TES In-Person – Community Organizing: Building Inclusive and Sustainable Practices Whether you’re a munch organizer, an event planner, someone interested in starting something, or someone who attends and is curious about what happens behind the scenes–come learn and discuss: what is community organizing and how can we sustainably create and …
TES Online – Summer Fling Energy: Temporary Kink Connections Without Shame Power exchange is often touted as the pinnacle of BDSM experiences: elusive, alluring, and hard to get right. It can seem impossible to get started with D/s. How do you know what style or level of power exchange is right …
IN-PERSON: TES Monthly Munch We’d love to have you at the TES Monthly Munch! Whether you’re new to the scene, an old friend, or just curious, our monthly munch is a great opportunity to meet fellow kinksters in a low-key, low-pressure setting. There’s no …
2025 Elections Coko April 20, 2026 (April 20, 2026) TES 2025 Election Results Congratulations to our newly elected Board of Directors. Board of Directors Tall Goddess NY has been elected for the first time. Goddess Coko and Tom have been re-elected. They are joined by Max (Abscondage) and Goddess …
IN-PERSON: TES Monthly Munch We’d love to have you at the TES Monthly Munch! Whether you’re new to the scene, an old friend, or just curious, our monthly munch is a great opportunity to meet fellow kinksters in a low-key, low-pressure setting. There’s no …
ONLINE – TES Board Meeting Are you a current TES member? You’re invited to our monthly board meeting! This is your chance to connect with fellow members, hear what the board is working on, and help shape the future of our organization. This meeting is …
TES Online – I Got You This…!”: Aftercare & Neurodivergent Love Languages Not all aftercare looks like cuddles and snackies—and for neurodivergent folks, traditional ideas of care can feel confusing, overwhelming, or just not quite right. This class explores how neurodivergence can shape our aftercare needs, expressions of affection, and recovery from …
TES IN PERSON – Erotic Hypnosis 101 Erotic hypnosis is often described as “the chocolate sauce of kink” — delicious on its own, and great in combination with just about anything else. You can use it to tighten up your bondage, sharpen your knife play, add a …
TES IN PERSON – Power Plays: Kinky Wrestling 101 Wrestling is sporty, fun, sexy, and the ultimate “BDSM on a buck.” It plays perfectly with power dynamics, bondage, primal play, foot fetishes, and various other kinks. This workshop is excellent for those looking to try fetish wrestling for the …
TES IN PERSON – Bootblacking 101: Leather Care & Connection A beginner-friendly dive into the how and why of bootblacking. We’ll cover a bit of history, break down common materials and tools, and demonstrate techniques that keep leather looking (and feeling) delicious. We’ll also discuss consent, service dynamics, and the …
