• TES Online – Discovering Dominance: A Guide to the Dominant Beginner

    Online

    Many and varied are the guides and resources for those who are new to the submissive lifestyle, but those who are new to the Dominant side appear to have limited avenues to explore. Are the expectations for the Dominant in relationships higher? Should they be? What types of skills are essential? Are they physical skills,

  • TES IN PERSON – Game Night Social

    LGBT Community Center 208 W 13th St, New York, NY, United States

    Ready to make more like-minded friends in a non-judgmental environment? Join us for an exciting evening of fun and board games. Get together with your @TES-NYC friends for a relaxing social. While we will have some popular board games available, feel free to bring some of your favorites. All are welcome. Please register before attending

  • ONLINE – TES Board Meeting

    Online

    Are you a current TES member? You're invited to our monthly board meeting! This is your chance to connect with fellow members, hear what the board is working on, and help shape the future of our organization. This meeting is online only and is open to current TES members only. How to Join All members

  • TES Online – Are Long Distance Relationships Viable?

    Online

    What happens when you encounter someone who meets most of your requirements - and the attraction and chemistry are palpable - but they live in another country or state? Consider a Long-Distance Relationship, especially if you don’t want to miss out on friendship (at the very least) or possibly building a viable connection with a

  • TES Online – Understanding Power Exchange: D/s For Everyone

    Power exchange is often touted as the pinnacle of BDSM experiences: elusive, alluring, and hard to get right. It can seem impossible to get started with D/s. How do you know what style or level of power exchange is right for you? How can you find and vet an appropriate partner? How do you navigate

  • TES IN PERSON – From Nervous Newbie to Intentional Sub: What I’m Actually Learning

    LGBT Community Center 208 W 13th St, New York, NY, United States

    Ever wonder what happens when curiosity meets kink and nerves turn into nuance? Join a senior submissive member of the community as he dishes the real lessons from his journey—from anxious newbie to confident, intentional sub. Expect laughs, insight, and ah-ha moments as we explore how mindful service transforms “Am I doing this right?” into

  • IN-PERSON: TES Monthly Munch

    Skylight Diner 402 West 34th Street, New York, NY, United States

    We'd love to have you at the TES Monthly Munch! Whether you're new to the scene, an old friend, or just curious, our monthly munch is a great opportunity to meet fellow kinksters in a low-key, low-pressure setting. There’s no need to RSVP, and everyone is welcome—you don’t even have to be a TES member

  • ONLINE – TES Board Meeting

    Virtual

    Are you a current TES member? You're invited to our monthly board meeting! This is your chance to connect with fellow members, hear what the board is working on, and help shape the future of our organization. This meeting is online only and is open to current TES members only. How to Join All members

  • TES Online – Understanding Power Exchange: D/s For Everyone

    Virtual

    Power exchange is often touted as the pinnacle of BDSM experiences: elusive, alluring, and hard to get right. It can seem impossible to get started with D/s. How do you know what style or level of power exchange is right for you? How can you find and vet an appropriate partner? How do you navigate

  • TES IN PERSON – Brat Lab: Approaching Brats for Play

    LGBT Community Center 208 W 13th St, New York, NY, United States

    Are you a bottom who likes to push your top’s buttons (consensually) but is trying to understand the potential risks in play? Are you a top who wants to provide ‘funishment’ during your scenes without crossing boundaries? Are you a switch that can’t turn your ‘top brain’ off in play? Come to this discussion-based class