Featured January 9 @ 7:30 PM - 10:00 PM IN-PERSON – Impact 101 LGBT Community Center 208 W 13th St, New York, NY, United States Impact Share 101 is a great way for newcomers to get their feet wet! Explore a variety of toys, learn essential safety tips, vetting, and negotiation. Get up close and personal with the tools of the trade—handle and examine them during class. $10 – $25
February 13 @ 7:30 PM - 10:00 PM IN PERSON – Negotiation: Getting What You Need LGBT Community Center 208 W 13th St, New York, NY, United States Goddess Coko is here to help you determine what you want, how to achieve it, and how to lock it down with a verbal agreement. You'll learn how to pinpoint your needs and comprehend what others are seeking, as well. We will explore various negotiation styles, types of relationships, and how to negotiate discussions. Additionally, you'll gain practical experience to enhance your negotiation skills. By the end of the class, you'll feel confident and prepared to negotiate like a pro in your next scene or relationship. Bio: Goddess Coko had been an active member of the NYC kink scene for over 20+ years. She is happy and excited to be back serving on the TES Board as Secretary, a role she is familiar with when she served on the Board from 2008-2009. She returned to this role on November 20 23 as an interim Director. Goddess Coko serves as Chair of the Communications and Promotions Committees, Vice Chair of Community Relations, and volunteers on the POC Committee. Goddess Coko is also a Founding Mother of ONYX PEARLS NY-Northeast and former Co-Head Mistress and Web Mistress for ClubFEM NYC. Goddess Coko is a proud member of Goddess House NJ, a FemDom-led Leather family. To register in advance (strongly preferred): If you already have a TES account, CLICK HERE TO REGISTER MEMBERS -$10 / NON-MEMBERS - $25 Create a Member Portal account Members: Use the same email address you used when you purchased your membership. (Email membership@tes.org if you have forgotten the one you used when registering for TES.) Be sure to respond to the confirmation email & choose a password. After that, log back into the Member Portal. Non-members: You will still need to make an account to register. Be sure to respond to the confirmation email & choose a password. After that, log back into the Member Portal. To complete your purchase, click on THIS LINK and follow the instructions. Your membership discount will be automatically applied. To register on-site: There will be a QR code available to allow you to register on-site following the same process above, but TES will not be able to accept cash at the door. If cost is a barrier to attendance, please email customer-care@tes.org. $10 – $25
March 20 @ 7:30 PM - 10:00 PM IN-PERSON – Creative Sadism with Jonnyace and brightbitter LGBT Community Center 208 W 13th St, New York, NY, United States A new sensation, a creative use of different and exciting tools, and using techniques that are less commonly used are some of the fun things for tops, and bottoms when playing with pain. In this hands-on 101 level class, Jonnyace and brightnbitter will discuss the why, and how, of using alternative means to create physical and mental pain. Using everyday items, not so everyday items, and some alternative techniques, you will learn sadism that goes beyond impact. Bios: @Jonnyace (They/Them) is a queer, non-binary polyamorous kinkster. They are a life coach focusing on gender, sexual, and romantic minorities. Jon leads the Hudson Valley Polyamory Society, as well as being a member of the Ascend Incident Response Team, and the Head DM of Ascend Hudson Valley. They have been in the public kink scene for over a decade, and have been sharing their knowledge with kink communities holding classes, demos, and discussion groups on topics including medical play, D/s dynamics, polyamory, and more @Brightnbitter (She/They) is a queer polyamorous switch who enjoys service oriented submission and topping for rope and impact play. She is active in the kink community in Southern New England and the Hudson Valley region, and is a constant learner and passionate presenter on topics that include D/s dynamics in non-monogamy, safety and consent practices in scenes and relationships, and techniques for fun and fulfilling kinky play. To register in advance (strongly preferred): If you already have a TES account, CLICK HERE TO REGISTER MEMBERS -$10 / NON-MEMBERS - $25 Create a Member Portal account Members: Use the same email address you used when you purchased your membership. (Email membership@tes.org if you have forgotten the one you used when registering for TES.) Be sure to respond to the confirmation email & choose a password. After that, log back into the Member Portal. Non-members: You will still need to make an account to register. Be sure to respond to the confirmation email & choose a password. After that, log back into the Member Portal. To complete your purchase, click on THIS LINK and follow the instructions. Your membership discount will be automatically applied. To register on-site: There will be a QR code available to allow you to register on-site following the same process above, but TES will not be able to accept cash at the door. If cost is a barrier to attendance, please email customer-care@tes.org $10 – $25
April 10 @ 7:30 PM - 10:00 PM IN-PERSON – Violet Wand Play 101: An Electrifying Introduction LGBT Community Center 208 W 13th St, New York, NY, United States Are you curious about adding a spark to your play? This introductory class on Violet Wand Play will guide you through the exciting world of electrostimulation, covering the basics of safety, technique, and creativity. You'll learn: How a Violet Wand Works – Understanding the mechanics and types of devices. Safety & Precautions – Best practices to ensure safe and consensual play. Basic Techniques – Hands-on demonstrations of direct and indirect methods. Electro Sensations – Exploring how different attachments and accessories create a range of experiences, from tingling to intense. Building Confidence – Tips for negotiation, communication, and creating an electrifying scene. This class is perfect for beginners or those looking to refine their skills. Whether you’re interested in sensation play, artistic experimentation, or just learning something new, this class will leave you buzzing with excitement. Bios: Malswitch has been an active Switch in the LS for 18 years, beginning his journey as a submissive bottom under a sadistic Mistress. During the nine years in the U.S. Army, he took the opportunity to explore multi-state classes, dungeons, and dynamics in his free time. It was during this period that he discovered his dominant side. His involvement in the community began in NYC and later expanded to the Long Island scene upon returning home. A sensualist with sado-masochistic tendencies, Malswitch enjoys impact, edge play, knife play, sensual play, and bondage, with a particular passion for electro-play. He has dedicated extensive time and resources to refining his skills, accumulating countless classroom hours, and building a well-equipped electro tool kit. Angel (any pronouns) is a multifaceted clown, dynamic switch, poly, pansexual, energy player, and community seeker. Always eager to learn, evolve, and have fun in the safest way possible. Discovering the Kinky community in 2021, Angel has been actively involved in attending parties, events, workshops, and classes. Active kinks includes: fire play, electro, all things sensation, tickling, rope, and tittie worship/torture, Angel brings a unique and passionate energy to their community. In their regular life, Angel helps people find their dream home. This class will be held at: The Center (The Lesbian, Gay, Bisexual & Transgender Community Center) 208 West 13th Street New York, NY To register in advance (strongly preferred): If you already have a TES account, CLICK HERE TO REGISTER MEMBERS -$10 / NON-MEMBERS - $25 Create a Member Portal account Members: Use the same email address you used when you purchased your membership. (Email membership@tes.org if you have forgotten the one you used when registering for TES.) Be sure to respond to the confirmation email & choose a password. After that, log back into the Member Portal. Non-Members: You will still need to make an account to register. Be sure to respond to the confirmation email & choose a password. After that, log back into the Member Portal. To complete your purchase, click on THIS LINK and follow the instructions. Your membership discount will be automatically applied. To register on-site: There will be a QR code available to allow you to register on-site following the same process above, but TES will not be able to accept cash at the door. If cost is a barrier to attendance, please email customer-care@tes.org
April 24 @ 7:30 PM - 10:00 PM IN-PERSON – ABDL 101 with Sir Kenzo ONYX LGBT Community Center 208 W 13th St, New York, NY, United States ABDL 101 is a beginner-friendly class designed for those curious about Adult Baby/Diaper Lover (ABDL) and ageplay. We’ll break down common misconceptions, explore the differences between ABDL and ageplay, including how age players can embrace older identities, and discuss the various ways people engage with this lifestyle. The session includes a live diapering demonstration, practical tips for comfort and discretion, and guidance on finding supportive communities and resources. Whether you're exploring for yourself or supporting a partner, this class offers a judgment-free space to learn, ask questions, and discover what works for you. Bios: Sir Kenzo ONYX is a respected titleholder, kink educator, and community organizer with a passion for fostering inclusivity and education within the kink, Leather, and fetish communities. As an active member of ONYX NY Northeast, a Leather fraternity for men and siblings of color, Kenzo plays a crucial role in mentoring newcomers and creating safe, affirming spaces for LGBTQ+ and BIPOC individuals exploring their kink identities. With over a decade of experience in the kink world, Kenzo specializes in ageplay dynamics, power exchange relationships, ABDL, and intersectionality in fetish spaces. His work extends beyond education, as he is deeply involved in event planning, community-building initiatives, and advocacy for kinksters of color. He has presented and facilitated discussions at major kink and fetish events across the country, aiming to break stigmas and encourage self-acceptance within niche kink communities. Kenzo is also known for organizing Diaper Happy Hour in NYC, an ABDL social event, as well as working closely with organizations like ONYX, Gotham Kennel Club, and other groups to create inclusive kink spaces. His teaching style is engaging, informative, and always welcoming to individuals of all experience levels. Whether through education, mentorship, or event organizing, Kenzo is committed to ensuring that all kinksters—especially those from marginalized backgrounds—feel seen, heard, and supported in their journey. This class will be held at: The Center (The Lesbian, Gay, Bisexual & Transgender Community Center) 208 West 13th Street New York, NY To register in advance (strongly preferred): If you already have a TES account, CLICK HERE TO REGISTER MEMBERS -$10 / NON-MEMBERS - $25 Create a Member Portal account: Members: Use the same email address you used when you purchased your membership. (Email membership@tes.org if you have forgotten the one you used when registering for TES.) Be sure to respond to the confirmation email & choose a password. After that, log back into the Member Portal. Non-members: You will still need to make an account to register. Be sure to respond to the confirmation email & choose a password. After that, log back into the Member Portal. To complete your purchase, click on THIS LINK and follow the instructions. Your membership discount will be automatically applied. To register on-site: There will be a QR code available to allow you to register on-site following the same process above, but TES will not be able to accept cash at the door. If cost is a barrier to attendance, please email customer-care@tes.org
May 8 @ 7:30 PM - 10:00 PM In-Person – Become a DM for TES Fest 2025 LGBT Community Center 208 W 13th St, New York, NY, United States Youngscientist, our TES Fest 2025 Chair of Safety, will be training all volunteers who signed up to be Dungeon Monitors for TES Fest 2025. If you're interested in learning for future TES events but didn't sign up, please register anyway—education is knowledge capital for our community. As a Dungeon Monitor, you’ll learn how to: Develop skills to facilitate a safe dungeon environment Work effectively with a team Communicate respectfully and clearly Identify possible safety risks Understand the dos and don'ts of the role Devise solutions and alternative approaches To review best practices on skill-based play, and boundaries of consent in a dungeon environment Bio: @Youngscientist has been active in many facets of the scene for over 15 years. He’s volunteered and worked on staff for at least a dozen organizations throughout that time, including being one of the few Pro-DM’s in the NYC area. Knowledge has been one of his main driving forces, which led him to start teaching early on. He’s probably most well-known for teaching Wrestling/Grappling classes and hosting Jello and Lube Wrestling events. This class will be held at: The Center (The Lesbian, Gay, Bisexual & Transgender Community Center) 208 West 13th Street New York, NY To register in advance (strongly preferred): If you already have a TES account, CLICK HERE TO REGISTER Create a Member Portal account Members: use the same email address used when you purchased your membership. (Email membership@tes.org if you have forgotten the one you used when registering for TES.) Be sure to respond to confirmation email & choose a password. After that, log back into the Member Portal. Non-members: you will still need to make an account to register . Be sure to respond to confirmation email & choose a password. After that, log back into the Member Portal. To complete your purchase, return to this FL event page, click on THIS LINK and follow the instructions. Your membership discount will be automatically applied. To register on-site: There will be a QR code available to allow you to register on-site following the same process above, but TES will not be able to accept cash at the door. If cost is a barrier to attendance, please email customer-care@tes.org At the event, you'll have the opportunity to become a TES member by scanning our on-site QR code. Membership not only connects you with a vibrant community but also unlocks discounts for our flagship event: TES Fest 2025! TES Fest 2025: Celebrate Your Freedom to Be Kinky! Mark your calendars for July 3–6, 2025, as we take over our favorite hotel in Piscataway, NJ, for a weekend filled with: Educational Workshops: Over 90 classes, demos, and hands-on workshops covering a wide array of kinky skills and interests. Special Events: Meet & Greets, kinky speed dating, and more, offering endless opportunities to connect and have fun. Play Spaces: Custom-built indoor and outdoor dungeons equipped with top-notch equipment for your exploration. Vendors: A diverse selection of fetish and BDSM vendors, offering everything from corsets to whips. As a TES member, you'll enjoy exclusive discounts on TES Fest registration. Don't miss out on this premier event in the NYC Metro region, designed for everyone—from novices to seasoned veterans—to socialize, learn new skills, and have a great time. For more details, visit TESFest.org. Don't miss this chance to game, connect, and gear up for an unforgettable summer! Bring a friend, roll the dice, and let's make memories together. See you there!
May 13 @ 7:00 PM - 10:00 PM Online – Become a DM for TES Fest 2025 (Online Version) Virtual Youngscientist, our TES Fest 2025 Chair of Safety, will be training all volunteers who signed up to be Dungeon Monitors for TES Fest 2025. If you’re interested in learning for future TES events but didn’t sign up, please register anyway—education is knowledge capital for our community. As a Dungeon Monitor, you’ll learn how to: Develop skills to facilitate a safe dungeon environment Work effectively with a team Communicate respectfully and clearly Identify possible safety risks Understand the dos and don’ts of the role Devise solutions and alternative approaches To review best practices on skill-based play, and boundaries of consent in a dungeon environment Bio: @Youngscientist has been active in many facets of the scene for over 15 years. He’s volunteered and worked on staff for at least a dozen organizations throughout that time, including being one of the few Pro-DM’s in the NYC area. Knowledge has been one of his main driving forces, which led him to start teaching early on. He’s probably most well-known for teaching Wrestling/Grappling classes and hosting Jello and Lube Wrestling events. To register: MEMBERS - FREE Create a Member Portal account using the same email address used when you purchased your membership. (Email membership@tes.org if you have forgotten the one you used when registering for TES.) Be sure to respond to confirmation email & choose a password. After that, log back into the Member Portal. To complete your purchase, return to this FL event page, click on this link and follow the instructions. Your membership discount will be automatically applied. NON-MEMBERS - FREE Click here for this class. REGISTRATION CLOSES 30 MINUTES BEFORE START OF CLASS! ALL QUESTIONS GO TO CUSTOMER-CARE@TES.ORG! YOU WILL RECEIVE THE LOGIN LINK WITH THE CONFIRMATION EMAIL. **Note – if you are seeing an “event ended” screen – try one or more of the following: Refresh Clear cache Try a different browser** The DatingKinky platform is supported by multiple browsers, but if you are having any technical difficulties please try a different browser, as certain settings may interfere. Note that this link will only be active during scheduled meeting times. You are welcome to participate as actively as you are comfortable. By default, users' cameras and microphones will be switched off, and you may simply watch passively or participate solely by text in the chat box if you are uncomfortable being seen or heard. Please note that while we have selected this platform to be as private as possible while maintaining sufficient ease of use for participants, no online platform is ever fully secure. While all regular TES rules regarding privacy remain in effect, and anyone caught violating these rules will be subject to consequences (please see our Online Meeting Terms of Service), we advise participants to treat online events as though the event is being recorded by a third party. For more information on protecting your online privacy, please see our online privacy guide. TES Fest 2025: Celebrate Your Freedom to Be Kinky! Mark your calendars for July 3–6, 2025, as we take over our favorite hotel in Piscataway, NJ, for a weekend filled with: Educational Workshops: Over 90 classes, demos, and hands-on workshops covering a wide array of kinky skills and interests. Special Events: Meet & Greets, kinky speed dating, and more, offering endless opportunities to connect and have fun. Play Spaces: Custom-built indoor and outdoor dungeons equipped with top-notch equipment for your exploration. Vendors: A diverse selection of fetish and BDSM vendors, offering everything from corsets to whips. As a TES member, you'll enjoy exclusive discounts on TES Fest registration. Don't miss out on this premier event in the NYC Metro region, designed for everyone—from novices to seasoned veterans—to socialize, learn new skills, and have a great time. For more details, visit TESFest.org
