A newcomers introduction to BDSM: in this discussion/workshop we’ll go over the basics as we learn to explore this exciting world safely.  We’ll go over consent, negotiation, warm up, levels of play, playstyles, and of course bondage.  Please bring 1-2 pieces of ¼” (6mm) rope, 25-30 ft in length. Jute rope will also be available for purchase.   TES Members $5 Students & Military with ID $10 Reciprocal Groups $10 Non-Members $20 Cash Only

Stay tuned for more information about this class from Hypno Group co-facilitator and TES Writers Group leader, Jaden! TES Members $5 Students & Military with ID $10 Reciprocal Groups $10 Non-Members $20 Cash Only

Are you ready for service? A fresh new look at giving and receiving service from both ends. The art of providing and the knack of accepting service with calm and ease. A discussion with points of view from both sides of the slash. What can giving service look like? What are some the reactions or actions that comes with receiving service. How can you empower & care for a submissive who provides you service? How can you find meaning in delivering service impeccably? TES Members $5 Students & Military with ID $10 Reciprocal Groups $10 Non-Members $20 Cash Only

Open and free to all members with a membership card. Come hear about the work the board has been doing and learn how to get involved!

Are you new to the scene? New to the NYC area? Looking to get back into the scene after a long layoff? Just want to hang out with some fun and kinky people on a Sat night, in a safe, no pressure atmosphere with knowledgeable people to guide you if needed? Come alone or with partner(s). No dress code. No admission fee to the munch, just pay for your food and drinks. We'll be in the upstairs seating area by 8:30PM and then, we’re heading for the Avant Garde party at 10PM. Munch attendees get discounted admission of only $10 (usually $30)! We will be on the second floor of the Bread and Butter Café, located at 419 Park Ave S, New York, NY 10016, on the corner at 29th Street. Here are the Do's and Do Not's of the Munch: DO's Be friendly and courteous to each other. It is OK to ask each others' scene names, roles, and fetishes. If you do not have a scene name/ Fetlife handle, have a pseudonym. Get permission before touching someone else's belongings. Get permission before touching someone else. It is OK to drink responsibly at the munch. Respect others' privacy. DO NOT's Do NOT ask attendees their personal information (real name, middle name, last name, where they live, work, breed, go to school or favorite Starbucks location). Do NOT touch others without their permission. Do NOT touch others' belongings without their permission. Do NOT get intoxicated before or during the munch. You will be told to go home. Do NOT kink shame. Sometimes someone else's kink is not yours. Appreciate their differences. Do NOT bring outside food or beverages to the munch. Do NOT take pictures or videos during the munch. We prefer to maintain an environment of anonymity. Do NOT ask attendees their personal information (real name, middle name, last name, where they live, work, go to school, where they grew up, etc). We will be headed afterwards to the AVANT GARDE BDSM & FETISH PLAY DUNGEON PARTY @ THE PARTHENON with a special discount….only $10 admission for attendees (no sneaking into the munch last minute)! If you wish to attend the party, please observe their dress code of minimum all black or business attire. Questions? Write us at novice@tes.org.

Stay tuned for more information about the topic for this meeting of the TES Writing Group! TES Members $5 Students & Military with ID $10 Reciprocal Groups $10 Non-Members $20 Cash Only

Stay tuned for more info about this panel on women of color in kink! TES Members $5 Students & Military with ID $10 Reciprocal Groups $10 Non-Members $20 Cash Only