to the scene, an old friend, or just curious, our monthly munch is a great opportunity to meet fellow kinksters in a low-key, low-pressure setting. There’s no need to RSVP, and everyone is welcome—you don’t even have to be a TES member… Continue Reading