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POSTPONED – Fire Play with Shermie

Due to recommendations from the medical community, this event has been postponed. Keep an eye out for the rescheduled date. In the meantime, stay healthy! Shermie will teach the basics of “safe” fire play, as oxymoronic as it sounds, including fire fleshing and fire cupping. Within the “What It Is That We Do” community, fire…

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H.O.T.: Hands Only Torture

All too often, we are told that BDSM must utilize tools and toys to be effective. In this presentation Sir Guy and his girl Harley show how simply using one’s hands can provide an intimate, yet power scene without the use of any outside implements. SirGuy lives in a 24/7 Master/slave relationship. He’s been active…

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Intro to Dark Ageplay with MorriganMaeve

Class description coming soon. From pageant winner to kinky sinner, this former Girl Scout and girl-next-door from New Jersey has been stirring up the scene for the better part of a decade. Since 2012, @MorriganMaeve has been a staff member for Conduit Enterprises (New Jersey’s premiere monthly sex-positive kink/fetish/BDSM party). She’s the founder of Conduit’s…

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TES Presents: Fire Play 101 with NYCJosh

Both a mix of pleasure and pain, fear and awe, fire invokes something primal in all of us. An element that is both feared and revered, man has tried to control fire since the beginning of our time. Come and learn from this untamable element from Sir Josh. This class is designed for the beginning…

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Hypno Group: Hypnosis and Consensual Non-Consent

The junction between the reality of erotic hypnosis and the fantasy of mind-control is both challenging and rewarding terrain to explore. Consensual Non-Consent (CNC) allows partners to experience a wide range of scenes and play styles that are not possible through more explicit negotiation styles, yet the need for effective communication and collaboration is just…

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Bondage Group: Zero to Fun on Day One with BoundtoFly

Want to explore rope, but confused by all the apparent complexity? Scared by the possible risks of this style of play? In this fast paced workshop, learn the basics of safe rope bondage. and go home and have safe erotic play – today! This class, designed for newcomers to rope as well as kink, goes…

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Trampling with Louie

There is nothing quite like being physically on top of someone else. In this class we are going to learn how to step on, walk on and crawl on top of another human body, otherwise known as trampling. Louis (DanceInMyPants) is a sex educator by trade, a consent nerd by calling, and the kinky boy…

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TES Presents: Intro to Candle Wax Play

This class is designed to introduce people to candle wax play. I’ll go over general safety tips, where one may source candles, and an overview from the Top and Bottom perspectives. Nox has been active in the NJ scene since 2012. They’ve been playing with candle wax for about the same length of time and…

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