Take away models and terminology that will help you understand, negotiate, and (for s-types) explain your brand of submission. Learn about (a) 6 types of masochism, (b) 5 need centers of submissives, (c) 3 core languages of D/s, (d) 9 …

This presentation/demonstration will focus on tips to know about the materials of your sex toys, how to properly clean them and store them so you can use them safely and a small demonstration on the different methods and good practices …

In this class, we’ll cover how to assemble a butler’s book, s-type file, and beyond, including tracking preferences, doing event debriefs, sharing information about yourself, saving household information and guides, and creating references for productivity, packing, shopping, cooking, and gifting. …

Do you love the look of sky-high heels but worry about falling over? Have you been watching your shoe collection gather dust during the pandemic and wondering how to get used to wearing them again?

This class will cover how …

People participate in Bondage, Discipline, and Sadism/Masochism, and do so while not knowing the potential legal pitfalls. It is time to get down to brass tacks. What legal dangers are inherent to what it is we do? The simple truth …

Online.  Open to all current members.  Information on how to join has been distributed to the membership.  If you are a member, did not receive this information, and would like to join, please contact secretary@tes.org…

Anyone can peg, and anyone can be pegged. In this class, you’ll learn how to do both! You don’t need a prostate to enjoy this workshop. This workshop is designed for first-timers who want to start from the very basics. …

What happens when you combine multiple people, intense emotions and commitments, AND shifting power dynamics between everyone SIMULTANEOUSLY? Often it’s a big mess! But with understanding of boundaries, good resource management, and clear vision, you CAN have it all! First …

Open to all current members.  Information on how to join was previously distributed to the membership.  If you are a member, did not receive this information, and would like to join, please contact secretary@tes.org…

Dehumanizing a partner can be a very dark activity or it can be very fun and cute. Doll play, normally considered a subset of dehumanization play, can also go either way. We will focus on transforming a partner, regardless of …