• IN-PERSON – TES Back at Folsom Street East

    27th Street Between 10th & 11th Avenues 27th Street Between 10th & 11th Avenues, New York, Hungary

    TES Makes Triumphant Return to Folsom Street East! Get ready, kinksters and revelers! After a long-awaited hiatus since 2019, TES is officially back at Folsom Street East! We're thrilled to announce our return with a dedicated booth, and we want you to be a part of the excitement. This is your chance to reconnect with your favorite kinky TES friends, soak in the vibrant atmosphere, and even snag a moment of shaded respite from the sun. The TES Booth isn't just a meeting point; it's a haven where you can recharge and connect with the community. Volunteer with TES and Get Your Respite! Want to help make our return unforgettable and enjoy a comfortable break? We're looking for enthusiastic volunteers to be ambassadors at the TES booth for 2-hour shifts. It's the perfect opportunity to lend a hand, meet new people, and enjoy a well-deserved sit-down in the shade. Folsom Street East is happening on Sunday, June 15th, from 11 AM to 6 PM, rain or shine. Our volunteer shifts run from 9 AM to 7 PM, offering flexibility throughout the day. If you're interested in a 2-hour shift, please email volunteers@tes.org to sign up. Important Information for Volunteers Please note that all volunteers must purchase a ticket to enter Folsom Street East. You can secure your ticket by paying $20 with cash at The Entrance or Prepay HERE. Don't miss this incredible opportunity to celebrate with TES at Folsom Street East! We can't wait to see you there. Since 1997, Folsom Street East celebrates and inspires participation and pride in fetish, kink, and LGBTQIA+ communities through the creation of safe spaces for public expression of our sexual identities. The Folsom Street East festival has become an annual highlight of the global fetish/kink calendar as a sex and body-positive shared space on the streets of New York City. Folsom Street East envisions a world where sexual self-discovery and fulfillment are supported by a safe and affirming environment. Access to diverse fetish/kink community spaces is expanded, and fear of stigma and negative repercussions is diminished. People are empowered to challenge sexual norms and add to a broad spectrum of sexual identities and expressions. This year's theme is "Bound Together". The Street will once again be lined with some 50 community groups and vendors that appeal to the LGBTQIA+ and the kink communities. A one-stop shop for fetish/kink gear, porn and toys. Folsom Street East is proud to honor this year's beneficiaries: New Alternatives NEWALTERNATIVESNYC.ORG Juntos VAMOSJUNTOS.ORG Princess Janae Place PRINCESSJANAEPLACE.ORG Galaei GALAEIQTBIPOC.ORG Folsom Street East is about freedom and fun, but to ensure the longevity of this year's festival and the comfort of all revelers, Folsom Street East requires everyone to follow these basic ground rules: … All attendees must be able to prove they are above the age of 18 by presenting a valid government-issued form of ID. … Consumption of alcohol is restricted to the confines of the event and only for those 21+. … Adequate space must be cleared, and consent must be given by all participants in any demo or scene. No demo or scene may involve blood or other bodily fluids. … No public sexual activity - this includes any form of oral or penetrative sex or masturbation. … No complete public nudity and no exposure of genitals. … Though we recognize that in public our photograph may be taken, we ask that you ask for explicit consent before taking someone's photograph or making them the subject of a video. … Wearing of any uniform/attire that promotes or could be associated with any form of hate or discrimination is not permitted. This is a rain or shine event, so throw on your best gear or come as you are to enjoy a day of kinky demos, vendors, music, and performances. Coatcheck will be available for $5.00. So, let’s have a great showing and meet up with old friends and even make some new friends, but overall let’s just have a great time at this year's Folsom Street East festival!!!

  • ONLINE – TES Board Meeting

    Virtual

    Open to all current members. Information on how to join is distributed to the membership on the first of the month via our members-only newsletter, The Eulenspiegel Mirror. If you are a member, would like to join, and did not receive this information, please email secretary@tes.org We have board vacancies! Please click here to determine the requirements and consider nominating yourself. Need to renew your membership or join for the first time? Click here.

  • IN-PERSON – Game Night Social

    LGBT Community Center 208 W 13th St, New York, NY, United States

    Ready to make more like-minded friends in a non-judgmental environment? Join us for a FREE exciting evening of fun and board games. Get together with your @TES-NYC friends for a relaxing social. While we will have some popular board games available, feel free to bring some of your favorites. All are welcome. Please register before attending for convenience and more fun! This class will be held at: The Center (The Lesbian, Gay, Bisexual & Transgender Community Center) 208 West 13th Street New York, NY --- To register in advance (strongly preferred): If you already have a TES account, CLICK HERE TO REGISTER MEMBERS/NON-MEMBERS - FREE 1. Create a Member Portal account Members: Use the same email address used when you purchased your membership. (Email membership@tes.org if you have forgotten the one you used when registering for TES.) Be sure to respond to the confirmation email & choose a password. After that, log back into the Member Portal. Non-members: You will still need to make an account to register. Be sure to respond to the confirmation email & choose a password. After that, log back into the Member Portal. 2. To complete your purchase, return to this FL event page, click on THIS LINK, and follow the instructions. Your membership discount will be automatically applied. To register on-site: There will be a QR code available to allow you to register on-site following the same process above, but TES will not be able to accept cash at the door. If cost is a barrier to attendance, please email customer-care@tes.org

  • TES FEST 2025

    Piscataway, NJ Piscataway, NJ, United States

    TES Fest takes over an entire hotel, inside and out, in Piscataway, New Jersey, so people can come together to learn, connect, and grow with kinksters from all over the NYC Metro area, the country, and the world! Join us and attend classes, meetups, and special events that cover a wide range of topics and interests. Come explore, educate, and entertain yourselves! How do I register? CLICK HERE! To purchase a ticket, log in using the same email address you used when you purchased your TES membership. From there, you can buy a ticket. If you have not created an account, create one and then follow the directions above. WHAT TO LOOK FORWARD TO: Lots of Kinky Learning With local, national, and international presenters, TES Fest features a host of classes, demos, and hands-on workshops, covering a wide variety of kinky skills and interests. Tons of Kinky Fun! In addition to classes, special events like meet & greets, kinky speed dating, and more will take place throughout the long weekend. To fulfill your play space needs, we feature a variety of custom equipment and rigs, as well as an amazing outdoor dungeon! There are also fetish and BDSM vendors selling everything from corsets and knives to violet wand kits and whips! TES and TES Fest are committed to being a reliable and valuable BDSM community resource, a welcoming social environment, and a definitive educational outlet for those seeking to freely express their consensual sexuality.

  • ONLINE – TES Board Meeting

    Virtual

    Open to all current members. Information on how to join is distributed to the membership on the first of the month via our members-only newsletter, The Eulenspiegel Mirror. If you are a member, would like to join, and did not receive this information, please email secretary@tes.org We have board vacancies! Please click here to determine the requirements and consider nominating yourself. Need to renew your membership or join for the first time? Click here.

  • IN-PERSON – Bringing the War Fans Out to Play with Sir Sublime

    LGBT Community Center 208 W 13th St, New York, NY, United States

    War fans have been an unconventional toy for BDSM play for over two decades and are one that Sir Sublime holds dear in his heart. In this class, Sir Sublime will share his considerable knowledge on the history behind the use of War fans for kinky play, safety tips for both Tops and bottoms, and fun ways to incorporate war fans into your style of play. SirSublime has been publicly practicing BDSM since 2011 and has been a House Top and House Rigger for various play spaces during his journey. Sir Sublime considers himself a rope artist, toy maker, and educator. He is known for his sensual rope work, fan play, and his dedication to safety. Demo bottom: Lex Lively realized that she might be into impact play when she would look for any excuse to be paddled while in a sorority during her time in college. While fairly new to the public scene, she has spent the last few years learning and exploring, discovering new things that excite her almost constantly. She lives up to her name, meeting each moment with energy and enthusiasm, always looking forward to the next adventure. This class will be held at: The Center (The Lesbian, Gay, Bisexual & Transgender Community Center) 208 West 13th Street New York, NY To register in advance (strongly preferred): If you already have a TES account, CLICK HERE TO REGISTER MEMBERS -$10 / NON-MEMBERS - $25 Create a Member Portal account: Members: Use the same email address you used when you purchased your membership. (Email membership@tes.org if you have forgotten the one you used when registering for TES.) Be sure to respond to the confirmation email & choose a password. After that, log back into the Member Portal. Non-members: You will still need to make an account to register. Be sure to respond to the confirmation email & choose a password. After that, log back into the Member Portal. To complete your purchase, click on THIS LINK and follow the instructions. Your membership discount will be automatically applied. To register on-site: There will be a QR code available to allow you to register on-site following the same process above, but TES will not be able to accept cash at the door. If cost is a barrier to attendance, please email customer-care@tes.org

  • IN-PERSON – TES Monthly Munch

    Skylight Diner 402 West 34th Street, New York, NY, United States

    Whether you’re new to the scene, an old friend, or just passing through, we’re excited to see you! We meet every month on the first Monday of the month. Join us! Our hosts will be there to welcome you and answer any questions. Attending this event is free beyond paying for the food you order (and please tip your server well!) The TES Munch is our monthly gathering on the first Monday of each month. It’s a great opportunity to meet and hang out with your fellow kinksters in a low-key, low-pressure environment. It is open to all members of the community in good standing, and those who are new to the scene are especially encouraged to attend. There is no requirement to RSVP ahead of time, and you do not need to be a TES member to attend. Please note that we highly encourage all attendees to be vaccinated and up-to-date against COVID-19. However, this event is hosted at a diner that is open to other patrons, and we cannot control anything beyond what the restaurant requires. Please assess your own risk profiles and act accordingly. We will be providing a discrete option for contact tracing, which is highly encouraged.

  • IN-PERSON – The Art of Tittie Torture with AngelFireQueen

    LGBT Community Center 208 W 13th St, New York, NY, United States

    This class welcomes all body types, genders, and/or gender-nonconforming. What comes to mind when you see that tittie? There's no single right answer, and this class embraces the spectrum of possibilities. As a devoted "boob-lover," Angel often receives requests for specific forms of breast worship; many of her masochistic "breastfriends" seek the thrill of bruises and marks. As an artist dedicated to safe pleasure, Angel has cultivated numerous effective techniques for consensual breast torture, and she's eager to share her findings. This class provides a rich array of options for "tittie torture," from psychological methods to those leaving no marks, and those designed for deep bruising.  Whether the occasion calls for subtle intensity or extreme impact, you'll discover a wealth of techniques, including those that create sensation without physical touch. Explore popular methods alongside more unique and intense approaches, all depending on your desired outcome. Learn Angel's favorite techniques, like how to create those beautiful, deep purple bruises many desire, or how to inflict profound pain without leaving a trace. This dynamic class focuses entirely on breasts, spanning the spectrum from the deeply sensual to the exquisitely painful. Each session emphasizes consent, safe practices, and crucial aftercare. You're welcome to attend solo or with your "breastfriends"; the class includes dedicated time for demonstrations and hands-on practice. Don't forget to bring your favorite toys for a show-and-tell at the end of the workshop.  @AngelFireQueen, as a passionate advocate for "Boobie Worship," is thrilled to present "The Art of Tittie Torture. Bio: Meet Angel (she/her), a multifaceted switch, poly, and pansexual energy player who thrives on community connection. Originally from Latin America, she's called NYC home for 17 years, driven by a constant desire to learn, evolve, and safely explore. Since discovering the kink community in 2021, Angel has become deeply involved, regularly attending parties, events, classes, and workshops. Her current passions span fire, electro play, all forms of sensation, rope, and breast worship/torture. Angel infuses the community with her unique and passionate energy. In her professional life, she guides people to their dream homes. This class will be held at: The Center (The Lesbian, Gay, Bisexual & Transgender Community Center) 208 West 13th Street New York, NY To register in advance (strongly preferred): If you already have a TES account, CLICK HERE TO REGISTER MEMBERS -$10 / NON-MEMBERS - $25 Create a Member Portal account: Members: Use the same email address you used when you purchased your membership. (Email membership@tes.org if you have forgotten the one you used when registering for TES.) Be sure to respond to the confirmation email & choose a password. After that, log back into the Member Portal. Non-members: You will still need to make an account to register. Be sure to respond to the confirmation email & choose a password. After that, log back into the Member Portal. To complete your purchase, click on THIS LINK and follow the instructions. Your membership discount will be automatically applied. To register on-site: There will be a QR code available to allow you to register on-site following the same process above, but TES will not be able to accept cash at the door. If cost is a barrier to attendance, please email customer-care@tes.org

  • ONLINE – TES Board Meeting

    Virtual

    Open to all current members. Information on how to join is distributed to the membership on the first of the month via our members-only newsletter, The Eulenspiegel Mirror. If you are a member, would like to join, and did not receive this information, please email secretary@tes.org We have board vacancies! Please click here to determine the requirements and consider nominating yourself. Need to renew your membership or join for the first time? Click here.

  • IN-PERSON – BDSM 101 with Goddess Coko and Sadomasochist Sal

    LGBT Community Center 208 W 13th St, New York, NY, United States

    Curious about BDSM? Whether you're a beginner or returning to the scene, this class is your perfect starting point! We'll cover consent models, essential safety and negotiation skills, basic vocabulary, roles, and archetypes. Discover what BDSM is (and isn't!) and how to navigate munches and play parties. Our goal is to give you the foundation to explore kink safely, solo or with partners. Ready to dive in? Bio: Goddess Coko (she/her) had been an active member of the NYC kink scene for over 20+ years. She is happy and excited to be back serving on the TES Board as Secretary, a role she is familiar with when she served on the Board from 2008 to 2009. She returned to this role in November 2023 as an interim Director. Goddess Coko serves as Chair of the Communications and Promotions Committees, Vice Chair of Community Relations, and volunteers on the POC Committee.  Goddess Coko is also a Founding Mother of ONYX PEARLS NY-Northeast and former Co-Head Mistress and Web Mistress for ClubFEM NYC. Goddess Coko is a proud member of Goddess House NJ, a FemDom-led Leather family. Sadomasochist Sal (he/him/they/them) has been active in the BDSM community since the summer of 2021. During this time, Sal has attended several conventions, including three TESFests, all of which he volunteered at, and has become a regular at several NYC-based play parties and munches. At the end of 2024, he began volunteering at TES, an organization he has been a member of since 2023. As a sadomasochist, Sal enjoys both receiving and inflicting physical pain when consent is explicitly given. Although he has a particular fondness for impact play, he also enjoys fire play, mummification, trampling, and rope suspension. And he is also a caregiver at heart, as he derives extreme pleasure from sharing his knowledge and experiences with others, especially those newer to the community. This class will be held at: The Center (The Lesbian, Gay, Bisexual & Transgender Community Center) 208 West 13th Street New York, NY To register in advance (strongly preferred): If you already have a TES account, CLICK HERE TO REGISTER MEMBERS -$10 / NON-MEMBERS - $25 Create a Member Portal account: Members: Use the same email address you used when you purchased your membership. (Email membership@tes.org if you have forgotten the one you used when registering for TES.) Be sure to respond to the confirmation email & choose a password. After that, log back into the Member Portal. Non-members: You will still need to make an account to register. Be sure to respond to the confirmation email & choose a password. After that, log back into the Member Portal. To complete your purchase, click on THIS LINK and follow the instructions. Your membership discount will be automatically applied. To register on-site: There will be a QR code available to allow you to register on-site following the same process above, but TES will not be able to accept cash at the door. If cost is a barrier to attendance, please email customer-care@tes.org