TES IN PERSON – From Nervous Newbie to Intentional Sub: What I’m Actually Learning Ever wonder what happens when curiosity meets kink and nerves turn into nuance? Join a senior submissive member of the community as he dishes the real lessons from his journey—from anxious newbie to confident, intentional sub. Expect laughs, insight, and …
TES Online – Are Long Distance Relationships Viable? What happens when you encounter someone who meets most of your requirements – and the attraction and chemistry are palpable – but they live in another country or state? Consider a Long-Distance Relationship, especially if you don’t want to miss …
TES IN PERSON – Game Night Social Ready to make more like-minded friends in a non-judgmental environment? Join us for an exciting evening of fun and board games. Get together with your @TES-NYC friends for a relaxing social. While we will have some popular board games available, …
TES Online – Discovering Dominance: A Guide to the Dominant Beginner Many and varied are the guides and resources for those who are new to the submissive lifestyle, but those who are new to the Dominant side appear to have limited avenues to explore. Are the expectations for the Dominant in …
ONLINE – TES Board Meeting Are you a current TES member? You’re invited to our monthly board meeting! This is your chance to connect with fellow members, hear what the board is working on, and help shape the future of our organization. This meeting is …
ONLINE: Tips & Tricks for Tentative Tops A class focusing on the skills needed to overcome anxiety and embrace your inner sadist. Do you find yourself struggling with impostor syndrome or unsure how hard to play with your partner? Don’t know where to start to gain the …
ONLINE: Becoming a Dungeon Monitor with Youngscientist Do you want to start volunteering as a DM in the scene? Are you a staff member for an organization and need to brush up on safety knowledge in play spaces? Maybe you just really like wearing neon vests at …
IN-PERSON: Bondage Basic Training (BBT) Basic training is where every enlistee learns very little of very many topics, very quickly, to straighten out every rookie just enough to survive unit life in the armed services. This class is a similar approach to rope bondage. Participants …
IN-PERSON: Teaching Techniques for Future Educators Want to teach BDSM without making a scene? Let’s get you prepared to lead with knowledge—and maybe a little flair. This session is designed for individuals who are ready to leverage their knowledge and experience to serve the community but …
IN-PERSON: TES Monthly Munch We’d love to have you at the TES Monthly Munch! Whether you’re new to the scene, an old friend, or just curious, our monthly munch is a great opportunity to meet fellow kinksters in a low-key, low-pressure setting. There’s no …
