February 3 @ 7:00 PM - 10:00 PM IN-PERSON – TES Monthly Munch Skylight Diner 402 West 34th Street, New York, NY, United States Whether you’re new to the scene, an old friend, or just passing through, we’re excited to see you! We meet every month on the first Monday of the month. Join us! Our hosts will be there to welcome you and answer any questions. Attending this event is free beyond paying for the food you order (and please tip your server well!) The TES Munch is our monthly gathering on the first Monday of each month. It’s a great opportunity to meet and hang out with your fellow kinksters in a low-key, low-pressure environment. It is open to all members of the community in good standing, and those who are new to the scene are especially encouraged to attend. There is no requirement to RSVP ahead of time, and you do not need to be a TES member to attend. Please note that we highly encourage all attendees to be vaccinated and up-to-date against COVID-19. However, this event is hosted at a diner that is open to other patrons, and we cannot control anything beyond what the restaurant requires. Please assess your own risk profiles and act accordingly. We will be providing a discrete option for contact tracing, which is highly encouraged.
February 13 @ 7:30 PM - 10:00 PM IN PERSON – Negotiation: Getting What You Need LGBT Community Center 208 W 13th St, New York, NY, United States Goddess Coko is here to help you determine what you want, how to achieve it, and how to lock it down with a verbal agreement. You'll learn how to pinpoint your needs and comprehend what others are seeking, as well. We will explore various negotiation styles, types of relationships, and how to negotiate discussions. Additionally, you'll gain practical experience to enhance your negotiation skills. By the end of the class, you'll feel confident and prepared to negotiate like a pro in your next scene or relationship. Bio: Goddess Coko had been an active member of the NYC kink scene for over 20+ years. She is happy and excited to be back serving on the TES Board as Secretary, a role she is familiar with when she served on the Board from 2008-2009. She returned to this role on November 20 23 as an interim Director. Goddess Coko serves as Chair of the Communications and Promotions Committees, Vice Chair of Community Relations, and volunteers on the POC Committee. Goddess Coko is also a Founding Mother of ONYX PEARLS NY-Northeast and former Co-Head Mistress and Web Mistress for ClubFEM NYC. Goddess Coko is a proud member of Goddess House NJ, a FemDom-led Leather family. To register in advance (strongly preferred): If you already have a TES account, CLICK HERE TO REGISTER MEMBERS -$10 / NON-MEMBERS - $25 Create a Member Portal account Members: Use the same email address you used when you purchased your membership. (Email membership@tes.org if you have forgotten the one you used when registering for TES.) Be sure to respond to the confirmation email & choose a password. After that, log back into the Member Portal. Non-members: You will still need to make an account to register. Be sure to respond to the confirmation email & choose a password. After that, log back into the Member Portal. To complete your purchase, click on THIS LINK and follow the instructions. Your membership discount will be automatically applied. To register on-site: There will be a QR code available to allow you to register on-site following the same process above, but TES will not be able to accept cash at the door. If cost is a barrier to attendance, please email customer-care@tes.org. $10 – $25
February 24 @ 7:00 PM - 10:00 PM ONLINE – February Board Meeting Virtual Open to all current members. Information on how to join is distributed to the membership on the first of the month via our membership newsletter, The Eulenspeigel Mirror. If you are a member, would like to join, and did not receive this information, please email secretary@tes.org Need to renew your membership or join for the first time? Click here.
Featured February 27 @ 7:30 PM - 10:00 PM IN PERSON – Black History Month Roundtable LGBT Community Center 208 W 13th St, New York, NY, United States TES is proud to present a special Black History Month round table event featuring guest speakers from our BDSM community. We believe this event will foster greater understanding and provide valuable perspectives on the experiences of Black community members. We invite everyone to join us in celebrating and recognizing the contributions of Black members of our community. All are welcome to attend this significant event. Please register for this free event before attending to save time on-site To register in advance (strongly preferred): If you already have a TES account, CLICK HERE TO REGISTER Create a Member Portal account Members: Use the same email address you used when you purchased your membership. (Email membership@tes.org if you have forgotten the one you used when registering for TES.) Be sure to respond to the confirmation email & choose a password. After that, log back into the Member Portal. Non-members: You will still need to make an account to register. Be sure to respond to the confirmation email & choose a password. After that, log back into the Member Portal. To complete your purchase, return to this FL event page, click on THIS LINK, and follow the instructions. Your membership discount will be automatically applied. To register on-site: There will be a QR code available to allow you to register on-site following the same process above, but TES will not be able to accept cash at the door. If cost is a barrier to attendance, please email customer-care@tes.org Free
March 3 @ 7:00 PM - 10:00 PM IN-PERSON – TES Monthly Munch Skylight Diner 402 West 34th Street, New York, NY, United States Whether you’re new to the scene, an old friend, or just passing through, we’re excited to see you! We meet every month on the first Monday of the month. Join us! Our hosts will be there to welcome you and answer any questions. Attending this event is free beyond paying for the food you order (and please tip your server well!) The TES Munch is our monthly gathering on the first Monday of each month. It’s a great opportunity to meet and hang out with your fellow kinksters in a low-key, low-pressure environment. It is open to all members of the community in good standing, and those who are new to the scene are especially encouraged to attend. There is no requirement to RSVP ahead of time, and you do not need to be a TES member to attend. Please note that we highly encourage all attendees to be vaccinated and up-to-date against COVID-19. However, this event is hosted at a diner that is open to other patrons, and we cannot control anything beyond what the restaurant requires. Please assess your own risk profiles and act accordingly. We will be providing a discrete option for contact tracing, which is highly encouraged. Pay for your food and drink & tip generously
March 17 @ 7:00 PM - 10:00 PM ONLINE – March Board Meeting Virtual Open to all current members. Information on how to join is distributed to the membership on the first of the month via our membership newsletter, The Eulenspeigel Mirror. If you are a member, would like to join, and did not receive this information, please email secretary@tes.org Need to renew your membership or join for the first time? Click here. Free
March 20 @ 7:30 PM - 10:00 PM IN-PERSON – Creative Sadism with Jonnyace and brightbitter LGBT Community Center 208 W 13th St, New York, NY, United States A new sensation, a creative use of different and exciting tools, and using techniques that are less commonly used are some of the fun things for tops, and bottoms when playing with pain. In this hands-on 101 level class, Jonnyace and brightnbitter will discuss the why, and how, of using alternative means to create physical and mental pain. Using everyday items, not so everyday items, and some alternative techniques, you will learn sadism that goes beyond impact. Bios: @Jonnyace (They/Them) is a queer, non-binary polyamorous kinkster. They are a life coach focusing on gender, sexual, and romantic minorities. Jon leads the Hudson Valley Polyamory Society, as well as being a member of the Ascend Incident Response Team, and the Head DM of Ascend Hudson Valley. They have been in the public kink scene for over a decade, and have been sharing their knowledge with kink communities holding classes, demos, and discussion groups on topics including medical play, D/s dynamics, polyamory, and more @Brightnbitter (She/They) is a queer polyamorous switch who enjoys service oriented submission and topping for rope and impact play. She is active in the kink community in Southern New England and the Hudson Valley region, and is a constant learner and passionate presenter on topics that include D/s dynamics in non-monogamy, safety and consent practices in scenes and relationships, and techniques for fun and fulfilling kinky play. To register in advance (strongly preferred): If you already have a TES account, CLICK HERE TO REGISTER MEMBERS -$10 / NON-MEMBERS - $25 Create a Member Portal account Members: Use the same email address you used when you purchased your membership. (Email membership@tes.org if you have forgotten the one you used when registering for TES.) Be sure to respond to the confirmation email & choose a password. After that, log back into the Member Portal. Non-members: You will still need to make an account to register. Be sure to respond to the confirmation email & choose a password. After that, log back into the Member Portal. To complete your purchase, click on THIS LINK and follow the instructions. Your membership discount will be automatically applied. To register on-site: There will be a QR code available to allow you to register on-site following the same process above, but TES will not be able to accept cash at the door. If cost is a barrier to attendance, please email customer-care@tes.org $10 – $25
March 27 @ 7:30 PM - 10:00 PM IN-PERSON – Game Night & Membership Drive LGBT Community Center 208 W 13th St, New York, NY, United States Join us on Thursday, March 27, from 7:30–10 PM at the LGBT Community Center for an evening of games, laughter, and community connection! Whether you're a board game enthusiast, a card player, or just looking for a fun night out, we've got something for everyone. Exclusive Perks Await! At the event, you'll have the opportunity to become a TES member by scanning our on-site QR code. Membership not only connects you with a vibrant community but also unlocks discounts for our flagship event: TES Fest 2025! TES Fest 2025: Celebrate Your Freedom to Be Kinky! Mark your calendars for July 3–6, 2025, as we take over our favorite hotel in Piscataway, NJ, for a weekend filled with: Educational Workshops: Over 90 classes, demos, and hands-on workshops covering a wide array of kinky skills and interests. Special Events: Meet & Greets, kinky speed dating, and more, offering endless opportunities to connect and have fun. Play Spaces: Custom-built indoor and outdoor dungeons equipped with top-notch equipment for your exploration. Vendors: A diverse selection of fetish and BDSM vendors, offering everything from corsets to whips. As a TES member, you'll enjoy exclusive discounts on TES Fest registration. Don't miss out on this premier event in the NYC Metro region, designed for everyone—from novices to seasoned veterans—to socialize, learn new skills, and have a great time. For more details, visit TESFest.org. Don't miss this chance to game, connect, and gear up for an unforgettable summer! Bring a friend, roll the dice, and let's make memories together. See you there! This class will be held at: The Center (The Lesbian, Gay, Bisexual & Transgender Community Center) 208 West 13th Street New York, NY To register in advance (strongly preferred): If you already have a TES account, CLICK HERE TO REGISTER. 1. Create a Member Portal account. Members: Use the same email address used when you purchased your membership. (Email membership@tes.org if you have forgotten the one you used when registering for TES.) Be sure to respond to the confirmation email & choose a password. After that, log back into the Member Portal. Non-members: You will still need to make an account to register. Be sure to respond to the confirmation email & choose a password. After that, log back into the Member Portal. 2. To complete your purchase, return to this FL event page, click on THIS LINK, and follow the instructions. Your membership discount will be automatically applied. To register on-site: There will be a QR code available to allow you to register on-site following the same process above, but TES will not be able to accept cash at the door. If cost is a barrier to attendance, please email customer-care@tes.org. Free
April 7 @ 7:30 PM - 10:00 PM IN-PERSON – TES Monthly Munch Skylight Diner 402 West 34th Street, New York, NY, United States Whether you’re new to the scene, an old friend, or just passing through, we’re excited to see you! We meet every month on the first Monday of the month. Join us! Our hosts will be there to welcome you and answer any questions. Attending this event is free beyond paying for the food you order (and please tip your server well!) The TES Munch is our monthly gathering on the first Monday of each month. It’s a great opportunity to meet and hang out with your fellow kinksters in a low-key, low-pressure environment. It is open to all members of the community in good standing, and those who are new to the scene are especially encouraged to attend. There is no requirement to RSVP ahead of time, and you do not need to be a TES member to attend. Please note that we highly encourage all attendees to be vaccinated and up-to-date against COVID-19. However, this event is hosted at a diner that is open to other patrons, and we cannot control anything beyond what the restaurant requires. Please assess your own risk profiles and act accordingly. We will be providing a discrete option for contact tracing, which is highly encouraged. Pay for your food and drink & tip generously
April 10 @ 7:30 PM - 10:00 PM IN-PERSON – Violet Wand Play 101: An Electrifying Introduction LGBT Community Center 208 W 13th St, New York, NY, United States Are you curious about adding a spark to your play? This introductory class on Violet Wand Play will guide you through the exciting world of electrostimulation, covering the basics of safety, technique, and creativity. You'll learn: How a Violet Wand Works – Understanding the mechanics and types of devices. Safety & Precautions – Best practices to ensure safe and consensual play. Basic Techniques – Hands-on demonstrations of direct and indirect methods. Electro Sensations – Exploring how different attachments and accessories create a range of experiences, from tingling to intense. Building Confidence – Tips for negotiation, communication, and creating an electrifying scene. This class is perfect for beginners or those looking to refine their skills. Whether you’re interested in sensation play, artistic experimentation, or just learning something new, this class will leave you buzzing with excitement. Bios: Malswitch has been an active Switch in the LS for 18 years, beginning his journey as a submissive bottom under a sadistic Mistress. During the nine years in the U.S. Army, he took the opportunity to explore multi-state classes, dungeons, and dynamics in his free time. It was during this period that he discovered his dominant side. His involvement in the community began in NYC and later expanded to the Long Island scene upon returning home. A sensualist with sado-masochistic tendencies, Malswitch enjoys impact, edge play, knife play, sensual play, and bondage, with a particular passion for electro-play. He has dedicated extensive time and resources to refining his skills, accumulating countless classroom hours, and building a well-equipped electro tool kit. Angel (any pronouns) is a multifaceted clown, dynamic switch, poly, pansexual, energy player, and community seeker. Always eager to learn, evolve, and have fun in the safest way possible. Discovering the Kinky community in 2021, Angel has been actively involved in attending parties, events, workshops, and classes. Active kinks includes: fire play, electro, all things sensation, tickling, rope, and tittie worship/torture, Angel brings a unique and passionate energy to their community. In their regular life, Angel helps people find their dream home. This class will be held at: The Center (The Lesbian, Gay, Bisexual & Transgender Community Center) 208 West 13th Street New York, NY To register in advance (strongly preferred): If you already have a TES account, CLICK HERE TO REGISTER MEMBERS -$10 / NON-MEMBERS - $25 Create a Member Portal account Members: Use the same email address you used when you purchased your membership. (Email membership@tes.org if you have forgotten the one you used when registering for TES.) Be sure to respond to the confirmation email & choose a password. After that, log back into the Member Portal. Non-Members: You will still need to make an account to register. Be sure to respond to the confirmation email & choose a password. After that, log back into the Member Portal. To complete your purchase, click on THIS LINK and follow the instructions. Your membership discount will be automatically applied. To register on-site: There will be a QR code available to allow you to register on-site following the same process above, but TES will not be able to accept cash at the door. If cost is a barrier to attendance, please email customer-care@tes.org
