In-Person Featured Only Days of the Week Sunday Monday Tuesday Wednesday Thursday Friday Saturday Time of Day All Day Morning Afternoon Evening Night Speakers LubeGirl LubeGirl Venues Central New Jersey Dawn Studios LGBT Community Center Online Skylight Diner Tags 101 AANHPI ABDL Abduction aftercare ageplay anatomy Asian American basic bdsm Black History Month board Bondage bootblack bottoming bottoms brat brats calendar Candidates Capture cinekink Circle Communication community conference Consent convention Diapers dirty talk discussion Doms Dungeon Monitor education Elections fans feral First Year Free future game night games health Holiday hotel-takeover hybrid Hypnokink hypnosis Impact In-Person intent intentional introductory Kink leather care life long-distance marginalized massage Masters members only Membership Drive Mindfuck Munch Negoiation neurodivergent new newbie novice online organizing pain Panel partliamentarian party pie pizza pleasure POC Potluck princess bride Prometheus Psychological restraint rope Roundtable sadism Safety scene scene building scene crafting shibari slaves social staff submissive subs summer swordplay teaching List Grid Plain List Thu 12 IN-PERSON - Brat Bondage November 12, 2026 at 7:30 PM - 10:00 PM Have a wriggly, wiggly bottom who won’t stay still? Know someone who enjoys the challenge of escaping rope? Come to this class to learn techniques to stimulate your Brat’s desire to rebel. Tops should understand basic frictions (such as reverse tension, munters, half hitches) Bottoms should understand the difference between good/bad pain and be able...Continue Reading Mon 16 HYBRID- TES Board Meeting November 16, 2026 at 7:00 PM - 10:00 PM Are you a current TES member? You’re invited to our monthly board meeting! This is your chance to connect with fellow members, hear what the board is working on, and help shape the future of our organization. This meeting is ONLINE AND IN-PERSON and open to current TES members only. How to Join All members...Continue Reading Mon 07 IN-PERSON: TES Monthly Munch December 7, 2026 at 7:00 PM - 10:00 PM We’d love to have you at the TES Monthly Munch! Whether you’re new to the scene, an old friend, or just curious, our monthly munch is a great opportunity to meet fellow kinksters in a low-key, low-pressure setting. There’s no need to RSVP, and everyone is welcome—you don’t even have to be a TES member...Continue Reading Mon 04 IN-PERSON: TES Monthly Munch January 4, 2027 at 7:00 PM - 10:00 PM We’d love to have you at the TES Monthly Munch! Whether you’re new to the scene, an old friend, or just curious, our monthly munch is a great opportunity to meet fellow kinksters in a low-key, low-pressure setting. There’s no need to RSVP, and everyone is welcome—you don’t even have to be a TES member...Continue Reading Mon 01 IN-PERSON: TES Monthly Munch February 1, 2027 at 7:00 PM - 10:00 PM We’d love to have you at the TES Monthly Munch! Whether you’re new to the scene, an old friend, or just curious, our monthly munch is a great opportunity to meet fellow kinksters in a low-key, low-pressure setting. There’s no need to RSVP, and everyone is welcome—you don’t even have to be a TES member...Continue Reading Mon 01 IN-PERSON: TES Monthly Munch March 1, 2027 at 7:00 PM - 10:00 PM We’d love to have you at the TES Monthly Munch! Whether you’re new to the scene, an old friend, or just curious, our monthly munch is a great opportunity to meet fellow kinksters in a low-key, low-pressure setting. There’s no need to RSVP, and everyone is welcome—you don’t even have to be a TES member...Continue Reading Mon 05 IN-PERSON: TES Monthly Munch April 5, 2027 at 7:00 PM - 10:00 PM We’d love to have you at the TES Monthly Munch! Whether you’re new to the scene, an old friend, or just curious, our monthly munch is a great opportunity to meet fellow kinksters in a low-key, low-pressure setting. There’s no need to RSVP, and everyone is welcome—you don’t even have to be a TES member...Continue Reading Mon 03 IN-PERSON: TES Monthly Munch May 3, 2027 at 7:00 PM - 10:00 PM We’d love to have you at the TES Monthly Munch! Whether you’re new to the scene, an old friend, or just curious, our monthly munch is a great opportunity to meet fellow kinksters in a low-key, low-pressure setting. There’s no need to RSVP, and everyone is welcome—you don’t even have to be a TES member...Continue Reading Mon 07 IN-PERSON: TES Monthly Munch June 7, 2027 at 7:00 PM - 10:00 PM We’d love to have you at the TES Monthly Munch! Whether you’re new to the scene, an old friend, or just curious, our monthly munch is a great opportunity to meet fellow kinksters in a low-key, low-pressure setting. There’s no need to RSVP, and everyone is welcome—you don’t even have to be a TES member...Continue Reading