March 27 @ 7:30 PM - 10:00 PM IN-PERSON – Game Night & Membership Drive LGBT Community Center 208 W 13th St, New York, NY, United States Join us on Thursday, March 27, from 7:30–10 PM at the LGBT Community Center for an evening of games, laughter, and community connection! Whether you're a board game enthusiast, a card player, or just looking for a fun night out, we've got something for everyone. Exclusive Perks Await! At the event, you'll have the opportunity to become a TES member by scanning our on-site QR code. Membership not only connects you with a vibrant community but also unlocks discounts for our flagship event: TES Fest 2025! TES Fest 2025: Celebrate Your Freedom to Be Kinky! Mark your calendars for July 3–6, 2025, as we take over our favorite hotel in Piscataway, NJ, for a weekend filled with: Educational Workshops: Over 90 classes, demos, and hands-on workshops covering a wide array of kinky skills and interests. Special Events: Meet & Greets, kinky speed dating, and more, offering endless opportunities to connect and have fun. Play Spaces: Custom-built indoor and outdoor dungeons equipped with top-notch equipment for your exploration. Vendors: A diverse selection of fetish and BDSM vendors, offering everything from corsets to whips. As a TES member, you'll enjoy exclusive discounts on TES Fest registration. Don't miss out on this premier event in the NYC Metro region, designed for everyone—from novices to seasoned veterans—to socialize, learn new skills, and have a great time. For more details, visit TESFest.org. Don't miss this chance to game, connect, and gear up for an unforgettable summer! Bring a friend, roll the dice, and let's make memories together. See you there! This class will be held at: The Center (The Lesbian, Gay, Bisexual & Transgender Community Center) 208 West 13th Street New York, NY To register in advance (strongly preferred): If you already have a TES account, CLICK HERE TO REGISTER. 1. Create a Member Portal account. Members: Use the same email address used when you purchased your membership. (Email membership@tes.org if you have forgotten the one you used when registering for TES.) Be sure to respond to the confirmation email & choose a password. After that, log back into the Member Portal. Non-members: You will still need to make an account to register. Be sure to respond to the confirmation email & choose a password. After that, log back into the Member Portal. 2. To complete your purchase, return to this FL event page, click on THIS LINK, and follow the instructions. Your membership discount will be automatically applied. To register on-site: There will be a QR code available to allow you to register on-site following the same process above, but TES will not be able to accept cash at the door. If cost is a barrier to attendance, please email customer-care@tes.org. Free
April 7 @ 7:30 PM - 10:00 PM IN-PERSON – TES Monthly Munch Skylight Diner 402 West 34th Street, New York, NY, United States Whether you’re new to the scene, an old friend, or just passing through, we’re excited to see you! We meet every month on the first Monday of the month. Join us! Our hosts will be there to welcome you and answer any questions. Attending this event is free beyond paying for the food you order (and please tip your server well!) The TES Munch is our monthly gathering on the first Monday of each month. It’s a great opportunity to meet and hang out with your fellow kinksters in a low-key, low-pressure environment. It is open to all members of the community in good standing, and those who are new to the scene are especially encouraged to attend. There is no requirement to RSVP ahead of time, and you do not need to be a TES member to attend. Please note that we highly encourage all attendees to be vaccinated and up-to-date against COVID-19. However, this event is hosted at a diner that is open to other patrons, and we cannot control anything beyond what the restaurant requires. Please assess your own risk profiles and act accordingly. We will be providing a discrete option for contact tracing, which is highly encouraged. Pay for your food and drink & tip generously
April 10 @ 7:30 PM - 10:00 PM IN-PERSON – Violet Wand Play 101: An Electrifying Introduction LGBT Community Center 208 W 13th St, New York, NY, United States Are you curious about adding a spark to your play? This introductory class on Violet Wand Play will guide you through the exciting world of electrostimulation, covering the basics of safety, technique, and creativity. You'll learn: How a Violet Wand Works – Understanding the mechanics and types of devices. Safety & Precautions – Best practices to ensure safe and consensual play. Basic Techniques – Hands-on demonstrations of direct and indirect methods. Electro Sensations – Exploring how different attachments and accessories create a range of experiences, from tingling to intense. Building Confidence – Tips for negotiation, communication, and creating an electrifying scene. This class is perfect for beginners or those looking to refine their skills. Whether you’re interested in sensation play, artistic experimentation, or just learning something new, this class will leave you buzzing with excitement. Bios: Malswitch has been an active Switch in the LS for 18 years, beginning his journey as a submissive bottom under a sadistic Mistress. During the nine years in the U.S. Army, he took the opportunity to explore multi-state classes, dungeons, and dynamics in his free time. It was during this period that he discovered his dominant side. His involvement in the community began in NYC and later expanded to the Long Island scene upon returning home. A sensualist with sado-masochistic tendencies, Malswitch enjoys impact, edge play, knife play, sensual play, and bondage, with a particular passion for electro-play. He has dedicated extensive time and resources to refining his skills, accumulating countless classroom hours, and building a well-equipped electro tool kit. Angel (any pronouns) is a multifaceted clown, dynamic switch, poly, pansexual, energy player, and community seeker. Always eager to learn, evolve, and have fun in the safest way possible. Discovering the Kinky community in 2021, Angel has been actively involved in attending parties, events, workshops, and classes. Active kinks includes: fire play, electro, all things sensation, tickling, rope, and tittie worship/torture, Angel brings a unique and passionate energy to their community. In their regular life, Angel helps people find their dream home. This class will be held at: The Center (The Lesbian, Gay, Bisexual & Transgender Community Center) 208 West 13th Street New York, NY To register in advance (strongly preferred): If you already have a TES account, CLICK HERE TO REGISTER MEMBERS -$10 / NON-MEMBERS - $25 Create a Member Portal account Members: Use the same email address you used when you purchased your membership. (Email membership@tes.org if you have forgotten the one you used when registering for TES.) Be sure to respond to the confirmation email & choose a password. After that, log back into the Member Portal. Non-Members: You will still need to make an account to register. Be sure to respond to the confirmation email & choose a password. After that, log back into the Member Portal. To complete your purchase, click on THIS LINK and follow the instructions. Your membership discount will be automatically applied. To register on-site: There will be a QR code available to allow you to register on-site following the same process above, but TES will not be able to accept cash at the door. If cost is a barrier to attendance, please email customer-care@tes.org
April 21 @ 7:00 PM ONLINE – April Board Meeting Virtual Open to all current members. Information on how to join is distributed to the membership on the first of the month via our membership newsletter, The Eulenspeigel Mirror. If you are a member, would like to join, and did not receive this information, please email secretary@tes.org Need to renew your membership or join for the first time? Click here. Free
April 24 @ 7:30 PM - 10:00 PM IN-PERSON – ABDL 101 with Sir Kenzo ONYX LGBT Community Center 208 W 13th St, New York, NY, United States ABDL 101 is a beginner-friendly class designed for those curious about Adult Baby/Diaper Lover (ABDL) and ageplay. We’ll break down common misconceptions, explore the differences between ABDL and ageplay, including how age players can embrace older identities, and discuss the various ways people engage with this lifestyle. The session includes a live diapering demonstration, practical tips for comfort and discretion, and guidance on finding supportive communities and resources. Whether you're exploring for yourself or supporting a partner, this class offers a judgment-free space to learn, ask questions, and discover what works for you. Bios: Sir Kenzo ONYX is a respected titleholder, kink educator, and community organizer with a passion for fostering inclusivity and education within the kink, Leather, and fetish communities. As an active member of ONYX NY Northeast, a Leather fraternity for men and siblings of color, Kenzo plays a crucial role in mentoring newcomers and creating safe, affirming spaces for LGBTQ+ and BIPOC individuals exploring their kink identities. With over a decade of experience in the kink world, Kenzo specializes in ageplay dynamics, power exchange relationships, ABDL, and intersectionality in fetish spaces. His work extends beyond education, as he is deeply involved in event planning, community-building initiatives, and advocacy for kinksters of color. He has presented and facilitated discussions at major kink and fetish events across the country, aiming to break stigmas and encourage self-acceptance within niche kink communities. Kenzo is also known for organizing Diaper Happy Hour in NYC, an ABDL social event, as well as working closely with organizations like ONYX, Gotham Kennel Club, and other groups to create inclusive kink spaces. His teaching style is engaging, informative, and always welcoming to individuals of all experience levels. Whether through education, mentorship, or event organizing, Kenzo is committed to ensuring that all kinksters—especially those from marginalized backgrounds—feel seen, heard, and supported in their journey. This class will be held at: The Center (The Lesbian, Gay, Bisexual & Transgender Community Center) 208 West 13th Street New York, NY To register in advance (strongly preferred): If you already have a TES account, CLICK HERE TO REGISTER MEMBERS -$10 / NON-MEMBERS - $25 Create a Member Portal account: Members: Use the same email address you used when you purchased your membership. (Email membership@tes.org if you have forgotten the one you used when registering for TES.) Be sure to respond to the confirmation email & choose a password. After that, log back into the Member Portal. Non-members: You will still need to make an account to register. Be sure to respond to the confirmation email & choose a password. After that, log back into the Member Portal. To complete your purchase, click on THIS LINK and follow the instructions. Your membership discount will be automatically applied. To register on-site: There will be a QR code available to allow you to register on-site following the same process above, but TES will not be able to accept cash at the door. If cost is a barrier to attendance, please email customer-care@tes.org
May 5 @ 7:00 PM - 10:00 PM IN-PERSON – TES Monthly Munch Whether you’re new to the scene, an old friend, or just passing through, we’re excited to see you! We meet every month on the first Monday of the month. Join us! Our hosts will be there to welcome you and answer any questions. Attending this event is free beyond paying for the food you order (and please tip your server well!) The TES Munch is our monthly gathering on the first Monday of each month. It’s a great opportunity to meet and hang out with your fellow kinksters in a low-key, low-pressure environment. It is open to all members of the community in good standing, and those who are new to the scene are especially encouraged to attend. There is no requirement to RSVP ahead of time, and you do not need to be a TES member to attend. Please note that we highly encourage all attendees to be vaccinated and up-to-date against COVID-19. However, this event is hosted at a diner that is open to other patrons, and we cannot control anything beyond what the restaurant requires. Please assess your own risk profiles and act accordingly. We will be providing a discrete option for contact tracing, which is highly encouraged.
May 8 @ 7:30 PM - 10:00 PM In-Person – Become a DM for TES Fest 2025 LGBT Community Center 208 W 13th St, New York, NY, United States Youngscientist, our TES Fest 2025 Chair of Safety, will be training all volunteers who signed up to be Dungeon Monitors for TES Fest 2025. If you're interested in learning for future TES events but didn't sign up, please register anyway—education is knowledge capital for our community. As a Dungeon Monitor, you’ll learn how to: Develop skills to facilitate a safe dungeon environment Work effectively with a team Communicate respectfully and clearly Identify possible safety risks Understand the dos and don'ts of the role Devise solutions and alternative approaches To review best practices on skill-based play, and boundaries of consent in a dungeon environment Bio: @Youngscientist has been active in many facets of the scene for over 15 years. He’s volunteered and worked on staff for at least a dozen organizations throughout that time, including being one of the few Pro-DM’s in the NYC area. Knowledge has been one of his main driving forces, which led him to start teaching early on. He’s probably most well-known for teaching Wrestling/Grappling classes and hosting Jello and Lube Wrestling events. This class will be held at: The Center (The Lesbian, Gay, Bisexual & Transgender Community Center) 208 West 13th Street New York, NY To register in advance (strongly preferred): If you already have a TES account, CLICK HERE TO REGISTER Create a Member Portal account Members: use the same email address used when you purchased your membership. (Email membership@tes.org if you have forgotten the one you used when registering for TES.) Be sure to respond to confirmation email & choose a password. After that, log back into the Member Portal. Non-members: you will still need to make an account to register . Be sure to respond to confirmation email & choose a password. After that, log back into the Member Portal. To complete your purchase, return to this FL event page, click on THIS LINK and follow the instructions. Your membership discount will be automatically applied. To register on-site: There will be a QR code available to allow you to register on-site following the same process above, but TES will not be able to accept cash at the door. If cost is a barrier to attendance, please email customer-care@tes.org At the event, you'll have the opportunity to become a TES member by scanning our on-site QR code. Membership not only connects you with a vibrant community but also unlocks discounts for our flagship event: TES Fest 2025! TES Fest 2025: Celebrate Your Freedom to Be Kinky! Mark your calendars for July 3–6, 2025, as we take over our favorite hotel in Piscataway, NJ, for a weekend filled with: Educational Workshops: Over 90 classes, demos, and hands-on workshops covering a wide array of kinky skills and interests. Special Events: Meet & Greets, kinky speed dating, and more, offering endless opportunities to connect and have fun. Play Spaces: Custom-built indoor and outdoor dungeons equipped with top-notch equipment for your exploration. Vendors: A diverse selection of fetish and BDSM vendors, offering everything from corsets to whips. As a TES member, you'll enjoy exclusive discounts on TES Fest registration. Don't miss out on this premier event in the NYC Metro region, designed for everyone—from novices to seasoned veterans—to socialize, learn new skills, and have a great time. For more details, visit TESFest.org. Don't miss this chance to game, connect, and gear up for an unforgettable summer! Bring a friend, roll the dice, and let's make memories together. See you there!
May 13 @ 7:00 PM - 10:00 PM Online – Become a DM for TES Fest 2025 (Online Version) Virtual Youngscientist, our TES Fest 2025 Chair of Safety, will be training all volunteers who signed up to be Dungeon Monitors for TES Fest 2025. If you’re interested in learning for future TES events but didn’t sign up, please register anyway—education is knowledge capital for our community. As a Dungeon Monitor, you’ll learn how to: Develop skills to facilitate a safe dungeon environment Work effectively with a team Communicate respectfully and clearly Identify possible safety risks Understand the dos and don’ts of the role Devise solutions and alternative approaches To review best practices on skill-based play, and boundaries of consent in a dungeon environment Bio: @Youngscientist has been active in many facets of the scene for over 15 years. He’s volunteered and worked on staff for at least a dozen organizations throughout that time, including being one of the few Pro-DM’s in the NYC area. Knowledge has been one of his main driving forces, which led him to start teaching early on. He’s probably most well-known for teaching Wrestling/Grappling classes and hosting Jello and Lube Wrestling events. To register: MEMBERS - FREE Create a Member Portal account using the same email address used when you purchased your membership. (Email membership@tes.org if you have forgotten the one you used when registering for TES.) Be sure to respond to confirmation email & choose a password. After that, log back into the Member Portal. To complete your purchase, return to this FL event page, click on this link and follow the instructions. Your membership discount will be automatically applied. NON-MEMBERS - FREE Click here for this class. REGISTRATION CLOSES 30 MINUTES BEFORE START OF CLASS! ALL QUESTIONS GO TO CUSTOMER-CARE@TES.ORG! YOU WILL RECEIVE THE LOGIN LINK WITH THE CONFIRMATION EMAIL. **Note – if you are seeing an “event ended” screen – try one or more of the following: Refresh Clear cache Try a different browser** The DatingKinky platform is supported by multiple browsers, but if you are having any technical difficulties please try a different browser, as certain settings may interfere. Note that this link will only be active during scheduled meeting times. You are welcome to participate as actively as you are comfortable. By default, users' cameras and microphones will be switched off, and you may simply watch passively or participate solely by text in the chat box if you are uncomfortable being seen or heard. Please note that while we have selected this platform to be as private as possible while maintaining sufficient ease of use for participants, no online platform is ever fully secure. While all regular TES rules regarding privacy remain in effect, and anyone caught violating these rules will be subject to consequences (please see our Online Meeting Terms of Service), we advise participants to treat online events as though the event is being recorded by a third party. For more information on protecting your online privacy, please see our online privacy guide. TES Fest 2025: Celebrate Your Freedom to Be Kinky! Mark your calendars for July 3–6, 2025, as we take over our favorite hotel in Piscataway, NJ, for a weekend filled with: Educational Workshops: Over 90 classes, demos, and hands-on workshops covering a wide array of kinky skills and interests. Special Events: Meet & Greets, kinky speed dating, and more, offering endless opportunities to connect and have fun. Play Spaces: Custom-built indoor and outdoor dungeons equipped with top-notch equipment for your exploration. Vendors: A diverse selection of fetish and BDSM vendors, offering everything from corsets to whips. As a TES member, you'll enjoy exclusive discounts on TES Fest registration. Don't miss out on this premier event in the NYC Metro region, designed for everyone—from novices to seasoned veterans—to socialize, learn new skills, and have a great time. For more details, visit TESFest.org
May 19 @ 12:00 AM ONLINE – May Board Meeting Open to all current members. Information on how to join is distributed to the membership on the first of the month via our membership newsletter, The Eulenspeigel Mirror. If you are a member, would like to join, and did not receive this information, please email secretary@tes.org Need to renew your membership or join for the first time? Click here.
May 22 @ 7:30 PM - 10:00 PM IN-PERSON – AANHPI Roundtable Discussion LGBT Community Center 208 W 13th St, New York, NY, United States In celebration of Asian American Native Hawaiian Pacific Islander Heritage (AANHPI) Month, TES-NYC will be hosting a roundtable discussion with community leaders: @HappyCindyyy @bindingdaisies @xoxoxin @brightnbitter @undergroundsea @malswitch @morriganwolf Come celebrate our diverse community and listen to the voices of our AANHPI community members. This event is a great opportunity to show your support and learn from others. Discussions will focus on creating intentional spaces and educating from different perspectives. We will have the opportunity to learn from these leaders as they share their experiences and insights. This event is open and welcome to everyone. We encourage all members of the TES-NYC community to attend, listen, and learn from this important conversation. This class will be held at: The Center (The Lesbian, Gay, Bisexual & Transgender Community Center) 208 West 13th Street New York, NY To register in advance (strongly preferred): If you already have a TES account, CLICK HERE TO REGISTER Create a Member Portal account Members: use the same email address used when you purchased your membership. (Email membership@tes.org if you have forgotten the one you used when registering for TES.) Be sure to respond to confirmation email & choose a password. After that, log back into the Member Portal. Non-members: you will still need to make an account to register . Be sure to respond to confirmation email & choose a password. After that, log back into the Member Portal. To complete your purchase, return to this FL event page, click on THIS LINK and follow the instructions. Your membership discount will be automatically applied. To register on-site: There will be a QR code available to allow you to register on-site following the same process above, but TES will not be able to accept cash at the door. If cost is a barrier to attendance, please email customer-care@tes.org
