TES Board of Directors Meeting Free and open to all members with a current ID card. Come hear what the board is working on, offer feedback/suggestions, or volunteer to help out!… Continue Reading
TES Presents: The Jolly Bloody Good Holiday Play Party Ah, the holidays… that time of year when we gather round the parlour to play games involving bowls of flaming fruits, when naughty children face beatings and kidnappings from Germanic folk demons, and when we all hope we’re the lucky one to find the glass pickle. Sound strange? Well that’s how things were done back in the Victorian Age, and on December 23rd, TES is taking you back to that classic era for our Jolly Bloody Good Holiday Play Party!!! Costumes are encouraged, but not required, and there will be door prizes for those with the best themed costumes and scenes, so whether your preference is classical Victorian corsets or steam-punk attire, come out with your best dress! Remember, this is the era that gave us rattan canes, crops, the violet ray (better known now as the violet wand), medicine show mesmerization (hypnokink anyone?), and all sorts of kinky vintage medical equipment, including the original vibrators (though please respect the party rules regarding penetration). Not sure what else to bring to the party? Forget something at home? Looking for that last minute kinky gift? Not to worry, we are thrilled to have Machine Mike Toys and Kacima, who have come together this holiday season as our exclusive party vendor, and will have all you need to stuff your stocking! And speaking of kinky gifts, come early and join us for our annual Dirty Santa gift exchange. To play, just bring a wrapped gift of up to $25 in value (or alternatively, visit Mike and Kacima). We’ll take turns picking, opening, and stealing each other’s gifts until the smoke clears (but don’t worry, for a small donation to our FounderCare Committee, you can secure immunity for the round! Because giving and receiving isn’t just about Tops and Bottoms!!! Full Rules Here But that’s not all. Join us for our pre-party munch at the Bread and Butter Café from 7:30-9pm. The munch is a GREAT way to meet people in a low-key, non-kinky setting. You’ll find more info about it here! 8pm-2am at Parthenon Studios $20 for members and munch attendees, $30 for other non-members RSVP on Fetlife THIS IS AN EXCLUSIVE PARTY. In order to attend this party you must be: – a TES member – the guest of a TES member – an affiliate organization member – the guest of an affiliate organization member – an attendee of the pre-party munch arriving with the munch leaders If you are not yet a member, please consider becoming one today! Click Here Looking for a playdate? Please check out our official playdate thread on Fetlife, or come to the party and make a wish on our wishboard. Simply write down what you’re looking for on the board and take the corresponding number and stick it somewhere everyone can see. And if you’re interest in something written on the board, simply look for the person wearing that number. And there’s nothing like tossing a little money in the ol’ wishing well to help your wish come true, so please consider donating what you can. All proceeds go to benefit NCSF! As always, TES is a volunteer-based organization, and great events like this can’t happen without you! We need volunteers to work the door, coat check, DM, as well as up with setup and cleanup, so please consider volunteering your time. Those volunteering 1 hour of their time get in for half price, and those volunteering at least 2 hours get in free! To volunteer, please contact Zero at zero@tes.org!… Continue Reading
Novice & Newcomers Munch: The Ugly Sweater Edition Are you new to the scene? New to the NYC area? Looking to get back into the scene after a long layoff? Just want to hang out with some fun and kinky people on a Saturday night, in a safe, no pressure atmosphere with knowledgeable people to guide you if needed? Come alone or with partner(s). No dress code. No admission fee to the munch, just pay for your food and drinks. We’ll be in the upstairs seating area by 7:30PM and then, we’re heading for the Jolly Bloody Good Holiday Party @ the Parthenon at 9PM. We’re meeting and ending earlier so we can take part in the White Elephant Gift Exchange at the party. The TES party is optional, but only open to members and their guests or munch attendees. We will be on the second floor of the Bread and Butter Café, located at 419 Park Ave S, New York, NY 10016, on the corner at 29th Street. We will be headed afterwards to the TES PARTY @ THE PARTHENON with a special discount….just $20 admission for attendees! Questions? Write us at novice@tes.org…. Continue Reading
Tie & Draw (Live Drawing Session): Holiday Edition, with Master Fine Arse Join Master Fine Arse for a fun evening of kinky live drawing and art making…. Continue Reading
State of Submission Panel Discussion, moderated by Jaden Join us for an evening where we talk about what s-types look for in Dominants, how the D/s or M/s dynamic is maintained, and what particular challenges are being faced…. Continue Reading
TES Writers Group – Editing: The Good, the Bad, and the Detrimental TES Members $5 Students, Senior Citizens, & Military with ID $10 Reciprocal Groups $10 Non-Members $20 Cash Only Doors open at 7:00 pm – Meeting begins at 7:30 pm Editing is good, to a point, but sometimes your inner critic can smother your creative process. Join us for a discussion about editing, and how to deal with burn out and the “all of this writing is crap” epidemic that plagues the artistic communities. If comfortable, please bring something to share for the peer review section of the class. As always, laptops and phones are permitted, but recording is not…. Continue Reading
Vintage Prometheus: Fall/Winter 1995 Michal Daveed November 7, 2017 (February 12, 2025) This vintage Prometheus is a bit meta— TES founder Pat Bond used his column to share an older essay of his, so consider this its second resurrection. Check out how overtly political it is— how he warns against fascism, violence, and how governments and power might resonate with people who make power exchange a part of their lives…. Continue Reading