• IN-PERSON: Rope and Neurodivergence

    LGBT Community Center 208 W 13th St, New York, NY, United States

    This class will explore the fascinating intersection of rope and neurodivergence. We'll delve into how elements like deep pressure, clear communication, sensory stimulation, and grounding, which are central to both BDSM and neurodivergence, beautifully overlap within the community. Drawing from both lived autistic/neurodivergent experience and extensive rope practice, the class will discuss and demonstrate: How topping and bottoming rope resonate in this context Important accommodations and considerations Neurodivergent-inclusive negotiation, tying, and active bottoming There will also be time for hands-on exploration for those who are interested, so bring your rope. Bios: Knotty Chris (he/him): Chris is a bottom/sub-leaning switch deeply involved in the NYC rope and kink scene since January 2024. He views rope & bondage as a connective somatic language and BDSM as a form of self-expression, shared energy, and joyful co-creation. As a passionate community builder and neurodivergent kinkster, Chris organizes two local munches (the movie-focused CineMunch and the neurodivergent-centered The Yap), and facilitates the Bushwick Rope Share and the movie night/rope jam CineNawa. Emji (they/them): With a decade of experience in feeling, interacting, and connecting with rope, Emji, "the 'little' rigger," deeply values the connection between bottom and rigger. Their first and greatest love is rope, and they are a strong advocate for active bottoming and thorough negotiation. When not engaged in rope experiences and education, Emji enjoys "little" adventures with their "little" friends around the city. Location and Cost Location: The Center (The Lesbian, Gay, Bisexual & Transgender Community Center)  208 West 13th Street,  New York, NY 10011 Cost: Members: $10 Non-Members: $25 Registration in advance is strongly encouraged due to limited internet access at the venue. Note: Each attendee will need to have a separate account to register. Online Registration: If You Already Have an Account Register: Click here to go to the registration page. Log in: Use your existing account information to log in and register for the class. Your membership discount will be applied automatically. Complete Purchase: Follow the instructions to complete your payment. If You Need to Create an Account For Members: Create Your Account: Go to the Member Portal and create your account here. Be sure to use the same email address you used when you purchased your TES membership. If you've forgotten it, email membership@tes.org for assistance. Confirm Your Email: Check your inbox for a confirmation email and follow the link to set your password. Log In and Register: Click this link to log in and register for the class. Your membership discount will be applied automatically. Complete Purchase: Follow the instructions to complete your payment. Your membership discount will be automatically applied. For Non-Members: Create Your Account: Go to the registration page and create your account here. Confirm Your Email: Check your inbox for a confirmation email and follow the link to set your password. Log In and Register: Click this link to log in and register for the class. Complete Purchase: Follow the instructions to complete your payment. On-Site Registration: On-site registration is available, but please be aware that internet access may be limited. You will be able to register by scanning a QR code with your smartphone. The registration process is the same as the advanced registration steps listed above. Cash payments are not accepted at the door.

  • IN-PERSON: Trampling for All Bodies with B0ihazard

    LGBT Community Center 208 W 13th St, New York, NY, United States

    There are numerous myths surrounding trampling, many of which are rooted in body negativity or stigma surrounding body size or ability. Please join b0ihazard for this 1.5-hour intensive, specifically designed to accommodate individuals new to trampling and finding their feet. We will go over strategies for balance, and work up from kneeling/stepping onto walking/stomping on our bottoms. We will incorporate pressure point work, impact, and verbal degradation that are specific to trampling. This class is designed to be hands-on, so please come with your practice/partner, and a towel/sheet/yoga mat. Please be rested, fed, hydrated, and free of any substances that could negatively impact your balance. This class is for all bodies, so please contact b0ihazard, and we will work hard to try to make any accommodations for you. Bios: b0ihazard (Louis) is a polyamorous, queer trans man, a sadomasochist, and a proud switch. He's been in the public BDSM scene since 2011. He’s been a (head) DM, a volunteer, and an organizer at parties in NYC and beyond. He’s brought kink education to folks all over the East Coast, specializing in sadistic touch where one’s body is the implement of pain. Outside of kink, he’s a witch, a lover of spreadsheets, a writer of smut, and plays a ton of Dungeons and Dragons.  _Scout_The_Pup (he/they) is a demisexual, switchy, rope-loving nerd. He loves eating pancakes with Maple syrup and has graced New York City and Philadelphia with his baked goods. He can normally be found in the kitchen making something marvelous, at the computer playing a violent video game, at the boffer LARP as one of his many characters, or hanging out with b0ihazard, sometimes under his boot. Location and Cost Location: The Center (The Lesbian, Gay, Bisexual & Transgender Community Center)  208 West 13th Street,  New York, NY 10011 Cost: Members: $10 Non-Members: $25 Registration in advance is strongly encouraged due to limited internet access at the venue. Note: Each attendee will need to have a separate account to register. Online Registration: If You Already Have an Account Register: Click here to go to the registration page. Log in: Use your existing account information to log in and register for the class. Your membership discount will be applied automatically. Complete Purchase: Follow the instructions to complete your payment. If You Need to Create an Account For Members: Create Your Account: Go to the Member Portal and create your account here. Be sure to use the same email address you used when you purchased your TES membership. If you've forgotten it, email membership@tes.org for assistance. Confirm Your Email: Check your inbox for a confirmation email and follow the link to set your password. Log In and Register: Click this link to log in and register for the class. Your membership discount will be applied automatically. Complete Purchase: Follow the instructions to complete your payment. Your membership discount will be automatically applied. For Non-Members: Create Your Account: Go to the registration page and create your account here. Confirm Your Email: Check your inbox for a confirmation email and follow the link to set your password. Log In and Register: Click this link to log in and register for the class. Complete Purchase: Follow the instructions to complete your payment. On-Site Registration: On-site registration is available, but please be aware that internet access may be limited. You will be able to register by scanning a QR code with your smartphone. The registration process is the same as the advanced registration steps listed above. Cash payments are not accepted at the door.

  • TES Online – I Got You This…!”: Aftercare & Neurodivergent Love Languages

    Virtual

    Not all aftercare looks like cuddles and snackies—and for neurodivergent folks, traditional ideas of care can feel confusing, overwhelming, or just not quite right. This class explores how neurodivergence can shape our aftercare needs, expressions of affection, and recovery from intense scenes. This class will reframe aftercare as a customizable language of support, one that honors sensory profiles, communication styles, executive function challenges, and the beautifully diverse ways neurodivergent people love and connect. Whether your ideal aftercare is space and silence, a hyper-specific snack, a meme sent three hours later, or a highly curated “I saw this and thought of you” object—this class says: Yes. That counts. Do the thing. Bio: Reed has been a local and traveling queer & poly kink educator since 2021. They have taught at Charmed! 2024 & 2025, TES Fest 2024, CTUmind, and many more events/dungeons in the Tri-State Area. Additionally, they are ConCom for Charmed!, the hypnosis convention; they run the dungeon, and have been a DM since 2021. They are a service dog, switch, heavy masochist, and all-around chaotic cryptid kinkster. They are always looking to expand their skills, specializing in supporting neurodivergence in kink. TO REGISTER: MEMBERS – $5 Create a Member Portal account using the same email address used when you purchased your membership. (Email membership@tes.org if you have forgotten the one you used when registering for TES.) Be sure to respond to the confirmation email & choose a password. After that, log back into the Member Portal. To complete your purchase, click on this link and follow the instructions. Your membership discount will be automatically applied. NON-MEMBERS – $10 /$15 day of event Click here to register for this class. If cost is a barrier to attendance, please email customer-care@tes.org REGISTRATION CLOSES 30 MINUTES BEFORE THE START OF CLASS! ALL QUESTIONS GO TO CUSTOMER-CARE@TES.ORG! YOU WILL RECEIVE THE LOGIN LINK WITH THE CONFIRMATION EMAIL. **Note – if you are seeing an “event ended” screen – try one or more of the following: Refresh Clear cache Try a different browser** The DatingKinky platform is supported by multiple browsers, but if you are having any technical difficulties, please try a different browser, as certain settings may interfere. Note that this link will only be active during scheduled meeting times. You are welcome to participate as actively as you are comfortable. By default, users’ cameras and microphones will be switched off, and you may simply watch passively or participate solely by text in the chat box if you are uncomfortable being seen or heard. Please note that while we have selected this platform to be as private as possible while maintaining sufficient ease of use for participants, no online platform is ever fully secure. While all regular TES rules regarding privacy remain in effect, and anyone caught violating these rules will be subject to consequences (please see our Online Meeting Terms of Service), we advise participants to treat online events as though the event is being recorded by a third party. For more information on protecting your online privacy, please see our online privacy guide.