• IN-PERSON – Game Night Social

    LGBT Community Center 208 W 13th St, New York, NY, United States

    Ready to make more like-minded friends in a non-judgmental environment? Join us for a FREE exciting evening of fun and board games. Get together with your @TES-NYC friends for a relaxing social. While we will have some popular board games available, feel free to bring some of your favorites. All are welcome. Please register before attending for convenience and more fun! This class will be held at: The Center (The Lesbian, Gay, Bisexual & Transgender Community Center) 208 West 13th Street New York, NY --- To register in advance (strongly preferred): If you already have a TES account, CLICK HERE TO REGISTER MEMBERS/NON-MEMBERS - FREE 1. Create a Member Portal account Members: Use the same email address used when you purchased your membership. (Email membership@tes.org if you have forgotten the one you used when registering for TES.) Be sure to respond to the confirmation email & choose a password. After that, log back into the Member Portal. Non-members: You will still need to make an account to register. Be sure to respond to the confirmation email & choose a password. After that, log back into the Member Portal. 2. To complete your purchase, return to this FL event page, click on THIS LINK, and follow the instructions. Your membership discount will be automatically applied. To register on-site: There will be a QR code available to allow you to register on-site following the same process above, but TES will not be able to accept cash at the door. If cost is a barrier to attendance, please email customer-care@tes.org

  • TES FEST 2025

    Piscataway, NJ Piscataway, NJ, United States

    TES Fest takes over an entire hotel, inside and out, in Piscataway, New Jersey, so people can come together to learn, connect, and grow with kinksters from all over the NYC Metro area, the country, and the world! Join us and attend classes, meetups, and special events that cover a wide range of topics and interests. Come explore, educate, and entertain yourselves! How do I register? CLICK HERE! To purchase a ticket, log in using the same email address you used when you purchased your TES membership. From there, you can buy a ticket. If you have not created an account, create one and then follow the directions above. WHAT TO LOOK FORWARD TO: Lots of Kinky Learning With local, national, and international presenters, TES Fest features a host of classes, demos, and hands-on workshops, covering a wide variety of kinky skills and interests. Tons of Kinky Fun! In addition to classes, special events like meet & greets, kinky speed dating, and more will take place throughout the long weekend. To fulfill your play space needs, we feature a variety of custom equipment and rigs, as well as an amazing outdoor dungeon! There are also fetish and BDSM vendors selling everything from corsets and knives to violet wand kits and whips! TES and TES Fest are committed to being a reliable and valuable BDSM community resource, a welcoming social environment, and a definitive educational outlet for those seeking to freely express their consensual sexuality.

  • ONLINE – TES Board Meeting

    Virtual

    Open to all current members. Information on how to join is distributed to the membership on the first of the month via our members-only newsletter, The Eulenspiegel Mirror. If you are a member, would like to join, and did not receive this information, please email secretary@tes.org We have board vacancies! Please click here to determine the requirements and consider nominating yourself. Need to renew your membership or join for the first time? Click here.

  • IN-PERSON – Bringing the War Fans Out to Play with Sir Sublime

    LGBT Community Center 208 W 13th St, New York, NY, United States

    War fans have been an unconventional toy for BDSM play for over two decades and are one that Sir Sublime holds dear in his heart. In this class, Sir Sublime will share his considerable knowledge on the history behind the use of War fans for kinky play, safety tips for both Tops and bottoms, and fun ways to incorporate war fans into your style of play. SirSublime has been publicly practicing BDSM since 2011 and has been a House Top and House Rigger for various play spaces during his journey. Sir Sublime considers himself a rope artist, toy maker, and educator. He is known for his sensual rope work, fan play, and his dedication to safety. Demo bottom: Lex Lively realized that she might be into impact play when she would look for any excuse to be paddled while in a sorority during her time in college. While fairly new to the public scene, she has spent the last few years learning and exploring, discovering new things that excite her almost constantly. She lives up to her name, meeting each moment with energy and enthusiasm, always looking forward to the next adventure. This class will be held at: The Center (The Lesbian, Gay, Bisexual & Transgender Community Center) 208 West 13th Street New York, NY To register in advance (strongly preferred): If you already have a TES account, CLICK HERE TO REGISTER MEMBERS -$10 / NON-MEMBERS - $25 Create a Member Portal account: Members: Use the same email address you used when you purchased your membership. (Email membership@tes.org if you have forgotten the one you used when registering for TES.) Be sure to respond to the confirmation email & choose a password. After that, log back into the Member Portal. Non-members: You will still need to make an account to register. Be sure to respond to the confirmation email & choose a password. After that, log back into the Member Portal. To complete your purchase, click on THIS LINK and follow the instructions. Your membership discount will be automatically applied. To register on-site: There will be a QR code available to allow you to register on-site following the same process above, but TES will not be able to accept cash at the door. If cost is a barrier to attendance, please email customer-care@tes.org

  • IN-PERSON – TES Monthly Munch

    Skylight Diner 402 West 34th Street, New York, NY, United States

    Whether you’re new to the scene, an old friend, or just passing through, we’re excited to see you! We meet every month on the first Monday of the month. Join us! Our hosts will be there to welcome you and answer any questions. Attending this event is free beyond paying for the food you order (and please tip your server well!) The TES Munch is our monthly gathering on the first Monday of each month. It’s a great opportunity to meet and hang out with your fellow kinksters in a low-key, low-pressure environment. It is open to all members of the community in good standing, and those who are new to the scene are especially encouraged to attend. There is no requirement to RSVP ahead of time, and you do not need to be a TES member to attend. Please note that we highly encourage all attendees to be vaccinated and up-to-date against COVID-19. However, this event is hosted at a diner that is open to other patrons, and we cannot control anything beyond what the restaurant requires. Please assess your own risk profiles and act accordingly. We will be providing a discrete option for contact tracing, which is highly encouraged.

  • IN-PERSON – The Art of Tittie Torture with AngelFireQueen

    LGBT Community Center 208 W 13th St, New York, NY, United States

    This class welcomes all body types, genders, and/or gender-nonconforming. What comes to mind when you see that tittie? There's no single right answer, and this class embraces the spectrum of possibilities. As a devoted "boob-lover," Angel often receives requests for specific forms of breast worship; many of her masochistic "breastfriends" seek the thrill of bruises and marks. As an artist dedicated to safe pleasure, Angel has cultivated numerous effective techniques for consensual breast torture, and she's eager to share her findings. This class provides a rich array of options for "tittie torture," from psychological methods to those leaving no marks, and those designed for deep bruising.  Whether the occasion calls for subtle intensity or extreme impact, you'll discover a wealth of techniques, including those that create sensation without physical touch. Explore popular methods alongside more unique and intense approaches, all depending on your desired outcome. Learn Angel's favorite techniques, like how to create those beautiful, deep purple bruises many desire, or how to inflict profound pain without leaving a trace. This dynamic class focuses entirely on breasts, spanning the spectrum from the deeply sensual to the exquisitely painful. Each session emphasizes consent, safe practices, and crucial aftercare. You're welcome to attend solo or with your "breastfriends"; the class includes dedicated time for demonstrations and hands-on practice. Don't forget to bring your favorite toys for a show-and-tell at the end of the workshop.  @AngelFireQueen, as a passionate advocate for "Boobie Worship," is thrilled to present "The Art of Tittie Torture. Bio: Meet Angel (she/her), a multifaceted switch, poly, and pansexual energy player who thrives on community connection. Originally from Latin America, she's called NYC home for 17 years, driven by a constant desire to learn, evolve, and safely explore. Since discovering the kink community in 2021, Angel has become deeply involved, regularly attending parties, events, classes, and workshops. Her current passions span fire, electro play, all forms of sensation, rope, and breast worship/torture. Angel infuses the community with her unique and passionate energy. In her professional life, she guides people to their dream homes. This class will be held at: The Center (The Lesbian, Gay, Bisexual & Transgender Community Center) 208 West 13th Street New York, NY To register in advance (strongly preferred): If you already have a TES account, CLICK HERE TO REGISTER MEMBERS -$10 / NON-MEMBERS - $25 Create a Member Portal account: Members: Use the same email address you used when you purchased your membership. (Email membership@tes.org if you have forgotten the one you used when registering for TES.) Be sure to respond to the confirmation email & choose a password. After that, log back into the Member Portal. Non-members: You will still need to make an account to register. Be sure to respond to the confirmation email & choose a password. After that, log back into the Member Portal. To complete your purchase, click on THIS LINK and follow the instructions. Your membership discount will be automatically applied. To register on-site: There will be a QR code available to allow you to register on-site following the same process above, but TES will not be able to accept cash at the door. If cost is a barrier to attendance, please email customer-care@tes.org

  • ONLINE – TES Board Meeting

    Virtual

    Open to all current members. Information on how to join is distributed to the membership on the first of the month via our members-only newsletter, The Eulenspiegel Mirror. If you are a member, would like to join, and did not receive this information, please email secretary@tes.org We have board vacancies! Please click here to determine the requirements and consider nominating yourself. Need to renew your membership or join for the first time? Click here.

  • IN-PERSON – BDSM 101 with Goddess Coko and Sadomasochist Sal

    LGBT Community Center 208 W 13th St, New York, NY, United States

    Curious about BDSM? Whether you're a beginner or returning to the scene, this class is your perfect starting point! We'll cover consent models, essential safety and negotiation skills, basic vocabulary, roles, and archetypes. Discover what BDSM is (and isn't!) and how to navigate munches and play parties. Our goal is to give you the foundation to explore kink safely, solo or with partners. Ready to dive in? Bio: Goddess Coko (she/her) had been an active member of the NYC kink scene for over 20+ years. She is happy and excited to be back serving on the TES Board as Secretary, a role she is familiar with when she served on the Board from 2008 to 2009. She returned to this role in November 2023 as an interim Director. Goddess Coko serves as Chair of the Communications and Promotions Committees, Vice Chair of Community Relations, and volunteers on the POC Committee.  Goddess Coko is also a Founding Mother of ONYX PEARLS NY-Northeast and former Co-Head Mistress and Web Mistress for ClubFEM NYC. Goddess Coko is a proud member of Goddess House NJ, a FemDom-led Leather family. Sadomasochist Sal (he/him/they/them) has been active in the BDSM community since the summer of 2021. During this time, Sal has attended several conventions, including three TESFests, all of which he volunteered at, and has become a regular at several NYC-based play parties and munches. At the end of 2024, he began volunteering at TES, an organization he has been a member of since 2023. As a sadomasochist, Sal enjoys both receiving and inflicting physical pain when consent is explicitly given. Although he has a particular fondness for impact play, he also enjoys fire play, mummification, trampling, and rope suspension. And he is also a caregiver at heart, as he derives extreme pleasure from sharing his knowledge and experiences with others, especially those newer to the community. This class will be held at: The Center (The Lesbian, Gay, Bisexual & Transgender Community Center) 208 West 13th Street New York, NY To register in advance (strongly preferred): If you already have a TES account, CLICK HERE TO REGISTER MEMBERS -$10 / NON-MEMBERS - $25 Create a Member Portal account: Members: Use the same email address you used when you purchased your membership. (Email membership@tes.org if you have forgotten the one you used when registering for TES.) Be sure to respond to the confirmation email & choose a password. After that, log back into the Member Portal. Non-members: You will still need to make an account to register. Be sure to respond to the confirmation email & choose a password. After that, log back into the Member Portal. To complete your purchase, click on THIS LINK and follow the instructions. Your membership discount will be automatically applied. To register on-site: There will be a QR code available to allow you to register on-site following the same process above, but TES will not be able to accept cash at the door. If cost is a barrier to attendance, please email customer-care@tes.org

  • IN-PERSON – TES Monthly Munch

    Whether you’re new to the scene, an old friend, or just passing through, we’re excited to see you!  Normally, we meet every month on the first Monday of the month, except when it falls on a national holiday. Because the first Monday of September is Labor Day, we will be meeting on the 2nd Monday of the Month, on the 8th. Join us! Our hosts will be there to welcome you and answer any questions. Attending this event is free beyond paying for the food you order (and please tip your server well!) The TES Munch is our monthly gathering on the first Monday of each month. It’s a great opportunity to meet and hang out with your fellow kinksters in a low-key, low-pressure environment. It is open to all members of the community in good standing, and those who are new to the scene are especially encouraged to attend. There is no requirement to RSVP ahead of time, and you do not need to be a TES member to attend. Please note that we highly encourage all attendees to be vaccinated and up-to-date against COVID-19. However, this event is hosted at a diner that is open to other patrons, and we cannot control anything beyond what the restaurant requires. Please assess your own risk profiles and act accordingly. We will be providing a discrete option for contact tracing, which is highly encouraged.

  • IN-PERSON – I Am Not Left-Handed: A Class on Anatomy and Swordplay

    LGBT Community Center 208 W 13th St, New York, NY, United States

    Hone your impact scenes with Boss Dian's 'Anatomy and Swordplay' class. This informative session covers the proper use of swordplay with anatomy fundamentals. This beginner-friendly class, open to all tops and bottoms, will explore how to incorporate swordplay into your scenes. Boss Dian will lead discussions and demonstrations on how to use their favorite impact tool. They will provide information on negotiation, safe striking areas of the body, and ensuring both safety and dramatic effect. *This is an impact class. There will be no cutting scenes during the demonstration. Bio: The Boss Dian, lifestyle switch, professional Dominatrix, and occasional kink muppet, has been cackling maniacally at parties and dungeons since 2009. An impact top, Dian loves finding unique tools and skills to optimize a scene. Ask about the time they used drumsticks and a rubber chicken one evening. Location and Cost Location: The Center (The Lesbian, Gay, Bisexual & Transgender Community Center)  208 West 13th Street,  New York, NY 10011 Cost: Members: $10 Non-Members: $25 Registration in advance is strongly encouraged due to limited internet access at the venue. Note: Each attendee will need to have a separate account to register. Online Registration: If You Already Have an Account Register: Click here to go to the class registration page. Log in: Use your existing account information to log in and register for the class. Your membership discount will be applied automatically. Complete Purchase: Follow the instructions to complete your payment. Your membership discount will be automatically applied. If You Need to Create an Account For Members: Create Your Account: Go to the Member Portal and create your account here. Be sure to use the same email address you used when you purchased your TES membership. If you've forgotten it, email membership@tes.org for assistance. Confirm Your Email: Check your inbox for a confirmation email and follow the link to set your password. Log In and Register: Click this link to log back into the Member Portal and register for the class.  Complete Purchase: Follow the instructions to complete your payment. Your membership discount will be automatically applied. For Non-Members: Create Your Account: Go to the registration page and create your member portal account here. Confirm Your Email: Check your inbox for a confirmation email and follow the link to enter your password. Log In and Register: Click this link to log back into the Member Portal and register for the class.  Complete Purchase: Follow the instructions to complete your payment. On-Site Registration On-site registration is available, but please be aware that internet access may be limited. You will be able to register by scanning a QR code with your smartphone. The registration process is the same as the advanced registration steps listed above. Cash payments are not accepted at the door.